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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: durian_2008] 1
#28526527 - 11/02/23 11:44 AM (2 months, 25 days ago) |
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durian_2008 said: Firstly, I can agree to the premise of first wave feminism, which prioritized the needs of the home over his nightlife. (Just without the hatchet wielding biddy.)
Many women are nurturing of overgrown babies and suggestible to gigolos. Marketing panders to these stereoptypes; it's ok when they do it.
I agree but disagree on a personal level. I don't care who uses prostitutes. I care if the prostitute is safe. Nothing else. I really do not care. Society in general... probably does and there is a perceived double standard. Were completely away from the actual topic
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: loladoreen]
#28526535 - 11/02/23 11:53 AM (2 months, 25 days ago) |
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There is some cocky Justin Bieber or Elivs guy who, outside of Hollywood, can never mentally nor physically perform the duties of a traditional man, for whom women will play devil's advocate, like their Mommy.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: durian_2008]
#28526541 - 11/02/23 11:56 AM (2 months, 25 days ago) |
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durian_2008 said: There is some cocky Justin Bieber or Elivs guy who, outside of Hollywood, can never mentally nor physically perform the duties of a traditional man, for whom women will play devil's advocate, like their Mommy.
 And that to you; is what makes a woman special… Lol Thank you for saying that Lola.
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I know to support a baby's fragile neck and not to feed it one crumb of solid food before it is ready.
I am not Mommy.
Mommies vote. Sometimes on professional victims, sometimes on Fabio.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: loladoreen] 2
#28527332 - 11/03/23 12:40 AM (2 months, 24 days ago) |
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I can handle things delicately, am not helpless around the house, but can never be "her".
Simps want reciprocity and to be relatable.
Womyn want to compete.
Opposites attract.
I think opposite attract also.
I went on a date with a vegan recently, and I'm not vegan. I was entrigued to hear hear stances and tried to keep an open mind, I ate a vegetarian meal infront of her, but she said she didn't want to change other people either, and was just going by her own way in life. I respect and admire that in her.
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I like that! I also admire that. I don't care for others beliefs being pushed. But I enjoy learning about their beliefs. But not from a place of anger. How I went plant based was similar. My friend went vegan and I would eat with her. I liked it alot. The food was so good and felt good. I was really into working out, I worked out 3 times a day. I had some pictures coming up and wanted to be in the best shape attainable for myself. I went on a keto no sugar diet and I lost no weight but gained sooo much muscle. Probably the best I ever looked. And I felt good. My stomach was bothering me for a few years and my doctor put me on an elimination diet to find the cause. And I decided I might as well try an all plant based diet since they were almost identical. I did and it was the best I ever felt. So I stuck with it. I have to admit I always say plant based as opposed to vegan because I think vegan can be very misunderstood and politically motivated. And people get angry, which I don't understand. My motivation was to feel better, address my stomach issues and find what worked for me. My friend has since added eggs to her diet and sometimes cheese. Her friend is still vegan and doing fine. But extremely thin. Not a look I aspire to have. I love that you were open minded. We could all learn from that.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: loladoreen]
#28549709 - 11/19/23 11:10 PM (2 months, 7 days ago) |
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I like the broken beat up abused black sheep of the world.
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Her confidence😊
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#28551079 - 11/21/23 05:21 AM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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I like the broken beat up abused black sheep of the world.
I can related a bit. For over 2 years I was obsessed with a homeless woman who would ask for money at the liquor store across the street. I'd sometimes give her money so I could make eye contact with her. She was broken. Missing at least one tooth. But I could see the beautiful soul within her - underneath all the pain and trauma. One day she disappeared. I wonder what happened to her.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#28551486 - 11/21/23 12:01 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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I have watched some tv while put on security and have seen many different types of women, portrayed in many different roles.
I keep coming to the conclusion that I could coordinate with almost any kind of person, particularly assuming that it is to my benefit, that she is loyal, and not in some form of competition with me, like so many relationshits that are never ending shit tests.
I like women, not bad faith.
I am not interested in someone just acting out some gender role, but in someone who is complicit.
There is discussion, online, about what is deportment vs. comportment. Inward conduct vs. outward conduct.
The quality I am trying to put my finger on can only come from a self-conscious person, voluntarily.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: durian_2008] 1
#28551551 - 11/21/23 01:07 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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you seem rather tormented and agonized not necessarily from not getting what you are wanting but wanting what you are not getting. It's unfortunate the world does not conform to your personal paradigms.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: BeefSupremeJr]
#28551555 - 11/21/23 01:09 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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I just keep trying to like clean up his comment. Because it feels like he lost the comment in his thoughts.
So what he finds, most attractive about a woman is self-consciousness. Maybe?
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"iso insecure woman to listen to my psycho-babble and and clean up after me bc im a man and i can use a chainsaw" is what i heard.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: BeefSupremeJr]
#28551572 - 11/21/23 01:20 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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 I did hear that too.
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i love durian but he seems particularly troubled with gender and sexuality. born in the wrong time-line i reckon.
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#28551582 - 11/21/23 01:29 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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durian_2008 said: I am not Mommy.
You’re right, I am. Now stfu and go to your room.
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I go out, irl, and it's about half and half -- where there are still people.
When stores are shuttered, and there are less and less people, I attribute that to degenerate social justice narratives.
afaic, your problem fixes itself.
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Re: What actually makes a woman special? [Re: durian_2008]
#28551657 - 11/21/23 02:27 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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yes everything is some other working class person's fault. never mind the unfettered corporatism leaching millions and millions of dollars away from our communities every day. Yes I'm sure Black Lives Matter is to blame for all the small businesses going bankrupt.
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#28551701 - 11/21/23 03:04 PM (2 months, 6 days ago) |
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1950's "Comptonettes":

1980's:

The reversely-prejudiced half of politics assumes that I should not be seen in public, without a minder, meeting the UN standard of genocide, in which civics prevent reproduction at replacement level.
It went from non-meritocracy to burning Kenosha.
I might just really piss off her cultural-Marxist dad, and they like guys who piss of their dads. Or, I might be the most familiar-looking thing for miles, through absolutely no merit of my own.
Don't blame the messenger; I am not the cause of anything or going especially out of my way to just be myself and make a civilized level level of effort and go outside.
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