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Anonymous #4
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LogicaL Chaos said:
Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!
For the love of god do not do this. People take a lot of self-motivation and hope to get to the point of showing up to a AA/NA meeting, and for you to have the ulterior motive of picking up someone who is vulnerable is fucking disgusting vile scum shit. I understand people are lonely, but don't outsource your suffering onto other people.
Dudes, chill the fuck out. There is literally no difference between trying to pick up a chic at AA or at church or a bar or the grocery store. People go to all sorts of things and meet people whether intentional or not
If someone has interest in him, then great, that's her choice. Who gives a fuck if someone goes somewhere hoping to meet someone. Everyone everywhere is vulnerable to some degree so to call this proposal "fucking disgusting vile scum shit" is way over blown and fucking retarded man shaming. It's more of this whole idea that any male mindset is toxic, wrong, and predatory but it isn't. That's how men get laid, by putting themselves in places where there is a possibility for opportunity. We're the fucking hunters which means women are the hunted. That's not sexist, it's nature. If you want to be an incel/simp fine, go for it. But don't try to shame someone else into following suit
Seriously, it's no wonder so many men feel like they can't get laid. You're buying into bullshit feminist propaganda which is nothing more than a catch 22 designed to make men subservient to women and completely unrespectable which in turns makes them unattractive/unfuckable. For real though, good luck getting laid if that's how you think
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Roflspammer
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Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!
For the love of god do not do this. People take a lot of self-motivation and hope to get to the point of showing up to a AA/NA meeting, and for you to have the ulterior motive of picking up someone who is vulnerable is fucking disgusting vile scum shit. I understand people are lonely, but don't outsource your suffering onto other people.
Dudes, chill the fuck out. There is literally no difference between trying to pick up a chic at AA or at church or a bar or the grocery store. People go to all sorts of things and meet people whether intentional or not
If someone has interest in him, then great, that's her choice. Who gives a fuck if someone goes somewhere hoping to meet someone. Everyone everywhere is vulnerable to some degree so to call this proposal "fucking disgusting vile scum shit" is way over blown and fucking retarded man shaming. It's more of this whole idea that any male mindset is toxic, wrong, and predatory but it isn't. That's how men get laid, by putting themselves in places where there is a possibility for opportunity. We're the fucking hunters which means women are the hunted. That's not sexist, it's nature. If you want to be an incel/simp fine, go for it. But don't try to shame someone else into following suit
Seriously, it's no wonder so many men feel like they can't get laid. You're buying into bullshit feminist propaganda which is nothing more than a catch 22 designed to make men subservient to women and completely unrespectable which in turns makes them unattractive/unfuckable. For real though, good luck getting laid if that's how you think
You're wrong. Do not go to a place where people are struggling with their addiction with the ulterior motive of picking people up. I've worked with enough people who are well intentioned entering a program, only to have their lives once again derailed because someone else in the program isn't actually engaged, and sees the program as a way for them to overcome their own loneliness. Addiction by and large is a problem of impulse control, and the programs are designed to help grow that muscle of impulse control. Trying to subvert that goal because your dick isn't wet is malicious. Go pick up girls at places that are socially acceptable. Going to an AA meaning as if its a dating service is the well within the realm of the definition of predatory behavior.
At risk population? Check. Potential of coercion? Check. Ulterior motive at odds with the mission statement of the program? Check.
If you think that preventing people from being taken advantage of in a place of care is part of the "feminist agenda", then you should take a deep look within yourself and consider where your thinking is misguided. To spell it out for you, it appears based on your argument that you are weighing the sensation your penis gets and your existential loneliness over the amelioration of another human's suffering.
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Brian Jones
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I maybe don't agree that going to AA for dating opportunities is predatory behavior because some of the others are also there for social reasons as well. But you have to able to read the signs, and not to pick on him OP might come off as predatory.
Never been to a 12 steps meeting but remember thinking, at NA you could at least ask someone to go out for a drink.
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I remember talking to some people that have done the 12 step thing, and the women preent called that the 13th step.
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I know a guy that says he wants to start a pub called "The 13th Step"
But seriously OP, join a rock climbing club. There are plenty of women there and for some reason it's ridiculously fun to climb with a member of the opposite sex. I think it's the trust of having someone belay you and vice versa. And most importantly the bitches be fit..
You are going to have to subject yourself to the same objectification and prove yourself capable though, otherwise you don't stand a chance, cuz these girls got options.
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Id recommend joining a local Alcohol Anonymous and/or Narcotics Anonymous group. Im sure you will meet a drug-dependent/drug-addicted baddie there and possibly fall in love with her!
For the love of god do not do this. People take a lot of self-motivation and hope to get to the point of showing up to a AA/NA meeting, and for you to have the ulterior motive of picking up someone who is vulnerable is fucking disgusting vile scum shit. I understand people are lonely, but don't outsource your suffering onto other people.
