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loladoreen


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Patchouli_Savage said: I wouldn't advise putting anything about money in your profile and could use Lola's approach by putting something in your profile like "who's up for a picnic or an afternoon at a museum? Botanical garden anyone?"
You could always hold off on any of that until you actually start making plans to meet someone, which is how I usually do things.
If they suggest dinner, I just tell them I don't dondinner dates so early on because I prefer a less formal approach.
LOVE That!!!!!!!
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sudly
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Re: Dating without spending money? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28544279 - 11/15/23 04:59 PM (2 months, 12 days ago) |
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Got to keep some cards in your pocket.
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loladoreen


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I think that is part of the process of actually getting to know a person as opposed to showing off or look what i am capable of. Sometimes wining and dining feels like that because it stops. And is not who they genuinely are. Your a genuine person and that will shine through.
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Re: Dating without spending money? [Re: loladoreen]
#28544364 - 11/15/23 06:04 PM (2 months, 12 days ago) |
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Mlady
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loladoreen


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Gracias... I often type to fast and push send...
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Re: Dating without spending money? [Re: loladoreen] 2
#28577334 - 12/10/23 04:18 PM (1 month, 18 days ago) |
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Just be upfront with her. Tell her you don't have a lot of money but still want her to like you. Ask her if it would be OK to go to a place that doesn't cost a lot of money. If she likes you, she will understand.
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Re: Dating without spending money? [Re: Joh.Ke] 1
#28580088 - 12/12/23 02:40 PM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Say what kind of interaction you have in mind, in advance, to set expectations.
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