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CaptainTrips420
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I want to be Gay
#28449576 - 08/28/23 09:13 AM (4 months, 29 days ago) |
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I am verry depressed because I don't find any men attractive at all. I find almost any skinny woman attractive but have never meet a woman I get along with in my entire life. I like a lot of guys they seem respectful to me women treat me like I am a bug on the bottom of their shoes. They have no respect for anyone but women. I would love to find a woman that treated me like an equal not lesser than them. I get along with guys so much better they are way less sensitive, women are like delicate flowers and super high maintenance the littlest things set them off. I would love to be gay I don't like women for anything but their physical features.
I just never meet a woman with a good personality always stuck-up women with control problems and a God complex. I was thinking about trying to date a Gay man eventually but need blind folds so I dont have to look at them and it will help them not see me cry.
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Maybe you need to date a crossdresser.
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koraks
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CaptainTrips420 said: I find almost any skinny woman attractive but have never meet a woman I get along with in my entire life.
Yeah, well, if attractiveness in a woman boils down to 'being skinny', I can see how women don't appear to be getting along with you very well. There's more to them than a certain number if inches around the waist.
Anyway, sorry to hear about your issue. My take on this is that you're basically just frustrated/jealous and therefore try to construct a story where it's women's fault for being 'that way'. Your lack of success in the dating scene might be due to some fairly simply stuff like not really putting yourself out there, not making an effort, going out there with unrealistic expectations, etc. etc. Given that fact that most people tend to land themselves a partner at some point (and usually, several points) in their life, odds are that it's in the stars for you as well. It's a combination of having a bit of luck and doing what's reasonable to help the odds a little. The first is not in your hands; the second you can work on.
Keep it up, don't give up, don't blame anyone including yourself, and get back on the horse.
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: koraks] 1
#28449871 - 08/28/23 12:57 PM (4 months, 29 days ago) |
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Pretty sure there are plenty of skinny, stuck up, gay dudes out there who would treat you like shit too.. Some people just aren't going to be into you, it happens. Like Koraks said, all you can do is work on yourself.
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: Lynnch] 1
#28449926 - 08/28/23 01:43 PM (4 months, 29 days ago) |
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Its mostly because I am not rich it seems they just want someone that pays the bills while they cheat on you. I find fat women as attractive as men. I would rather date a man than a transgender and don't like drag queens it's disgusting.
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If you want to find a chick that likes you, find some non-drug group hobbies. See if there aren't any team sports or maybe try to get into improv or enroll in the local community college to meet people and learn things.
Women are people, some people suck, some people really suck, but most people are fine.
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If the only kind of chick you're attracted to is the kind of chick that is only attracted to money, then, get a job I guess?
But I gotta tell ya, I've hooked up with my share of chicks and never paid their bills.
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Have you tried dating sites where you are able to pick and choose.
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U just gotta take more shroooooms! 
I kid i kid.
Maybe stop chasing shallow women and start chasing secure career women that dont need money from a man? Then you can attract them with your personality instead of your wallet. And maybe dont chase the real skinny ones as they can be a bit too sensitive with their feelings sometimes.
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How old are you?
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Some people say being gay is actually really fun. I wouldn't know though. But some say having anal sex every night with someone you love is a very fantastic life.
If you feel like this is something you need to try then by all means try it.
Me though I can't get enough of the females but I know what it's like to have them ruin your life
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CaptainTrips420 said: Its mostly because I am not rich
Then work on that. Get rich. Get yourself a nice gold digger - a skinny blonde with big tits, preferably. Ride that wave for a couple of years until she ditches your judgmental ass, taking a considerable chunk out of your material possessions. At that point, you'll be faced with an opportunity, or a crossroads, if you will:
1: repeat the gold digger experience. Some guys do this 5 or 6 times until death parts them with their latest trophy, leaving a rather chaotic heritage, a string of estranged offspring and a bit of a funny reputation.
2: re-evaluate priorities, and select a new partner based on other merits. They may or may not be skinny. They may or may not have a penis. After the gold digger experience, there's a chance you'll have learned a thing or two about yourself and about people in general, and if that's the case, there's a better chance of having a mutually satisfying relationship.
Of course, you could skip to #2 immediately, but it takes some effort in terms of sorting yourself out, reflecting on life, priorities and your own character (emphasizing the nasty sides of it to see how you might make those a little more palatable). You'll come across questions like "what exactly is it I have to offer to a prospective partner"? It's a question that's fairly easily answered in the case of most people (homicidal maniacs excepted, for the most part), but that also requires some effort to put into practice. I.e., you have something to offer, but in presenting that to a prospective partner, try not to shoot yourself in the foot as much as you're doing now.
Anyway, lots of opportunities ahead, also some work to be done; get cracking. Or keep whining about it, of course, but that's not going to get you anywhere and at most it'll give you some more negative feedback and criticism as you've been receiving in this thread. What's it going to be?
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Part of the problem is the way you're talking about women on this thread.
Why would a woman want to be with someone who feels all these negative things about them? Even if you try to hide these things, it's probably going to come out in the way you treat them and the things you say.
No one wants to be with someone who thinks they're a "delicate super high maintenance stuck-up wallflower with control problems and a god complex who gets set off by the smallest thing and only cares about money and just wants someone who pays the bills while they cheat." That in and of itself going to drive all women away, even if you try to hide how you feel. Also tons of women (even very skinny ones) honestly think they're fat, so your belief that "fat women are just as unattractive as men" is going to drive pretty much all women away, even the ones who don't think they're fat. When a woman thinks to herself "would he still like me if I was fat?" how do you think she'd feel about you in that moment?
I went from having not much money to having a lot, and it didn't change my dating life at all. If you think that's going to have any impact, you're dead wrong.
The problem is not your looks, or your money. So get back on that horse and keep trying. Expect to get turned down hundreds of times, that's normal.
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. . . women treat me like I am a bug on the bottom of their shoes.
I wonder if courtship between men is much easier and more honest.
Gay men sometimes talk about how easy it is to get a date . . .
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: nooneman]
#28451329 - 08/29/23 04:03 PM (4 months, 28 days ago) |
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nooneman said:
Why would a woman want to be with someone who feels all these negative things about them? Even if you try to hide these things, it's probably going to come out in the way you treat them and the things you say.
I struggle with this sometimes. Very good point. Men often believe they must "sell" themselves when they court a woman. Of course, there is some truth to that. Courtship is a game. Woman are looking for certain traits in a man. Men are not quite as particular maybe?
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Expect to get turned down hundreds of times, that's normal.
Since the dawn of our species, women have always had power over men.
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Sounds like you've been listening to what other men who can't get women (because of their personality) say about women only wanting money etc. obviously you struggle to enjoy the company of women when you've already decided you hate them. Rich men are not the only ones in relationships and studies show men are more likely to cheat than women. I don't think you can just force yourself to be gay and I don't think you should do that just because you've so far had bad experiences with women.
