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Ima Trooper
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 3
#28610752 - 01/05/24 04:24 PM (22 days, 15 hours ago) |
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== Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Rigger 100% Rope bunny 100% Sadist 98% Masochist 97% Dominant 96% Submissive 95% Degradee 93% Degrader 85% Master/Mistress 82% Owner
I'm a switch, currently submissive. I could live fully submissive or fully dominant, or switch occasionally, but I would be totally unfulfilled by a life without kink.
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No surprises really. I'm a little kinky, not too much into bdsm stuff although I do like to play a little rough sometimes and really enjoy seeing my woman recieve pleasure. I wish our relationship was better so it could happen more often. We used to talk a little about threesomes but she said it could only be mfm and she wouldn't do fmf because she couldn't "share me". I'd be willing to do mfm but not if she's unwilling to go the other way
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 84% Experimentalist 79% Voyeur 78% Switch 77% Non-monogamist 75% Dominant 74% Degrader 71% Master/Mistress 67% Rigger 64% Exhibitionist 51% Sadist 42% Primal (Hunter) 38% Vanilla 37% Submissive 33% Brat tamer 33% Brat 30% Owner 30% Rope bunny 21% Primal (Prey) 16% Masochist 9% Daddy/Mommy 6% Degradee 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl 0% Pet 0% Slave
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Patchouli_Savage


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I was non-monogamous before I got to the level of kinky I have achieved. Kink has gotten more in depth as I've explored. I've gotten better at non-monogamy as I've aged simply because I've improved my communication skills and experienced life, as well as gotten to know myself better.
I've met kinky people who are very monogamous and non-monogamous people who are extremely vanilla. In my experience, it is unreliable to make assumptions about either of these things based on the other.
Most of my non-monogamous/ENM/Poly friends are women. Openly trying to date ENM men has decreased my prospects significantly, and most of the men I do meet lately who are ENM/poly became that way in their current relationship.
For me, kink and non-monogamy aren't really related, other than being open to having more vanilla partners from time to time, since I still have room to explore kink with others. If I was monogamous, a lack of kink in relationships would be a deal breaker.
Edit: typos
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Edited by Patchouli_Savage (01/10/24 06:00 PM)
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SARAtonin
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BDSM Test/ Kink Thread 2
#28610678 - 01/05/24 03:25 PM (22 days, 16 hours ago) |
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Haven’t seen one of these threads in here in a long time. Everyone’s preferences change and evolve over time. So if you have taken the test before or not, let’s see some results!
Head over to BDSMtest.org and see what it says! Shouldn’t take you more than 10 minutes.
Let’s get some kink positivity in here! Don’t be shy! 
I’ll go first.
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Degrader 100% Brat tamer 100% Rigger 100% Sadist 98% Dominant 90% Master/Mistress 89% Non-monogamist 87% Owner 68% Experimentalist 51% Primal (Hunter)
I’m very much a domme and a sadist, I love bondage, but LOVE degrading/ humiliating. One of my partners is a huge brat and she has really given me a love of brat taming as well.

Also, feel free to discuss kink stuff in general here too.
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SARAtonin
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Someone who enjoys tying up and restraining their partner(s) with rope or other material. The other side of the coin is a rope bunny who is someone who enjoys being tied up.
It could be as simple as some rope, self adhesive duct tape, or cuffs in the bedroom or as elegant as Kinbaku/ Shibari which is more of an art form, an example of which can be found below.
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Edited by SARAtonin (01/07/24 03:04 PM)
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 2
#28613477 - 01/07/24 10:28 PM (20 days, 9 hours ago) |
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My Kink Test Results:

