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kyu
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Chased by an obsessive woman 1
#28485686 - 09/28/23 11:15 AM (3 months, 28 days ago) |
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It's early to say, but it looks like me got a stalker, yaaay. Women. First they start thanking me for sex, then they stop breaking up with me, and now this. My deep empathy to all the women being chased and stalked by stupid morons.
So, the situation is that I spent a few months with a (far too much) romantic and persuasive woman. The story is pretty common: she was obviously quirky, but pretended to be just-a-bit-crazy-in-a-cute-way type at first, and then gradually revealed her true face (a lying-manipulative-narcissistic-nutcase-bitch face, to be precise), so, I decided to end things.
And that's where things started getting hairy. After trying a few manipulations unsuccessfully, she went in denial. I mean, she just refuses to comprehend the fact that we're not together anymore. I did tell her clearly and directly that I'm dumping her and it's not a discussion. Several times. That just doesn't sink in. I've blocked her everywhere, but she's trying to contact my friends and relatives, she's making her children text me, and it's getting quite creepy at this point. She hasn't showed up at my doorstep threatening to kill herself yet, but that's probably a matter of time, judging by the dynamics.
I've already changed my lock, but here's the question. Afaik, ignoring her consistently is the best and only solution. But her attempts are getting bolder, and I'm beginning to feel she won't stop soon. How would you suggest to deal with this situation? Like, keep ignoring her, or scare her off, or talk and let her exhaust all her arguments? I could say I've got syphilis or smth like that, it would give her a proper shock treatment.
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koraks
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
#28485754 - 09/28/23 12:33 PM (3 months, 28 days ago) |
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kyu said: How would you suggest to deal with this situation? Like, keep ignoring her
Yes, this would be me thought, combined with a consistent repetition of "I'm sorry, our relationship has ended and I'm not the person to talk to."
I don't believe any kind of shock tactic will be productive, neither will it work in the end to give her some kind of opportunity for catharsis etc. Basically, anything you would do to try and help her solve her own problems will likely be counterproductive.
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: koraks]
#28485844 - 09/28/23 02:15 PM (3 months, 28 days ago) |
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Have you thought of tampering with the brakes on her car?
Just ignore. Any communication will give her hope. Eventually she will move on and obsess over someone else.
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durian_2008
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Markamello]
#28486665 - 09/29/23 11:19 AM (3 months, 27 days ago) |
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You replace a bad habit with an acceptable one.
Set her up on a date.
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008]
#28487846 - 09/30/23 02:50 PM (3 months, 26 days ago) |
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PFA BITCHES
I SUPPORT MINE IN BLUE THANK YOU
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CRAZY BITCHES AND MY GHOSTS KEEPING ME FROM SHANKING A HO
anyway
Listen we all know what’s up so let’s stop playing dumb. Jewstress junction is open and if anyone has a problem they can fuck off.
Hope your stalker woman stops being so bold. Stalkers in any form are gross. I mean unless <_< >_> OH NO
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Jewstress]
#28487883 - 09/30/23 03:27 PM (3 months, 26 days ago) |
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Except for...
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a lying-manipulative-narcissistic-nutcase-bitch face
...a stalker is like a secret admirer.
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kyu
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008]
#28489683 - 10/02/23 07:22 AM (3 months, 25 days ago) |
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Okay, thanks ppl, stonewalling seems to work after all, and I feel much safer with a new set of keys. Or maybe she just hasn't managed to take a day off yet. It's not so easy to seriously stalk someone when you've got a full-time job and two kids. I guess we'll see.
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu] 1
#28489741 - 10/02/23 08:19 AM (3 months, 25 days ago) |
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kyu said: she was obviously quirky, but pretended to be just-a-bit-crazy-in-a-cute-way type at first, and then gradually revealed her true face (a lying-manipulative-narcissistic-nutcase-bitch face, to be precise)
Dude, that's all women Forget ignoring her. You should use the Dennis system on her si=2j45U-BQwPwjOI7p
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28490692 - 10/03/23 07:44 AM (3 months, 24 days ago) |
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Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤡
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durian_2008
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This is not intended to be literal advice. I am acknowledging my sexism.
For instance, is the stalker reproductively fit, can she cook, and does she like other women, too?
I am not saying to inflict physical or emotional pain upon women, just put them in memes about bad driving.
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johnnycubensis said: Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤡
Dude, this site is mostly to help people grow things that are illegal pretty much everywhere and a lot of it is about other things that are illegal. This ain't some woke fuckin safe space so I don't know where you think you are, but this isn't the place you think it is
Good luck with that attitude though
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28492063 - 10/04/23 02:04 PM (3 months, 22 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: This ain't some woke fuckin safe space
I dish it out, and I take it, depending on the thread. It's some of both.
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johnnycubensis said: Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤡
This guy shows he has 10 posts, but click on his name and it only shows 4 total posts and he's banned already. The post in this thread was literally the worst of the 4 you can see so what the heck happened?
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Markamello]
#28499491 - 10/10/23 11:03 PM (3 months, 16 days ago) |
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Markamello said: Have you thought of tampering with the brakes on her car?
Just ignore. Any communication will give her hope. Eventually she will move on and obsess over someone else.
Agreed, don’t even respond. I been stalked before and am probably lucky to have all my body parts in retrospect. Just never talk to her again, eventually her neurons will cool off and she’ll move on. No joke dude for your own sanity, do not engage!
Edited by Anonymous (10/10/23 11:04 PM)
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28499695 - 10/11/23 06:55 AM (3 months, 16 days ago) |
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johnnycubensis said: Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤡
Dude, this site is mostly to help people grow things that are illegal pretty much everywhere and a lot of it is about other things that are illegal. This ain't some woke fuckin safe space so I don't know where you think you are, but this isn't the place you think it is
Good luck with that attitude though
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28500697 - 10/11/23 07:40 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
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Try using profanity to let it sink in. Say something like, "we are through, stop f*cking stalking me, you crazy b*tch".
Sounds cruel but some people don't respond to subtlety.
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28500947 - 10/11/23 09:59 PM (3 months, 15 days ago) |
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Anonymous #3 said:
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johnnycubensis said: Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤡
Dude, this site is mostly to help people grow things that are illegal pretty much everywhere and a lot of it is about other things that are illegal. This ain't some woke fuckin safe space so I don't know where you think you are, but this isn't the place you think it is
Good luck with that attitude though
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
#28504386 - 10/14/23 01:47 PM (3 months, 12 days ago) |
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Yo! If you were a woman, this would be much more threatening at this phase. IMO Stay with somebody for a little while. Let the heat go down. In that time fill out and file a restraining order.
Establish boundaries strongly in a safe environment. Then retreat to a place they can’t find you again. You might need to move…. Never underestimate what an actually obsessed person is capable of. They don’t matter in their heads. Only you do.
Always maintain a safe distance. Never follow her into a room that you can’t get out of…
Edited by GenesisCorrupted (10/14/23 01:48 PM)
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Crazy bitches fuck the best of all of em though. Usually cuz of daddy issues or getting diddled by an uncle or something and this makes them really uninhibited. Think golf ball thru a garden hose kind of thing...
It's ok to stick your dick in crazy, just don't get sucked in and never forget that she isn't relationship material MOST IMPORTANTLY: DO NOT KNOCK HER UP!
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28504404 - 10/14/23 02:09 PM (3 months, 12 days ago) |
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OMG I hope that goes without saying. This is definitely the type of person that will poke holes in condoms to try and entrap you.
Crazy people need sex too. They just might kill you afterwards. 😝
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