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Shroomers420


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How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story.
#28630636 - 01/22/24 03:48 AM (6 days, 11 hours ago) |
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When I was 15 I went through a phase where I would join AOL online chatrooms for cyber sex chats and distinctly recall chatting with a few people of the same sex as myself and being turned on by the excitement of it all. But that phase ended pretty quick. Perhaps a couple weeks maybe before I was back to interested in what most people call "normal"
So- I had homosexual thoughts/tendencies for about 2 weeks maybe, but since then, I never did again, so much so in fact that I had completely forgotten about that timeframe in my life until last night when out of nowhere I recalled and was like "wow, I forgot about that!" ( anyone remember the sounds dial up used to make ) For me, homosexuality was something I was exposed to- and then gave a thought to, and then moved on from. It was something that I was into at least as a mental fantasy for a little bit, but it never took into anything happening outside of the internet.
So- given that there is homosexuality in the Animal kingdom- that would give rise to the argument of being born homosexual. -NATURE
But in my case at least- due to this behavior only surfacing once exposed it would be -NURTURE
What do you think? How did YOU "Become" homosexual- or were you born that way? Was it nature or nurture?
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koraks
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Shroomers420] 1
#28630642 - 01/22/24 03:58 AM (6 days, 11 hours ago) |
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Sounds like you're bisexual. Nice.
Also, I think it's a solid NATURE on this one. The fact that your homosexual tendencies/fantasies/preferences come and go doesn't make it 'nurture'. It just means that like in many people, your sexuality meanders a bit. The core of your preferences is pretty stable.
One of these days you'll be sucking dick or getting fucked by a stud. Good for you; enjoy it and rejoice in living in an era where it's at least somewhat accepted.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: koraks] 2
#28630668 - 01/22/24 05:21 AM (6 days, 9 hours ago) |
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My aunt was a fag hag, a straight lady enjoying the social company of gay men.
Even when i was little she told my mother "this one will grow up gay, you'll see!"
And indeed.
totally gay and born that way.
When I was hospitalized at age 13 with an acute case of warming the thermometer with a lighter flame to escape school bullying, she visited and brought a spiderman comic. She was like "I dunno if you read Spiderman but the eye needs something too right?" how considerate
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Edited by Asante (01/22/24 05:34 AM)
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Shroomers420


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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: koraks]
#28630669 - 01/22/24 05:22 AM (6 days, 9 hours ago) |
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koraks said: Sounds like you're bisexual. Nice.
Also, I think it's a solid NATURE on this one. The fact that your homosexual tendencies/fantasies/preferences come and go doesn't make it 'nurture'. It just means that like in many people, your sexuality meanders a bit. The core of your preferences is pretty stable.
One of these days you'll be sucking dick or getting fucked by a stud. Good for you; enjoy it and rejoice in living in an era where it's at least somewhat accepted.
You automatically assumed I was a male?

lol-. Someone call the woke police.

well,
Excellent analyzation(puns intended) of my situation.
Also- I am on the path to sexual purity through Christianity, so that whole sucking dick thing and taking it in the ass, while I'm sure some people enjoy it and maybe I might, I just don't see that in my future right now.
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Shroomers420


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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Asante] 1
#28630670 - 01/22/24 05:24 AM (6 days, 9 hours ago) |
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Asante said: My aunt is a fag hag, a straight lady enjoying the social company of gay men.
Even when i was little she told my mother "this one will grow up gay, you'll see!"
And indeed.
totally gay and born that way.
Ok, so another vote for NATURE, even though your aunt "cast the shadow" of you being gay, you don't think there was any NURTURE there?
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Shroomers420]
#28630676 - 01/22/24 05:37 AM (6 days, 9 hours ago) |
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I believe being gay is mostly genetic. People can adapt to it but some default to it naturally.
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koraks
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Shroomers420]
#28630681 - 01/22/24 05:41 AM (6 days, 9 hours ago) |
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Shroomers420 said: You automatically assumed I was a male?
Yup, I did. Demographics on this forum are about 99.5% cis male. But if you're cis female or identify as female, feel free to change a pronoun here and there. The same applies.
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Also- I am on the path to sexual purity through Christianity, so that whole sucking dick thing and taking it in the ass, while I'm sure some people enjoy it and maybe I might, I just don't see that in my future right now.
Well, good luck. Lots of people would take this as an opportunity to bash Christianity, but not me. If you find fulfillment in it, that's great. I'd personally not let it stand in the way of some good dick-sucking (pussy-eating) or ass-fucking. You can have both.
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Shroomers420


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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: koraks]
#28630695 - 01/22/24 06:25 AM (6 days, 8 hours ago) |
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Well, good luck. Lots of people would take this as an opportunity to bash Christianity, but not me. If you find fulfillment in it, that's great. I'd personally not let it stand in the way of some good dick-sucking (pussy-eating) or ass-fucking. You can have both.

Well done not bashing
I'm not a normal Christian, like people think of bible thumping. I try to be a living and working agent of God and Christ to help bring hope and peace to the lost wherever and whenever possible to those in need. I don't always live up to that though.
I'm not some rigid prude. I was just wanking it this morning working on my TEKnique... what's it called... it's when you have sex but don't ejaculate and then it gives the man tons of vigor and energy throughout the day? It's like some ancient Veda thing if I recall.
I'm struggling right now to find balance between being a male with a high sex drive and my Christianity. And right now- I've settled on just keeping the porno and my sexual thoughts pure as possible, while also acknowledging actual physical needs. For instance, imagining the person was my wife in a loving relationship. Not some slut whore on an internet screen... so like I've just changed the way I think, and try to eliminate lust. I still enjoy sex, just like you said.
Anyways- thanks for being cool about it. And apologies for my off subject rant there lol. But thanks for listening 
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Asante]
#28630696 - 01/22/24 06:26 AM (6 days, 8 hours ago) |
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Asante said: I believe being gay is mostly genetic. People can adapt to it but some default to it naturally.

