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Re: That’s a turn on… [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
    #28574249 - 12/08/23 11:15 AM (1 month, 20 days ago)

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The emotional pain we feel regarding our partner's infidelity seems to be rooted in some type of notion of egotistical sexual ownership. 

And, as humans, maybe we shouldn't assume or expect any other human will keep their promises.  Is trusting someone to keep their promises wise?  Maybe we should assume others very well might not keep their promises.  Is that a jaded view - or simply realistic?




Good and valid points.
Easier said than done.
Im certainly jaded now. And not trusting or even sure if I believe in monogamy.
I would say Im still healing and figuring it out.


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Re: That’s a turn on… [Re: durian_2008]
    #28574255 - 12/08/23 11:21 AM (1 month, 20 days ago)

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Anonymous #3 said:
An attractive man that cheats is insecure and an insecure man is a sad thing to see
I wish it hadn't made you question your worth or attractiveness because his cheating had nothing to do with you
Trust me, I know you're attractive and so should you




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I often question my attractiveness which I didn't do before the infidelity.




I believe that men do not have to be attractive, though should be capable.




Capable in what ways?
My two other major relationships were with what society would deem as unattractive.
They were faithful though.


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Re: That’s a turn on… [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28574494 - 12/08/23 02:27 PM (1 month, 20 days ago)

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I believe that men do not have to be attractive, though should be capable.




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Capable in what ways?





I am not asking you to be Superman, but I once knew an especially fat person who could still pick up a motorcycle, yet who would be embarrassed to take of his shirt.  I don't feel that he should be embarrassed.

We should ideally be capable of the male gender role.

That does not require us to be vampish or present as a virgin.


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Re: That’s a turn on… [Re: durian_2008]
    #28574530 - 12/08/23 02:49 PM (1 month, 20 days ago)

I’ve seen chubby dudes do absolutely great with women. It’s all about confidence.


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Re: That’s a turn on… [Re: GenesisCorrupted]
    #28574538 - 12/08/23 02:53 PM (1 month, 20 days ago)

:whathesaid:

That's part of being in-character.


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    #28574559 - 12/08/23 03:12 PM (1 month, 20 days ago)

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I’ve seen chubby dudes do absolutely great with women. It’s all about confidence.




Confidence and having a fun personality :thumbup:


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Re: That’s a turn on… [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28574582 - 12/08/23 03:26 PM (1 month, 20 days ago)

When mgtow was still new, one of the first videos was of a radio personality, who rated his appearances in the negative, yet had all the women he wanted, due to material success.

Even if we want to say that this is just role play and being in character and a mating display, it might be considered a turn-on to be useful and needed.

Some kinds of independence are a tacit refusal to play. I def heard a snarky, crystal clear slogan about how she was self sufficient before a fof lost his million dollar home.


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    #28574681 - 12/08/23 04:53 PM (1 month, 20 days ago)

Yes
Love a confident person. And someone who is not needy. I have no desire to take care of an adult man.


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Re: That’s a turn on… [Re: GenesisCorrupted]
    #28577212 - 12/10/23 02:52 PM (1 month, 18 days ago)

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...some type of notion of egotistical sexual ownership. 




Otherwise, why are you making it official.


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