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Invisibledownforpot
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Too much of a gentleman
    #2858033 - 07/05/04 05:02 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I got a big as problem with being too much of a gentleman. My mom raised after my parents split up and did everything in her power to make sure I did not turn out like my father. I just can't be agressive towards girls, as in I don't make any moves even though it is obvious to everyone else around me that girls are comming on to me. The only way I can get rid of this is with alcohol. So does anyone have any ideas on how I can solve this problem?


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2858743 - 07/05/04 02:40 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I have that same problem, but my only solution is alcohol too, I dunno.


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: gdman]
    #2860382 - 07/06/04 02:17 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I have the same problem. The only times that I have been successful with women have been with large amounts of benzos.


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Re: Too much of a gentleman *DELETED* [Re: masterg]
    #2861711 - 07/06/04 04:42 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2861751 - 07/06/04 04:49 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Maybe you should just start hitting on every girl you find attractive, whether she's flirting with you or not. If you accept beforehand that some girls are going to turn you down, it's not so hard to just keep asking until you find one who's interested.

As a side note, I fully intend to roll X on the first date of any serious relationship I'm in. I don't remember ever being more talkative or comfortable around people.

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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2861966 - 07/06/04 06:00 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

You should try to talk to every girl you meet and just try to be funny and a little cocky. Also, doing something only while you are drunk will begin to cause an effect known as 'State Dependant Learning', where you will become unable to do it when you are sober.


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2863682 - 07/07/04 03:47 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Same thing here, pretty much. :P


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: BigNerd]
    #2866834 - 07/07/04 11:24 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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BigNerd said:As a side note, I fully intend to roll X on the first date of any serious relationship I'm in. I don't remember ever being more talkative or comfortable around people.

BigNerd




thats an extremely bad idea. e is just a false sense of being. if you start a personal relationship on that it will never be the same after and you will find yourself wanting to roll with the girl all the time to make things feel normal.

to the original poster, don't worry about being a complete gentleman.
its a good thing you are like that. im the same way and have found that i've gotten with great gf's in my life being that way.
usually if you are a cocky prick with girls you will just attract whores. i've went through a period of my life where i was a complete dickhead with girls and the girls i attracted were trash and not the type of girls i wanted serious relationships with.

be yourself and you will find the right girl for yourself eventually.


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2867397 - 07/08/04 02:23 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Let the gal pick you.

Just be yourself and the right one will come along.


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: synthesis]
    #2868744 - 07/08/04 02:27 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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synthesis said:
thats an extremely bad idea. e is just a false sense of being. if you start a personal relationship on that it will never be the same after and you will find yourself wanting to roll with the girl all the time to make things feel normal.




E is a sense of feeling more relaxed than normal.  How can that be false?  I don't forget the problems in life when I'm rolling, I'm just more at ease.  And since I'm a recreational drug user, I'll probably want to roll with the girl BECAUSE IT'S FUN, not because I did it once and now I can't function in a relationship without it.  But thanks for your concern. :wink:

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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: synthesis]
    #2869176 - 07/08/04 05:04 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

synthesis said:  usually if you are a cocky prick with girls you will just attract whores. i've went through a period of my life where i was a complete dickhead with girls and the girls i attracted were trash and not the type of girls i wanted serious relationships with.

Sage advice.

More advice, relationships that begin with alcohol and/or drugs, very-often turn into sh*t. Sad but true.

Just, be, yourself. And work harder at chasing down the women you want. You feel like you need to drink or drug-it because you're not working hard enough to chase down the women you want, you are essentially scared to feel good about doing that so you replace it with the drugs or booze, but if you were actually working towards it than you would probably find it will work and you can get her, and then SHE will then do the rest and make you feel 10X's better than any drugs and alcohol.. hope that makes sense.

LOL on the flip side of that make sure not to fall for a psycho-bitch-whore, they'll make your life hell. :smile: :heart:

Good luck!~


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2870289 - 07/08/04 10:26 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

What's wrong with being a gentleman? Have you ever thought that that may be what is attracting the girls to you? Just be your self. Most girls like shy guys. Don't ever try to start a friendship with someone while you are under the influence of any substance. Your mom raised a gentleman and I'm sure she is very proud of you. Don't worry you will meet the right girl who will loosen you up.


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2873603 - 07/09/04 05:37 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)



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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: HarveyWalbanger]
    #2874535 - 07/09/04 11:44 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

Oh no-no-no-no. Don't go to the ladder-theory.

Love knows no ladders (imo).


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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2874592 - 07/10/04 12:03 AM (12 years, 5 months ago)

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My mom raised after my parents split up and did everything in her power to make sure I did not turn out like my father.




Maybe your mother was right to do that, but I also think that you would be right to learn who your father really is or was...
-If he is not around or dead or disappeared, than i would straight up tell my mom i want her to spill the beans on who the other half of your blood-line really is...

Obviously, there were a few things that mom liked about dad in the first place... if there weren't than you would not be here today.
-Those are the pieces of the puzzle you want to know. Nothing negative, you want to know the positive stuff.

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Re: Too much of a gentleman [Re: downforpot]
    #2875759 - 07/10/04 01:14 PM (12 years, 5 months ago)

I do the same thing....
Once you get screwed over a
few times you will have no problem
being less of a gentleman!!!!

For real basically just love yourself
and realize you are worthy of being
loved and giving love... Hope this helps..

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Please under any circumstance to not take
them for fact!!!!! Or a code to live by....Peace Nofindum...


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