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Anonymous #7
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28577367 - 12/10/23 04:34 PM (1 month, 18 days ago) |
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Could be the tipped uterus is the issue. I’m completely average but my woman’s is tipped also and I can hurt her cervix if I’m not careful
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Anonymous #8
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28577711 - 12/10/23 07:45 PM (1 month, 17 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #7 said: Could be the tipped uterus is the issue. I’m completely average but my woman’s is tipped also and I can hurt her cervix if I’m not careful
You mean you choose not to do something that hurts your partner even if it's not as gratifying for you and requires conscious effort to be careful on your part?
Kind of sounds like the opposite of what you think OP is entitled to give your comments on this.
And OP, glad you guys talked in a more neutral setting. I feel like talking about sexual problems never goes well when you talk about them in the moment.
Hopefully she gets some good support from her doctor. She may also benefit from pelvic floor PT or Yoni massage.
Sometimes endometriosis can cause the retroversion so treating the endo (which is very difficult) could help if that were the case.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28577778 - 12/10/23 08:18 PM (1 month, 17 days ago) |
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I had a tipped cervix and uterus It can hurt Changed with time for me
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LogicaL Chaos
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28577941 - 12/10/23 11:33 PM (1 month, 17 days ago) |
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Some women have smaller clams than others 
Ive met women where they have some really deep caverns. It just really depends on the woman.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28577950 - 12/10/23 11:56 PM (1 month, 17 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #8 said: You mean you choose not to do something that hurts your partner even if it's not as gratifying for you and requires conscious effort to be careful on your part?
Kind of sounds like the opposite of what you think OP is entitled to give your comments on this.
I don’t avoid doing anything I want to do. Only if her legs are up and I hit hard and deep can it hurt her. It’s not an issue at all. Plus it seems OP’s dick is bigger than mine so there that too
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Anonymous #9
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28578492 - 12/11/23 12:12 PM (1 month, 17 days ago) |
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I have a similar situation, except my girl friend has a rape fantasy and enjoys the pain. She has a degradation kink going on. Different boats.
Edited by Anonymous (12/11/23 08:35 PM)
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LogicaL Chaos
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So like the opposite problem?
Those rape roleplayers are hardcore as fuck!
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Anonymous #10
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28579327 - 12/11/23 09:35 PM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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tbh you do sound pretty selfish
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Anonymous #1
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #9]
#28579371 - 12/11/23 10:31 PM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Anonymous #9 said: I have a similar situation, except my girl friend has a rape fantasy and enjoys the pain. She has a degradation kink going on. Different boats.
I've kicked it with a few ladies with that fantasy. The line gets pretty blurry the deeper you go down that rabbit hole.
Are you into it?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #10]
#28579376 - 12/11/23 10:33 PM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Anonymous #10 said: tbh you do sound pretty selfish
Aren't we all to a degree with some aspect of something in our lives? What do you suggest I change to be more selfless without compromising my happiness and still being true to myself?
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Anonymous #6
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28579378 - 12/11/23 10:36 PM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Because you made a lifelong commitment
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Anonymous #7
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #6] 2
#28579425 - 12/11/23 11:48 PM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Marriage isn't a life long commitment. I don't care what the vows say. It's simply not feasible most of the time and the odds that at least person in a marriage didn't get into it to take advantage of the situation is slim to none
"Hey honey, I know we realized we're completely incompatible and are making each others lives miserable, but let's do this until one of us dies because WE SAID WE WOULD!!!" Sorry, but that's retarded
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Anonymous #1
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #6]
#28579482 - 12/12/23 01:30 AM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Anonymous #6 said: Because you made a lifelong commitment
I'm genuinely interested to hear you explain the commitment I made.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 2
#28579512 - 12/12/23 03:32 AM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: Some women have smaller clams than others 
Ive met women where they have some really deep caverns. It just really depends on the woman.
The vaginal canal actually increases in length with arousal so it's not always a matter of inherent or anatomical depth
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Anonymous #11
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28579590 - 12/12/23 06:20 AM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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That sounds incredibly erotic. I got incredibly excited reading that thank you for posting that
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Anonymous #9
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28579608 - 12/12/23 06:45 AM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #9 said: I have a similar situation, except my girl friend has a rape fantasy and enjoys the pain. She has a degradation kink going on. Different boats.
I've kicked it with a few ladies with that fantasy. The line gets pretty blurry the deeper you go down that rabbit hole.
Are you into it?
I love it, and would love to talk more about it, but I also don't want to hijack this thread. Her and I have talked extensively about it.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28579619 - 12/12/23 06:53 AM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Anonymous #7 said: Marriage isn't a life long commitment. I don't care what the vows say. It's simply not feasible most of the time and the odds that at least person in a marriage didn't get into it to take advantage of the situation is slim to none
"Hey honey, I know we realized we're completely incompatible and are making each others lives miserable, but let's do this until one of us dies because WE SAID WE WOULD!!!" Sorry, but that's retarded
Agree
I am unsure if she feels the same
Really the only two who know the level of commitment are them.
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durian_2008
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #6]
#28580081 - 12/12/23 02:35 PM (1 month, 16 days ago) |
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Small women say that 'elephant trunk' hurts, even though the larger men are endowed proportionately to their own frame.
There is nothing counter-intuitive about sexual compatibility, on the level of two differently sized animals, except lots of people discussing it are misandrists worried that macho men would have a claim to fame.
You can find medical data regarding the differences in depth and length.
And, you can find tall and reproductively fit women, without reverse sexism.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28581916 - 12/13/23 09:24 PM (1 month, 14 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
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Anonymous #10 said: tbh you do sound pretty selfish
Aren't we all to a degree with some aspect of something in our lives? What do you suggest I change to be more selfless without compromising my happiness and still being true to myself?
You could sit your wife down and tell her that since she can't have the sort of sex you like to have, you've started stepping out, and suggest that she do the same so that she too can experience a fulfilling sex life.
Edit: typo
Edited by Anonymous (12/13/23 09:40 PM)
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durian_2008
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Re: My wife can't take deep penetration [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28582449 - 12/14/23 10:28 AM (1 month, 14 days ago) |
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Although I am not Mormon nor Islamist, I could conceive of plural marriage -- that is to say, polygyny -- had someone not committed to monogamy.
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