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Chased by an obsessive woman * 1
    #28485686 - 09/28/23 11:15 AM (3 months, 29 days ago)

It's early to say, but it looks like me got a stalker, yaaay.
Women. First they start thanking me for sex, then they stop breaking up with me, and now this.
My deep empathy to all the women being chased and stalked by stupid morons.

So, the situation is that I spent a few months with a (far too much) romantic and persuasive woman. The story is pretty common: she was obviously quirky, but pretended to be just-a-bit-crazy-in-a-cute-way type at first, and then gradually revealed her true face (a lying-manipulative-narcissistic-nutcase-bitch face, to be precise), so, I decided to end things.

And that's where things started getting hairy. After trying a few manipulations unsuccessfully, she went in denial. I mean, she just refuses to comprehend the fact that we're not together anymore. I did tell her clearly and directly that I'm dumping her and it's not a discussion. Several times. That just doesn't sink in. I've blocked her everywhere, but she's trying to contact my friends and relatives, she's making her children text me, and it's getting quite creepy at this point. She hasn't showed up at my doorstep threatening to kill herself yet, but that's probably a matter of time, judging by the dynamics.

I've already changed my lock, but here's the question.
Afaik, ignoring her consistently is the best and only solution. But her attempts are getting bolder, and I'm beginning to feel she won't stop soon. How would you suggest to deal with this situation? Like, keep ignoring her, or scare her off, or talk and let her exhaust all her arguments? I could say I've got syphilis or smth like that, it would give her a proper shock treatment.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28485754 - 09/28/23 12:33 PM (3 months, 29 days ago)

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kyu said:
How would you suggest to deal with this situation? Like, keep ignoring her



Yes, this would be me thought, combined with a consistent repetition of "I'm sorry, our relationship has ended and I'm not the person to talk to."

I don't believe any kind of shock tactic will be productive, neither will it work in the end to give her some kind of opportunity for catharsis etc. Basically, anything you would do to try and help her solve her own problems will likely be counterproductive.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: koraks]
    #28485844 - 09/28/23 02:15 PM (3 months, 29 days ago)

Have you thought of tampering with the brakes on her car?

Just ignore. Any communication will give her hope. Eventually she will move on and obsess over someone else.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Markamello]
    #28486665 - 09/29/23 11:19 AM (3 months, 28 days ago)

You replace a bad habit with an acceptable one.

Set her up on a date.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008]
    #28487846 - 09/30/23 02:50 PM (3 months, 27 days ago)

PFA BITCHES

I SUPPORT MINE IN BLUE THANK YOU

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CRAZY BITCHES AND MY GHOSTS KEEPING ME FROM SHANKING A HO

anyway

Listen we all know what’s up so let’s stop playing dumb. Jewstress junction is open and if anyone has a problem they can fuck off.

Hope your stalker woman stops being so bold. Stalkers in any form are gross. I mean unless <_< >_> OH NO


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Jewstress]
    #28487883 - 09/30/23 03:27 PM (3 months, 27 days ago)

Except for...
Quote:

a lying-manipulative-narcissistic-nutcase-bitch face



...a stalker is like a secret admirer.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008]
    #28489683 - 10/02/23 07:22 AM (3 months, 25 days ago)

Okay, thanks ppl, stonewalling seems to work after all, and I feel much safer with a new set of keys.
Or maybe she just hasn't managed to take a day off yet. It's not so easy to seriously stalk someone when you've got a full-time job and two kids.
I guess we'll see.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu] * 1
    #28489741 - 10/02/23 08:19 AM (3 months, 25 days ago)

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kyu said:
she was obviously quirky, but pretended to be just-a-bit-crazy-in-a-cute-way type at first, and then gradually revealed her true face (a lying-manipulative-narcissistic-nutcase-bitch face, to be precise)




Dude, that's all women
Forget ignoring her.  You should use the Dennis system on her
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28490692 - 10/03/23 07:44 AM (3 months, 24 days ago)

Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤔


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: johnnycubensis]
    #28490748 - 10/03/23 08:41 AM (3 months, 24 days ago)

This is not intended to be literal advice. I am acknowledging my sexism.

For instance, is the stalker reproductively fit, can she cook, and does she like other women, too?

