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BDSM Test/ Kink Thread * 2
    #28610678 - 01/05/24 03:25 PM (22 days, 3 hours ago)

Haven’t seen one of these threads in here in a long time.
Everyone’s preferences change and evolve over time.
So if you have taken the test before or not, let’s see some results!

Head over to BDSMtest.org and see what it says!
Shouldn’t take you more than 10 minutes.

Let’s get some kink positivity in here!
Don’t be shy! :grin:



I’ll go first.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Degrader
100% Brat tamer
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
98% Dominant
90% Master/Mistress
89% Non-monogamist
87% Owner
68% Experimentalist
51% Primal (Hunter)

I’m very much a domme and a sadist, I love bondage, but LOVE degrading/ humiliating. One of my partners is a huge brat and she has really given me a love of brat taming as well.

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Also, feel free to discuss kink stuff in general here too.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 3
    #28610752 - 01/05/24 04:24 PM (22 days, 2 hours ago)

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
100% Rope bunny
100% Sadist
98% Masochist
97% Dominant
96% Submissive
95% Degradee
93% Degrader
85% Master/Mistress
82% Owner

I'm a switch, currently submissive. I could live fully submissive or fully dominant, or switch occasionally, but I would be totally unfulfilled by a life without kink.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Ima Trooper] * 1
    #28611586 - 01/06/24 10:55 AM (21 days, 8 hours ago)

Quote:

Ima Trooper said:
I would be totally unfulfilled by a life without kink.



This 100%


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #28611855 - 01/06/24 03:20 PM (21 days, 3 hours ago)

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Voyeur
96% Dominant
92% Exhibitionist
90% Master/Mistress
87% Rigger
86% Daddy/Mommy
86% Degrader
81% Owner
81% Brat tamer
79% Experimentalist
72% Sadist
71% Ageplayer
71% Switch
70% Primal (Hunter)
41% Non-monogamist
30% Vanilla
29% Submissive
17% Pet
9% Masochist
3% Degradee
2% Rope bunny
0% Brat
0% Boy/Girl
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Slave

I think it got the voyeurship wrong vs exhibitionism; definitely more of an exhibitionist.


Edited by Roflspammer (01/06/24 03:23 PM)


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Roflspammer]
    #28611910 - 01/06/24 04:04 PM (21 days, 3 hours ago)

Ya, I remember taking the test once and got super high Voyeur for some reason.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #28611969 - 01/06/24 04:44 PM (21 days, 2 hours ago)


I don’t know why I rated so high on voyeur.
I don’t like cuck stuff. 😘


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28612216 - 01/06/24 07:52 PM (20 days, 23 hours ago)

I'm not surprised.
I feel like I should try some stuff before answering .
I think it would be fun having an adventurous partner to find out.
Some things were hard no's for me
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Vanilla
91% Voyeur
82% Non-monogamist
81% Exhibitionist
60% Experimentalist
58% Rope bunny
47% Submissive
19% Switch
17% Dominant
8% Rigger
8% Degrader
6% Brat tamer
3% Daddy/Mommy
3% Owner
3% Primal (Hunter)
3% Slave
2% Master/Mistress
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Sadist


Edited by loladoreen (01/06/24 07:56 PM)


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Ima Trooper] * 1
    #28612219 - 01/06/24 07:53 PM (20 days, 23 hours ago)

I'm not surprised.
I feel like I should try something first.
I think its be fun having an adventurous partner to find out.
Some things were hard no's for me
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
96% Vanilla
91% Voyeur
82% Non-monogamist
81% Exhibitionist
60% Experimentalist
58% Rope bunny
47% Submissive
19% Switch
17% Dominant
8% Rigger
8% Degrader
6% Brat tamer
3% Daddy/Mommy
3% Owner
3% Primal (Hunter)
3% Slave
2% Master/Mistress
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Sadist
Quote:

Ima Trooper said:
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
100% Rope bunny
100% Sadist
98% Masochist
97% Dominant
96% Submissive
95% Degradee
93% Degrader
85% Master/Mistress
82% Owner

I'm a switch, currently submissive. I could live fully submissive or fully dominant, or switch occasionally, but I would be totally unfulfilled by a life without kink.



What is a switch?