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. . . women treat me like I am a bug on the bottom of their shoes.
I wonder if courtship between men is much easier and more honest.
Gay men sometimes talk about how easy it is to get a date . . .
Ime gay relationships even lesbian ones are often fraught with disloyalty. I think they may be honest that to a fault.. like they want this new dick/ass and they aren't going to let anything stop them? So dunno If this is the kind of honesty or situational instance where we could say it's easier or more honest of a relation.. Gay dudes def have no prob finding gay dates it's like that crew is Uber willing and men are "simpler" would be my best explanation..
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Why would a woman want to be with someone who feels all these negative things about them? Even if you try to hide these things, it's probably going to come out in the way you treat them and the things you say.
I struggle with this sometimes. Very good point. Men often believe they must "sell" themselves when they court a woman. Of course, there is some truth to that. Courtship is a game. Woman are looking for certain traits in a man. Men are not quite as particular maybe?
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Expect to get turned down hundreds of times, that's normal.
Since the dawn of our species, women have always had power over men.
I struggle similarly, but more bc of low expectations for humans ,in general, regardless of gender. I've had luck just being me , that's the game I play, if they are into that, then we can continue to play ball, and this into the last statement, I find if a woman is ok with my character/personality; it's often a sign of a woman that better deals with this power that they certainly have to an extent. Then it becomes of import how that woman deals with that power, and while I've had less luck with that long term. The ones I want to and have spent the most time with, are certainly kinder about the wielding of said power. We are all equals at the end of it, women should be able to operate closer to this, rather than use our biology to their "favor"
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: ashfiken] 6
#28452479 - 08/30/23 02:40 PM (4 months, 27 days ago) |
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Don’t take this the wrong way, but you seem really young OP, way too young to be reciting jaded and defeatist incel talking points.
You are posting on a website about psychedelics so I am going to assume you understand how powerful perception is. Your perception is totally out of wack, of not only women but of yourself. How you perceive both yourself and the world around you is the foundation upon which you build your reality. Using an extreme example, if a paranoid person believes themselves to be stocked, subconsciously they will constantly be on alert for anything that will support that narrative, suddenly even the smallest coincidence can become undeniable truth for them of some sort of wide spread conspiracy against them. Our brains are very power and pesky things that are constantly trying to convince us of things that aren’t always true.
Based purely off your post, you perceive women as… - Disrespectful - Condescending - High Maintenance - Unpredictable - Stuck Up - Money Grubbing - Controlling - Egotistical
If you live your life with this view of women, your brain will subconsciously highlight any interaction that supports that narrative and ignore any interaction that challenges it. That’s not to say some women aren’t any of these things on a bad day, but these are all broad generalizations. Let’s take a sentence you posted and replace “women” with “people from Alabama.”
“I just never meet a person from Alabama with a good personality always stuck-up people from Alabama with control problems and a God complex”
You see how silly that is? You might meet someone from Alabama with control issues and a god complex but taking the leap to say EVERYONE from Alabama is that way is rather preposterous. So when the population of Alabama is 5 million and there are close to 4 billion women in the world, I hope you see my point.
I am not trying to discount the fact that you may have met some genuinely horrible women, there are shitty women out there just the same as there as shitty men. But if I were to say, “All men are dangerous perverts.” just because of the actions of a small subset of men that would be just as preposterous as what you are saying. Plain and simple, the average woman does not hate men. Men are our fathers, our brothers, our sons and our close lifelong friends.
If you live your life seeing women as villains they are going to become villains. If you do not respect women, and view them all to be vain and hateful, then why would you expect them to respect you in return? If I had to guess, the way you perceive women is affecting the way you interact with them more than you notice. You might not notice or recognize it, but they do.
And again, that’s not to say some women can’t be horrible, especially younger women who haven’t kicked the high school bullshit phase of their lives. I know that first hand. I was homeschooled for all but my Junior and Senior years of highschool and those two years almost killed me. It made me hate humans and hate the world for years afterwards. But those were just the actions of young confused people during a very confusing phase of their lives. I’m sure many of them grew up to be perfectly respectable and caring people as they found themselves over the years.
I also think it’s important that you change how you perceive yourself just as much as it is to change how you perceive women. It sounds to me like you have a big confidence issue, and that is something people are able to pick up on. The fact your brain jumps straight to, “I wish I was gay because all women hate me and will always hate me and there is absolutely no hope for me at all,” speaks volumes to me. I’m sorry but that’s completely bullshit. You are valid. You are lovable. And you are enough. Everyone is. Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it won’t, and telling yourself it will never happen is doing you no favors. By telling yourself all women hate you and will always hate you, you are making that into a reality. If you close off your heart to women to protect yourself is it any wonder that no one can get it? The door is already closed.
This post is starting to run a little long, so I will try starting to wrap it up. OP, you are not a lost cause. You just might want to start rethinking how you view both yourself and women. Persecution really is a powerful thing. If you have the resources for it, therapy might be something very helpful for you in dealing with these issues. Please do not get mad at me for this suggestion, or think it an insult. Therapy is a very powerful tool used by millions of people and I have been using it for years.
Please know that this post comes from a place of genuine care, support, and understanding. Just because I am a woman I hope you don’t take this as just some “foid” on the internet lecturing you. The world is already lonely and depressing enough without automatically writing off over half of the world's population as your enemy. I hope you find something of value in this post and I truly and honestly do hope the best for you.
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: SARAtonin]
#28452516 - 08/30/23 03:27 PM (4 months, 27 days ago) |
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Is it easy to get therapy for years when you have vast amounts of money and you can pay for it? I mean owning that estate in Canada. Looks like big bucks. Did you ever find that servant that you were going to carefully carefully carefully filter who was going to live there and take care of the place interviewed by you and the first lady?
I have lots of money too and can pay for lots of therapy too. I'm just not sure if I have as much as you have. I don't own like 30 acres or anything like that.
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So many thoughtful responses. And the most thoughtful of them is from *drum roll*
a woman. imagine that.
Heres something you can put in your pocket forever and ever.
If you find yourself at odds with an entire cross section of people, the issue probably isnt those people. its you.
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High maintenance = actually wants an emotional connection
Gold digging = is wary of dating another bum with no ambition or motivation to be self sufficient
I get along with dudes more easily than women too but that would be especially true if I excluded all the women I am exclusively friends with.
When women see a dude who has a bunch of dude bro friends and no girl friends and she immediately sees flags.
I don't think you would be much happier with the sort of men you attract into long term relationships.
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: nooneman]
#28453677 - 08/31/23 02:20 PM (4 months, 26 days ago) |
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Yes!!!!!
