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SARAtonin
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BDSM Test/ Kink Thread 2
#28610678 - 01/05/24 03:25 PM (22 days, 16 hours ago) |
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Haven’t seen one of these threads in here in a long time. Everyone’s preferences change and evolve over time. So if you have taken the test before or not, let’s see some results!
Head over to BDSMtest.org and see what it says! Shouldn’t take you more than 10 minutes.
Let’s get some kink positivity in here! Don’t be shy! 
I’ll go first.
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Degrader 100% Brat tamer 100% Rigger 100% Sadist 98% Dominant 90% Master/Mistress 89% Non-monogamist 87% Owner 68% Experimentalist 51% Primal (Hunter)
I’m very much a domme and a sadist, I love bondage, but LOVE degrading/ humiliating. One of my partners is a huge brat and she has really given me a love of brat taming as well.

Also, feel free to discuss kink stuff in general here too.
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Ima Trooper] 1
#28611586 - 01/06/24 10:55 AM (21 days, 21 hours ago) |
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Ima Trooper said: I would be totally unfulfilled by a life without kink.
This 100%
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Ya, I remember taking the test once and got super high Voyeur for some reason.
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Someone who enjoys tying up and restraining their partner(s) with rope or other material. The other side of the coin is a rope bunny who is someone who enjoys being tied up.
It could be as simple as some rope, self adhesive duct tape, or cuffs in the bedroom or as elegant as Kinbaku/ Shibari which is more of an art form, an example of which can be found below.
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Edited by SARAtonin (01/07/24 03:04 PM)
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Anonymous #1 said: I had a friend that did this. And he said he could tie people up without leaving marks. And the women that loved it. Loved it so much they would wear it around all day long. It was really interesting to me. It is an art, they way he described it to me. He didnt discuss a sexual side as much as the art of tying the rope up. He called it something and I dont remember what he called it.
Absolutely, if you know what you’re doing lasting marks shouldn’t be anything to worry about. (But sometimes it’s fun leaving marks. ) And some people mark easier than others. I’ve attended a few classes on it, so you could say that I know the ropes. (God I crack myself up) I’ve also had it done on me, which I honestly enjoyed quite a bit more than I expected I would. And ya, I see it much more as an art form than a sexual act, it can be used as a sexual act, but at the core, it’s art.
If it’s something you’re interested in learning there are plenty of online resources, and depending on where you live in person resources. If you look into it, I wouldn’t be surprised if there are classes in your area you could attend. They also sell mannequins which are made/ used for practicing ties on. And If you get involved in the scene in your area I’m sure some people would be happy to let you practice on them too. It’s a fun thing to learn.
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Edited by SARAtonin (01/09/24 08:08 AM)
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I wouldn’t say that’s true.
I’m a women and I’m poly. 
How I see it, it mostly just comes down to a persons jealousies/ insecurities. Also, non-monogamy just isn’t for some people, and that’s completely fine.
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By some do you mean people in general, or those within my polycule? I’ll assume the latter.
My polycule is really just three people, me, my wife, and our girlfriend. (I hate to call her that, we’d all three be married if the laws allowed it) Most polycules are a lot larger and more complicated, I prefer the dynamic we have. I guess I also have a side sub, but we aren’t exactly romantically involved, that’s not to say I don’t care for her, because I do, deeply, but I mostly just hook up with her for kink purposes that my other partners can not fully satisfy. But to answer your question, no, I feel like everyone is on the same page and very comfortable with the arrangement we have. We are all extremely invested in one another and don’t mind the occasional hookup. For instance, over the past few years our “girl friend” has been schooling in America while my wife and I have been spending most of our time in Canada and Europe. We don’t care if she has hookups in college, and she doesn’t care if we take someone home with up from the club.
To copy and paste something I wrote on discord a few days ago on the subject…
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To me, poly means loving your partner(s) to the extent you always want what’s best for them and understanding and accepting that you aren’t always going to be what’s best for them. You can be the best human possible but you alone will not always be the answer for what a person needs 100% of the time. It’s recognizing that you do not own your partner(s) and they should be able to make their own decisions to take what comfort they need when and how they need it and being able to get past the internalized jealousy involved in that because you know your partner(s) love you just as deeply.
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