As i expected, Im pretty Vanilla. But Im kinda into some of the more common, "softer" kinks.
Of course Voyuer is at the very top. What can I say, Strip Clubs are my favorite! Thats where I feel most comfortable. I also like to experiment at least once, just for the novelty of it (except for the heavy pain stuff). Kinda into Ageplay and Roleplay. Im never messed with ropes but the idea of playing with soft rope, ribbon, silk, mink to tie a woman up sounds sexy to me and I would like to try it out. I probably wouldnt be into regular rope as its more of a turn-on to tie up a woman so they are restrained then putting them thru pain. Im kinda into brats too, more so if they are submissive. I used to be Boy Scout and we made lots of different knots. Its funny to think in adulthood, I could those rope-tying skills for sexual adventures 
The Prey/Predator sounds sexy, but more on the wild Human side then Animalistic. Im into Amazon women so this plays into that kink nicely.
Also would be interested in the Catgirl lease play aspect. Ive seen it at raves, even lesbian couples, and I think I would be into. Probably try the Dom role maybe? Sounds appealing to me. Related to the Brat kink, since kitties are brats!
And Im definitely on the 0 scale for pain for pleasure. Maybe light paddle spanking, but thats about it! And not into the degrading kink. But on the flip side, too much praising sounds too much as well. Im somewhere on the moderate praising side.
But yeah, overall, pretty Vanilla 
To sum it for BDSM, Im Bondage-Curious, somewhat Dominant, somewhat more Submissive, and not a Master or Slave.
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SARAtonin
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I had a friend that did this. And he said he could tie people up without leaving marks. And the women that loved it. Loved it so much they would wear it around all day long. It was really interesting to me. It is an art, they way he described it to me. He didnt discuss a sexual side as much as the art of tying the rope up. He called it something and I dont remember what he called it.
Absolutely, if you know what you’re doing lasting marks shouldn’t be anything to worry about. (But sometimes it’s fun leaving marks. ) And some people mark easier than others. I’ve attended a few classes on it, so you could say that I know the ropes. (God I crack myself up) I’ve also had it done on me, which I honestly enjoyed quite a bit more than I expected I would. And ya, I see it much more as an art form than a sexual act, it can be used as a sexual act, but at the core, it’s art.
If it’s something you’re interested in learning there are plenty of online resources, and depending on where you live in person resources. If you look into it, I wouldn’t be surprised if there are classes in your area you could attend. They also sell mannequins which are made/ used for practicing ties on. And If you get involved in the scene in your area I’m sure some people would be happy to let you practice on them too. It’s a fun thing to learn.
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Edited by SARAtonin (01/09/24 08:08 AM)
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SARAtonin
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By some do you mean people in general, or those within my polycule? I’ll assume the latter.
My polycule is really just three people, me, my wife, and our girlfriend. (I hate to call her that, we’d all three be married if the laws allowed it) Most polycules are a lot larger and more complicated, I prefer the dynamic we have. I guess I also have a side sub, but we aren’t exactly romantically involved, that’s not to say I don’t care for her, because I do, deeply, but I mostly just hook up with her for kink purposes that my other partners can not fully satisfy. But to answer your question, no, I feel like everyone is on the same page and very comfortable with the arrangement we have. We are all extremely invested in one another and don’t mind the occasional hookup. For instance, over the past few years our “girl friend” has been schooling in America while my wife and I have been spending most of our time in Canada and Europe. We don’t care if she has hookups in college, and she doesn’t care if we take someone home with up from the club.
To copy and paste something I wrote on discord a few days ago on the subject…
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To me, poly means loving your partner(s) to the extent you always want what’s best for them and understanding and accepting that you aren’t always going to be what’s best for them. You can be the best human possible but you alone will not always be the answer for what a person needs 100% of the time. It’s recognizing that you do not own your partner(s) and they should be able to make their own decisions to take what comfort they need when and how they need it and being able to get past the internalized jealousy involved in that because you know your partner(s) love you just as deeply.
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Joh.Ke] 2
#28619036 - 01/12/24 06:18 PM (15 days, 14 hours ago) |
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It was a phase for you? You went vanilla afterwords?
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Oh gawd..I hope it's not... involuntary celibacy!!!

I jest, but some would assume a lot based on that one stat
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 2
#28619694 - 01/13/24 11:58 AM (14 days, 20 hours ago) |
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I have one of the 50 shades movies going in the background while I work. And I am sure it is vanilla compared to many fetish and kinks. I assume I would be asking the same questions she does. And have the same apprehension while moving forward with it. I have never been approached with it. I tend to try everything once. I am completely intrigued right now. Looking it up, trying to educate myself, I found a fetish site, which is a bit much for me with some things. But, to each their own. I am just extremely curious right now.
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SARAtonin
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Ima Trooper] 1
#28611586 - 01/06/24 10:55 AM (21 days, 21 hours ago) |
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Ima Trooper said: I would be totally unfulfilled by a life without kink.
This 100%
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Roflspammer
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 1
#28611855 - 01/06/24 03:20 PM (21 days, 17 hours ago) |
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== Results from bdsmtest.org == 96% Voyeur 96% Dominant 92% Exhibitionist 90% Master/Mistress 87% Rigger 86% Daddy/Mommy 86% Degrader 81% Owner 81% Brat tamer 79% Experimentalist 72% Sadist 71% Ageplayer 71% Switch 70% Primal (Hunter) 41% Non-monogamist 30% Vanilla 29% Submissive 17% Pet 9% Masochist 3% Degradee 2% Rope bunny 0% Brat 0% Boy/Girl 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Slave
I think it got the voyeurship wrong vs exhibitionism; definitely more of an exhibitionist.
Edited by Roflspammer (01/06/24 03:23 PM)
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GenesisCorrupted
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 1
#28611969 - 01/06/24 04:44 PM (21 days, 15 hours ago) |
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 I don’t know why I rated so high on voyeur. I don’t like cuck stuff. 😘
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loladoreen


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: Ima Trooper] 1
#28612219 - 01/06/24 07:53 PM (21 days, 12 hours ago) |
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I'm not surprised. I feel like I should try something first. I think its be fun having an adventurous partner to find out. Some things were hard no's for me == Results from bdsmtest.org == 96% Vanilla 91% Voyeur 82% Non-monogamist 81% Exhibitionist 60% Experimentalist 58% Rope bunny 47% Submissive 19% Switch 17% Dominant 8% Rigger 8% Degrader 6% Brat tamer 3% Daddy/Mommy 3% Owner 3% Primal (Hunter) 3% Slave 2% Master/Mistress 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl 0% Masochist 0% Pet 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Sadist
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Ima Trooper said: == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Rigger 100% Rope bunny 100% Sadist 98% Masochist 97% Dominant 96% Submissive 95% Degradee 93% Degrader 85% Master/Mistress 82% Owner
I'm a switch, currently submissive. I could live fully submissive or fully dominant, or switch occasionally, but I would be totally unfulfilled by a life without kink.
What is a switch?
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28612249 - 01/06/24 08:05 PM (21 days, 12 hours ago) |
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It means I like to be submissive, but I also like to be dominant.
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loladoreen


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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 1
#28612262 - 01/06/24 08:14 PM (21 days, 12 hours ago) |
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Gotcha
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 1
#28613251 - 01/07/24 05:00 PM (20 days, 15 hours ago) |
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Post it anonymously
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Re: BDSM Test/ Kink Thread [Re: SARAtonin] 1
#28613694 - 01/08/24 06:19 AM (20 days, 2 hours ago) |
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I think I am down to try a lot Opportunities have not been presented Who knows what you like until you try it
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