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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28623099 - 01/16/24 08:24 AM (12 days, 6 hours ago) |
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My friend ordered wife from Philippine came in a box and everything. He seems happy
https://www.rosebrides.com/philippine-brides.html
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: viraldrome]
#28623141 - 01/16/24 08:57 AM (12 days, 5 hours ago) |
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I guess it works for some people. Would not work for me.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: Patlal]
#28623142 - 01/16/24 08:58 AM (12 days, 5 hours ago) |
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You can get husbands also!!!! A lot are from the US.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: loladoreen]
#28623176 - 01/16/24 09:27 AM (12 days, 5 hours ago) |
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I just want a robot girlfriend
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: viraldrome]
#28623182 - 01/16/24 09:31 AM (12 days, 5 hours ago) |
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viraldrome said: My friend ordered wife from Philippine came in a box and everything. He seems happy
https://www.rosebrides.com/philippine-brides.html
Hows that even legally work? They can only come to the US for 180 days on their travel visa, are you supposed to marry them within 180 days of them arriving to get their green card?
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: Patlal]
#28623214 - 01/16/24 09:57 AM (12 days, 4 hours ago) |
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I checked it out. It is more of a dating site. Though brides are advertised.
Edited by loladoreen (01/16/24 09:59 AM)
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: trees]
#28623232 - 01/16/24 10:14 AM (12 days, 4 hours ago) |
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trees said:
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viraldrome said: My friend ordered wife from Philippine came in a box and everything. He seems happy
https://www.rosebrides.com/philippine-brides.html
Hows that even legally work? They can only come to the US for 180 days on their travel visa, are you supposed to marry them within 180 days of them arriving to get their green card?
My friend is not American, I am not asking him what the return policy is, you probably have to pay shipping
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: koraks]
#28623240 - 01/16/24 10:19 AM (12 days, 4 hours ago) |
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ashfiken said: Most Are damaged it's simply the honest truth.
Sorry you feel that way. It's you though, not them. If anyone with life experience is 'damaged' according to you, that's really your problem, not that of the rest of the world.
Good luck.
Damage comes from trauma not what you are classing as experience. It sucks but most have suffered some sort of sexual, emotional, or social trauma. I don't create these issues. But to deny they are even there or are non existent or somehow "my" problem is laughable. I wish everyone was a well adjusted and experienced capable human. However wishing doesn't make things true. I'm not making some emotional charged opinion piece here. Again I ask what "experience" exactly are you claiming qualifies someone to be a good partner? What "life experience" makes someone a good wife vs someone that hasn't been nearly as traumatized? Luck gets one abt as far as wishful thinking
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: ashfiken]
#28623247 - 01/16/24 10:22 AM (12 days, 4 hours ago) |
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ashfiken said:
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ashfiken said: Most Are damaged it's simply the honest truth.
Sorry you feel that way. It's you though, not them. If anyone with life experience is 'damaged' according to you, that's really your problem, not that of the rest of the world.
Good luck.
Damage comes from trauma not what you are classing as experience. It sucks but most have suffered some sort of sexual, emotional, or social trauma. I don't create these issues. But to deny they are even there or are non existent or somehow "my" problem is laughable. I wish everyone was a well adjusted and experienced capable human. However wishing doesn't make things true. I'm not making some emotional charged opinion piece here. Again I ask what "experience" exactly are you claiming qualifies someone to be a good partner? What "life experience" makes someone a good wife vs someone that hasn't been nearly as traumatized? Luck gets one abt as far as wishful thinking
I would be more gravitated to someone with life experience. Than not. Personal preference. I enjoy being around people that have lived and desire more living. I admire personal growth in others. And EVERYONE has something, some sort of trauma.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: loladoreen]
#28623297 - 01/16/24 10:53 AM (12 days, 4 hours ago) |
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You are a woman though, no? Men and women want and desire completely different things for different reasons.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: Patlal]
#28623298 - 01/16/24 10:54 AM (12 days, 4 hours ago) |
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Agree When speaking, I am only speaking for myself, not as a representative for anyone but myself.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28623305 - 01/16/24 10:58 AM (12 days, 3 hours ago) |
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Sex is for procreation. If you want to feel good then smoke some weed. If you are lonely then find a good friend.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: Patlal]
#28623344 - 01/16/24 11:31 AM (12 days, 3 hours ago) |
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A lot of single mamas out there. Ready to be a step father? Im not so sure that i am....
Theres also some women who seem out of my league such as world travellers or women with really high intelligence or prestigious careers. Pretty intimidating to be honest. I have seen some rare mature women around my age who are attractive, smart, interesting, no kids and never been married. But are they real? I sure hope so. They would be my first pick. But they usually live kinda far away.
It is hard as fuck to date at this age. For me currently, its the money. I just dont have money for dating and frequent travelling. Hopefully, that will change someday....