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nooneman said: Part of the problem is the way you're talking about women on this thread.
Why would a woman want to be with someone who feels all these negative things about them? Even if you try to hide these things, it's probably going to come out in the way you treat them and the things you say.
No one wants to be with someone who thinks they're a "delicate super high maintenance stuck-up wallflower with control problems and a god complex who gets set off by the smallest thing and only cares about money and just wants someone who pays the bills while they cheat." That in and of itself going to drive all women away, even if you try to hide how you feel. Also tons of women (even very skinny ones) honestly think they're fat, so your belief that "fat women are just as unattractive as men" is going to drive pretty much all women away, even the ones who don't think they're fat. When a woman thinks to herself "would he still like me if I was fat?" how do you think she'd feel about you in that moment?
I went from having not much money to having a lot, and it didn't change my dating life at all. If you think that's going to have any impact, you're dead wrong.
The problem is not your looks, or your money. So get back on that horse and keep trying. Expect to get turned down hundreds of times, that's normal.
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nooneman said: Part of the problem is the way you're talking about women on this thread.
Why would a woman want to be with someone who feels all these negative things about them? Even if you try to hide these things, it's probably going to come out in the way you treat them and the things you say.
No one wants to be with someone who thinks they're a "delicate super high maintenance stuck-up wallflower with control problems and a god complex who gets set off by the smallest thing and only cares about money and just wants someone who pays the bills while they cheat." That in and of itself going to drive all women away, even if you try to hide how you feel. Also tons of women (even very skinny ones) honestly think they're fat, so your belief that "fat women are just as unattractive as men" is going to drive pretty much all women away, even the ones who don't think they're fat. When a woman thinks to herself "would he still like me if I was fat?" how do you think she'd feel about you in that moment?
I went from having not much money to having a lot, and it didn't change my dating life at all. If you think that's going to have any impact, you're dead wrong.
The problem is not your looks, or your money. So get back on that horse and keep trying. Expect to get turned down hundreds of times, that's normal.
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Thats a hard truth to here. We all have to ask ourselves that often. If you are the problem, its an easier fix, you cant change others, you can change yourself.
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BeefSupremeJr said: So many thoughtful responses. And the most thoughtful of them is from *drum roll*
a woman. imagine that.
Heres something you can put in your pocket forever and ever.
If you find yourself at odds with an entire cross section of people, the issue probably isnt those people. its you.
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loladoreen said: Thats a hard truth to here. We all have to ask ourselves that often. If you are the problem, its an easier fix, you cant change others, you can change yourself.
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BeefSupremeJr said: So many thoughtful responses. And the most thoughtful of them is from *drum roll*
a woman. imagine that.
Heres something you can put in your pocket forever and ever.
If you find yourself at odds with an entire cross section of people, the issue probably isnt those people. its you.
my grandpa told me that at a young age. I think at the time I didnt quite grasp what he was trying to say. "But all these people are mean to me so how can that be my fault".
for sure sometimes people will yuck your yum but its a virtue to learn to step over most subtle forms of bullshit. That is how giants are made.
For the same reason, I refuse to get into it about politics with other working class people. For sure some of them make my eye twitch with their bad opinions and attitudes but I remind myself that theyre just playing the part they were assigned. Multi-trillion dollar brainwash machine go brrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
There are real enemies in this world and seldom are they other working class people. Of course theres assholes out there but its plain to see that most of them are just suffering and hissing and spitting venom.
The true enemy are the mega-weatlhy ruling class. If you dont have a problem with the wealth hoarding dragons of this world, Id say you lack compassion for those suffering the most from it and that is why is say "probably" its you and not them. sometimes theres a man..
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CookieCrumbs said:
When women see a dude who has a bunch of dude bro friends and no girl friends and she immediately sees flags.
It can be difficult and challenging for males to have close female friends. A guy with a girlfriend or wife is at risk of being accused of having an "emotional affair". And single females are often reluctant to have a close relationship with a single male. I've had female friends become suspicious of my motivations for wanting to spend some time with them. Once I was asked, "What do you want from me?" Men are often stereotyped as "horn dogs" with only one thing on their mind.
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I would agree that is a very stereotypical response sometimes. My best friend was a man for 20+ years. He was the maid of honor at my wedding. At the time I was young, 20 yo and did not understand the big deal of me spending the night with him, etc. FYI we have never been physical ever. I was immature and didn't understand others points of views. Now.. .I understand but I am not sure I would of done things different. He was my best friend and I never gave a reason for anyone to be suspicious. But I understand now as an older adult, why they would be if they were. I honestly didnt care then and I wouldnt care now. He is an amazing human.
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Bc of hyper-sexualization and the extreme commodification of sex, coupled with capitalist mentalities and ideals, "Platonic" has nearly been banished to the middle ages I mean every person acts like you are "out to get something" (no specific gender attributed) Much more so concerning a person with a dick having a ... *gasp*... normal human relation/friendship with a human wielding a vagina!!!
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CaptainTrips420 said: I just never meet a woman with a good personality always stuck-up women with control problems and a God complex. I was thinking about trying to date a Gay man eventually but need blind folds so I dont have to look at them and it will help them not see me cry. 
I feel ya. Pay no attention to those calling this incel speak. It's real talk I'm straight, married, twice your age and know a lot of people. Not one woman I know would make a good partner. I live my life to the best of my ability with my wife and look elsewhere for my happiness. I don't mean with other women, I'm completely faithful, I just don't look to that relationship for happiness anymore and it's helping
I got no advice for ya except I'll tell you you're right about a lot of things for a young man and clearly you can't decide to be gay just like gay people can't choose to be straight
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I am mad been watching gay porn. I cant get hard from it unless I touch myself watching by itself doesn't work and when im done I actually feel psychical sick I think gay stuff is an acquired taste I have not devolved. I watch lesbian porn and get hard as a rock in less than 3 seconds no touching involved. I wish I could find a woman who is respectful to me like a partner not someone who thinks they are superior to me and better. I can't deal with an authoritative partner. If I could find a girl that has respect for me I would have respect for her they act like I cant cook or clean or do taxes. I hate being told im not capable of things I can easily do.
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What if next time you're mad, instead of jerking homosexual porn (chicks OR dudes!), you put on a Funkadelic album?
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Also, I typically just rub one out first thing in the morning so that I may focus on more important matters for the day.
What if everything works out better than you could have ever possibly dreamed?
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Anonymous #3 said: Some people say being gay is actually really fun. I wouldn't know though. But some say having anal sex every night with someone you love is a very fantastic life.
If you feel like this is something you need to try then by all means try it.