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: loladoreen] * 1
    #28612249 - 01/06/24 08:05 PM (20 days, 23 hours ago)

It means I like to be submissive, but I also like to be dominant.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #28612262 - 01/06/24 08:14 PM (20 days, 23 hours ago)

Gotcha


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28613106 - 01/07/24 02:47 PM (20 days, 4 hours ago)

Whats a rigger?


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: oursoulsinmotion] * 2
    #28613114 - 01/07/24 02:54 PM (20 days, 4 hours ago)

Someone who enjoys tying up and restraining their partner(s) with  rope or other material. The other side of the coin is a rope bunny who is someone who enjoys being tied up.

It could be as simple as some rope, self adhesive duct tape, or cuffs in the bedroom or as elegant as Kinbaku/ Shibari which is more of an art form, an example of which can be found below.



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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28613163 - 01/07/24 03:35 PM (20 days, 3 hours ago)

I had a friend that did this. And he said he could tie people up without leaving marks. And the women that loved it. Loved it so much they would wear it around all day long.
It was really interesting to me. It is an art, they way he described it to me.
He didnt discuss a sexual side as much as the art of tying the rope up. He called it something and I dont remember what he called it.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #28613251 - 01/07/24 05:00 PM (20 days, 2 hours ago)

Post it anonymously


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28613314 - 01/07/24 06:18 PM (20 days, 57 minutes ago)

I want to look into Zoo but its hella illegal i found a wiki the laws differ by state but will complete wreck your life if caught so....


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28613390 - 01/07/24 08:24 PM (19 days, 22 hours ago)

If you live around rural areas you always hear of it


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28613468 - 01/07/24 10:06 PM (19 days, 21 hours ago)

True true. I grew up in a farm community
People used to sing the AC/DC song Dirty Deeds with the words… done with sheep instead of done dirt cheap

Actually nobody around there kept sheep
the county banned them in the 80s


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 2
    #28613477 - 01/07/24 10:28 PM (19 days, 20 hours ago)

My Kink Test Results:



As i expected, Im pretty Vanilla. But Im kinda into some of the more common, "softer" kinks.

Of course Voyuer is at the very top. What can I say, Strip Clubs are my favorite! Thats where I feel most comfortable. I also like to experiment at least once, just for the novelty of it (except for the heavy pain stuff). Kinda into Ageplay and Roleplay. Im never messed with ropes but the idea of playing with soft rope, ribbon, silk, mink to tie a woman up sounds sexy to me and I would like to try it out. I probably wouldnt be into regular rope as its more of a turn-on to tie up a woman so they are restrained then putting them thru pain. Im kinda into brats too, more so if they are submissive. I used to be Boy Scout and we made lots of different knots. Its funny to think in adulthood, I could those rope-tying skills for sexual adventures :lol:

The Prey/Predator sounds sexy, but more on the wild Human side then Animalistic. Im into Amazon women so this plays into that kink nicely.

Also would be interested in the Catgirl lease play aspect. Ive seen it at raves, even lesbian couples, and I think I would be into. Probably try the Dom role maybe?  Sounds appealing to me. Related to the Brat kink, since kitties are brats!

And Im definitely on the 0 scale for pain for pleasure. Maybe light paddle spanking, but thats about it! And not into the degrading kink. But on the flip side, too much praising sounds too much as well. Im somewhere on the moderate praising side.

But yeah, overall, pretty Vanilla :sadyes:

To sum it for BDSM, Im Bondage-Curious, somewhat Dominant, somewhat more Submissive, and not a Master or Slave.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #28613694 - 01/08/24 06:19 AM (19 days, 12 hours ago)

I think I am down to try a lot
Opportunities have not been presented
Who knows what you like until you try it


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28614927 - 01/09/24 07:55 AM (18 days, 11 hours ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
I had a friend that did this. And he said he could tie people up without leaving marks. And the women that loved it. Loved it so much they would wear it around all day long.
It was really interesting to me. It is an art, they way he described it to me.
He didnt discuss a sexual side as much as the art of tying the rope up. He called it something and I dont remember what he called it.



