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Consent with multiple partners
    #28599463 - 12/27/23 07:04 AM (1 month, 1 day ago)

If you are having a sexual relationship with more then one person do you inform the people you are being sexual with someone else?


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28599529 - 12/27/23 07:56 AM (1 month, 1 day ago)

I just had a friend contact me
She suspected she has a STD
We discussed it
I asked who it was
Turns out he's also having sex with another one of my friends
I told her Im going to tell her
I withheld her name
He turned out to have a STD
They both got it
He continued to lie
Which is shitty
But also a form of sexual assault since they did not consent to multiple partners
They could get HIV
One stopped sleeping with him
Other continued
Wtf
I don't get that
Why not just say you are not the only one
Anyone experienced this?
I would if responded differently
But im a different person


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28599795 - 12/27/23 12:58 PM (1 month, 1 day ago)

I would, just in case things get serious and there are loving, romantic, intimate feelings involved....


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 2
    #28599840 - 12/27/23 01:43 PM (1 month, 1 day ago)

I disclose that information and expect the same from my partners. It's about informed consent and respect.


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28599901 - 12/27/23 02:38 PM (1 month, 1 day ago)

I was cheated on when married . I obviously didn't know.
When i was dating I brought it up.
I think I should have the right to decide .
So should they.


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28601148 - 12/28/23 04:12 PM (1 month, 2 hours ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
If you are having a sexual relationship with more then one person do you inform the people you are being sexual with someone else?




I tell them from the start I'm not looking for commitment. Im just single, but I know some people in poly relationships who tell eachother they're seeing someone else, going on a date etc, and others who embark on kitchen table poly where they share more o fn the details rather than just the essence of what they're doing.

I remember telling someone I was seeing others but they weren't phased because we'd already established the casual nature of our dalliances.

It was kind of liberating to say, because previously I hadn't been in the kind of position where I was okay with what I was doing.

That said, I also had to be okay with the fact that the people I was seeing weren't solely seeing me, but like with the married people, I was happy for them, a bit of compersion is required to make ends meet with such arrangements. Can't have fun if you're envious.

I also get regular health checkups though and share that I do.


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28601863 - 12/29/23 06:50 AM (30 days, 11 hours ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
But also a form of sexual assault since they did not consent to multiple partners




Use condoms.

Shitty situation. There's no universal rule about informing all involved parties in a multi-partner situation. People intensively involved in polyamory tend to be very open about these things, others basically sleep behind the backs of other people.

Sure, it would be nice if everyone would be 100% transparent. Or would it? Either way, it's not going to happen. Be careful in the meantime. Hence the condoms.


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: koraks] * 3
    #28601905 - 12/29/23 07:30 AM (30 days, 10 hours ago)

Once a cheater always a cheater.

Also I’ve had bad experiences with people not respecting safe sex practices. If they don’t respect me I cannot assume they respect anyone else


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Re: Consent with multiple partners [Re: Jewstress]
    #28601997 - 12/29/23 09:20 AM (30 days, 8 hours ago)

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Jewstress said:
Once a cheater always a cheater.

Also I’ve had bad experiences with people not respecting safe sex practices. If they don’t respect me I cannot assume they respect anyone else



This
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