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sudly
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This is an honestly intuitive question.
#28435635 - 08/16/23 01:26 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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How do you individually define pervert from the definition?
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pervert
verb: 1. distort or corrupt the original course, meaning, or state of (something).
"he was charged with conspiring to pervert the course of justice"
Similar: distort warp corrupt subvert twist bend abuse divert deflect misapply misuse misrepresent misinterpret misconstrue falsify garble
2. lead (someone) away from what is considered natural or acceptable.
"Hector is a man who is simply perverted by his time"
Similar: corrupt lead astray deprave make degenerate debauch debase warp vitiate pollute poison contaminate demoralize
noun: a person whose sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.
Similar: deviant degenerate debauchee
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28435636 - 08/16/23 01:38 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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Perversion could be defined as interference with the making of 'fond' memories.
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sudly
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: Buster_Brown] 1
#28435637 - 08/16/23 01:43 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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The first attribute of the learning process is the learning of steps, and the steps on learning confluencing congruently.
Doing a step, and then getting use to doing it better. And adding new steps along the way.
The question here is, what is the learning process?
I would say what is natural and acceptable.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28435640 - 08/16/23 01:52 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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Yeah I accept that the generation of fond memories is natural and acceptable.
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sudly
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: Buster_Brown]
#28435641 - 08/16/23 01:57 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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Are you really going to wait for an invitation, or are you going to ask the question yourself? 'I ask myself'
You can like something without wanting it
What do you mean by 'interference with'?
I believe what is natural and acceptable can make happen with positive memories.
To avoid that pain and find some semblance of a silver lining.
Sometimes you don't have time to figure out their intentions and wait for an invitation to find some privacy to make out. You want to know if you should be invested or not, and if there is a mutual attraction..
Respecting consent and boundaries is key, among communicating intentions and being able to like something without at that moment wanting it or expecting it to present itself to you.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28435651 - 08/16/23 02:19 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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sudly said:
What do you mean by 'interference with'?
Your choice of fond memories are as important as my own. Interfering with that sentiment could be a perversion of ideals.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: Buster_Brown]
#28435657 - 08/16/23 02:50 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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Buster_Brown said:
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sudly said:
What do you mean by 'interference with'?
Your choice of fond memories are as important as my own. Interfering with that sentiment could be a perversion of ideals.
Not to me they aren't. To you they are, but not to me, my own are important to me as yours are to you. We have both experienced them ourselves.
I am not interfering with your sentiment, I am stating my own.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28435702 - 08/16/23 06:01 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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I interpret pervert as "walk away"
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28435759 - 08/16/23 07:30 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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sudly said:
I am not interfering with your sentiment, I am stating my own.
We pass women at the mall and smell perfume. The premise is that they are 'adding to our fond memories'.
Woman's Lib might insist that body odor/appearance isn't cause for discrimination, but our preferences object and seek resolution of differences by some means, most of them evident to our onlookers.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: Buster_Brown]
#28435804 - 08/16/23 08:11 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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smell pollution
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: redgreenvines]
#28435852 - 08/16/23 08:41 AM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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Having reduced Women's Lib to a public spectacle I can sit back and revel in my perversity.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28436097 - 08/16/23 01:45 PM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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pervert
verb: 1. distort or corrupt the original course, meaning, or state of (something).
We need more of this. We need more perversion!
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#28436124 - 08/16/23 02:10 PM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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I just finished typing about a mirror.
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sudly
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: redgreenvines]
#28436139 - 08/16/23 02:20 PM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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redgreenvines said: I interpret pervert as "walk away"
Isn't being perverted okay in the right circumstances? When it's natural and acceptable to do so, even just like hey, I'd like to kiss you against a wall.

I mean once you've established or recognised there's some kind of mutual attraction.
The trouble being if that assumption is wrong, but that's why I think some light flirting is okay, and if the person isn't comfortable or doesn't want that kind of attention, in my experience they've been able to communicate it effectively, and I don't get upset if it isn't reciprocated or plans are changed. I still enjoy their company.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: Buster_Brown]
#28436142 - 08/16/23 02:23 PM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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Buster_Brown said:
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sudly said:
I am not interfering with your sentiment, I am stating my own.
We pass women at the mall and smell perfume. The premise is that they are 'adding to our fond memories'.
Woman's Lib might insist that body odor/appearance isn't cause for discrimination, but our preferences object and seek resolution of differences by some means, most of them evident to our onlookers.
You sound like a creep but I wouldn't say perverted, not in any good form of the definition.
If what you do or think is natural and acceptable to the person you're sharing the experience with however, maybe that's a shared kink, but it doesn't sound like it is here.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28436153 - 08/16/23 02:33 PM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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sudly said:
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redgreenvines said: I interpret pervert as "walk away"
Isn't being perverted okay in the right circumstances? When it's natural and acceptable to do so, even just like hey, I'd like to kiss you against a wall.

I mean once you've established or recognised there's some kind of mutual attraction.
The trouble being if that assumption is wrong, but that's why I think some light flirting is okay, and if the person isn't comfortable or doesn't want that kind of attention, in my experience they've been able to communicate it effectively, and I don't get upset if it isn't reciprocated or plans are changed. I still enjoy their company.
let me clarify the perverts I have walked away from had intentions I was not attracted to. a few times I regretted not walking fast enough. I am not sure if we mean the same thing.
mutual attraction is not perverse at all.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: redgreenvines] 1
#28436158 - 08/16/23 02:37 PM (5 months, 10 days ago) |
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So then perversion within mutual attraction is what I mean.
Like what does perversion within mutual attraction mean to you? To me it means what is natural and acceptable.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28436308 - 08/16/23 05:25 PM (5 months, 9 days ago) |
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In the context of approach I would say a pervert is someone who's open is sexually overt in an exaggerated way, or one in which the second attempt is a sexual escalation when the first was rejected.
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: Rahz] 1
#28436475 - 08/16/23 08:21 PM (5 months, 9 days ago) |
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Something thats out of the proper flow of things.
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sudly
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Re: This is an honestly intuitive question. [Re: sudly]
#28436619 - 08/16/23 11:13 PM (5 months, 9 days ago) |
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I like your second definition
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