Me though I can't get enough of the females but I know what it's like to have them ruin your life
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I feel ya. Pay no attention to those calling this incel speak. It's real talk I'm straight, married, twice your age and know a lot of people. Not one woman I know would make a good partner. I live my life to the best of my ability with my wife and look elsewhere for my happiness. I don't mean with other women, I'm completely faithful, I just don't look to that relationship for happiness anymore and it's helping
I got no advice for ya except I'll tell you you're right about a lot of things for a young man and clearly you can't decide to be gay just like gay people can't choose to be straight
You are married and you don't think your wife is a good partner... so clearly, you picked wrong. And if you aren't honest with your wife about how you really feel about the relationship, then that seems like strong evidence you aren't a great partner either.
Have you possibly considered that if EVERY woman you know would be a bad partner, perhaps it is you that is the bad partner?
You know what they say, if a person thinks everyone is an asshole, maybe they're one.
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Well its obvious that you are not gay.
I think you just need to expand on what kind of woman you are attracted to. It sounds like you may be attracted to a specific type of woman, and if you just opened up your attraction and desire, so to speak, you may find a woman who has a more humble, chill personality.
And theres always transfemales and gender-fluid women. Some can be really chill and easy to get along with. Ive known a couple, online and in person, and I enjoy their company.
Do you live in a big city? Is there a wide diversity of women in your home city or is it kinda limited?
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Nah I never meet a woman I liked for any reason other than physical looks and drug use. Honestly I have trouble dating because I am because I only find undercover cop women who pretend to like me to ruin my life because they petty things we never even have sex I just tell them about my stash and then got cops following me around 24/7 its harassment I don't even sell just use. They all want me to put there pussy on a pedestal. Some women even think they can cure my drug addiction with sex or something. They are dumb I would never have sex for all the drugs I could use. Drugs>Sex I don't care how attractive you are even a billionaire woman that did not like drugs I would turn down in a heartbeat no matter how attractive.
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Nobody is making you choose drugs or sex.
There is nothing wrong with working on yourself instead of looking for a girlfriend. It's a crazy mixed up world.
Seriously though man, you ever listen to Parliament?
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Im not Australian im an American citizen. Most girls I know will get mad at my drug use because it's so expensive and I perform tasks about 75% as well as I do when sober. I just cant find a girl who will let me use a psychedelic once every 2 weeks weed daily cigs daily alcohol every 3 days and different narcotics like benzos and opioids when I don't have work or a task to do. I would accept a dominate woman as a girlfriend but I want it to only be on ocassions not a litteral slave just a sex slave. I would do anything they asked for sexually anything not eating poop though unless I get like 10MG of LSD at least $500 worth of drugs for 2 girls one cup stuff. I would need meth to do it though
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Okay brother, I wish you moses-like patience in that case. She's out there somewhere. For what it's worth, I don't think that anyone who wants to see you eat actual physical poop is the kind of person you would benefit from being around.
Edit: 2girls 1 cup was debunked pretty sure.
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I just hate what drugs have done to me its annoying I dont feel good without them been using more than half my life now. I started as a child at 8 years old I was drinking beer. If I found the nicest woman in the world someone who asked me what I wanted and did it even if they did not want it I still would not feel happy without drugs. I could be in the most abusive relationship in the world a girl who mutilates me or something and if I had drugs, I would be happier than being with the nicest person in the world. I got drug dependency .
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By my eye, it sounds like you could consider trying to wean yourself off most drugs. Maybe make a commitment to only using one or two drugs, or cutting back on the days that you use them so you only use them 1-2x a week. I've found that smoking weed only on weekends has improved my life.
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Yeah man less is more, ween will help you wean if you ever want to go that route. If you ever need guidance, focusing you attention on the Boognish will still your mind, decalcify the pineal, and illuminate your third eye.
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You can't "choose" to be 2SLGBTQIA+
Infants are born that way
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brother. you arent comfortable in your own skin and you think you want a relationship? thats putting the cart before the horse if you want ol beefs opinion. whether youre gay or straight, you gotta sort some shit out.
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Op, I said Parliament, I meant Funkadelic si=YFW8CW446fga8qt7
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Like hell you can't lmfao
Most of the people pushing the political agenda of LGBT are exactly that. You need serious mental help if you think that isn't the case.
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Like hell you can't lmfao
Most of the people pushing the political agenda of LGBT are exactly that. You need serious mental help if you think that isn't the case.
Yeah why don't you suggest gay people try repressing it all and just trying to be straight? That sure works out great, right? Oh wait, it never works out, not a single time has that ever worked out.
You are the one who needs serious mental help.
I've read the stories of people who go to those christian 'conversion' camps where they pressure/torture people into being straight. No amount of that shit ever works. The best they can accomplish is making gay people hate themselves and be celibate, but they've never created a single straight person. It just doesn't work.
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CaptainTrips420 said: I just never meet a woman with a good personality always stuck-up women with control problems and a God complex. I was thinking about trying to date a Gay man eventually but need blind folds so I dont have to look at them and it will help them not see me cry. 
I feel ya. Pay no attention to those calling this incel speak. It's real talk I'm straight, married, twice your age and know a lot of people. Not one woman I know would make a good partner. I live my life to the best of my ability with my wife and look elsewhere for my happiness. I don't mean with other women, I'm completely faithful, I just don't look to that relationship for happiness anymore and it's helping
I got no advice for ya except I'll tell you you're right about a lot of things for a young man and clearly you can't decide to be gay just like gay people can't choose to be straight
You are married and you don't think your wife is a good partner... so clearly, you picked wrong. And if you aren't honest with your wife about how you really feel about the relationship, then that seems like strong evidence you aren't a great partner either.
Have you possibly considered that if EVERY woman you know would be a bad partner, perhaps it is you that is the bad partner?
You know what they say, if a person thinks everyone is an asshole, maybe they're one.
I've been very honest with the wife Also I never said everyone is an asshole, to clarify, it’s most of those I know well enough to feel I have a valid opinion about. Men are much more level headed and willing to cooperate for the greater good where women seem much more focused on themselves
But yeah, I picked wrong, I was fooled intentionally, she's a great actress and she's more than happy to tell ya so. I could go on and on but...
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You can't "choose" to be 2SLGBTQIA+
Like hell you can't lmfao
Most of the people pushing the political agenda of LGBT are exactly that. You need serious mental help if you think that isn't the case.

I was playing devil's advocate
Many people get angry when you claim babies are not born 2SLGBTQIA+
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Good news OP, leading shroomery scientist just proved that you CAN choose to be gay! I still think it would be smart to listen to more Funkadelic
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i think everyones gay they just havent opened themselves to it.
if you magically made every woman on the planet disappear, i give it three weeks and everyone be sucking dick
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I got it! I have the solution.....
What you need is a cute drug-addicted babe. That way, you can be drug dependent, together. Ive known a couple of them in my life, very lovely ladies.
Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!           
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Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!
