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CaptainTrips420
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Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you?
#28548010 - 11/18/23 02:40 PM (2 months, 9 days ago) |
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I feel bad about being frightening to women. I constantly scare them on accident something about me appearing unstable and mildly psychotic they get really nervous. I was talking to an attractive woman and she started sweating like literally could see wet spots developing on her armpit. I started asking if I was making her uncomfortable or nervous and she said no but I could tell I was yet she said she was fine but I could tell I was scaring her because I was talking about being frustrated about not being able to talk about my real feelings with women in general.
It’s strange she must have thought I wanted to rape her or hurt her it’s just bizarre it was obvious I was intimidating her but I wasn’t trying to. It really bothers me I been wanting girls to choke me but I didn’t say that I was just explaining that all women seem to be timid around me especially when alone. I don’t know how to gain their trust but I want them to abuse me like bondage and choking. I was explaining I wanted them to do anything they wanted to me I don’t care anymore but I didn’t say her just attractive women in general.
I’m so sick of the frightened looks I get from just flirting with them I wouldn’t ever hurt them I value them way more than men. I want to look in there eyes and watch them choke me because I want to see if they feel remorse or if they actually hate me. I been fantasizing about them putting my head in there private area and not letting me breathe anything but pussy. I would eventually bite because I can’t help the survival reflex but could do it for about 2-3 minutes without air. I wouldn’t bite but I want them to stop being scared of me. If they tied up my hands and choked me they could actually kill me I wouldn’t be able to stop them but I’m not sure it would make them get over there fear or if they would actually kill me. I always wanted to be a sex slave to a femdom but an attractive one. I wouldn’t say no to anything but I really want them to get over the fear of me it bothers me so bad. I want to protect them and I fantasize about treating them like a princess I want to guard them and keep them away from people that would hurt them would even sacrifice myself to save them like a body guard. I hate they think that the person that would hurt them is me makes me want to allow them to do whatever they want even if it hurts.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548136 - 11/18/23 04:02 PM (2 months, 9 days ago) |
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Your fantasy is to have a woman hurt you?
Has a woman ever told you that she fears you?
I probably would of been uncomfortable if you asked more then once.
Are you consciously aware of anything you may be doing that would cause fear?
I think being intimidated and being in fear are very different.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548148 - 11/18/23 04:16 PM (2 months, 9 days ago) |
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I keep thinking about this post.
I know someone who has never had a girlfriend. In his 20's. He is more introverted, smart, and he is still a virgin and his friends give him HELL for it.. and it hurts him. Deeply hurts him. And sometimes he will get in a place where he would do anything for a girlfriend. For the experience, the acceptance, companionship, love and sex. That makes sense.. right.. but there is a deep pain that turns into desperation to be accepted. I feel that tone here. maybe this is more than a sexual fantasy about being hurt by a woman... Obviously I can may be wrong.. and I am ok with that. Am I? FYI There is nothing wrong with your fantasy. I do not want to project that. I do not feel that way.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: loladoreen]
#28548169 - 11/18/23 04:38 PM (2 months, 9 days ago) |
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loladoreen said: Your fantasy is to have a woman hurt you?
Has a woman ever told you that she fears you?
I probably would of been uncomfortable if you asked more then once.
Are you consciously aware of anything you may be doing that would cause fear?
I think being intimidated and being in fear are very different.
I never even asked I just suggested I have issues being around girls as attractive as her because it makes me sad I can’t communicate with her as well as someone I don’t think is sexually attractive. I never asked for sex or a relationship but was explaining I can tell it makes her uncomfortable and she just denied it. I never went into detail about my fetish stuff just stopped the conversation and left her alone after I saw her start looking nervous and haven’t talked to her much since. I basically said I feel sad around women like you but enjoy being around you but can’t understand why they are so nervous. She wasn’t nervous till I explained other women get nervous around me. I hate it so much even discussing the issue causes the issue. She just wants to be a friend I respect it and will not bother her about it but I need a girlfriend not a friend if I had one girl I wouldn’t be flirting with attractive friends. Just hate they say they don’t feel a certain way when it’s obvious I made them uncomfortable. I guess admitting I make her uncomfortable by simply asking for advice would be embarrassing or something. It’s so difficult to have an honest conversation because it embarrasses me to and would make them not want to ever see me again.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420] 1
#28548184 - 11/18/23 04:47 PM (2 months, 9 days ago) |
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I think you might be bringing up really awkward and weird conversations that would make anyone feel weird and maybe anxious. Like talking about your BDSM desires to someone you barely know probably wouldn't be considered flirting by most. I think you're probably just talking about really awkward stuff that isn't appropriate to the moment. Try not bringing stuff like that up.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548195 - 11/18/23 04:54 PM (2 months, 9 days ago) |
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CaptainTrips420 said:
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loladoreen said: Your fantasy is to have a woman hurt you?
