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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28372646 - 06/24/23 12:08 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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In this cancel culture/virtue signaling society, you are all acting exactly how you’ve been trained to be

This shit doesn’t work in the real world on a long term basis though He has made amends with the person he hurt. Was he supposed to make amends to me for hurting someone else? I don’t think so
If I’ve helped any of you feel like a better person for giving you the chance to feel superior to me because I’m not as judgmental or as easily influenced by the bull shit that’s out there telling us what to think, then good for you
Many of you are reading a lot of misconceptions into things I said and clearly don’t have a true representation of what I expressed. I’m not interested in clearing it up for people that clearly want to see things from their already established opinion
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28372717 - 06/24/23 12:53 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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Dude let it be what it is. If its a constant re-occuring thing with every woman its one thing. Its totally different if it was a one time incident. Believe it or not some women really do push shit to the extreme and are asking to be beat. I don't do it personally but there have been times it took everything in me not to.
Dude has been a good friend to you. If you see something in the situation he doesn't help the dude out. Let him know to end it and help him find a better woman thats not going to do whatever she did to hurt him enough that he felt like he needed to hit her.
People can play angels all day but IMO there are some situations where the level of disrespect, deceit, or just downright sheistyness calls for a couple good punches. I'll be the asshole and say if i caught my girl fucking one of my friends they'd probably both get a bullet.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #10]
#28372863 - 06/24/23 02:37 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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Anonymous #10 said: Dude let it be what it is. If its a constant re-occuring thing with every woman its one thing. Its totally different if it was a one time incident. Believe it or not some women really do push shit to the extreme and are asking to be beat. I don't do it personally but there have been times it took everything in me not to.
Dude has been a good friend to you. If you see something in the situation he doesn't help the dude out. Let him know to end it and help him find a better woman thats not going to do whatever she did to hurt him enough that he felt like he needed to hit her.
People can play angels all day but IMO there are some situations where the level of disrespect, deceit, or just downright sheistyness calls for a couple good punches. I'll be the asshole and say if i caught my girl fucking one of my friends they'd probably both get a bullet.
Now that’s what I call real talk
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28372944 - 06/24/23 03:39 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: He has made amends with the person he hurt. Was he supposed to make amends to me for hurting someone else? I don’t think so
You already told us the opposite of this. You said he has 'his own version of events' eg minimizing and challenging her story. That's the opposite of making amends; he's contiuing to manipulate the victim, and you.
How exactly has he made amends? What has he done?
The amount of long-term damange such a trauma can cause is immense. Courts have found that domestic abuse can carry a civil penalty of 50 thousand or more due to the way it can disrupt someone's life.
Has he offered to pay bills for her therapy? Has he himself went to therapy to make sure he doesn't brutalize someone else again?
I bet he's done none of those things. He's made no amends.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28372982 - 06/24/23 04:01 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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"You already told us the opposite of this. You said he has 'his own version of events' eg minimizing and challenging her story. That's the opposite of making amends; he's contiuing to manipulate the victim, and you."
-You're reading too much into "his own version". Everyone has a different side, regardless of two people experiencing the same thing in the same place. I haven't said 1% of the shit she did before that happened but suffice it to say that she: -was broken up with and he told her he didn't want her around -kept barging into his house unexpected, yelling, throwing shit, hitting him -would break in in the middle of the night and wake him from the dead of sleep, ya know, to "talk about it" -eventually she barged in one evening when he was completely drunk, started screaming, breaking shit, hitting him, and he snapped. Both of them agree that all those things happened
"How exactly has he made amends? What has he done?" -He's had conversations with her about it and they aren't any of my damn business. Seriously? Do you actually think he owes me a fucking explanation for this? Friends are there for each other thru good times and bad and when someone is going thru some bad shit, people tend to make mistakes or get drawn into bad situations and getting judged by a friend and tossed aside is the last thing someone needs. Seriously, he showed the patience of a saint by NOT CLOCKING HER A MONTH BEFORE HE DID
"The amount of long-term damange such a trauma can cause is immense. Courts have found that domestic abuse can carry a civil penalty of 50 thousand or more due to the way it can disrupt someone's life." -Yeah, ok
"Has he offered to pay bills for her therapy? Has he himself went to therapy to make sure he doesn't brutalize someone else again?" -She's not interested in therapy that I know of. I do know that he goes to therapy, and this woman went to his therapist behind his back to say a lot of things she "thought the therapist should know" and that's really fucked up to interfere with someone's therapist like that
I bet he's done none of those things. He's made no amends. -Clearly you're wrong, presumptuous, overly judgemental, and I would not be friends with you in real life because you don't sound capable of being a true friend to anyone... A fair weather friend is no friend at all
Do you feel like I've spilled enough details yet or is he just forever a piece of shit? That's not a serious question as I don't care what your thoughts are on the matter so don't feel like you need to answer
Seriously though, virtue signal harder you little fucking bitch
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28373064 - 06/24/23 04:53 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Seriously, he showed the patience of a saint by NOT CLOCKING HER A MONTH BEFORE HE DID
And the mask comes off. You admit that you think domestic violence is a solution. You are pro-violence. Yeesh. Gross and disgusting.
