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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted]
    #28504474 - 10/14/23 03:30 PM (3 months, 13 days ago)

Duh dude.  It also goes without saying that you always bring your own rubbers

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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28508121 - 10/17/23 01:02 PM (3 months, 10 days ago)

It isnt about being woke
Being respectful


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #28508679 - 10/17/23 08:08 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

:liottalol:


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28509467 - 10/18/23 12:51 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28509534 - 10/18/23 01:47 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

That is SO big.
For me it is anyhow.
The desire to be desired. I think most people seek that. To have someone show you and tell you.
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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #4] * 1
    #28509558 - 10/18/23 02:02 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

There is a huge difference between being desired. And having someone obsessed with you. This is not a healthy or desirable thing to have. Just because it’s a woman doesn’t mean this is in any way less threatening.
This is a misconception a lot of dudes have because we spend so much time trying to find someone to love us. We think that having somebody actively hunting us is attractive.

It is anything but. It is somebody who has a fixsation on you that is unhealthy. They might hurt people you care about. Usually themselves or you because of that fixation. That is in no way attractive!


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted] * 1
    #28509566 - 10/18/23 02:17 PM (3 months, 9 days ago)

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There is a huge difference between being desired. And having someone obsessed with you. This is not a healthy or desirable thing to have. Just because it’s a woman doesn’t mean this is in any way less threatening.
This is a misconception a lot of dudes have because we spend so much time trying to find someone to love us. We think that having somebody actively hunting us is attractive.

It is anything but. It is somebody who has a fixsation on you that is unhealthy. They might hurt people you care about. Usually themselves or you because of that fixation. That is in no way attractive!



Completely agree


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted]
    #28517330 - 10/25/23 03:11 AM (3 months, 2 days ago)

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There is a huge difference between being desired. And having someone obsessed with you. This is not a healthy or desirable thing to have. Just because it’s a woman doesn’t mean this is in any way less threatening.
This is a misconception a lot of dudes have because we spend so much time trying to find someone to love us. We think that having somebody actively hunting us is attractive.

It is anything but. It is somebody who has a fixsation on you that is unhealthy. They might hurt people you care about. Usually themselves or you because of that fixation. That is in no way attractive!




I gotta admit, the situation is flattering on some level, but it's also humiliating.

Over the course of the relationship I kept feeling that she has this grandiose romantic dream about a perfect soulmate, and I'm being reduced to a character in that dream. Her dream.
I didn't matter, it could be anyone who can be forced to play this predefined role.
My real desires or feelings didn't matter, including my decision to break up.
My personal life and independent existence were treated as an obstacle to her acting out on this fantasy.

Hence, and I'm saying this as a convinced feminist, fuck the bitch, I wouldn't give a shit even if she got pregnant.

If anyone finds themselves in a similar situation, do as grandpa Gandalf advised: "Fly, you fools". It's gonna be worse.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28517333 - 10/25/23 03:17 AM (3 months, 2 days ago)

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Crazy bitches fuck the best of all of em though.  Usually cuz of daddy issues or getting diddled by an uncle or something and this makes them really uninhibited.  Think golf ball thru a garden hose kind of thing...

It's ok to stick your dick in crazy, just don't get sucked in and never forget that she isn't relationship material
MOST IMPORTANTLY: DO NOT KNOCK HER UP!




Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28517735 - 10/25/23 01:29 PM (3 months, 2 days ago)

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Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.



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Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.




:poast: She would have done anything for sex with you.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008] * 1
    #28518590 - 10/26/23 07:29 AM (3 months, 1 day ago)

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Quote:

durian_2008 said:
Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.



Quote:

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Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.




:poast: She would have done anything for sex with you.




Gotta say, I'd rather fuck an evil woman any day over a "good" girl that loves god and is afraid of her sexuality because of some god issues


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28518607 - 10/26/23 07:44 AM (3 months, 1 day ago)

Does she eat her own boogers, have a unibrow, or what was so about life with someone who was trying that hard. It seems like you could just say what you want.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28518851 - 10/26/23 11:58 AM (3 months, 1 day ago)

Yeah, sex with crazy is amazing.
But that same freedom applies to everything.
You’ll come home and she’ll be banging the milkman.
Then, when you ask what the hell. She might ask you to join.😂

It’s emotionally taxing to pursue that relationship. I was deeply in love with an unstable woman. But she broke my heart within the same week that I met her.

I can’t even imagine what would’ve happened if I had tried to pursue an actual long lasting relationship with that person.