For the love of god do not do this. People take a lot of self-motivation and hope to get to the point of showing up to a AA/NA meeting, and for you to have the ulterior motive of picking up someone who is vulnerable is fucking disgusting vile scum shit. I understand people are lonely, but don't outsource your suffering onto other people.
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What you need is a cute drug-addicted babe. That way, you can be drug dependent, together. Ive known a couple of them in my life, very lovely ladies.
Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!            
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I still think its a good idea 
Plus, OP might learn some self-control with drug use within the groups at the same time. A Win all around
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Dude it’s creepy and predatory as fuck. Holy shit dude
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Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!
For the love of god do not do this. People take a lot of self-motivation and hope to get to the point of showing up to a AA/NA meeting, and for you to have the ulterior motive of picking up someone who is vulnerable is fucking disgusting vile scum shit. I understand people are lonely, but don't outsource your suffering onto other people.
Dudes, chill the fuck out. There is literally no difference between trying to pick up a chic at AA or at church or a bar or the grocery store. People go to all sorts of things and meet people whether intentional or not
If someone has interest in him, then great, that's her choice. Who gives a fuck if someone goes somewhere hoping to meet someone. Everyone everywhere is vulnerable to some degree so to call this proposal "fucking disgusting vile scum shit" is way over blown and fucking retarded man shaming. It's more of this whole idea that any male mindset is toxic, wrong, and predatory but it isn't. That's how men get laid, by putting themselves in places where there is a possibility for opportunity. We're the fucking hunters which means women are the hunted. That's not sexist, it's nature. If you want to be an incel/simp fine, go for it. But don't try to shame someone else into following suit
Seriously, it's no wonder so many men feel like they can't get laid. You're buying into bullshit feminist propaganda which is nothing more than a catch 22 designed to make men subservient to women and completely unrespectable which in turns makes them unattractive/unfuckable. For real though, good luck getting laid if that's how you think
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Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!
For the love of god do not do this. People take a lot of self-motivation and hope to get to the point of showing up to a AA/NA meeting, and for you to have the ulterior motive of picking up someone who is vulnerable is fucking disgusting vile scum shit. I understand people are lonely, but don't outsource your suffering onto other people.
Dudes, chill the fuck out. There is literally no difference between trying to pick up a chic at AA or at church or a bar or the grocery store. People go to all sorts of things and meet people whether intentional or not
If someone has interest in him, then great, that's her choice. Who gives a fuck if someone goes somewhere hoping to meet someone. Everyone everywhere is vulnerable to some degree so to call this proposal "fucking disgusting vile scum shit" is way over blown and fucking retarded man shaming. It's more of this whole idea that any male mindset is toxic, wrong, and predatory but it isn't. That's how men get laid, by putting themselves in places where there is a possibility for opportunity. We're the fucking hunters which means women are the hunted. That's not sexist, it's nature. If you want to be an incel/simp fine, go for it. But don't try to shame someone else into following suit
Seriously, it's no wonder so many men feel like they can't get laid. You're buying into bullshit feminist propaganda which is nothing more than a catch 22 designed to make men subservient to women and completely unrespectable which in turns makes them unattractive/unfuckable. For real though, good luck getting laid if that's how you think
You're wrong. Do not go to a place where people are struggling with their addiction with the ulterior motive of picking people up. I've worked with enough people who are well intentioned entering a program, only to have their lives once again derailed because someone else in the program isn't actually engaged, and sees the program as a way for them to overcome their own loneliness. Addiction by and large is a problem of impulse control, and the programs are designed to help grow that muscle of impulse control. Trying to subvert that goal because your dick isn't wet is malicious. Go pick up girls at places that are socially acceptable. Going to an AA meaning as if its a dating service is the well within the realm of the definition of predatory behavior.
At risk population? Check. Potential of coercion? Check. Ulterior motive at odds with the mission statement of the program? Check.
If you think that preventing people from being taken advantage of in a place of care is part of the "feminist agenda", then you should take a deep look within yourself and consider where your thinking is misguided. To spell it out for you, it appears based on your argument that you are weighing the sensation your penis gets and your existential loneliness over the amelioration of another human's suffering.
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I maybe don't agree that going to AA for dating opportunities is predatory behavior because some of the others are also there for social reasons as well. But you have to able to read the signs, and not to pick on him OP might come off as predatory.
Never been to a 12 steps meeting but remember thinking, at NA you could at least ask someone to go out for a drink.
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I remember talking to some people that have done the 12 step thing, and the women preent called that the 13th step.
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I know a guy that says he wants to start a pub called "The 13th Step"
But seriously OP, join a rock climbing club. There are plenty of women there and for some reason it's ridiculously fun to climb with a member of the opposite sex. I think it's the trust of having someone belay you and vice versa. And most importantly the bitches be fit..
You are going to have to subject yourself to the same objectification and prove yourself capable though, otherwise you don't stand a chance, cuz these girls got options.
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Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!
For the love of god do not do this. People take a lot of self-motivation and hope to get to the point of showing up to a AA/NA meeting, and for you to have the ulterior motive of picking up someone who is vulnerable is fucking disgusting vile scum shit. I understand people are lonely, but don't outsource your suffering onto other people.
Dudes, chill the fuck out. There is literally no difference between trying to pick up a chic at AA or at church or a bar or the grocery store. People go to all sorts of things and meet people whether intentional or not
If someone has interest in him, then great, that's her choice. Who gives a fuck if someone goes somewhere hoping to meet someone. Everyone everywhere is vulnerable to some degree so to call this proposal "fucking disgusting vile scum shit" is way over blown and fucking retarded man shaming. It's more of this whole idea that any male mindset is toxic, wrong, and predatory but it isn't. That's how men get laid, by putting themselves in places where there is a possibility for opportunity. We're the fucking hunters which means women are the hunted. That's not sexist, it's nature. If you want to be an incel/simp fine, go for it. But don't try to shame someone else into following suit
Seriously, it's no wonder so many men feel like they can't get laid. You're buying into bullshit feminist propaganda which is nothing more than a catch 22 designed to make men subservient to women and completely unrespectable which in turns makes them unattractive/unfuckable. For real though, good luck getting laid if that's how you think
You're wrong. Do not go to a place where people are struggling with their addiction with the ulterior motive of picking people up. I've worked with enough people who are well intentioned entering a program, only to have their lives once again derailed because someone else in the program isn't actually engaged, and sees the program as a way for them to overcome their own loneliness. Addiction by and large is a problem of impulse control, and the programs are designed to help grow that muscle of impulse control. Trying to subvert that goal because your dick isn't wet is malicious. Go pick up girls at places that are socially acceptable. Going to an AA meaning as if its a dating service is the well within the realm of the definition of predatory behavior.
At risk population? Check. Potential of coercion? Check. Ulterior motive at odds with the mission statement of the program? Check.