Absolutely, if you know what you’re doing lasting marks shouldn’t be anything to worry about. (But sometimes it’s fun leaving marks. :wink:) And some people mark easier than others.
I’ve attended a few classes on it, so you could say that I know the ropes. (God I crack myself up)
I’ve also had it done on me, which I honestly enjoyed quite a bit more than I expected I would.
And ya, I see it much more as an art form than a sexual act, it can be used as a sexual act, but at the core, it’s art.

If it’s something you’re interested in learning there are plenty of online resources, and depending on where you live in person resources.
If you look into it, I wouldn’t be surprised if there are classes in your area you could attend.
They also sell mannequins which are made/ used for practicing ties on.
And If you get involved in the scene in your area I’m sure some people would be happy to let you practice on them too.
It’s a fun thing to learn.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #28614937 - 01/09/24 08:01 AM (18 days, 11 hours ago)

No surprises really.  I'm a little kinky, not too much into bdsm stuff although I do like to play a little rough sometimes and really enjoy seeing my woman recieve pleasure.  I wish our relationship was better so it could happen more often.  We used to talk a little about threesomes but she said it could only be mfm and she wouldn't do fmf because she couldn't "share me".  I'd be willing to do mfm but not if she's unwilling to go the other way

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
84% Experimentalist
79% Voyeur
78% Switch
77% Non-monogamist
75% Dominant
74% Degrader
71% Master/Mistress
67% Rigger
64% Exhibitionist
51% Sadist
42% Primal (Hunter)
38% Vanilla
37% Submissive
33% Brat tamer
33% Brat
30% Owner
30% Rope bunny
21% Primal (Prey)
16% Masochist
9% Daddy/Mommy
6% Degradee
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
0% Pet
0% Slave


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28615130 - 01/09/24 11:24 AM (18 days, 7 hours ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
No surprises really.  I'm a little kinky, not too much into bdsm stuff although I do like to play a little rough sometimes and really enjoy seeing my woman recieve pleasure.  I wish our relationship was better so it could happen more often.  We used to talk a little about threesomes but she said it could only be mfm and she wouldn't do fmf because she couldn't "share me".  I'd be willing to do mfm but not if she's unwilling to go the other way

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
84% Experimentalist
79% Voyeur
78% Switch
77% Non-monogamist
75% Dominant
74% Degrader
71% Master/Mistress
67% Rigger
64% Exhibitionist
51% Sadist
42% Primal (Hunter)
38% Vanilla
37% Submissive
33% Brat tamer
33% Brat
30% Owner
30% Rope bunny
21% Primal (Prey)
16% Masochist
9% Daddy/Mommy
6% Degradee
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
0% Pet
0% Slave



It seems like that is a common theme.

Why do you think women are not comfortable sharing their partner with another woman, but men are comfortable sharing their partner with another person?


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28615135 - 01/09/24 11:28 AM (18 days, 7 hours ago)

I wouldn’t say that’s true.

I’m a women and I’m poly. :shrug:

How I see it, it mostly just comes down to a persons jealousies/ insecurities. Also, non-monogamy just isn’t for some people, and that’s completely fine.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28615140 - 01/09/24 11:35 AM (18 days, 7 hours ago)

Have you noticed some are more comfortable then others?

I am not familiar with poly relationships. My experience was swingers, at a sex club, groups,etc.

It was predominantly, women that shared or exhibited they were more uncomfortable sharing.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28615187 - 01/09/24 12:19 PM (18 days, 6 hours ago)

By some do you mean people in general, or those within my polycule? I’ll assume the latter.

My polycule is really just three people, me, my wife, and our girlfriend. (I hate to call her that, we’d all three be married if the laws allowed it) Most polycules are a lot larger and more complicated, I prefer the dynamic we have. I guess I also have a side sub, but we aren’t exactly romantically involved, that’s not to say I don’t care for her, because I do, deeply, but I mostly just hook up with her for kink purposes that my other partners can not fully satisfy. But to answer your question, no, I feel like everyone is on the same page and very comfortable with the arrangement we have. We are all extremely invested in one another and don’t mind the occasional hookup. For instance, over the past few years our “girl friend” has been schooling in America while my wife and I have been spending most of our time in Canada and Europe. We don’t care if she has hookups in college, and she doesn’t care if we take someone home with up from the club.