Dudes, chill the fuck out. There is literally no difference between trying to pick up a chic at AA or at church or a bar or the grocery store. People go to all sorts of things and meet people whether intentional or not
If someone has interest in him, then great, that's her choice. Who gives a fuck if someone goes somewhere hoping to meet someone. Everyone everywhere is vulnerable to some degree so to call this proposal "fucking disgusting vile scum shit" is way over blown and fucking retarded man shaming. It's more of this whole idea that any male mindset is toxic, wrong, and predatory but it isn't. That's how men get laid, by putting themselves in places where there is a possibility for opportunity. We're the fucking hunters which means women are the hunted. That's not sexist, it's nature. If you want to be an incel/simp fine, go for it. But don't try to shame someone else into following suit
Seriously, it's no wonder so many men feel like they can't get laid. You're buying into bullshit feminist propaganda which is nothing more than a catch 22 designed to make men subservient to women and completely unrespectable which in turns makes them unattractive/unfuckable. For real though, good luck getting laid if that's how you think
You're wrong. Do not go to a place where people are struggling with their addiction with the ulterior motive of picking people up. I've worked with enough people who are well intentioned entering a program, only to have their lives once again derailed because someone else in the program isn't actually engaged, and sees the program as a way for them to overcome their own loneliness. Addiction by and large is a problem of impulse control, and the programs are designed to help grow that muscle of impulse control. Trying to subvert that goal because your dick isn't wet is malicious. Go pick up girls at places that are socially acceptable. Going to an AA meaning as if its a dating service is the well within the realm of the definition of predatory behavior.
At risk population? Check. Potential of coercion? Check. Ulterior motive at odds with the mission statement of the program? Check.
If you think that preventing people from being taken advantage of in a place of care is part of the "feminist agenda", then you should take a deep look within yourself and consider where your thinking is misguided. To spell it out for you, it appears based on your argument that you are weighing the sensation your penis gets and your existential loneliness over the amelioration of another human's suffering.
I can see why someone would think that if they also buy into the idea that all men and what used to be called manly behavior is toxic
You're inferring the idea that to be open to meeting a woman and working towards a mutually beneficial romantic relationship is predatory and that's fucking pathetic
Stop watching woke tik toks and feminist bullshit and be a man. The world needs more of us
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Really slick anon troll, #4
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No troll I'm serious as a heart attack Calling someone a troll is just a lazy fucking way to dismiss someone when you don't care to think about what they said
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Going somewhere for the intended purpose and picking up dating opportunities along the way is significantly different than going somewhere for dating opportunities as a primary goal. Outside of places where dating opportunities are the intended goal, like bars and clubs and social events and such.
It also results in a difference when it comes to success rate, in my opinion. Do something you enjoy, become a regular, and then the girls that show up will come to you.
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Slick double-down anon4
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a rock climbing club
Be reproductively fit, dressed to go out, go to any social event, and show that you have a pulse.
(Preferably, where they're fit, because ladies' night was gross.)
ffs You have rights, too.
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It's scary, you think it'd be fun having multiple beautiful women looking at you like you're a piece of meat but really its more like a nature documentary ya gotta remember to unflare your nostrils and breathe real steady and natural!
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durian_2008 said: ffs You have rights, too.
Uh what's ffs?
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jack_straw2208 said: It's scary, you think it'd be fun having multiple beautiful women looking at you like you're a piece of meat
Not scary, thrilling
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Anonymous #4 said: No troll I'm serious as a heart attack Calling someone a troll is just a lazy fucking way to dismiss someone when you don't care to think about what they said
Do you have a question as serious as cancer? Is rhythm a dancer?
Do you have a question as serious as cancer? Who can keep the average dancer? Hyper is a heart attack because nobody's smiling? Because you're expressing the rhyme that I'm styling?
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Nope Probably not
Again, no How would anyone know? Ok If you say so
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Are we human? Or are we dancer?!
I wish you all a very gay weekend.
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jack_straw2208 said: It's scary, you think it'd be fun having multiple beautiful women looking at you like you're a piece of meat
No, beautiful would be fine.
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Depending on where you live, there will be some blue law, to the effect of the bar closing at a certain time. You can def take your pick, but it looks like the zombie apocalypse.
imgs -> drunk women in street
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GenesisCorrupted
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Hey man I think all hetero men have thought how much easier it would be, if they just dated other men. We can’t change what were attracted to though. You just need to find a better place to find women. It sounds like you might be looking in the right places to meet women that are not interested in you. Go to a place involved in something you really enjoy. Like an art festival or a music festival or a show of some kind. Maybe a concert. When you already have something to start out with that you share in common. You can start meeting a lot of people. Then actually have a really good start for a relationship. That’s just my opinion. I’m sure other people have said the same thing. But I just wanted to say my piece. Most women are not bad. Probably just the ones that you’ve been trying to talk to are not your type.
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I have a friend, who has a friend and sometimes he complains to the other friend about choices his GF makes. The 3rd dude reminds him as often and loudly as necessary that he is dealing with a woman and this helps because it allows us men to stop trying to find logic in their thinking and accept it for what it is. A bunch of nonsensical self-centered bullshit fuckery, that's what it is
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