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Anonymous #1
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No physical and emotional intimacy poll 1
#28332438 - 05/24/23 11:31 AM (8 months, 1 day ago) |
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[/list]Would you stay in a relationship that had no intimacy? Physical and emotional intimacy
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LogicaL Chaos
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28334786 - 05/25/23 09:42 PM (7 months, 30 days ago) |
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If theres no intimacy, then theres no point to the relationship anymore. 1 reason why i cant do long-distance relationships for very long.
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#28334821 - 05/25/23 10:37 PM (7 months, 30 days ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: If theres no intimacy, then theres no point to the relationship anymore. 1 reason why i cant do long-distance relationships for very long.
Agreed.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28351553 - 06/08/23 02:29 AM (7 months, 17 days ago) |
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I was in a relationship with a girl who hadn't been intimate, we did everything else for 2 years but eventually I kinda broke down and said I couldn't do it anymore without that further intimate connection, especially with how horny I was getting.
It was a loving relationship by all means, after that we were intimate and thing a were good for a few more years until we grew apart.
Nowadays I wouldn't go through that again, and the other week I got down n dirty with a cool gal the first time we met and have had some fiery sex since.
Casually seeing multiple people atm, and enjoying the good communication.
The ex wasn't good at it and it's part of the reason we ended. I had been in relationships before her but enjoyed her being immensely.
She was more conservative than I was but overall I became a better person because of her.
Turns out she was inappropriately touched by her first ex and she was traumatised from it. Made it very difficult at times because she didn't express it much and woukd cry instead shutting down. So things were good one minute, then she'd freak out and start crying giving me the cold shoulder and all. I tried to be understanding but after a while it truly got to me. Her insecurities never really went away either and eventually I realised there was nothing I could do about it.
I hope she finds her white knight or opens up a bit more But in the end I decided it wasn't me.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28352236 - 06/08/23 02:43 PM (7 months, 17 days ago) |
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Depends........ My marriage was sexless but he told me I can go do what I got to do just dont ell him about it. And I did. It was very unfulfilling. We divorced. I think there is a lot of stereotypes surrounding men and sex. And men being good lovers as opposed to conquering.it caused us some issues.. big time.
Edited by Anonymous (06/08/23 02:45 PM)
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Anonymous #2
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28352261 - 06/08/23 03:03 PM (7 months, 17 days ago) |
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I met someone who had a child then didn't have sex with her firdt husband for 3 years. After they ended she explored many avenues and is now happily in a poly marriage with another man.
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#28361421 - 06/15/23 07:53 PM (7 months, 9 days ago) |
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I am cool with the relationship not being physically intimate, but no emotional intimacy is a deal breaker for me. I'm sexually scarred and so physical intimacy is hard for me. I do like it from time to time, but generally just want to have someone to snuggle whose company I enjoy.
My current man is absolutely perfect for this, cause he is kind of the same way. We are very open when talking about physical intimacy, and he is super understanding. I absolutely love him and consider myself very lucky to have him..something I've never been able to say with such certainty about any other man I've been with.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Larabar]
#28361470 - 06/15/23 08:52 PM (7 months, 9 days ago) |
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I was till a point but then I cracked.
Never cheated or entertained the idea which made it harder to accept the lack of intimacy from the beginning of the relationship.
Do you ask him to reassure you a lot? That got on my nerves after a while. Going to the beach and afterwards being asked if I noticed all these specific women in bikinis. We went to the beach! Ofcourse I saw women in bikinis and shirtless men. I was enjoying the swim, not oggling or staring at others. There were so many times I just couldn't help her insecurities. It just didn't matter what I did, there was nothing I could do. 
Being sexually scarred and then closing yourself off to your current partner irks me in ways that aren't easy to express with understanding for trauma. But god damn, I was sick of feeling helpless.
Then again from time to time makes perfect sense, I think I'm just a bit sensitive to the closing off sometimes involved with insecurities.
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #2] 2
#28361880 - 06/16/23 09:13 AM (7 months, 9 days ago) |
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I don't ask for reassurance at all. We are on opiates too if that makes any more sense. Not much of a sex drive to begin with. Trust me, we have a very healthy sex life. It's just a lot less active than others.
In the beginning, he was patient and didnt push anything, which, in turn made me trust him that way...and when we do have sex, it's mighty delicious.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28362065 - 06/16/23 12:21 PM (7 months, 9 days ago) |
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If there's no emotional intimacy it's not a relationship. You're as much my bf/gf as your actual bf/gf. We can talk about the importance of sex until the cows come home but if there's no sharing of emotions there's no relationship. It's that simple.
Edited by Anonymous (06/16/23 12:21 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28362266 - 06/16/23 03:37 PM (7 months, 9 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #2 said: I was till a point but then I cracked.
Never cheated or entertained the idea which made it harder to accept the lack of intimacy from the beginning of the relationship.
Do you ask him to reassure you a lot? That got on my nerves after a while. Going to the beach and afterwards being asked if I noticed all these specific women in bikinis. We went to the beach! Ofcourse I saw women in bikinis and shirtless men. I was enjoying the swim, not oggling or staring at others. There were so many times I just couldn't help her insecurities. It just didn't matter what I did, there was nothing I could do. 
Being sexually scarred and then closing yourself off to your current partner irks me in ways that aren't easy to express with understanding for trauma. But god damn, I was sick of feeling helpless.
Then again from time to time makes perfect sense, I think I'm just a bit sensitive to the closing off sometimes involved with insecurities.
No .. Not at all. I am confident in my appearance.
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Re: No physical and emotional intimacy poll [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28384083 - 07/03/23 06:48 PM (6 months, 23 days ago) |
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Depends. No physical intimacy could be tolerable, depending on the cause behind it. No emotional intimacy? No way I am staying. I want a friend, a partner and a fellow adventurer of this thing we call life.
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