To copy and paste something I wrote on discord a few days ago on the subject…

Quote:

To me, poly means loving your partner(s) to the extent you always want what’s best for them and understanding and accepting that you aren’t always going to be what’s best for them. You can be the best human possible but you alone will not always be the answer for what a person needs 100% of the time. It’s recognizing that you do not own your partner(s) and they should be able to make their own decisions to take what comfort they need when and how they need it and being able to get past the internalized jealousy involved in that because you know your partner(s) love you just as deeply.




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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28615191 - 01/09/24 12:23 PM (18 days, 6 hours ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
No surprises really.  I'm a little kinky, not too much into bdsm stuff although I do like to play a little rough sometimes and really enjoy seeing my woman recieve pleasure.  I wish our relationship was better so it could happen more often.  We used to talk a little about threesomes but she said it could only be mfm and she wouldn't do fmf because she couldn't "share me".  I'd be willing to do mfm but not if she's unwilling to go the other way

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
84% Experimentalist
79% Voyeur
78% Switch
77% Non-monogamist
75% Dominant
74% Degrader
71% Master/Mistress
67% Rigger
64% Exhibitionist
51% Sadist
42% Primal (Hunter)
38% Vanilla
37% Submissive
33% Brat tamer
33% Brat
30% Owner
30% Rope bunny
21% Primal (Prey)
16% Masochist
9% Daddy/Mommy
6% Degradee
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
0% Pet
0% Slave



It seems like that is a common theme.

Why do you think women are not comfortable sharing their partner with another woman, but men are comfortable sharing their partner with another person?




My experience is that women are less secure and men are more willing to risk things for a reward. It’s just our nature


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
    #28615206 - 01/09/24 12:34 PM (18 days, 6 hours ago)

My partner (f) and I (m) played with a rule where she is only allowed to sleep with another man if I fuck his butt first. She loved that idea. Most men do not.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #28615270 - 01/09/24 01:20 PM (18 days, 5 hours ago)

:lolsy:


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #3] * 2
    #28615297 - 01/09/24 01:48 PM (18 days, 5 hours ago)



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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Patchouli_Savage] * 1
    #28615303 - 01/09/24 01:57 PM (18 days, 5 hours ago)

That’s a nice list of 100s. I bet you’re fun to be with


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28616053 - 01/10/24 07:12 AM (17 days, 12 hours ago)

In my limited experience, straight women seem to be more possessive of their partners than straight men :shrug: But if the woman is kinky, they seem to be more open about sharing their male partner.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28616064 - 01/10/24 07:21 AM (17 days, 11 hours ago)

Interesting observation.
Kinkier is more open to being less possessive?


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28616070 - 01/10/24 07:26 AM (17 days, 11 hours ago)

Close but I think more to the point, being kinky leads one to being more open minded


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28616077 - 01/10/24 07:34 AM (17 days, 11 hours ago)

I agree with that
You assume that you would need to be open to the kinks


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    #28616480 - 01/10/24 02:40 PM (17 days, 4 hours ago)

I was non-monogamous before I got to the level of kinky I have achieved. Kink has gotten more in depth as I've explored. I've gotten better at non-monogamy as I've aged simply because I've improved my communication skills and experienced life, as well as gotten to know myself better.

I've met kinky people who are very monogamous and non-monogamous people who are extremely vanilla. In my experience, it is unreliable to make assumptions about either of these things based on the other.

Most of my non-monogamous/ENM/Poly friends are women. Openly trying to date ENM men has decreased my prospects significantly, and most of the men I do meet lately who are ENM/poly became that way in their current relationship.

For me, kink and non-monogamy aren't really related, other than being open to having more vanilla partners from time to time, since I still have room to explore kink with others. If I was monogamous, a lack of kink in relationships would be a deal breaker.

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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Patchouli_Savage]
    #28618980 - 01/12/24 05:37 PM (15 days, 1 hour ago)

Ah yes, the BDSM lifestyle and other related kinks.

I remember being very much into it when I was 16.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Joh.Ke] * 2
    #28619036 - 01/12/24 06:18 PM (15 days, 57 minutes ago)

It was a phase for you? You went vanilla afterwords? :strokebeard:


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28619040 - 01/12/24 06:22 PM (15 days, 53 minutes ago)

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It was a phase for you? You went vanilla afterwords? :strokebeard:




It was definitely a phase for me.  And I didn't go vanilla.  I kind of just drifted to other interests that were way more interesting.