Proof it or Boof it
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: koraks] 2
#28630701 - 01/22/24 06:34 AM (6 days, 8 hours ago) |
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My childhood doctor, Dr. E-Lick as I called him, told my grandparents(raised by g-parents here) that I would turn gay if I was given too many bubble baths. I took a lot ov bubble baths growing up lol. For real though, I do'nt know how I turned gay. I guess curiosity just built until I enacted upon it. I was a late bloomer, not having a cock inside me until I was 21. Once that happened though I was hooked and became a super-slut immediately after the first taste ov another man's meat. I guess all those bubble baths planted the seed though.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Shroomers420]
#28630711 - 01/22/24 07:01 AM (6 days, 8 hours ago) |
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At the age of 10, after my first orgasm, God invited me to abstain from having sex and wait for Mr Right who would only come very late in my life, in honor of Him and of true love. He asked me if i really-really was sure as it was going to be a very-very long time. I was sure. I'm now 51, I keep my promises, even as it has taken longer than Moses in the desert.
You're the ho

All the highest angels are God-gendered. A gender difference only occurs down the ladder. Eve was differentiated from Adam right? Close to God, more and more things cease to be dual and become One.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Shroomers420] 3
#28630749 - 01/22/24 08:05 AM (6 days, 7 hours ago) |
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These days many people become upset if anyone suggests homosexuality isn't mostly (or all) genetic. The belief "I was born gay" is embraced with a type of dogmatic religious fervor. Any other nuanced views are seen as ignorant at best, and sometimes as hateful. The motivations behind the "I was born this way" belief are insightful.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#28630832 - 01/22/24 09:29 AM (6 days, 5 hours ago) |
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I'm 20% gay. I believe in percentages. Have been with a few guys, it works but I prefer the pussy.
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koraks
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Shroomers420]
#28630849 - 01/22/24 09:55 AM (6 days, 5 hours ago) |
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Shroomers420 said: I'm not a normal Christian, like people think of bible thumping. I try to be a living and working agent of God and Christ to help bring hope and peace to the lost wherever and whenever possible to those in need.
You be you man. Take a crucifix in the hand, a dick up the ass and live the dream. Go get 'em, tiger.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#28630874 - 01/22/24 10:28 AM (6 days, 4 hours ago) |
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RJ Tubs 202 said: These days many people become upset if anyone suggests homosexuality isn't mostly (or all) genetic. The belief "I was born gay" is embraced with a type of dogmatic religious fervor. Any other nuanced views are seen as ignorant at best, and sometimes as hateful. The motivations behind the "I was born this way" belief are insightful.
Wow really?> I sort of live under a rock and avoid the news as often as possible, so thanks for doing me the favor of letting me know it's not OK to say all the gay people were nurtured that way and getting fired from my job or bricks thrown in my window.
WHEW! seriously though, you helped me dodge a big one there.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Asante]
#28630879 - 01/22/24 10:31 AM (6 days, 4 hours ago) |
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All the highest angels are God-gendered. A gender difference only occurs down the ladder. Eve was differentiated from Adam right? Close to God, more and more things cease to be dual and become One.
That makes good sense except a part of Adam was used to make Eve. The lungs right? I wonder Why? I've always wondered this. God Made Adam, but then used part of him to mae Eve? Why not just make Eve like God Made Adam?
Stuff to think about on a trip
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Asante]
#28630887 - 01/22/24 10:35 AM (6 days, 4 hours ago) |
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Asante said:
At the age of 10, after my first orgasm, God invited me to abstain from having sex and wait for Mr Right who would only come very late in my life, in honor of Him and of true love. He asked me if i really-really was sure as it was going to be a very-very long time. I was sure. I'm now 51, I keep my promises, even as it has taken longer than Moses in the desert.
Interesting. I can't even remember when my first orgasm was. And good job keeping promises. Like y'all have been saying, just be you, be authentic and whole.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Asante]
#28630891 - 01/22/24 10:36 AM (6 days, 4 hours ago) |
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You're the ho
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Shroomers420]
#28630911 - 01/22/24 10:57 AM (6 days, 4 hours ago) |
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Youdaho
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If Genesis is to be believed, God anesthetized Adam and took stem cells from the bone marrow of his rib, presumably to GMO his Y chromosome into a second x.
If I ask God, he says he saw it was -good- so he let evolution give rise to humanity.
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Re: How did you become gay/homosexual? Was there an event? Was it nature/nurture? Here is my story. [Re: Asante] 2
#28630974 - 01/22/24 11:52 AM (6 days, 3 hours ago) |
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I’ve always been gay. Nothing “made me” this way.
I’ve always been attracted to women. I was raised very religiously and for years I tried to convince myself I wasn’t. I even believed it for a while. I remember, as a young girl, praying each night that God would change me, believing I was going to hell for my gay thoughts. The first time I told my parents they beat the idea out of me pretty fast. For a time, in my teens, I operated as a straight woman because it was easier for multiple reasons. I even messed around with a guy once. My heart wasn’t in it and it was a sort of nail in the coffin for me. I’m still great friends with the guy, there just wasn’t any physical chemistry there. I’ve always known, I’ve tried to deny it for years during various points of my life, but still, it was always there below the surface. Finally embracing my gayness was the smartest thing I’ve ever done in my life, besides marrying my wife.
As far as if it was genetics or not, idk dude. It’s just who I am, I feel weird tacking it down to genes, but it’s not like some sort of event or experience caused it. Like I said it was always there.
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