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Anonymous #1
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Occasionally giving in to your dark side
#28601810 - 12/29/23 05:32 AM (29 days, 14 hours ago) |
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I kinda ruined a girls life by leaving her. She used me as a pillar for her self-esteem or some stupid shit. She prob lost her job and def the guy she used me as a stepping tool to get cause of stupid stuff that made her attracted to me for some reason and all of her friends took my side which ruined her friends group which is basically her life. made her depressed and yada yada. some time after I also flamed her after i found out she tried to turn my friends against me 🤷 by telling me she's depressed through friends she thought im incapable of womans wrath just cause im a man that decided to leave her in peace
i can't help but feel sadistic pleasure. Also can't help but feel a bit guilty. She mistook my kindness and patience for weakness so I noped the fucked out asap.
Control
I am flawed, as is my companion. When in close proximity, each of us triggers intense feelings within the other. My companion is filled with devotion towards me, and I adoration towards it. We both are intoxicated by this. It saps my concentration, it saps my companion's will. She can't halt the effect. We are slaves to each other. This... This is control. She has done this to us both, but if it was her intent that this binding would coerce us to stay, she has failed. I shall be her plaything no longer. I found a way to leave.
Edited by Anonymous (12/29/23 05:33 AM)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Occasionally giving in to your dark side [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28601814 - 12/29/23 05:35 AM (29 days, 14 hours ago) |
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Feel free to judge my situations or anything really. How many people have you guys tripped over in your life. How many times was it their or your fault? I definitely let this escalate past a certain threshold which caused an awkward breakup
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Occasionally giving in to your dark side [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28601840 - 12/29/23 06:20 AM (29 days, 13 hours ago) |
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Time is a flat circle. You just get older, and maybe wiser.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Occasionally giving in to your dark side [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28601912 - 12/29/23 07:38 AM (29 days, 12 hours ago) |
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I always tell my partner if he can’t take the heat in the kitchen I’ll help him escape it.
I do not believe in relationships people feel trapped in. My life is difficult, full of webs and loops, and I have a very specific plan and layout for it. I would hope my partner would accelerate a dream of mine like I try to benefit their life.
If it turns into an emotional devotion va adoration issue; it will simply lead to trauma.
Marriages and relationships should be looked at as a binding business contract to promote the growth of the individual’s. That also means respecting boundaries with others and not letting temptation or hidden agendas affect those you may be intimate with.
I tell my spouse all the time if I feel we are getting side tracked from our goals. Does he like it all the time? Fuck no but he understands I’m here to help promote growth and independence not establish some sort of control
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Occasionally giving in to your dark side [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28601917 - 12/29/23 07:47 AM (29 days, 11 hours ago) |
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thank you for your input you two
Edited by Anonymous (12/29/23 07:47 AM)
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