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Anyone who bullies anyone deserves to be punched in the face is what my grandfather would say.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: nooneman]
#28595648 - 12/23/23 06:37 PM (1 month, 4 days ago) |
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-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: Freedom]
#28596719 - 12/24/23 03:21 PM (1 month, 3 days ago) |
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That's why the joke is you read Michel Foucault and then tell your therapist "I think we're done here..." (psychoanalysis post Freud was botched, largely by his own daughter)
I think people enjoy being mean. For many reasons. Too numerous to count. Aggression is something that can be triggered by many things. I find it ugly, and it is something about myself that, when it happens, I really don't like. It doesn't feel good. But there can be a pleasure in being angry, and this pleasure itself is a substitute for other pleasures, or something that has become the main emotional outlet. I think sadness is directly related to anger. Happiness is not the opposite of sadness. No. Anger is, if one exists, the opposite of happiness, and anger and sadness are the front and back of the coin of this opposite. From sadness comes anger, from anger may come sadness.
-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: Freedom]
#28596721 - 12/24/23 03:24 PM (1 month, 3 days ago) |
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Or perhaps laughter/joy is the opposite of sadness, and anger the opposite of happiness. That is more like it.
-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: sudly]
#28596733 - 12/24/23 03:33 PM (1 month, 3 days ago) |
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That person is mostly hallucinating as an automoton. That person cannot be said to have any real freedom willed. The only way to fix this is to have a person care that there is actually a way to determine reality in a way you can trust, without just merely believing someone. This is with logic and philosophy and mathematics. This is what you plant in people; what will grow into a natural adherence and faith in rationality instead of words of mysticism.
-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: Freedom]
#28596825 - 12/24/23 05:09 PM (1 month, 3 days ago) |
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This is how i see it
sadness <--> anger <-- (-) : (+) --> happiness <--> joy/laughter
The : is the direction of our mood (our neurochemistry) when confronted with something (by confronted I mean something appearing which we react to that we have not ourselves created)
The positive is what we integrate easily and adds 'stimulation,' for lack of better words
The negative is what is not integrated easily or not at all, precludes stimulation and or perturbs because it is not 'accepted,' for lack of better words.
-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: Freedom]
#28596835 - 12/24/23 05:17 PM (1 month, 3 days ago) |
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I think lastly the opposite of loving and appreciating people is wanting to use/harm them.
loving <--> appreciating : using <--> harming
When the pleasure that would come from/with others is found in using them and harming them... this is called Sadism. I think Sadism is a natural part of the monkey dna in us of primate, primal rage of dominance. Sadism is a narcissistic formation and it is the result of a lack of love and acceptance, true in the society and environment in which a person is born, which we created as a reaction formation, a defense mechanism, exactly how Freud demonstrates in a Darwinian way about the unconscious.
-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: Freedom]
#28596857 - 12/24/23 05:40 PM (1 month, 3 days ago) |
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I find what you said intriguing.
It made me think, what is the state of mind in conversation? Is that itself a sensation? Or reading... There may be many feelings. How does one's psychological relation to other people impact their ability for actually having a conversation, and having the feeling(s) of the exchange of thoughts? It requires sharing ideas, and this is why I think conversation and communication is fundamentally associated inside us with what 'love' and 'happiness' means. I don't think it is its own thing apart from having as you say delight and joy with/from other people. It isn't about deriving joy or pleasure but with it simultaneously with the experience. I think anger and sadness is fundamentally opposed to communication, which is something that actually holds the species together.
-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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Re: The psychology of the bully [Re: Freedom]
#28597004 - 12/24/23 07:48 PM (1 month, 3 days ago) |
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-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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-------------------- ☆✮★⋆I ♡ the music, not the bling⋆★✮☆ https://rictornorton.co.uk/eighteen/1730news.htm 𝔦𝔫 𝔫𝔬𝔪𝔦𝔫𝔢 𝔟𝔬𝔫𝔦 𝔭𝔢𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔪𝔦 𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔬𝔯𝔲𝔪 𝔣𝔦𝔲𝔫𝔱 May I ask what your bud type is? ❂ LXIV⁶⁴AMOR ❂Profundæ lātissimæque vēritātēs amandæ sunt, sīc ideo necesse est: rēs maxima amanda est; pōtus sit is bene scīmus cum nōs id adeō explet, cum altō hīc movet īmus: rēs maxima omnis amor.
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