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    #28619132 - 01/12/24 08:04 PM (14 days, 23 hours ago)

I see. New kinks? Care to share?


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28619155 - 01/12/24 08:37 PM (14 days, 22 hours ago)

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I see. New kinks? Care to share?




Naw.

Things that aren't sexual.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Joh.Ke]
    #28619195 - 01/12/24 09:02 PM (14 days, 22 hours ago)

Gotcha. I'll leave it at that :sadyes:


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #28619225 - 01/12/24 09:34 PM (14 days, 21 hours ago)

Despite being celibate now, I decided to try this out.

93% Switch
78% Vanilla
50% Dominant
36% Voyeur
33% Non-monogamist
26% Submissive
17% Experimentalist
12% Rigger
12% Exhibitionist
11% Primal (Hunter)
9% Masochist
7% Brat tamer
6% Daddy/Mommy
6% Owner
4% Sadist
4% Master/Mistress
2% Degrader
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Pet
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Nillion]
    #28619623 - 01/13/24 11:04 AM (14 days, 8 hours ago)

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Nillion said:
Despite being celibate now, I decided to try this out.

93% Switch
78% Vanilla
50% Dominant
36% Voyeur
33% Non-monogamist
26% Submissive
17% Experimentalist
12% Rigger
12% Exhibitionist
11% Primal (Hunter)
9% Masochist
7% Brat tamer
6% Daddy/Mommy
6% Owner
4% Sadist
4% Master/Mistress
2% Degrader
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave



Celibate for how long ?
Celibate by choice?


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28619656 - 01/13/24 11:34 AM (14 days, 7 hours ago)

Oh gawd..I hope it's not... involuntary celibacy!!!
:shockingsurprise:

I jest, but some would assume a lot based on that one stat


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    #28619671 - 01/13/24 11:45 AM (14 days, 7 hours ago)

I think it's been about 3-4 years now.
I forget.

And yeah, celibate by choice.

On another note, I thought the BDSM kink test was so so. I took the short version so maybe that's the problem?

For example, I love giving and receiving certain types of sensual pain, but I despise the idea of harming my partner. Leaving lasting marks and bruises on someone doesn't turn me on. I don't believe that the test was able to pick up the nuance. I'm not a sadist in the sense that I get turned on because I am inflicting pain, rather I am quite skilled at using pain as a sensual tool. I get turned on by the reaction of my partner in response to this. Not from the idea that I harmed them.

I dated someone for a few years who worked as a dominatrix.
She was submissive to me.

My sexual thing was, for awhile at least, to find that line where people begin to feel uneasy and push it just a little further... this is mostly mental and it is my belief that great sex is largely a matter of psychology, rather than physical technique, though that matters too. So, I delved into all sorts of things, bondage, slavery, spitting, slapping, name calling, humiliation, sex in front of people in nightclubs and parking lots, cam videos etc. But in no case was it about those acts specifically, it was about that line I mention. I'm a fucking artist when it comes to this, pun intended, but I grew bored with sex some time ago.

I found no satisfaction in the pursuit of pleasure and have abandoned it. I was, for the purpose of this thread, quite curious how the BDSM test would rate me. I consider the result amusing.

It's not hard to get laid.
It's just boring.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Nillion] * 1
    #28619690 - 01/13/24 11:54 AM (14 days, 7 hours ago)

Thats is so interesting, thanks for sharing your ex-kink :thumbup:


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    #28619694 - 01/13/24 11:58 AM (14 days, 7 hours ago)

I have one of the 50 shades movies going in the background while I work. And I am sure it is vanilla compared to many fetish and kinks.
I assume I would be asking the same questions she does. And have the same apprehension while moving forward with it.
I have never been approached with it. I tend to try everything once.
I am completely intrigued right now. Looking it up, trying to educate myself, I found a fetish site, which is a bit much for me with some things. But, to each their own. I am just extremely curious right now.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28619704 - 01/13/24 12:08 PM (14 days, 7 hours ago)

Quote:

LogicaL Chaos said:
Thats is so interesting, thanks for sharing your ex-kink :thumbup:




Quote:

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Haven’t seen one of these threads in here in a long time.
Everyone’s preferences change and evolve over time.