I swallowed sadness.

Then I went home.
Within a week, she was begging me to come back.
That just confirmed that I had made the correct decision.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28518856 - 10/26/23 12:03 PM (3 months, 1 day ago)

Maybe, she was some kind of terrible pig, like from Princess Mononoke.

:shrug: I wasn't there.

Correct me if I am wrong, but you have never specifically mentioned any negative qualities other than her energetic devotion to you.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: durian_2008]
    #28519056 - 10/26/23 03:21 PM (3 months, 1 day ago)

I will agree with Durian, that you could have more examples.
But I think the fact that he had to post this. Means that he felt threatened.
Which is enough of a reason.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: GenesisCorrupted] * 1
    #28520856 - 10/28/23 06:15 AM (2 months, 30 days ago)

Okay, here's the story.
We met about a year ago and went on a date. Eventually, she decided to ghost me and date another dude, and I was like 'okay, whatever'.
So, after that dude dumped her, she remembered about me and basically harassed me into a relationship, even though I was already casually dating someone else and wasn't looking for more. Again, I was like 'okay, whatever, let's give it a try'.

She instantly launched intense love bombing and started making huge amounts of unsolicited gifts and favors. Literally from the first day of out relationship, I was 'the one'. I see it as a manipulative strategy: 'I'll do anything for you, but you owe me big time. I'm all yours, but my whole life depends on you'. Okay, whatever, I don't mind returning a few favors and play romantic games, as long as it's not something unacceptable.

A few months in, I found out that she was actually 40 and not 34 (I'm 31). Okay, whatever. A bit later, it turned out she has two kids. Okay, whatever, I don't mind a MILF actually.
Then, she urged me to meet her parents and introduce her to mine, and started strongly insisting on moving in together. With her and her two kids that she was so ashamed of. Now, I was like 'Weeeelll, I need to think about it. Any other surprises, by the way?'

I guess my hesitance made her feel insecure, cuz that's about when the jealousy kicked in. It began as innocent curiosity about whom am I texting and how am I spending my free time, but pretty soon it took other forms. It wasn't long before I felt like I had to explain myself every time I had any plans that didn't include her, and even that didn't prevent constant accusations and arguments.

I decided that I don't want to see where it goes after we had three consecutive and rather epic fights about stupid stuff:
- Me going to hang out with an old friend.
- Me jerking off to porn instead of my girlfriend.
- Me having a drink with my buddies after rehearsal.

Whenever I tried to discuss problems or be unhappy about something, she would accuse me of being petty and vindictive and suggest following her example: think positive thoughts and accept everything as is. Reminding her of her own issues would cause a truly hysterical reaction.

When I decided to dump her, I still had some doubts. Like, was I too paranoid or defensive, was there a misunderstanding? But her behavior after the breakup kind of settled it.

So, here are the problems:
- Rushing things, love bombing, other manipulations
- Hiding relevant info about herself
- Jealousy
- Narcissism


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: kyu]
    #28520963 - 10/28/23 09:34 AM (2 months, 30 days ago)

I feel possessive, so wasn't ok with infidelity. Age was an issue, but not as important as gaslighting and bodycount, afaic.


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    #28521011 - 10/28/23 10:54 AM (2 months, 30 days ago)


Being in her position is not fun, the video is funny though.


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28523109 - 10/30/23 07:28 AM (2 months, 28 days ago)

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Quote:

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durian_2008 said:
Tell her what you think are attractive traits, and see if she's still interested.



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Lemme confirm that. The sex was amazing, no limits, no taboos. Shit, I thought I had tried everything before I met her.
That, I'm gonna miss like hell. Still not worth it though.
The devil tempts, the devil bargains.




:poast: She would have done anything for sex with you.




Gotta say, I'd rather fuck an evil woman any day over a "good" girl that loves god and is afraid of her sexuality because of some god issues





You obviously don’t get how freaky church girls are and are just waiting for their bi husbands to come out the closest so they can unleash their freak side


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Re: Chased by an obsessive woman [Re: Jewstress]
    #28523208 - 10/30/23 10:00 AM (2 months, 28 days ago)

One of the favorite church services I’ve ever had to attend.
I met someone online. I was going to go to their birthday. They’re older sister was in church with us.
For the entire church service…

They were drawing Yuri porn. Pretty darn well also.
I wore a Catholic necklace to that Mormon church. Just to mess with them. So I thought it was hilarious.

Super weird, sexy experience followed.
Agreed that religious girls are the most repressed sexually.


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