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durian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant



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It has to be just slightly extravagant, or in bad taste for being pretentious or garish.
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LogicaL Chaos
Ascension Energy & Alien UFOs




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Re: Women and Dressing Up [Re: Aboom] 1
#28593266 - 12/21/23 07:31 PM (1 month, 6 days ago) |
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Aboom said: So did you flirt with her or continue admiring, keeping it to yourself?
I kept it to myself. Ive decided not to pursue raven-hair baddie and its because of my shift lead. My shift lead is her best friend. My shift lead also has one of the worst personalities Ive ever come across. Hes the type of person where if you tell him you have a good idea on how to do something, he will say its a bad idea, explain why its a bad idea and then offer no alternative ideas. And he thinks hes being helpful when he does this. Furthermore, he has this annoying deadpan sarcasm way-of-speaking i just cannot stand. Just nope.
So if i tried to date Raven-hair baddie, i would have to be friends with him by association and i pretty much hate his guts.
In conclusion, i will avoid interacting with Raven-baddie for that single reason: to avoid being around him. Its just not worth it....
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loladoreen


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It's good you think that through instead of reacting
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SARAtonin
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Re: Women and Dressing Up [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28610278 - 01/05/24 09:19 AM (23 days, 9 hours ago) |
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Imma just leave this here.
But enjoy your delusions y’all. 
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loladoreen


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Re: Women and Dressing Up [Re: SARAtonin]
#28610312 - 01/05/24 10:16 AM (23 days, 8 hours ago) |
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SARAtonin said: Imma just leave this here.
But enjoy your delusions y’all. 

FACTS
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idk if I personally would This literally is majority of females No Actually When I think of when I change It's because it's not safe for me
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Anonymous #3
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Anonymous #1 said: Just because you want to look at women doesn't mean women want to be looked at. The female experience is confusing.
You're 6 years old and get to play with all your male friends without a shirt, then you turn 14 and suddenly people are treating you different and you're segregated. Then you turn 18 and men give you things for no reason at all. Then you turn 21 and you realize you can have anything you want in the world. Then you turn 25 and you realize that men have been manipulating you for their own sexual gains and you now have some scars because of it; all you really want is someone to care about your inner world; your experience. Then you have a child and realize they too will learn all of that as well. Then you turn 35 and men who said "you're beautiful" were really just saying "you're hot" while continuing to say "I like looking at you because you're beautiful." Yet here you still are; should you say fuck the system? Should you play it for your own benefit? Dress in high heels and put your ass on the gram? It's a difficult dichotomy to balance, one where you don't want to be objectified yet playing the game gives you an edge that is undeniable. Both are true. Its a dangerous game, and for this reason we should protect women from predatory men by calling men out. Women can play the game for their own benefit. How a woman dresses is not for men.
A grandmother is beautiful. A child is beautiful. Women and men are beautiful. People are beautiful. Spend time with beauty. Lustful gaze is toward hotness.
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durian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant



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Re: Women and Dressing Up [Re: loladoreen]
#28610391 - 01/05/24 11:26 AM (23 days, 6 hours ago) |
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SARAtonin said: Imma just leave this here.
But enjoy your delusions y’all. 

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loladoreen said: FACTS
 Do we want to see it, or not?
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😂
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durian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant



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Just because you want to look at women doesn't mean women want to be looked at.
Depends on context but, usually, yes.
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I think I appreciate knowing someone finds me attractive but I don't like creepy looks where they stare and touch themselves kinda thing I also think men interpret things soooooo differently I am not a young woman and when i was i behaved differently I was so insecure when young Without sounding like an asshole I like my appearance and I am confident in it I have learned that's the easy part The inside is always harder I can watch my food, workout, self care But recovering from trauma or learning you are sometimes the problem and you need to change is hard
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LogicaL Chaos
Ascension Energy & Alien UFOs




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Re: Women and Dressing Up [Re: SARAtonin]
#28610755 - 01/05/24 04:27 PM (23 days, 1 hour ago) |
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SARAtonin said: Imma just leave this here.
But enjoy your delusions y’all. 

bruuuuuuuuh
I guess us guys are holding ourselves back!
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oursoulsinmotion
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Do socities of singular genders survive on their own?
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Joh.Ke
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Anonymous #3 said: I think I appreciate knowing someone finds me attractive but I don't like creepy looks where they stare and touch themselves kinda thing
Men touch themselves in public while staring at you? What the hell kind of world do you live in lol
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Joh.Ke
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RJ Tubs 202 said: Just reacting to the never-ending negative male stereotypes that are thrown around these days. So often by people who claim they oppose gender roles and gender stereotypes. You don't think "Classic men thinking women are doing things for them specifically" is a generalized condemnation of men? Or at least ridicule?
I don't think he/she is condemning men. I think they meant to say that a lot of men tend to read more into what a woman says and does than is warranted.
Case in point: the girl at OP's work probably just wanted to dress up. She might or might not be trying to subtly flirt with him.
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LogicaL Chaos said: So my signs were #1, the first potluck we had, she was giving me "The Look". The Look is a lusty gaze that non-verbally says "If we were alone, i would make-out with you".
My 2nd sign was i wear black, including pants, hoodie and boots, everyday while she wears more softer pastel colors.
Third sign was the most important. Theres these tables in the breakroom with little cell phone stands. Usually she sits forward but this time, she pointed the cell phone stand directly toward me and sat on her leg semi-cross-legged. And i could see her glancing over her phone directly at me.
Sadly, she has a guy friend (he may have feelings for her but hasnt made his move perhaps) who is now my lead so making a move on her could make it awkward for my work life and such. So right now, im hanging back from afar and just enjoying her subtly.
Or you could be overthinking the whole thing. Maybe she's doing this for other men. You are probably not the only man who wears black pants where you work.
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Re: Women and Dressing Up [Re: Joh.Ke]
#28619004 - 01/12/24 05:56 PM (16 days, 24 minutes ago) |
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Joh.Ke said:
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Anonymous #3 said: I think I appreciate knowing someone finds me attractive but I don't like creepy looks where they stare and touch themselves kinda thing
Men touch themselves in public while staring at you? What the hell kind of world do you live in lol
There are some hella creepy people out there.
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Joh.Ke
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Anonymous #3 said:
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Joh.Ke said:
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Anonymous #3 said: I think I appreciate knowing someone finds me attractive but I don't like creepy looks where they stare and touch themselves kinda thing
Men touch themselves in public while staring at you? What the hell kind of world do you live in lol
There are some hella creepy people out there.
Thats gotta be some kind of misdemeanor at least.
Edited by Joh.Ke (01/12/24 05:57 PM)
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I think so many get away with it because it startles you and you get safe. Not reporting it.
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durian_2008
Cornucopian Eating an Elephant



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At the YMCA weight room.
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I've been big on top my entire life. And sexually harassed and assaulted my entire life because of it. The amount of men that just grab my breasts and I guess think its ok is astounding. In school I was assaulted at least weekly. It was scary sometimes. I hated them and hid them and slouched to cover them. Wasn't until I was older I accepted them. It really can be traumatic. Under the age of 30 I never said anything. Thinking no one cared. And you see it happening every day. You feel shamed over something you have no control over. Very confusing A lot goes unreported
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