If you think that preventing people from being taken advantage of in a place of care is part of the "feminist agenda", then you should take a deep look within yourself and consider where your thinking is misguided. To spell it out for you, it appears based on your argument that you are weighing the sensation your penis gets and your existential loneliness over the amelioration of another human's suffering.
I can see why someone would think that if they also buy into the idea that all men and what used to be called manly behavior is toxic
You're inferring the idea that to be open to meeting a woman and working towards a mutually beneficial romantic relationship is predatory and that's fucking pathetic
Stop watching woke tik toks and feminist bullshit and be a man. The world needs more of us
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Going somewhere for the intended purpose and picking up dating opportunities along the way is significantly different than going somewhere for dating opportunities as a primary goal. Outside of places where dating opportunities are the intended goal, like bars and clubs and social events and such.
It also results in a difference when it comes to success rate, in my opinion. Do something you enjoy, become a regular, and then the girls that show up will come to you.
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Slick double-down anon4
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Be reproductively fit, dressed to go out, go to any social event, and show that you have a pulse.
(Preferably, where they're fit, because ladies' night was gross.)
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It's scary, you think it'd be fun having multiple beautiful women looking at you like you're a piece of meat but really its more like a nature documentary ya gotta remember to unflare your nostrils and breathe real steady and natural!
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Do you have a question as serious as cancer? Is rhythm a dancer?
Do you have a question as serious as cancer? Who can keep the average dancer? Hyper is a heart attack because nobody's smiling? Because you're expressing the rhyme that I'm styling?
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Are we human? Or are we dancer?!
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jack_straw2208 said: It's scary, you think it'd be fun having multiple beautiful women looking at you like you're a piece of meat
No, beautiful would be fine.
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Depending on where you live, there will be some blue law, to the effect of the bar closing at a certain time. You can def take your pick, but it looks like the zombie apocalypse.
imgs -> drunk women in street
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Hey man I think all hetero men have thought how much easier it would be, if they just dated other men. We can’t change what were attracted to though. You just need to find a better place to find women. It sounds like you might be looking in the right places to meet women that are not interested in you. Go to a place involved in something you really enjoy. Like an art festival or a music festival or a show of some kind. Maybe a concert. When you already have something to start out with that you share in common. You can start meeting a lot of people. Then actually have a really good start for a relationship. That’s just my opinion. I’m sure other people have said the same thing. But I just wanted to say my piece. Most women are not bad. Probably just the ones that you’ve been trying to talk to are not your type.
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I have a friend, who has a friend and sometimes he complains to the other friend about choices his GF makes. The 3rd dude reminds him as often and loudly as necessary that he is dealing with a woman and this helps because it allows us men to stop trying to find logic in their thinking and accept it for what it is. A bunch of nonsensical self-centered bullshit fuckery, that's what it is
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I think that women are a spectrum just like men. They’re shitty women. Just like they’re shitty men. We can’t just make a blanket statement that all women are shitty because of some bad experiences. That’s incredibly regressive thinking
In a very real sense. You’re letting one incredibly terrible person. Take away any joy you could have in your future by making statements like that. One bad relationship should not destroy the possibility of having good ones in the future.
Here’s a visual learning aid. The song will change halfway through. All of the song is true.
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Anonymous #4 said: I have a friend, who has a friend and sometimes he complains to the other friend about choices his GF makes. The 3rd dude reminds him as often and loudly as necessary that he is dealing with a woman and this helps because it allows us men to stop trying to find logic in their thinking and accept it for what it is. A bunch of nonsensical self-centered bullshit fuckery, that's what it is
Wherever you draw the boundaries... -- pre Bronze Age, dates her with a caveman club -- She is expected to be tidy and intelligent and pull her own weight
... she has still obviously crossed some boundaries to the point of ruining someone's plans.
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In regards to the “friend of a friend” The destruction was so complete. He’s out here, saying that all women are evil. She must’ve destroyed him. Just know. There are really loving, gentle wonderful women out there. Just waiting to be met.
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GenesisCorrupted said: I think that women are a spectrum just like men. They’re shitty women. Just like they’re shitty men. We can’t just make a blanket statement that all women are shitty because of some bad experiences. That’s incredibly regressive thinking
In a very real sense. You’re letting one incredibly terrible person. Take away any joy you could have in your future by making statements like that. One bad relationship should not destroy the possibility of having good ones in the future.
Here’s a visual learning aid. The song will change halfway through. All of the song is true.
Dude, you inferred so much stupid shit into what I said that I'm not going to bother pointing out all the flaws in your post because clearly your brain takes some words out and puts other ones in so the meaning is what you want it to be. Come back after you've worked on your reading comprehension and got some hair on your ballz and then we can talk
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GenesisCorrupted said: The destruction was so complete. He’s out here, saying that all women are evil. She must’ve destroyed him. Just know. There are really loving, gentle wonderful women out there. Just waiting to be met.
You're showing your lack of experience with posts like this
How many women have you been in a long term relationship with? Casual interactions don't count. Almost all people can pull off seeming gentle and loving for a bit or to those they aren't intimately close with, but spending a long time with people interacting in partnership types of relationships is where most people suck
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Your friend, who gave your friend advice. Was wrong. It was terrible advice. That’s who I’m talking about when I made that post.
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Anonymous #4 said: I have a friend, who has a friend and sometimes he complains to the other friend about choices his GF makes. The 3rd dude reminds him as often and loudly as necessary that he is dealing with a woman and this helps because it allows us men to stop trying to find logic in their thinking and accept it for what it is. A bunch of nonsensical self-centered bullshit fuckery, that's what it is
That is some incel ass advice. It will guarantee loneliness.
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Anonymous #4 said: I have a friend, who has a friend and sometimes he complains to the other friend about choices his GF makes. The 3rd dude reminds him as often and loudly as necessary that he is dealing with a woman and this helps because it allows us men to stop trying to find logic in their thinking and accept it for what it is. A bunch of nonsensical self-centered bullshit fuckery, that's what it is
Seconded Terrible advice. Don’t take it.
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I got along really well with a STEM valedictorian turned speedwhore, at work. She was getting regularly tested for AIDS. Said I reminded her of her pimp, a nice guy. Extremely libertarian with good street smarts when talking to cops.
I knew one polyamorous redhead who was on anti virals and still in orgies and who was verbal enough to talk all night about philosophy and religion. Interesting coffeetable art.
One with really, really long, blonde hair -- think, Rapunzel -- could make fine handcrafts to match fantasy movies and was in an open marriage.
I caught up with one polyglot, teacher's pet, who I used to admire, through a police report involving a sub male with pixie-ish hair.
Ok, there's signs of intelligence.
Without going through all the lies, in which I have caught man hating managers and job interviewers, you know how I would free up a job outside of the home, if I intended to have a stable society.
They didn't have anything better to do.
