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Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? 1
#28251575 - 03/28/23 05:26 PM (9 months, 27 days ago) |
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Me and my roommate are gonna try shrooms for the first time this weekend. We’re good friends but I think I have a crush on them? They got a partner and I’m scared I’ll admit my feelings and make things awkward or try to kiss and make things even worse? Are these fears legit ? I have no clue what tripping on shrooms will be like.
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NotSheekle
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Luma]
#28251583 - 03/28/23 05:32 PM (9 months, 27 days ago) |
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If you are afraid you won’t be able to control yourself and keep your hands/lips off them maybe don’t do drugs together unless they have explicitly shown interest/consent in that kind of contact...
Being conscious and aware of that potential now makes you accountable for your actions while high.
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: NotSheekle]
#28251594 - 03/28/23 05:36 PM (9 months, 27 days ago) |
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Ok, I’ll have a chat with them about it beforehand to clear the tension and we’ll decide if we wanna go through with it after.
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28252706 - 03/29/23 09:19 AM (9 months, 26 days ago) |
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Yep, speaking from experience, it's not a good idea to go into a trip with someone you're secretly crushing on. You may just feel like the moment is magical at some point and spill your beans quite spontaneously. To the other person however, this isn't fair, as it gives them an unexpected bone to chew on while in an inadequate state of mind. It might well ruin the trip, or worse, the friendship. I think it's much better to clear up things beforehand as you intend to do.
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NotSheekle
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Aldous]
#28252717 - 03/29/23 09:25 AM (9 months, 26 days ago) |
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See Seinfelds “The Deal”

Edited by NotSheekle (03/29/23 09:26 AM)
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Luma]
#28252728 - 03/29/23 09:30 AM (9 months, 26 days ago) |
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Shrooms are soooo sexual to me. I have only done them with my partner because I worry... what I hit on someone.. offend my partner by asking for a 3 some... We all have sides to us others dont like.. my partner doesnt accept or like my sexual side.So I dont share it. On shrooms... I dont think I could ever do them with him and someone else. It wouldnt end well.. for him. He would be hurt.
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28252734 - 03/29/23 09:34 AM (9 months, 26 days ago) |
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I couldn’t be with someone who wouldn’t enjoy me expressing all sides of myself freely and then take a psychoactive introspective drug either... I would end the relationship immediately and then have to sit there tripsitting a recently dumped girl out of guilt.
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Luma]
#28252750 - 03/29/23 09:50 AM (9 months, 26 days ago) |
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I get that... deeply
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Luma]
#28263390 - 04/05/23 10:30 AM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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I'd heavily recommend against that. Crushing on your roomate is a bad idea. Tripping with someone you have a crush on is a bad idea. Tripping with someone you have a crush on in your own 4 walls is a terrible idea. All of these taken together is just horrible. Hell. I'd probably rate taking MDMA in that type of scenario as somewhat less horrendously Not Smart.
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Luma] 3
#28325827 - 05/19/23 06:00 AM (8 months, 6 days ago) |
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Update: we ended up having a talk and doing shrooms anyways(way too much for a first trip) turns out I was scared for nothing because I was way too fucked up to even care anymore. My ceiling literally became the ocean and I’m pretty sure I died and came back. I was speaking in rhymes? Then the nausea hit a peak and I had the worst trip of my life. All I could concentrate on was wanting it to end. My roomy had pretty much the same experience so we ended up drifting into separate rooms to ride out the rest of our trips. Once the worst of it had passed, we just ended up chilling together on the floor. Fruit was amazing but chewing felt like eating gravel.
Idk if it’s because of the trip or not but we’re also now in a relationship together! Her and her girlfriend didn’t work out (because of unrelated events) and we ended up confessing to each other not too long ago. So I guess it worked out pretty well in the end.
Edited by Luma (05/19/23 06:01 AM)
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: Luma]
#28343930 - 06/02/23 01:40 AM (7 months, 23 days ago) |
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Pfffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff-- All ends well that ends well I guess. Honestly though that sounds like alright pretenses for trying it again. This time cuddling. Though honestly I'd say source mescaline if you can.
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: NotSheekle]
#28357959 - 06/13/23 05:39 AM (7 months, 12 days ago) |
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Re: Scared I’ll come on to my Roommate while on shrooms? [Re: SirShroomsAlot89]
#28358756 - 06/13/23 06:09 PM (7 months, 12 days ago) |
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Quote:
MDMA or even meth
Amphetamines activate my oral fixations to an unreal degree 😵
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