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loladoreen


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Compliments or insult? 2
#28554097 - 11/23/23 02:31 PM (2 months, 4 days ago) |
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I'm in my bathing suit in line at the bar . Im standing in line and the man behind me makes small talk. Asks where Im from et I tell him. He tells me his experiences visiting where I live. I add I brought my grankids here. At a indoor water He says grandma? I said yes 3 & 5. He asked how old I am. I'm 50 He said I would of put you at 30's Im flattered right? Then he said you can't possibly be from there. I said I am He said then you're the prettiest girl from there and that part of the state. Felt like a compliment in the beginning then that... He continued to say theres no way you're from there.
??? Wtf? Insult or Im being sensitive
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen] 3
#28554109 - 11/23/23 02:39 PM (2 months, 4 days ago) |
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I'd have to see a picture to know for sure 
In all seriousness though-- I suspect it was a compliment and then dude got flustered and ran outta shit to say and accidentally offended you. Do you live in an area that's known to be inhabited by only the hideous? If not, I think you know the answer. Congrats on being a GILF.
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28554136 - 11/23/23 03:23 PM (2 months, 4 days ago) |
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Sounds like an insult to where you grew up but a compliment to you in that swim suit
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loladoreen


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Ill take it Most view where i live a republican farm mining people And that's true But here I am
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen]
#28554727 - 11/24/23 07:50 AM (2 months, 3 days ago) |
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Compliment. Enjoy it
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen]
#28554989 - 11/24/23 12:43 PM (2 months, 3 days ago) |
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Awesome
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28555502 - 11/24/23 10:27 PM (2 months, 2 days ago) |
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loladoreen said: He continued to say theres no way you're from there.
??? Wtf? Insult or Im being sensitive
He's insulting the locals. Presumably cause they look ill-kept & of bad pedigree.
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen]
#28555508 - 11/24/23 10:36 PM (2 months, 2 days ago) |
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Insult. Sounds like he just said your entire state or area you came from was ugly. Sorry that happened.
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loladoreen


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He was from Vancouver.
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28556967 - 11/26/23 09:47 AM (2 months, 1 day ago) |
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They are all damn dirty hippies or trustafarians. You could have handed out some of your own backhanded compliments.
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28556974 - 11/26/23 09:50 AM (2 months, 1 day ago) |
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I was really taken back by the entire conversation. There was another person there involved in the conversation also. I was kinda uncomfortable, we are at a waterpark, but I was in my suit and they had on shorts and a t-shirt. It was weird.. to me... I like where I live. We talked a bit while in line. He was surprised I have a formal education.. his idea of where I am from .. is just not accurate. Small minded.
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28557169 - 11/26/23 12:52 PM (2 months, 1 day ago) |
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loladoreen said: I'm in my bathing suit in line at the bar . Im standing in line and the man behind me makes small talk. Asks where Im from et I tell him. He tells me his experiences visiting where I live. I add I brought my grankids here. At a indoor water He says grandma? I said yes 3 & 5. He asked how old I am. I'm 50 He said I would of put you at 30's Im flattered right? Then he said you can't possibly be from there. I said I am He said then you're the prettiest girl from there and that part of the state. Felt like a compliment in the beginning then that... He continued to say theres no way you're from there.
??? Wtf? Insult or Im being sensitive
I have a feeling that he meant well to begin with and then just lost track of his thoughts. He might have expected you to laugh at his joke that only sounded funny in his own head . I wouldnt let it bother you,he more than likely felt shit about himself after he said it . He's a stranger to you and you should just laugh at his stupidity, if you knew him personally then it would be a different story.
I'd take the 30s compliment all day long .
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Re: Compliments or insult? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28557327 - 11/26/23 02:39 PM (2 months, 1 day ago) |
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Thank you. I am not still thinking about it. I posted it right after it happened. I was a lil bewildered. We all have biases and he has many about where I live LOL
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