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Anonymous #3
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I thought it sounded amazing!
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Anonymous #7
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Anonymous #7 said: I like Amazon women. Not really into S&M thou.
Any sort of Anime, Superheroine, or office secretary cosplay is hot.
Oh wow, I didn't realize R. Crumb posted here!
Ha! I looked him up. Really cool artist. Apparently he used to drop Acid too. He even drew a sexy female Bigfoot! Oh yeah baby
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Anonymous #13
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A don't ask don't tell open relationship doesn't sound like it involves a lot of communication. But meeting someone and knowing you could, is kinda kinky.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #13 said: A don't ask don't tell open relationship doesn't sound like it involves a lot of communication. But meeting someone and knowing you could, is kinda kinky.
Sounds like a cheater.
 There’s no such thing as a one-way open relationship. You need to tell the other person otherwise it doesn’t count as anything other than cheating.
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Anonymous #13
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It doesn't sound like cheating per say, sounds like they've just agreed to a don't ask don't tell agreement.
Sometimes open arrangements can save a marriage or relationship teetering on the edge. Usually when kids or a house are involved.
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Anonymous #1
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You can’t have a don’t ass don’t tell agreement that the other party didn’t agree to and wasn’t told about.
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Anonymous #13
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You can ask them for a don't ask don't tell agreement, it's just like yeah, we're in an open relationship, I just don't want to hear the details of what you're doing.
I don't think it's healthy, but it works for some people, compersion can be difficult to become comfortable with.
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Anonymous #1
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Then the other party would know about it.
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Anonymous #13
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But they established they're in an open relationship, don't ask don't tell means I know you're sleeping with other people, I just don't want to hear any details.
Kitchen table is when you spill all the deets. There's a lot of different open arrangements, lots of different dynamics and communication between individuals, or even throuples, with hinges etc. There are sattelites, unicorns too but they're less involved if at all.
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Anonymous #7
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I had a dont-ask, dont-tell open relationship. It was kinda nice honestly however my ex had a big mouth and would randomly tell details about her sexual encounters which annoyed me. Our relationship eventually ended due to her harsh, disrespectful personality but during the no-detail open relationship, it was actually pretty nice.
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Anonymous #1
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Sounds like a fairly upsetting experience. Did they only start describing things later?
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Anonymous #3
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I had a relationship where I was told go do what you gotta do just dont tell me about it
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #1 said: Sounds like a fairly upsetting experience. Did they only start describing things later?
Nah, she started saying it in the beginning. She was unfaithful since the beginning. But i still loved her. Love is weird like that. Plus, the sex was pretty wild sometimes too. That always helps.
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Anonymous #15
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Was om the disrespecting recieving end of one of those ooof!open relationships never again what a trap
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Anonymous #15
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Sexually... how I can't explain it... Some girls have been able to do that. Physically too is pretty fucking hot. Try to hit me, force me to defend myself, sparring. and intelligence wise. I like learning off a girl whos wiser than me in a topic that intriques me. Not some stupid follower bs some her own path type of stuff. Challenging me at my hobbies and the things im good at. Idk if that explains it
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Anonymous #15
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I couldnt even use a girl sexually cause she wasnt able to challenge me and roleplayed being strong while being extremely weak emotionally. Anyone can buff their chest and scare passive people away.
When we kissed it felt like something was missing... she only got extremely excited when I grabbed her tits or took her inch by inch but she never did anything back to me she just responded. So I stopped. Happened a lot of times actually and I was always confused about why I stopped but I could always tell cause I felt something was missing... I just didnt know what it was? Love? Admiration? Respect?
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Anonymous #3
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Passion?
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Anonymous #15
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Admiration and respect towards me. Guess she just treated me like a toy that makes her feel good and it showed towards the end lol. She became more passionate when i grabbed her tits and explissively mentioned she wanted to be humiliated and went into some dumb detail lmao. Guess lust wasnt enough for me
Edited by Anonymous (01/05/24 09:13 AM)
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Anonymous #3
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I feel that I've attempted sexual encounters before and my lack of respect for them inhibits it to go further
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