I know more than I want to.
Change my mind.
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Those are just examples of human beings. Any human being can be fucked up. The chance of a woman getting fucked up are bigger than a man’s. They are victims of a lot more abuse. Because they are physically weaker than men. Men will abuse women more because they know they can get away with it more often. All of those stories are really sad. Those women were obviously really abused. Thats why they are like that now.
You know, it does mot mean that there are not amazing women out there. Right now exactly as all of us are. There is a woman out there that is totally into you. They wanna talk about all the same crazy stuff we do. They’re into the same art that we are. We just haven’t met them yet. There are so many people. It’s literally impossible to not find somebody you find attractive that is completely into you and finds you attractive also.
It just sucks when you find a really terrible person that you were really attracted to. It makes you feel bitter and Jaded. But we need to go through the mourning process of that relationship. Separating it from what else there is out there. So that we can have more experiences.
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Wait a minute.
They are working and -- I guarantee you -- highly intelligent. Platonically speaking, they are highly respectable.
What is the conflict of interests.
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them. I thought you were arguing that I needed to prove you wrong.
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durian_2008 said: Wait a minute.
What is the conflict of interests?
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GenesisCorrupted said: I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them. I thought you were arguing that I needed to prove you wrong.
We were on the same side this time!
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Honestly. Once you get your telescope. We’re gonna be friends.😉
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them.
What is the primal means of social organization, broken down into the simplest elements possible. Would any women like to answer?
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GenesisCorrupted said: Your friend, who gave your friend advice. Was wrong. It was terrible advice. That’s who I’m talking about when I made that post.
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Anonymous #4 said: I have a friend, who has a friend and sometimes he complains to the other friend about choices his GF makes. The 3rd dude reminds him as often and loudly as necessary that he is dealing with a woman and this helps because it allows us men to stop trying to find logic in their thinking and accept it for what it is. A bunch of nonsensical self-centered bullshit fuckery, that's what it is
That is some incel ass advice. It will guarantee loneliness.
That’s pretty funny considering me and the other dude get laid more than most. The guy that gave the advice is what I call vol-cel (voluntarily celibate). He’s taking a break from dealing with women and enjoying life on his own terms
I know the predominant voices of women giving mixed messages to most of you dudes is confusing but it isn’t meant to make you better at getting or keeping women. In fact, it has the opposite intent but they don’t realize it
In reality, what will guarantee loneliness is letting women lead you around by the balls while being some soft hearted little bitch who suppresses as much of his own testosterone as he can
Feminism (and especially this modern form of feminism) has completely fucked things up for men and society In general
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I could agree to the basic premise of first wave feminism, in which the physical needs of the family come before his nightlife.
Except, without the hatchet wielding biddy.
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I agree. First wave feminism wasn’t bad. Women should be able to work and make choices for themselves and not be stuck in abusive relationships. This new wave stuff is really bad though. The idea that there is some oppressive patriarchy, women don’t need men, masculinity is toxic, and the gender pay gap are all false and designed to make true partnerships between men and women nearly impossible
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Anon #4 admits he hasn't gotten to know a single woman who would be a good partner, that he has no respect for his own wife, and that he thinks women are inferior.
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Anonymous #4 said: Not one woman I know would make a good partner. I live my life to the best of my ability with my wife and look elsewhere for my happiness. I don't mean with other women, I'm completely faithful, I just don't look to that relationship for happiness anymore and it's helping
So anon #4 is going to give you advice despite his own relationship being dysfunctional, and despite being either A. so bad at knowing people that he only meets distasteful people, or, more likely, B. being such a distasteful person that he finds disfavor with anyone. And he justifies his own distasteful nature, that makes him dislike anyone, as something wrong with women in general. It's not actually about women in general or men in general, though. It's about you and your horrible attitude.
And yet there are people here who have what they call 'loving relationships', who have a modicum of respect for their partners. If you want a loveless relationship that you stay in, and if you want to hate all women, anon #4 is the person to follow for advice. But if you want to actually have a loving relationship which anon #4 has absolutely no concept of, nor can he even envision a world where he would have one with ANY woman he's ever met, best not listen to his advice.
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Anonymous #4 said: designed to make true partnerships between men and women nearly impossible
And since you admit you have no happiness in your relationship, what on earth do you know about partnership between men and women? You'd be the last person to trust with that sort of question.
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They got you on the ropes anon four. You need to stop hating women before you can find women that don’t hate you.
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I ain’t on no ropes because this isn’t a fight. Maybe you see it that way though
Anon 5, those are some pretty blatant twists you’ve got going there. I bet you’re awfully proud of yourself for that. Age has a lot to do with it. You’ll understand better when you’re older
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Anonymous #4 said: I ain’t on no ropes because this isn’t a fight. Maybe you see it that way though
Anon 5, those are some pretty blatant twists you’ve got going there. I bet you’re awfully proud of yourself for that. Age has a lot to do with it. You’ll understand better when you’re older
Saying, you aren’t old enough to understand. Is not a rebuttal.
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Yes it is sonny
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I’m not trying to be rude. The point has been made and seeds have been sown. When the time is right, things you heard in the past will come back to you and become relevant. I’ve got better things to do on a Saturday night than waste my breath explaining things Have a good evening gentlemen
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It still did take 10 minutes to write that though…
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Anonymous #5 said: Anon #4 admits he hasn't gotten to know a single woman who would be a good partner, that he has no respect for his own wife, and that he thinks women are inferior.
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Anonymous #4 said: Not one woman I know would make a good partner. I live my life to the best of my ability with my wife and look elsewhere for my happiness. I don't mean with other women, I'm completely faithful, I just don't look to that relationship for happiness anymore and it's helping
So anon #4 is going to give you advice despite his own relationship being dysfunctional, and despite being either A. so bad at knowing people that he only meets distasteful people, or, more likely, B. being such a distasteful person that he finds disfavor with anyone. And he justifies his own distasteful nature, that makes him dislike anyone, as something wrong with women in general. It's not actually about women in general or men in general, though. It's about you and your horrible attitude.
And yet there are people here who have what they call 'loving relationships', who have a modicum of respect for their partners. If you want a loveless relationship that you stay in, and if you want to hate all women, anon #4 is the person to follow for advice. But if you want to actually have a loving relationship which anon #4 has absolutely no concept of, nor can he even envision a world where he would have one with ANY woman he's ever met, best not listen to his advice.
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Anonymous #4 said: designed to make true partnerships between men and women nearly impossible
And since you admit you have no happiness in your relationship, what on earth do you know about partnership between men and women? You'd be the last person to trust with that sort of question.
Nah, y'all just got two different goals. Anon #4 is me in my mid-20s. He has zero interest in a partner, he wants a series of sex objects. That's why he's telling you to grow up and bragging about how often he and his bros get laid. That is the end goal. Notches on the bedpost is how he measures success.