Granted, her being violent, invading his space, etc is good background, but no justiciation for using any more force than is neccesary. Beating people to 'teach them a lesson' is how an animal behaves, not a man. You both are animals. She doesn't sound great either, but look what happens when you resort to violence, you become worse than the person who hurt you. It's the ultimate pathetic, bitch strategy - you both are the bitches.
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"How exactly has he made amends? What has he done?" -He's had conversations with her about it and they aren't any of my damn business.
You are ASSUMING that he's resolved it but you don't even know? You say I'm making assumptions but you are making up nonsense about how he's resolved it with her, when you've seen no evidence of the fact.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28373087 - 06/24/23 05:12 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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Oh boy! You got your GOTCHA MOMENT!
I bet it feels great to feel so morally superior to people you know nothing about but..
how pathetic you must be to have to resort to tactics like this in order to give yourself a boost
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28373092 - 06/24/23 05:14 PM (7 months, 1 day ago) |
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Why not just delete this thread and smoke crack with your buddy in peace?
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28373101 - 06/24/23 05:20 PM (7 months, 23 hours ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Oh boy! You got your GOTCHA MOMENT!
I bet it feels great to feel so morally superior to people you know nothing about but..
how pathetic you must be to have to resort to tactics like this in order to give yourself a boost
You're doing the exact same thing, acting morally superior.
The difference is I DIDN'T just say a woman deserved a beating... I'm not one to claim superiority, but I guess I'll even go so far as to say yes, I may be a little better than people that brag about beating women.
You didn't answer my question of how you'd feel about your friend if he beat your wife, by the way. I'd love to hear your opinion on that one.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28373115 - 06/24/23 05:30 PM (7 months, 23 hours ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said:
Do you feel like I've spilled enough details yet or is he just forever a piece of shit? That's not a serious question as I don't care what your thoughts are on the matter so don't feel like you need to answer
Seriously though, virtue signal harder you little fucking bitch

When you come on here asking opinions of a certain situation and then say you don't care what anyone thinks and then polish it all off with ad hominem attacks on person(s) whom do reply with substance that offers a different perspective than your own you clearly indicate several things.
One of which is that you do not appreciate others' points of view and another is that you are unwilling to consider a different perspective other than your own self indulging perspective.
This gives me the impression that you are pretty much willing to forgive any abuse as long as you didn't receive the abuse personally and in some way benefit from your relationship with the abuser.
Seems like standard self indulging narcissistic behavior to me. 
Rather than call names maybe you should just admit that since old bitch boy spousal abuser helped you out, you give no fucks about who he hurts or anything else.
If the local smack dealer pimps out your little sister for gangbangs are you gonna be cool with that because he helped you pay your rent and credit card bills? I mean after all it was your little sister's own fault she got hooked on smack, right?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28373126 - 06/24/23 05:35 PM (7 months, 23 hours ago) |
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I fail to see how acting less harsh and judgemental towards someone else's mistake is acting superior
And why don't you quote me saying she deserved it. What I said was he could've done it well before he did and that's different
Thank you for at least admitting that you feel like you're better than me while you sit there painting this story however you see fit, which you're clearly doing given your statements that stretch what I've said so far that they are no longer true representations of what I said in the first place
I don't need to answer you about what if he hit my woman. That's clearly different and you're clearly a disenginuine conversationalist and unfortunately I deal with that enough to know I need to stop this. She's forgiven him, they are now back together so why would I even consider holding it over his head?
