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ergo_97
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Express yourself 1
#28283285 - 04/18/23 07:15 AM (9 months, 6 days ago) |
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im a Guy who recently started painting his nails and I've never been happier!
You do you who cares about randome people being offended or against it because they are insecure!
express your self physically or mentally!
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Re: Express yourself [Re: ergo_97]
#28283344 - 04/18/23 08:11 AM (9 months, 6 days ago) |
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How about you do you and don't make assumptions about other people being insecure or offended about something as minor as you painting your nails? I highly doubt anyone gives a shit
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that’s what im saying 
Hope u have a wonderful 420!
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Re: Express yourself [Re: ergo_97]
#28412173 - 07/28/23 11:44 PM (5 months, 28 days ago) |
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ergo_97 said: im a Guy who recently started painting his nails and I've never been happier!
You do you who cares about randome people being offended or against it because they are insecure!
express your self physically or mentally!
That's very good man, more power to you
keep up the good work
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Double] 1
#28412974 - 07/29/23 03:03 PM (5 months, 27 days ago) |
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Joh.Ke said: I am not trying to shame anybody, but painting your nails is a very good way to chase away ladies.
shoot, that sounds like a good idea actually? Women are trouble
Edited by Double (08/23/23 08:12 AM)
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Double]
#28421989 - 08/05/23 03:14 PM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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I am not trying to shame anybody, but painting your nails is a very good way to chase away ladies.
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Joh.Ke]
#28422002 - 08/05/23 03:31 PM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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sounds like a good idea
Edited by Double (08/23/23 08:13 AM)
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Joh.Ke]
#28422164 - 08/05/23 06:10 PM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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Joh.Ke said: I am not trying to shame anybody, but painting your nails is a very good way to chase away ladies.
It sounds like a way to attract bisexual ladies.
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Joh.Ke said: I am not trying to shame anybody, but painting your nails is a very good way to chase away ladies.
It sounds like a way to attract bisexual ladies.
Do they make good girlfriends though.
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Joh.Ke]
#28422174 - 08/05/23 06:22 PM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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Joh.Ke said: I am not trying to shame anybody, but painting your nails is a very good way to chase away ladies.
It sounds like a way to attract bisexual ladies.
Do they make good girlfriends though.
I assume they're no better or worse as girlfriends than straight women. But they'll be a lot easier to convince regarding an FFM threesome.
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Do they make good girlfriends though.
I assume they're no better or worse as girlfriends than straight women. But they'll be a lot easier to convince regarding an FFM threesome.
I don't think getting threesomes is very important in a real, long-term relationship. In short-term flings, yeah I say go for it.
Personally, I think bi-sexual people would make bad partners, simply because they are attracted to twice as many people. There are more people that can steal them away from you.
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Joh.Ke]
#28422979 - 08/06/23 11:28 AM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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Joh.Ke said: I don't think getting threesomes is very important in a real, long-term relationship. In short-term flings, yeah I say go for it.
Personally, I think bi-sexual people would make bad partners, simply because they are attracted to twice as many people. There are more people that can steal them away from you.
In that regard, I kind of agree with ya in that as an hetero guy i only date hetero women & not attracted to bisexual
Not because of the insecurity of having my woman stolen away but rather because i'm only attracted to women of similar family oriented values
shit if we continue this we're get this Express yourself thread moved to the Sexuality and Relationships
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Double]
#28423001 - 08/06/23 11:40 AM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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Tbh, I don't get bi-sexuals. I mean gays, yeah, I can see it, you are only attracted to your sex. I am not gay but I can at least see how people are attracted to one particular gender and not the other. But bi-sexual? I don't get how one can be attracted to men and women simultaneously.
Regarding: family oriented values. I totally agree and it's probably what I should have said. I would prefer a partner who has strong family values and who is "mainstream" in their sexuality.
Edited by Joh.Ke (08/06/23 11:46 AM)
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Joh.Ke]
#28423030 - 08/06/23 12:00 PM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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Joh.Ke said: Tbh, I don't get bi-sexuals. I mean gays, yeah, I can see it, you are only attracted to your sex. I am not gay but I can at least see how people are attracted to one particular gender and not the other. But bi-sexual? I don't get how one can be attracted to men and women simultaneously.