You seem to be approaching the situation from the perspective of finding an actual partner.
Two different goals. Both are valid, I'd say. There are plenty of women that just want a dick for the night. There are plenty of women who want a partner. Some people would say it is more important to sleep with ten women, some people say it is more important to grow old with the right woman.
Some people find a happy balance in between. I lost interest in meaningless hookups around my early 30s, but I don't think I will ever meet a woman I would want to grow old with. Sometimes I meet someone I click with, and we walk the same path for a while. Sooner or later, our paths diverge. Maybe one day, I'll die before our paths split. That's probably what growing old with a partner is. I guess I'd have to stop overlapping partners, too.
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where are you at on this, a month later? can i get a recap?
i've found if you do some blow it increases my penis attraction. have you tried that?
and you wouldn't be the first on grinder to say they are uncomfortable
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At work, more than one girl has said that I reminded her of her pimp, who she thought was a very nice person. 
One said she found her intergenerationally old life partner at the age of twelve and tried to set me up with her young daughter. 
They are too open, and tell me fine details I don't really want to hear.
One jumped on the the back of my fatter and stupider friend, who I will call Stimpy, to protect his identity.
I said, how I was jealous and good for him; he needed the encouragement.
In private, in the break room, in front of the security camera, she tells me that she has this late stage cancer and is going home for last few months to be with her baby.
I am not learning all of this stuff from mistakes which I have made, personally. Most of the time, I am dodging a bullet.
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If you don't treat an HPV infection, it can cause cells inside your cervix to turn into cancer. It can often take between 10 and 30 years from the time you’re infected until a tumor forms.
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Former Miss World contestant Sherika De Armas dead at 26 after a two-year battle with cervical cancer as heartbroken friends pay tribute to 'one of the most beautiful women I have ever met in my life' https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12632837/miss-world-sherika-armas-dead-cervical-cancer.html
"goddess queen"
Don't look at this:
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Multicontrast Pocket Colposcopy Cervical Cancer Diagnostic Algorithm for Referral Populations https://spj.science.org/doi/10.34133/2022/9823184
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I’ve got better things to do on a Saturday night than waste my breath explaining things
I have a deadbeat in another browser window. (unrelated to pimping)
With all due respect, there is a giant clownshow happening not very far away from traditional life. If you have any kind of conventional social connections, whatsoever, it is highly (!) preferable not to join the circus.
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durian_2008 said: I got along really well with a STEM valedictorian turned speedwhore, at work. She was getting regularly tested for AIDS. Said I reminded her of her pimp, a nice guy.
Group therapy isn’t “work”
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NotSheekle said “if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”
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Kind of an odd post, to me. Wanna be gay be gay
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He literally can’t. He’s just a bro. He wants to bro down. But he hates women. So he wishes and is deeply envious of gay men. That get to have great sex with each other.
 It’s pretty damn funny. Respect women! It’s amazing how much more women will want to be around you. Duh LMAO
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Seven is right.
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Well.... I certainly cannot disagree with that at all.
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: koods]
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durian_2008 said: I got along really well with a STEM valedictorian turned speedwhore, at work. She was getting regularly tested for AIDS. Said I reminded her of her pimp, a nice guy.
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koods said: Group therapy isn’t “work”
No matter how you appointees try to sound authoritative, you ultimately "work" in a low security asylum for the criminally insane.
Your sinecure does not qualify as "work", to me.
Also, most people are not actually, politically correct at your fake "work" place, around any convenient corner.
Your kind will say far more to me than I have ever said at "work" that reminds me of "school" and jury "duty".
Aren't you as bored as me?
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I have to admit first I have not read everything on this. I just read the one above and... why add that he reminds her of his pimp? Does he think that is a negative to him? Or her?
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Thank you for asking for me 2. Honestly, I’m not sure where Durien is in this conversation. Would you care to elaborate for us?
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What is the conflict of interests?
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GenesisCorrupted said: I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them. I thought you were arguing that I needed to prove you wrong.
We were on the same side this time!

But then you keep bringing up all of these things. That seem to be insinuating. There’s something wrong with these women. I’m a little confused.
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Re: I want to be Gay [Re: koods]
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Group therapy isn’t “work”
We're agreed, but "work" typically makes me a captain over all these people with personal problems, or puts me in adversarial situations for limited resources. It's usually 90% ship of fools and 10% professional, which closely resembles your intersectional hiring policies in which 10% of people will be doing all the work.
I have my weird characteristics, tbh, but outwardly present as a functional member of the majority demographic, who can read, remember, measure, and follow instructions -- making me a minority under reverse prejudices which you wear on your sleeve.
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Anonymous #2 said: I have to admit first I have not read everything on this. I just read the one above and... why add that he reminds her of his pimp? Does he think that is a negative to him? Or her?
I would have assumed that it is negative to pimp women.
But, I find that type B's want to be the object of the desire and appreciate being used as consumables. To be trafficked is where some people find their purpose, depending on their unique, personal disposition.
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I try to be as non bias as able. And challenge myself to be nonbias. I just don't see how it is helping him by choosing to view everything so negative or victimizing himself. Again.. I have not read everything. Which also means my response is a biased response. It starts with ourselves. If anyone is unable to examine their own beliefs, you could be missing out on incredible experiences and people. People are incredible, one doesnt work for you move on..
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If anything, it is in the nature of most people to want to be preyed upon and an authority figure not perpetrating ceremonial chickenshit upon the 99% would be a disappointment.
I do not especially associate with a being a predator or a victim.
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You show people that you can lift heavy objects like a circus performer, they want to use you as a tool.
Help someone end a confrontation quickly and efficiently, they want to use you for an attack animal.
If you are seen as that vaunted model or porn actor, etc, you will be used for that kind of ho.
You make yourself useful. Someone finds a use for you. There is no optimal way to be, where someone will not take advantage.
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I don't either, but I have times in my life that I reflect on and can see that I did victimize myself. It happens, we learn and grow from it.
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Just because someone wants to shoehorn you into their personal agenda does not mean that you are playing the martyr.
Sometimes people are jealous, or they see something in you that looks desirable, famous, capable without you trying to be macho on purpose.
But, most people are acting on those polarities, most of the time, in most of my experiences. Same literal politics as where dogs and chickens are bred. We are overthinking bullies and cowards tactics.
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No one’s accusing you of anything. We just were worried because of the way you were coming across. If you love and support women. You don’t need to add specifics about their appearance. It sounds like you don’t agree with the OP. You can just leave it at that.
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I don't think I was accepting responsibility for my own actions or my own part is situations. Learning process Some lessons were hard to learn.
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If you love and support women.
Useful, virtuous, and eager women. No, ladies.
Why, have you seen one, before?
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