I am not saying to inflict physical or emotional pain upon women, just put them in memes about bad driving.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: johnnycubensis] * 1
    #28491774 - 10/04/23 07:10 AM (3 months, 23 days ago)

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Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤔




Dude, this site is mostly to help people grow things that are illegal pretty much everywhere and a lot of it is about other things that are illegal.  This ain't some woke fuckin safe space so I don't know where you think you are, but this isn't the place you think it is

Good luck with that attitude though
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28492063 - 10/04/23 02:04 PM (3 months, 23 days ago)

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This ain't some woke fuckin safe space




I dish it out, and I take it, depending on the thread. It's some of both.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: johnnycubensis]
    #28492840 - 10/05/23 07:48 AM (3 months, 22 days ago)

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johnnycubensis said:
Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤔




This guy shows he has 10 posts, but click on his name and it only shows 4 total posts and he's banned already.
The post in this thread was literally the worst of the 4 you can see so what the heck happened?


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Markamello]
    #28499491 - 10/10/23 11:03 PM (3 months, 16 days ago)

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Have you thought of tampering with the brakes on her car?

Just ignore. Any communication will give her hope. Eventually she will move on and obsess over someone else.




Agreed, don’t even respond. I been stalked before and am probably lucky to have all my body parts in retrospect. Just never talk to her again, eventually her neurons will cool off and she’ll move on. No joke dude for your own sanity, do not engage!


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28499695 - 10/11/23 06:55 AM (3 months, 16 days ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
Quote:

johnnycubensis said:
Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤔




Dude, this site is mostly to help people grow things that are illegal pretty much everywhere and a lot of it is about other things that are illegal.  This ain't some woke fuckin safe space so I don't know where you think you are, but this isn't the place you think it is

Good luck with that attitude though
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Rules...
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28500697 - 10/11/23 07:40 PM (3 months, 15 days ago)

Try using profanity to let it sink in.  Say something like, "we are through, stop f*cking stalking me, you crazy b*tch".

Sounds cruel but some people don't respond to subtlety.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28500947 - 10/11/23 09:59 PM (3 months, 15 days ago)

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Anonymous #3 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
Quote:

johnnycubensis said:
Wow for a forum who prides itself in following the "rules" and all of that, they sure do love having sexist content on their website! But nothing will be said about that, I am sure of it 😁🤔




Dude, this site is mostly to help people grow things that are illegal pretty much everywhere and a lot of it is about other things that are illegal.  This ain't some woke fuckin safe space so I don't know where you think you are, but this isn't the place you think it is

Good luck with that attitude though
:unimpressed:

Rules...
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Post of the year  :lmafo:




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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28504386 - 10/14/23 01:47 PM (3 months, 13 days ago)

Yo!
If you were a woman, this would be much more threatening at this phase.
IMO
Stay with somebody for a little while. Let the heat go down. In that time fill out and file a restraining order.

Establish boundaries strongly in a safe environment.
Then retreat to a place they can’t find you again.
You might need to move….
Never underestimate what an actually obsessed person is capable of. They don’t matter in their heads. Only you do.

Always maintain a safe distance.
Never follow her into a room that you can’t get out of…


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted] * 1
    #28504400 - 10/14/23 02:05 PM (3 months, 13 days ago)

Crazy bitches fuck the best of all of em though.  Usually cuz of daddy issues or getting diddled by an uncle or something and this makes them really uninhibited.  Think golf ball thru a garden hose kind of thing...

It's ok to stick your dick in crazy, just don't get sucked in and never forget that she isn't relationship material
MOST IMPORTANTLY: DO NOT KNOCK HER UP!


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28504404 - 10/14/23 02:09 PM (3 months, 13 days ago)

OMG I hope that goes without saying.
This is definitely the type of person that will poke holes in condoms to try and entrap you.

Crazy people need sex too. They just might kill you afterwards.
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted]
    #28504474 - 10/14/23 03:30 PM (3 months, 13 days ago)

Duh dude.  It also goes without saying that you always bring your own rubbers

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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28508121 - 10/17/23 01:02 PM (3 months, 10 days ago)

It isnt about being woke
Being respectful


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #28508679 - 10/17/23 08:08 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

:liottalol:


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28509467 - 10/18/23 12:51 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28509534 - 10/18/23 01:47 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

That is SO big.
For me it is anyhow.
The desire to be desired. I think most people seek that. To have someone show you and tell you.
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #28509558 - 10/18/23 02:02 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

There is a huge difference between being desired. And having someone obsessed with you. This is not a healthy or desirable thing to have. Just because it’s a woman doesn’t mean this is in any way less threatening.
This is a misconception a lot of dudes have because we spend so much time trying to find someone to love us. We think that having somebody actively hunting us is attractive.

It is anything but. It is somebody who has a fixsation on you that is unhealthy. They might hurt people you care about. Usually themselves or you because of that fixation. That is in no way attractive!