Has a woman ever told you that she fears you?
I probably would of been uncomfortable if you asked more then once.
Are you consciously aware of anything you may be doing that would cause fear?
I think being intimidated and being in fear are very different.
I never even asked I just suggested I have issues being around girls as attractive as her because it makes me sad I can’t communicate with her as well as someone I don’t think is sexually attractive. I never asked for sex or a relationship but was explaining I can tell it makes her uncomfortable and she just denied it. I never went into detail about my fetish stuff just stopped the conversation and left her alone after I saw her start looking nervous and haven’t talked to her much since. I basically said I feel sad around women like you but enjoy being around you but can’t understand why they are so nervous. She wasn’t nervous till I explained other women get nervous around me. I hate it so much even discussing the issue causes the issue. She just wants to be a friend I respect it and will not bother her about it but I need a girlfriend not a friend if I had one girl I wouldn’t be flirting with attractive friends. Just hate they say they don’t feel a certain way when it’s obvious I made them uncomfortable. I guess admitting I make her uncomfortable by simply asking for advice would be embarrassing or something. It’s so difficult to have an honest conversation because it embarrasses me to and would make them not want to ever see me again.
How long have you known that girl? I can see why it made you uncomfortable. And I can see why it made her uncomfortable, if I am understanding correctly. This could very simply be learning how to talk, flirt, communicate in a manner you are more comfortable with and does not make others comfortable.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548283 - 11/18/23 06:09 PM (2 months, 9 days ago) |
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@Trips If yu were a member of the yakuza how would yu handle yrself differently?
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548304 - 11/18/23 06:23 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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She prob read your file duh
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548319 - 11/18/23 06:34 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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Trips there isnt nothing wrong w yu stop playing around
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548352 - 11/18/23 07:00 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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Foreal though who would speak on this?
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420] 2
#28548355 - 11/18/23 07:02 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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@trips What do yu think abt Elf on the shelf?
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420] 1
#28548357 - 11/18/23 07:03 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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No i wont femdom yu leave me the fck alone !
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420] 1
#28548389 - 11/18/23 07:35 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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Yu should write Revy shell tell yu whats up
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420] 1
#28548390 - 11/18/23 07:36 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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Slam some percs 4 a 10min convo 
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: oursoulsinmotion]
#28548611 - 11/18/23 11:04 PM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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What the hell is this?  Are you under some sort of psychic attack?
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28548756 - 11/19/23 06:12 AM (2 months, 8 days ago) |
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@Trips wrap your mind around this one....
What are yr thoughts?👆
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: oursoulsinmotion] 1
#28549671 - 11/19/23 10:09 PM (2 months, 7 days ago) |
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Quote:
oursoulsinmotion said: Slam some percs 4 a 10min convo  
I want what you're on
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: ShiroiTora]
#28550445 - 11/20/23 03:07 PM (2 months, 7 days ago) |
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I think I have low self esteem. Sometimes I fantasize about them pulling my teeth out like in this movie they could kill you with their vagina if you had no teeth like make you eat it till you die of no air. I think it would be easier to have a one night stand than a relationship always wanted to follow them around as a ghost. I wonder if they would ever touch themselves thinking about me I would want it.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28550448 - 11/20/23 03:09 PM (2 months, 7 days ago) |
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I think you’re a sub/cuckold, are you familiar? Hire a dominatrix and work out your stuff.
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28551157 - 11/21/23 07:08 AM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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Getting femdommed wont help your self esteem issues
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28551205 - 11/21/23 07:54 AM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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In what way do yu feel this will help yu get closer 2 ur mother?
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#28551279 - 11/21/23 08:51 AM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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Lets be supportive of people
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Re: Anyone have problems with wanting women to hurt you? [Re: oursoulsinmotion] 1
#28551314 - 11/21/23 09:16 AM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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I think it could really help his self-esteem actually. It’s all about how you approach it. But yeah, he could work out all of his stuff. With a professional who is ready to handle this kind of stuff. With all of this expressed. He can go about his life. Without having to constantly think about all this. His confidence will go up because he isn’t constantly feeling down.IMO
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#28551424 - 11/21/23 11:01 AM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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What will his safeword be? Research chemicals??
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#28551438 - 11/21/23 11:18 AM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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The only person who knows what is best for him, is him.
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#28551520 - 11/21/23 12:35 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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I fear 4 what could happen 2 him
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#28551627 - 11/21/23 02:08 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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I understand that. It's easier to make changes when you're supported. It's really not something thats weird or out there. Its a lack of social awareness. Easily taught. Especially when you have support. Worst case scenario he gets hurt With support we step in and help
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