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durian_2008
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28473529 - 09/18/23 09:41 AM (4 months, 8 days ago) |
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I know that alot of you have a problem with putting these concepts together; you're not used to hearing that it works any other way.
I'm supposed to say that I'm a romantic or an altruist, but all of these arguments are settled quietly, at the pheremonal or subconscious level, depending on the amount of leverage you carry.
We're not being enlightened, here; these are barnyard problems.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008]
#28473827 - 09/18/23 02:46 PM (4 months, 8 days ago) |
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I understand now. You are trying to climb the thread killers list. With a post count like that you have a hard road ahead. Good luck
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28477459 - 09/21/23 09:10 AM (4 months, 5 days ago) |
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Has she been sexually assaulted in her life?
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28477868 - 09/21/23 05:00 PM (4 months, 5 days ago) |
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Not really. a co-worker chased her around a bit, then he stopped aggression when she gave up and made it clear it was non-consensual. No penetration.
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durian_2008
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28477878 - 09/21/23 05:10 PM (4 months, 5 days ago) |
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Call me a jerk. I just don't see the subtlety.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008]
#28477887 - 09/21/23 05:20 PM (4 months, 5 days ago) |
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Please let me know what you mean by that comment in common English language. I agree the thread is not subtle. I don't believe I am obliged to provide you with subtlety.
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durian_2008
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28478230 - 09/21/23 11:31 PM (4 months, 4 days ago) |
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Not really. a co-worker chased her around a bit, then he stopped aggression when she gave up and made it clear it was non-consensual. No penetration.
Staffers are very liability averse, so never, ever schedule it that way.
How does she find herself in this situation.
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durian_2008
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008]
#28478236 - 09/21/23 11:41 PM (4 months, 4 days ago) |
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No offense to present company, per se.
I just do not philosophically see myself as a victim and do not believe in playing the victim.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28498381 - 10/10/23 01:09 AM (3 months, 17 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I ask because I've just entered my mid 30s and just want to know what to expect in the future.
I'm 46, been married 22 years. Hit some dry patches when I wasn't taking care of myself and libido was low. Dropped some weight about 5 years ago and stay active now. She has always been fit but did not have strong drive in early years. We have sex pretty much everyday now unless one of us is sick. On weekends and vacas without kids we might engage 2 or 3 times a day. Once or twice a year we might have sex up to 5 times... seems like that is usually on a lazy Sunday.
I think a lot of it has to do with both partners taking care of themselves to keep feeling and being sexually attractive.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28498618 - 10/10/23 09:15 AM (3 months, 17 days ago) |
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That's amazing dude! Something to aspire to.
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durian_2008
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28498913 - 10/10/23 02:42 PM (3 months, 17 days ago) |
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As for the dry patches, I would say that younger people's problems are for the same reasons.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: pslyke]
#28499493 - 10/10/23 11:07 PM (3 months, 16 days ago) |
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pslyke said: That's amazing dude! Something to aspire to.
Lol no fucken joke. Thought I was doing good at 2x/week over here 
Actually still feel pretty good about that, I honestly donβt have the energy for 5x day shit anymore hehe
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008]
#28499588 - 10/11/23 02:25 AM (3 months, 16 days ago) |
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durian_2008 said:
As for the dry patches, I would say that younger people's problems are for the same reasons.
That's possible on my wife's side of things. When our kids were young she was frequently stressed and tired. Doesn't handle stress well. It showed up in the bedroom where she would have lack of energy or interest because she was burned out.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28502576 - 10/12/23 10:44 PM (3 months, 14 days ago) |
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same as i always did. i just do it a lot better
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: BeefSupremeJr]
#28512281 - 10/20/23 07:28 PM (3 months, 6 days ago) |
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at least once a month. it depends on me and my bf's schedule, our energy level, libido etc.
there's no pressure on each other to do anything, so it's quality when we do stuff. we're very affectionate otherwise.
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