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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28446104 - 08/25/23 06:54 AM (5 months, 1 day ago)

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I am 50 and my partner is 48. My sex drive went through the roof. I mean crazy high!! Highest my sex drive has ever been in my life. It was pretty wild from 45 to current.
He has no sex drive at all... nothing.
We have really shitty sex once about every three months




In my personal life, I've been seeing this becoming fairly common.
I don't condone cheating. A healthy relationship should be able to talk about these things.
It sounds so hard to talk about then tell your partner you need more sex. If they're not willing to provide it then you two need to come to an agreement on how to satisfy this urge.
Cheating isn't sleeping with someone that isn't your partner. Cheating is deceiving your partner. If partners discuss these things and agree, there is no deception. If no one agrees then separate, you're not meant for each other.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28446474 - 08/25/23 01:54 PM (5 months, 1 day ago)

YES
when we got back together I told him I will not be sexless again and I will go get my needs met if I need to. I haven't.... but he knows. He gets it.. we have been here before.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28446530 - 08/25/23 02:54 PM (5 months, 1 day ago)

One FOF hid liquor bottles in my couch, went legally blind, and had two heart attacks in one day, at my house. He had some kind of common decency, but remained highly gullible and had a lot of work to do at 'adulting'.

Does your partner like it when you set terms and try to take care of his health? Some people feel like you're a protector, like you're their conscience, saving their life. They don't even feel like they exist, without some significant other, by whom the sun rises and sets.

Others consider it nagging.

Which one of you was typically the life of the party, during the better times?


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Anonymous #3

Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008]
    #28446573 - 08/25/23 03:33 PM (5 months, 1 day ago)

He gets angry and feels I am controlling him or telling him what to do if I suggest a physical.

Alcohol with him was a nightmare.... so bad...


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28446725 - 08/25/23 06:34 PM (5 months, 1 day ago)

He is legally or financially trapped?


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008] * 1
    #28446876 - 08/25/23 09:51 PM (5 months, 21 hours ago)

I think it is sad to suggest the only reason one remains in a relationship is for legal or financial reasons. Relationships, and the emotions they often provoke are generally far more complex.


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Edited by pslyke (08/25/23 09:52 PM)


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: pslyke]
    #28447464 - 08/26/23 01:54 PM (5 months, 5 hours ago)

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I think it is sad



Learn from the mistakes of others, many of whom are putting subtleties on the backburner in relationships of convenience.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: pslyke]
    #28447494 - 08/26/23 02:20 PM (5 months, 4 hours ago)

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pslyke said:
Relationships, and the emotions they often provoke are generally far more complex.




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One FOF hid liquor bottles in my couch, went legally blind, and had two heart attacks in one day, at my house. He had some kind of common decency, but remained highly gullible and had a lot of work to do at 'adulting'.




He had his arm broken by a female :facepalm: who later bore him a child. They are still together, on his disability.

He gets pissed (as severely as is possible for his mld mannered ways), when his boys are shown pellet guns and firecrackers.

On a primal level, there's def a form of polarity.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008] * 1
    #28449803 - 08/28/23 12:04 PM (4 months, 29 days ago)

He is not legally or financially trapped.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28449826 - 08/28/23 12:22 PM (4 months, 29 days ago)

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we have been here before.




Either you both thrive on negativity, or you are both getting something beneficial out of the arrangement. It's not for me to tell you what that is. But, most people say the same two or three things.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28449828 - 08/28/23 12:22 PM (4 months, 29 days ago)

We both understand why we are here.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28450678 - 08/29/23 01:59 AM (4 months, 28 days ago)

Varies from a couple of times a week to a few times a month. It's a seasonal thing for me, mostly. Summer is frisky, winter is cocooning time. We've been together for 10 years and we seem to manage to keep things interesting and rewarding for both of us.

My sex drive is most definitely way less than it used to be 10 or 20 years ago. I don't lament it, though. What's left is all the more rewarding, balanced, interesting and overall wholesome.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Brian Jones]
    #28451584 - 08/29/23 07:49 PM (4 months, 27 days ago)

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In my late 40's I had a girlfriend whose back was broken in two places. We had to have sex every day because the endorphins gave her one hour pain free. Had to start ordering Cialis just in case. After 6 months it started seeming more like a job than a thrill.