Regarding: family oriented values. I totally agree and it's probably what I should have said. I would prefer a partner who has strong family values and who is "mainstream" in their sexuality.
Just take the attraction straight women feel to men, and the attraction straight men feel to women. Combine them, and use either or both. That's the way it is.
I should say though that 'true bisexuals' are quite rare. Most have a very strong preference one way or the other. Also, studies suggest quite a lot of women can be bisexual if it came down to it, their sexuality can be quite fluid (though usually they have mostly straight preferences with a little bisexuality on the side as dressing). The same is not true for men, who are much less likely to be bisexual. And I'd wager a lot of these women you think are staight are simply bi and find it easier to appear straight and not get guff from anyone.
In terms of family values, I don't really see why a bisexual would neccesarily be any less family oriented. Straight guys give up looking at other women when they start a family. Why can't someone give up looking at both sexes? It takes the same kind of committment. A person in a committed relationship rebuffs other advances regardless of how many there are, they stick with it. There's no reason a bisexual person couldn't be committed.
I don't think this really is a good enough reason to reject someone since it doesn't actually answer the question of their family values. By all means you do you - reject people for whatever reason you wish - but it's a bit foolish to me. You could find yourself with a cheating straight women and reject a faithful bisexual woman, if you rely merely on prejudice.
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I guess I just don't want to deal with things that I don't absolutely have to. Can there be a faithful bisexual woman? Of course. But I don't want to spend time finding that out. I want to go with a "safer bet", aka a straight partner.
I will probably catch shit for this but I honestly think that being bi-sexual is abnormal. This is why I mentioned I wanted someone who is a bit more mainstream. I really don't want to have to deal with someone who has weird sexuality. Love, relationship and marriage are complex enough as it is, I don't want to make things even more complicated for myself.
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Straight guys give up looking at other women when they start a family.
this is not true, lol.
Edited by Joh.Ke (08/06/23 12:14 PM)
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CreonAntigone said: Just take the attraction straight women feel to men, and the attraction straight men feel to women. Combine them, and use either or both. That's the way it is.
I should say though that 'true bisexuals' are quite rare. Most have a very strong preference one way or the other. Also, studies suggest quite a lot of women can be bisexual if it came down to it, their sexuality can be quite fluid (though usually they have mostly straight preferences with a little bisexuality on the side as dressing). The same is not true for men, who are much less likely to be bisexual. And I'd wager a lot of these women you think are staight are simply bi and find it easier to appear straight and not get guff from anyone.
In terms of family values, I don't really see why a bisexual would neccesarily be any less family oriented. Straight guys give up looking at other women when they start a family. Why can't someone give up looking at both sexes? It takes the same kind of committment. A person in a committed relationship rebuffs other advances regardless of how many there are, they stick with it. There's no reason a bisexual person couldn't be committed.
I don't think this really is a good enough reason to reject someone since it doesn't actually answer the question of their family values. By all means you do you - reject people for whatever reason you wish - but it's a bit foolish to me. You could find yourself with a cheating straight women and reject a faithful bisexual woman, if you rely merely on prejudice.
Honestly, you make a lot of sense. When I said family values, I guess i meant nuclear family values - since that's my background, and still that hasn't worked for me since I'm usually happier being single than in a relationship
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Re: Express yourself [Re: Joh.Ke]
#28423074 - 08/06/23 12:51 PM (5 months, 20 days ago) |
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Joh.Ke said: Btw, Quote:
Straight guys give up looking at other women when they start a family.
this is not true, lol.
What I meant was, ethics say they're 'supposed to', and they'll catch grief from the missues if they don't stop looking at other women.
This is a great example here of how even regular sexuality can be quite at odds with family values. They say monkies and apes, our closest ancestors, can have dozens of partners. But for most humans, when they 'settle down' they want one partner to always stick by them. Easier said than done.
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