Mine definitely have.
And this is just where I am at, at this time in my life.
Who knows where I will be in regard to this later.
I suspect I will remain celibate until my death, but I have no plans either way.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] * 1
    #28628783 - 01/20/24 04:15 PM (7 days, 3 hours ago)

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
100% Degradee
100% Primal (Hunter)
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Degrader
96% Dominant
90% Master/Mistress
84% Switch
81% Owner
69% Rope bunny
68% Voyeur
66% Experimentalist
65% Masochist
32% Submissive
29% Vanilla
28% Non-monogamist
25% Exhibitionist
24% Pet
21% Slave
16% Primal (Prey)
13% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Boy/Girl

Pretty cool and in-depth test.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Darwin23] * 1
    #28628794 - 01/20/24 04:23 PM (7 days, 2 hours ago)

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
97% Submissive
89% Masochist
85% Experimentalist
85% Degradee
83% Slave
83% Brat
81% Non-monogamist
71% Pet
62% Exhibitionist
58% Primal (Prey)
58% Voyeur
57% Rigger
43% Degrader
37% Primal (Hunter)
34% Switch
31% Sadist
27% Vanilla
16% Owner
16% Dominant
15% Master/Mistress
12% Brat tamer
4% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: tossed_salad] * 1
    #28629180 - 01/20/24 08:29 PM (6 days, 22 hours ago)

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
93% Dominant
91% Voyeur
85% Brat tamer
84% Primal (Hunter)
81% Degrader
75% Exhibitionist
70% Non-monogamist
68% Sadist
65% Master/Mistress
61% Rigger
43% Experimentalist
31% Owner
27% Vanilla
19% Switch
18% Submissive
11% Primal (Prey)
10% Daddy/Mommy
9% Rope bunny
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Slave
About what I expected I guess


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: MacD] * 1
    #28629461 - 01/21/24 06:29 AM (6 days, 12 hours ago)

Apparently I like to restrain the ladies...:pedrophile:

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93% Voyeur
92% Non-monogamist
87% Dominant
84% Master/Mistress
82% Experimentalist
68% Daddy/Mommy
63% Exhibitionist
60% Switch
52% Owner
51% Brat tamer
49% Rope bunny
47% Primal (Hunter)
43% Sadist
36% Vanilla
21% Masochist
21% Slave
16% Submissive
11% Degrader
8% Ageplayer
3% Degradee
3% Pet
0% Brat
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #28630468 - 01/21/24 09:13 PM (5 days, 22 hours ago)

Quote:

LogicaL Chaos said:
Gotcha. I'll leave it at that :sadyes:




I was in a relationship for 5 years and didn't take the test until I had been single for 8 months. This was about 6 months ago.



And this was just now.
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
94% Degrader
87% Dominant
85% Rigger
79% Experimentalist
69% Switch
66% Non-monogamist
57% Sadist
56% Brat tamer
39% Masochist
38% Exhibitionist
33% Master/Mistress
31% Vanilla
31% Voyeur
26% Submissive
24% Degradee
24% Primal (Hunter)
22% Rope bunny
20% Slave
19% Owner
11% Pet
6% Brat
3% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
0% Primal (Prey)
http://bdsmtest.org/r/7xSxVLfG




I've found that within boundaries and good communication, calling your partner a slut is pretty kinky in the bedroom, and light choking or even hard spanking etc. can be great with the right person.


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28630473 - 01/21/24 09:17 PM (5 days, 21 hours ago)

Agree
Those to me seemed vanilla until i dived deeper


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: sudly]
    #28630491 - 01/21/24 09:52 PM (5 days, 21 hours ago)

Its wild how our sexual kinks can change in such a short amount of time :yesnod:


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin]
    #28630496 - 01/21/24 09:57 PM (5 days, 21 hours ago)

It's awesome
Means we're allowing ourselves to be open to new things!!!!


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28634553 - 01/25/24 02:02 PM (2 days, 5 hours ago)

I was just telling my boyfriend how we need to retake this test now that we have been together for a while and see if the results are different


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