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted] * 1
    #28509566 - 10/18/23 02:17 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

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There is a huge difference between being desired. And having someone obsessed with you. This is not a healthy or desirable thing to have. Just because it’s a woman doesn’t mean this is in any way less threatening.
This is a misconception a lot of dudes have because we spend so much time trying to find someone to love us. We think that having somebody actively hunting us is attractive.

It is anything but. It is somebody who has a fixsation on you that is unhealthy. They might hurt people you care about. Usually themselves or you because of that fixation. That is in no way attractive!



Completely agree


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted]
    #28517330 - 10/25/23 03:11 AM (3 months, 2 days ago)

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There is a huge difference between being desired. And having someone obsessed with you. This is not a healthy or desirable thing to have. Just because it’s a woman doesn’t mean this is in any way less threatening.
This is a misconception a lot of dudes have because we spend so much time trying to find someone to love us. We think that having somebody actively hunting us is attractive.

It is anything but. It is somebody who has a fixsation on you that is unhealthy. They might hurt people you care about. Usually themselves or you because of that fixation. That is in no way attractive!




I gotta admit, the situation is flattering on some level, but it's also humiliating.

Over the course of the relationship I kept feeling that she has this grandiose romantic dream about a perfect soulmate, and I'm being reduced to a character in that dream. Her dream.
I didn't matter, it could be anyone who can be forced to play this predefined role.
My real desires or feelings didn't matter, including my decision to break up.
My personal life and independent existence were treated as an obstacle to her acting out on this fantasy.

Hence, and I'm saying this as a convinced feminist, fuck the bitch, I wouldn't give a shit even if she got pregnant.

If anyone finds themselves in a similar situation, do as grandpa Gandalf advised: "Fly, you fools". It's gonna be worse.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28517333 - 10/25/23 03:17 AM (3 months, 2 days ago)

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Crazy bitches fuck the best of all of em though.  Usually cuz of daddy issues or getting diddled by an uncle or something and this makes them really uninhibited.  Think golf ball thru a garden hose kind of thing...

It's ok to stick your dick in crazy, just don't get sucked in and never forget that she isn't relationship material
MOST IMPORTANTLY: DO NOT KNOCK HER UP!




Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28517735 - 10/25/23 01:29 PM (3 months, 2 days ago)

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durian_2008 said:
Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.



Quote:

kyu said:
Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.




:poast: She would have done anything for sex with you.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008] * 1
    #28518590 - 10/26/23 07:29 AM (3 months, 1 day ago)

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durian_2008 said:
Quote:

durian_2008 said:
Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.



Quote:

kyu said:
Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.




:poast: She would have done anything for sex with you.




Gotta say, I'd rather fuck an evil woman any day over a "good" girl that loves god and is afraid of her sexuality because of some god issues


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28518607 - 10/26/23 07:44 AM (3 months, 1 day ago)

Does she eat her own boogers, have a unibrow, or what was so about life with someone who was trying that hard. It seems like you could just say what you want.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28518851 - 10/26/23 11:58 AM (3 months, 1 day ago)

Yeah, sex with crazy is amazing.
But that same freedom applies to everything.
You’ll come home and she’ll be banging the milkman.
Then, when you ask what the hell. She might ask you to join.šŸ˜‚

It’s emotionally taxing to pursue that relationship. I was deeply in love with an unstable woman. But she broke my heart within the same week that I met her.

I can’t even imagine what would’ve happened if I had tried to pursue an actual long lasting relationship with that person.

I swallowed sadness.

Then I went home.
Within a week, she was begging me to come back.
That just confirmed that I had made the correct decision.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28518856 - 10/26/23 12:03 PM (3 months, 1 day ago)

Maybe, she was some kind of terrible pig, like from Princess Mononoke.

:shrug: I wasn't there.

Correct me if I am wrong, but you have never specifically mentioned any negative qualities other than her energetic devotion to you.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008]
    #28519056 - 10/26/23 03:21 PM (3 months, 1 day ago)

I will agree with Durian, that you could have more examples.
But I think the fact that he had to post this. Means that he felt threatened.
Which is enough of a reason.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted] * 1
    #28520856 - 10/28/23 06:15 AM (2 months, 30 days ago)

Okay, here's the story.
We met about a year ago and went on a date. Eventually, she decided to ghost me and date another dude, and I was like 'okay, whatever'.
So, after that dude dumped her, she remembered about me and basically harassed me into a relationship, even though I was already casually dating someone else and wasn't looking for more. Again, I was like 'okay, whatever, let's give it a try'.

