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What is it to embrace moderation? 1
#28388946 - 07/08/23 02:41 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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I think that embracing moderation in some context can increase the anticipation and novelty of some experiences, but what is it to embrace moderation?
So far I think it involves understanding and respecting your own limits, being aware of the potential benefits, and trying to cultivate a healthy long term relationship with ourselves that prioritises our overall well being over temporary gratification.
I think it can be put into words, but the act of embracing moderation is.. a tougher one to grasp.
Embracing moderation involves adopting a mindset and actively practicing behaviors that support a balanced approach to a particular aspect of our life.
It includes understanding our limits, triggers, and motivations, as well as considering the potential short term and long term consequences.
Setting boundaries and establishing personal guidelines or limits that align with our overall well being and goals is also an important aspect.
It requires self control and making conscious choices to adhere to those boundaries, resisting immediate gratification in favor of prioritising our long term well being and satisfaction.
So I think that when approached with intention and mindfulness across various aspects of our daily lives, embracing moderation has the potential to cultivate a lasting sense of contentment and satisfaction.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: sudly] 1
#28388978 - 07/08/23 04:34 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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Moderation as a concept shows wisdom (as does rationing), but as a practice it involves the efforts of planning, and living according to one's plans, it also meas having contingencies, and dealing with the unexpected in a lighthearted way.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: redgreenvines]
#28388979 - 07/08/23 04:38 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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The laughing Buddha agrees
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: cubedryeguy] 1
#28388982 - 07/08/23 04:42 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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well planned!
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: cubedryeguy]
#28389001 - 07/08/23 05:57 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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cubedryeguy said: The laughing Buddha agrees

I'm not sure he does.

Within the contrasting image of a joyful, prosperous Laughing Buddha and a serene, austere ascetic monk, we are reminded that the path to personal growth and self development extends beyond immediate happiness. The challenges and sacrifices embraced by the ascetic monk highlight the deeper understanding and lasting fulfillment that can be found by contemplating the intricate dance between material abundance, embracing moderation, and inner growth.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: sudly]
#28389002 - 07/08/23 06:03 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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Precisely, that’s the point of the laughing Buddha
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: cubedryeguy]
#28389007 - 07/08/23 06:13 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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there is a point? not that again.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: redgreenvines]
#28389018 - 07/08/23 06:22 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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I’ve reached the point of no return
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: cubedryeguy]
#28389023 - 07/08/23 06:29 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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What is your interpretation of the Laughing Buddha's purpose?
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: sudly]
#28389038 - 07/08/23 06:57 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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sudly said: What is your interpretation of the Laughing Buddha's purpose?
A great reply to what RGV said.
Also I see his laughter, or smile, coming from a deep equanimity from within. That seems to fit with what you’re saying.
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sudly said: The challenges and sacrifices embraced by the ascetic monk highlight the deeper understanding and lasting fulfillment that can be found by contemplating the intricate dance between material abundance, embracing moderation, and inner growth.
You also called it a dance which made me laugh like Buddha.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: cubedryeguy] 1
#28389080 - 07/08/23 07:56 AM (6 months, 18 days ago) |
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Today I have embraced moderation.

'The pursuit of personal freedom and self expression, breaking away from societal norms and expectations. To emphasise the desire to assert individuality and defy external influences, embracing a unique path of one's own.'
That's not to say I haven't had my glutenous fill.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: sudly]
#28389643 - 07/08/23 06:35 PM (6 months, 17 days ago) |
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Your picture? I love it
How would you define personal freedom?
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: cubedryeguy]
#28389772 - 07/08/23 08:40 PM (6 months, 17 days ago) |
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Beyond a sense of financial stability, and reliable transportation, being able to have, express, and exist with personal responsibility. Not being beholden or responsible for the emotional security of another person. Not to not be caring of any issues they may have, or that I wouldn't be there for people in what ways I can, but acknowledging that I can't and don't want to change people.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: redgreenvines]
#28392528 - 07/11/23 02:19 PM (6 months, 15 days ago) |
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redgreenvines said: ...and dealing with the unexpected in a lighthearted way.
Love it!
And it is a way to make the rigors of discipline more manageable.
If I commit to eat an ascetic raw vegan diet for 3 weeks, I can practice moderation when I am a guest at my friend's house, and pig out on pizza.
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Or if one is determined to pay off credit cards, one can pay 90% of disposable income towards the credit cards but spend 10% on self-rewards.
Or if I am wanting to refrain from killing anyone this week... Ok, ehhh... nevermind that one.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: CapSlinger] 1
#28392549 - 07/11/23 02:29 PM (6 months, 15 days ago) |
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CapSlinger said: If you want nothing then you have everything.
Total freedom
Although at some point you will get thirsty and hungry
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redgreenvines said: ...and dealing with the unexpected in a lighthearted way.
Love it!
And it is a way to make the rigors of discipline more manageable.
If I commit to eat an ascetic raw vegan diet for 3 weeks, I can practice moderation when I am a guest at my friend's house, and pig out on pizza.
I think there's insight to be taken from non-monastic ascetic values.
You could eat a lot one day, and less the next etc.
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Re: What is it to embrace moderation? [Re: sudly]
#28392618 - 07/11/23 03:46 PM (6 months, 14 days ago) |
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sudly said: I think there's insight to be taken from non-monastic ascetic values.
You could eat a lot one day, and less the next etc.
Challenge accepted. Tonight, we feast!
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But you're very right. There is a lot to be gained from discipline when it is implemented in a sustainable way. I am going to take some time off of work next week to do some backpacking... which for me includes an ascetic diet and an unusual amount of exercise.
For me this moderation of healthy food and a massive calorie burn is my favorite sort of moderation because it includes variety, beautiful scenery, serenity and tranquility.
Maybe moderation means scheduling this sort of thing more often?
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