:eek:

How could she have sex with a broken back?  Wouldnt that make it worse?


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Joh.Ke]
    #28451803 - 08/29/23 09:39 PM (4 months, 27 days ago)

A decompression table reminds me of the rack, from a Medieval dungeon.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Brian Jones] * 1
    #28451876 - 08/29/23 10:46 PM (4 months, 27 days ago)

Buy her a rose... she can do it herself so you can have a break 🤣
It shouldn't feel like a job.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Joh.Ke]
    #28451878 - 08/29/23 10:48 PM (4 months, 27 days ago)

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In my late 40's I had a girlfriend whose back was broken in two places. We had to have sex every day because the endorphins gave her one hour pain free. Had to start ordering Cialis just in case. After 6 months it started seeming more like a job than a thrill.



:eek:

How could she have sex with a broken back?  Wouldnt that make it worse?






Blew her back out 🤣🤣🤣
Maybe trying to blow it back in 🤣


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28452399 - 08/30/23 12:57 PM (4 months, 27 days ago)

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Either you both thrive on negativity, or you are both getting something beneficial out of the arrangement. It's not for me to tell you what that is. But, most people say the same two or three things.



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We both understand why we are here.



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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008] * 4
    #28458281 - 09/04/23 11:21 AM (4 months, 22 days ago)

Here’s my experience. I’m sharing because for me, and most of my partners over the years, contrary to popular opinion sex keeps getting better.

I’m a 60 y.o. male, gf is 53. When we are together we have sex four to eight times a day. Plain vanilla P in V and oral in long sessions. She cums a lot. I cum once or twice a day usually orally, which she loves.

The least sexy time is when we go to bed for sleep at around 10pm. After that we will spontaneously wake up together around 2 and screw for half an hour or more. Again at sunrise, and again when one of us tries to get out of bed. That little goodbye or a single kiss is the spark to start it all again. And again, all throughout the day. When we have days together it takes effort to leave home. Thank the gods for frozen meals and microwaves. 

I’m in okay shape, not great. Tall and thin with a little extra and a penis no one would notice. She is fit and incredibly beautiful to me but not everyone’s cup of tea. I’ve been dating for seven years, she for three. While I’ve had bouts of hot sex with other women, it usually fades in a few days or weeks as does the relationship. She has never had anything like this, or been with anyone as sex positive as me.

We are not practicing Tantra but it’s very much the experience tantricas describe. Intensely energetic, whole body orgasms, bodies and souls fully enmeshed. Hot, fun, and more please.


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #6]
    #28464140 - 09/10/23 09:43 AM (4 months, 16 days ago)

58 Years old. I love sex. Wife doesn't. She says it's painful.
When we were dating the sex was OK. Several times a week.
Later in our marriage we settled into sex in the same position once per month.  It began feeling a bit rapey.
I am fit and reasonable attractive for my age.
A couple times I couldn't finish. But I can maintain a VERY strong erection for hours masturbating.

Now we don't have sex at all. Feels too rapey to me.
I feel cheated and lied to. I wish I had other options, but ... No sex ever again? How did I get to this point?


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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #28464665 - 09/10/23 07:11 PM (4 months, 16 days ago)

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Anonymous #7 said:
58 Years old. I love sex. Wife doesn't. She says it's painful.
When we were dating the sex was OK. Several times a week.
Later in our marriage we settled into sex in the same position once per month.  It began feeling a bit rapey.
I am fit and reasonable attractive for my age.
A couple times I couldn't finish. But I can maintain a VERY strong erection for hours masturbating.

Now we don't have sex at all. Feels too rapey to me.
I feel cheated and lied to. I wish I had other options, but ... No sex ever again? How did I get to this point?




If it's painful when it wasn't before has she had a check-up to find out why? I don't get why you feel cheated and lied to, unless you have reason to believe she is lying about it being painful. Sounds miserable for both of you!


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