She instantly launched intense love bombing and started making huge amounts of unsolicited gifts and favors. Literally from the first day of out relationship, I was 'the one'. I see it as a manipulative strategy: 'I'll do anything for you, but you owe me big time. I'm all yours, but my whole life depends on you'. Okay, whatever, I don't mind returning a few favors and play romantic games, as long as it's not something unacceptable.

A few months in, I found out that she was actually 40 and not 34 (I'm 31). Okay, whatever. A bit later, it turned out she has two kids. Okay, whatever, I don't mind a MILF actually.
Then, she urged me to meet her parents and introduce her to mine, and started strongly insisting on moving in together. With her and her two kids that she was so ashamed of. Now, I was like 'Weeeelll, I need to think about it. Any other surprises, by the way?'

I guess my hesitance made her feel insecure, cuz that's about when the jealousy kicked in. It began as innocent curiosity about whom am I texting and how am I spending my free time, but pretty soon it took other forms. It wasn't long before I felt like I had to explain myself every time I had any plans that didn't include her, and even that didn't prevent constant accusations and arguments.

I decided that I don't want to see where it goes after we had three consecutive and rather epic fights about stupid stuff:
- Me going to hang out with an old friend.
- Me jerking off to porn instead of my girlfriend.
- Me having a drink with my buddies after rehearsal.

Whenever I tried to discuss problems or be unhappy about something, she would accuse me of being petty and vindictive and suggest following her example: think positive thoughts and accept everything as is. Reminding her of her own issues would cause a truly hysterical reaction.

When I decided to dump her, I still had some doubts. Like, was I too paranoid or defensive, was there a misunderstanding? But her behavior after the breakup kind of settled it.

So, here are the problems:
- Rushing things, love bombing, other manipulations
- Hiding relevant info about herself
- Jealousy
- Narcissism


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28520963 - 10/28/23 09:34 AM (2 months, 30 days ago)

I feel possessive, so wasn't ok with infidelity. Age was an issue, but not as important as gaslighting and bodycount, afaic.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008] * 1
    #28521011 - 10/28/23 10:54 AM (2 months, 30 days ago)


Being in her position is not fun, the video is funny though.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28523109 - 10/30/23 07:28 AM (2 months, 28 days ago)

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Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.



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kyu said:
Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.




:poast: She would have done anything for sex with you.




Gotta say, I'd rather fuck an evil woman any day over a "good" girl that loves god and is afraid of her sexuality because of some god issues





You obviously don’t get how freaky church girls are and are just waiting for their bi husbands to come out the closest so they can unleash their freak side


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Jewstress]
    #28523208 - 10/30/23 10:00 AM (2 months, 28 days ago)

One of the favorite church services I’ve ever had to attend.
I met someone online. I was going to go to their birthday. They’re older sister was in church with us.
For the entire church service…

They were drawing Yuri porn. Pretty darn well also.
I wore a Catholic necklace to that Mormon church. Just to mess with them. So I thought it was hilarious.

Super weird, sexy experience followed.
Agreed that religious girls are the most repressed sexually.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008]
    #28523273 - 10/30/23 11:07 AM (2 months, 28 days ago)

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I feel possessive, so wasn't ok with infidelity. Age was an issue, but not as important as gaslighting and bodycount, afaic.




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Being in her position is not fun, the video is funny though.




:whathesaid: Married discussions.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted] * 1
    #28523918 - 10/30/23 08:51 PM (2 months, 27 days ago)

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One of the favorite church services I’ve ever had to attend.
I met someone online. I was going to go to their birthday. They’re older sister was in church with us.
For the entire church service…

They were drawing Yuri porn. Pretty darn well also.
I wore a Catholic necklace to that Mormon church. Just to mess with them. So I thought it was hilarious.

Super weird, sexy experience followed.
Agreed that religious girls are the most repressed sexually.




They are only repressed if the counter part in their life represses them.

Their love lives are more of a chess game than an atheist


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Jewstress]
    #28523920 - 10/30/23 08:53 PM (2 months, 27 days ago)

That whole houshold was messed up. It was a literal nightmare birthday. I will write it down at some point.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Jewstress]
    #28524018 - 10/30/23 09:43 PM (2 months, 27 days ago)

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Anonymous #1 said:
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durian_2008 said:
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durian_2008 said:
Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.



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kyu said:
Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.




:poast: She would have done anything for sex with you.




Gotta say, I'd rather fuck an evil woman any day over a "good" girl that loves god and is afraid of her sexuality because of some god issues





You obviously don’t get how freaky church girls are and are just waiting for their bi husbands to come out the closest so they can unleash their freak side




You got me there. I forgot about a few churchy girls I knew in my younger days that were pretty raunchy (in a good way)


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