But until then, i think i'll just stay single and visit the Dance Club once in awhile
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: viraldrome] 2
#28624051 - 01/16/24 09:36 PM (11 days, 17 hours ago) |
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viraldrome said: I just want a robot girlfriend
That is by far the most optimal option in the world. 100% programed positives. 0% negatives.
Why didn’t I think of that…
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: Patlal]
#28624084 - 01/16/24 10:17 PM (11 days, 16 hours ago) |
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Start saving up! They are coming soon maybe in a year or so
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: ashfiken] 1
#28624143 - 01/17/24 12:36 AM (11 days, 14 hours ago) |
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ashfiken said: Damage comes from trauma not what you are classing as experience. It sucks but most have suffered some sort of sexual, emotional, or social trauma. I don't create these issues. But to deny they are even there or are non existent or somehow "my" problem is laughable. I wish everyone was a well adjusted and experienced capable human. However wishing doesn't make things true. I'm not making some emotional charged opinion piece here. Again I ask what "experience" exactly are you claiming qualifies someone to be a good partner? What "life experience" makes someone a good wife vs someone that hasn't been nearly as traumatized? Luck gets one abt as far as wishful thinking
We're all damaged bro. Most people experience some kind of childhood trauma. 20-somethings are play-acting out/responding to whatever they saw their parents do, without knowing it. They aren't the pure undamaged goods you're idealizing.
Experience means they've been with some people, made some mistakes and learned from them (hopefully). It means they've recognized their traumas and have worked through them (hopefully).
I think dating at any age is hard They can be hot as fuck- but if they are dumb, or have different beliefs, or don't want the same things, or snore too loud, or any other million things- it ain't gonna work. You always have to decide what you can live with.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: Lynnch]
#28624147 - 01/17/24 01:02 AM (11 days, 13 hours ago) |
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Women are all beat and jaded these days.
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: Lynnch] 1
#28624202 - 01/17/24 05:15 AM (11 days, 9 hours ago) |
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ashfiken said: Damage comes from trauma not what you are classing as experience. It sucks but most have suffered some sort of sexual, emotional, or social trauma. I don't create these issues. But to deny they are even there or are non existent or somehow "my" problem is laughable. I wish everyone was a well adjusted and experienced capable human. However wishing doesn't make things true. I'm not making some emotional charged opinion piece here. Again I ask what "experience" exactly are you claiming qualifies someone to be a good partner? What "life experience" makes someone a good wife vs someone that hasn't been nearly as traumatized? Luck gets one abt as far as wishful thinking
We're all damaged bro. Most people experience some kind of childhood trauma. 20-somethings are play-acting out/responding to whatever they saw their parents do, without knowing it. They aren't the pure undamaged goods you're idealizing.
Experience means they've been with some people, made some mistakes and learned from them (hopefully). It means they've recognized their traumas and have worked through them (hopefully).
I think dating at any age is hard They can be hot as fuck- but if they are dumb, or have different beliefs, or don't want the same things, or snore too loud, or any other million things- it ain't gonna work. You always have to decide what you can live with.
Nobody is saying that we aren't "all" damaged to some degree. (Pr3tty sad having to admit that tho ain't it)? I don't see how you can blanket that abt 20 somethings. But I would agree that you are generally corr3ct concerning the majority. If you see my posts I said comb for maturity. You seem to think I idealize this age of women. Hardly. Having to comb them for maturity belies the fact that most of them will be unsuitable fools. Not that I think they are all pure things to idolize. But atleast they are prime age for child bearing, and have less chance to have been with 40 different mates. I think it's difficult for women bc they are exposed to so much trauma (generally more than men) As a man have you ever been raped or sexually assaulted?? Women that live longer typically suffer more. And more than men. Women also lose the ability to fucking procreate.. Very oftentim3s the more experience a woman has (been with more than 5 partners) Increases the likelihood they will divorce. So good luck with all that VALUABLE experience Your hopefullys make me think you know the truth. Bc most ppl don't learn no matter the experiences. They suffer traumas and build avoidance strategies at best, and suffer the same things over and over at worst.
If suggested options somehow show I idealize something then I think you guys are reading way more into things than what is reasonable. Relationships are the hardest thing in the world to get right, so more options suggested the better. Instead yall in here barking about the "experience" ones like they are some higher value option and are (just as I am) excluding a whole group of possible mates/humans. Hell if she is a good woman idgaf what age she is, but I'm def not gonna align my preferenc3 to baby moms and crazy broads that have been stepped on just enough to fuck em up royally for any potential husband
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Re: Dating in your 30s is hard as fuck. [Re: ashfiken]
#28624246 - 01/17/24 07:01 AM (11 days, 7 hours ago) |
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I just turned 30 and was hopeful it would be easier. After being isolated for almost all of my 20s
Chicks with kids never bothered me
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