Sorry dude, but you seem to be the kind of person that takes pleasure in feeling disdain for other people and looks to feel butthurt as some weird form of entertainment
If you've got anyone IRL that thinks you are their friend, hopefully you do not kick them when they're down and make mistakes as we all end up doing eventually
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #9]
#28373146 - 06/24/23 05:52 PM (7 months, 23 hours ago) |
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Anonymous #9 said:
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Anonymous #1 said:
Do you feel like I've spilled enough details yet or is he just forever a piece of shit? That's not a serious question as I don't care what your thoughts are on the matter so don't feel like you need to answer
Seriously though, virtue signal harder you little fucking bitch

When you come on here asking opinions of a certain situation and then say you don't care what anyone thinks and then polish it all off with ad hominem attacks on person(s) whom do reply with substance that offers a different perspective than your own you clearly indicate several things.
One of which is that you do not appreciate others' points of view and another is that you are unwilling to consider a different perspective other than your own self indulging perspective.
This gives me the impression that you are pretty much willing to forgive any abuse as long as you didn't receive the abuse personally and in some way benefit from your relationship with the abuser.
Seems like standard self indulging narcissistic behavior to me. 
Rather than call names maybe you should just admit that since old bitch boy spousal abuser helped you out, you give no fucks about who he hurts or anything else.
If the local smack dealer pimps out your little sister for gangbangs are you gonna be cool with that because he helped you pay your rent and credit card bills? I mean after all it was your little sister's own fault she got hooked on smack, right?
Yeah, all these made up scenarios that are no where close to what we're actually talking about really aren't useful
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28373207 - 06/24/23 06:38 PM (7 months, 22 hours ago) |
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Thanks for admitting that you can't see this dude as a bad person because he helped you out. And since she forgave him you think it's OK and noones business, even tho you posted the topic for conversation.
 Really, maybe she is the type of ho that needs a good beat down every so often to remind her how appreciative she should be on the days she doesn't get the shit slapped out of her.
Your perspective seems idiotic to me.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #9]
#28373221 - 06/24/23 06:49 PM (7 months, 22 hours ago) |
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Maybe you boys should come back after you get some hair on yur nuts
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28373259 - 06/24/23 07:11 PM (7 months, 22 hours ago) |
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And why don't you quote me saying she deserved it. What I said was he could've done it well before he did and that's different
OK OP, if I'm misinterpreting, explain what you mean. You said he 'could have' beaten her earlier. So what do you mean by that? It obviously isn't the literal meaning, it isn't about that he's physically capable of beating her - as that isn't really in question.
So why would you say he 'could have' beat her at those earlier times? Go on and provide the 'correct interpretation' and tell us what it actually means.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28373267 - 06/24/23 07:16 PM (7 months, 22 hours ago) |
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Actually, I just realized your own explanation was completely misinterpreting what you said earlier. I went back and looked at what you said...
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Seriously, he showed the patience of a saint by NOT CLOCKING HER A MONTH BEFORE HE DID
You are saying that ANYONE BUT A SAINT would've hit her. No. What a ridiculous statement.
You can't accuse me of misinterpreting you now. Let me go by your exact words. You think someone would have to be a saint not to be a domestic abuser in that situation. I beg to differ. I wouldn't have beaten her even if I'd been getting harassed. Most people I know wouldn't have beaten her. I don't know many domestic abusers.
You are saying that you'd see yourself beating her too in that situation... so really, you're admitting you would've done the same thing.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #8]
#28373360 - 06/24/23 08:27 PM (7 months, 20 hours ago) |
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See the obove post regarding distinguish conversationalists
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28374752 - 06/26/23 02:38 AM (6 months, 30 days ago) |
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #5]
#28374900 - 06/26/23 07:10 AM (6 months, 30 days ago) |
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Good men surround themselves with good men, whether they like it or not, because they are bound in duty as good men to be good men. End of conversation. 
It's a manner of principle and ethic that can free someone from the complexities of socializing. Can't say I feel worse for having a backbone.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Would you be/are you friends with any “bad”people [Re: Anonymous #7]
#28374973 - 06/26/23 08:00 AM (6 months, 30 days ago) |
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What a bunch of faux white knights...
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