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If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? 1
#28307629 - 05/05/23 10:36 AM (8 months, 20 days ago) |
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I ask because I've just entered my mid 30s and just want to know what to expect in the future.
Edited by Anonymous (05/05/23 10:41 AM)
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Anonymous #1
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28307639 - 05/05/23 10:42 AM (8 months, 20 days ago) |
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I ask the question presuming that those that answer have a partner. That was an oversight on my behalf. For those that do not fall within my presumption, I still invite you to reply to the initial question.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28307648 - 05/05/23 10:48 AM (8 months, 20 days ago) |
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Usually between twice and five times a day, doubled when I got to my 50's
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #2] 3
#28308251 - 05/05/23 08:34 PM (8 months, 19 days ago) |
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How did you find the time to type your response?
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: pslyke] 1
#28308372 - 05/05/23 10:29 PM (8 months, 19 days ago) |
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Gotta hydrate on the hour
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28313834 - 05/10/23 07:42 AM (8 months, 15 days ago) |
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Women have a increase in 40's. Every man I know decreases. Dramatically Other problems start up
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3] 4
#28315051 - 05/10/23 11:38 PM (8 months, 14 days ago) |
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Maybe once or twice a week.
We both work and have a kid, and a bunch of responsibilities. I don’t think it’s the physical part keeping us from fucking, so much as not having a ton of moments to let loose. I would recommend staying in shape, eating healthier than not, and being in a functional relationship to maximize your odds of fucking regularly though.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: ManianFH] 4
#28336616 - 05/27/23 07:54 AM (7 months, 29 days ago) |
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In my late 40's I had a girlfriend whose back was broken in two places. We had to have sex every day because the endorphins gave her one hour pain free. Had to start ordering Cialis just in case. After 6 months it started seeming more like a job than a thrill.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28340459 - 05/30/23 10:05 AM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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That sounds amazing for her and not so amazing for you. I used to use orgasm to reduce pain. I used exercise too. People thought I was crazy I would barely be able to move but went to the gym. It worked.. it was a successful pain reliever.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28441120 - 08/20/23 09:25 PM (5 months, 5 days ago) |
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I'm 43F. I'm probably not a good general example, but sex stabilized recently since we moved to Seattle. Now, generally, in a week: once vaginal with one guy and twice anally with the younger guy. I don"t suck dicks because they're disgusting. Hey, in Fla it was much worse.
But now I slack off all day & night.
Before you criticize me: I work 10 minutes/day, every other day.
Well?
Huh?
Well?
...OKAY, THEN!
Edited by Jess_Fukket (08/20/23 09:37 PM)
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Jess_Fukket]
#28441210 - 08/21/23 01:04 AM (5 months, 5 days ago) |
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #4] 1
#28441235 - 08/21/23 02:40 AM (5 months, 5 days ago) |
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Just a few times a month
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Citizen X] 2
#28441254 - 08/21/23 04:33 AM (5 months, 5 days ago) |
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Both of us work full-time and I do nights so it differs week to week. At least once a week upto 3 times a week. Once you get to 40 there's more to a relationship than just sex but you'll figure that out as you age
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#28441950 - 08/21/23 03:58 PM (5 months, 5 days ago) |
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I am 50 and my partner is 48. My sex drive went through the roof. I mean crazy high!! Highest my sex drive has ever been in my life. It was pretty wild from 45 to current. He has no sex drive at all... nothing. We have really shitty sex once about every three months
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#28442894 - 08/22/23 02:46 PM (5 months, 4 days ago) |
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I come from physically-strong and long-lived people. I have generally maintained all of my routines, since early adulthood, and have never experienced any declines, in any dept, prior to middle age. I think people are breaking down from the desk chair or not listening to their body if subjected to high wear.
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008]
#28442929 - 08/22/23 03:13 PM (5 months, 4 days ago) |
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My partner has a physical construction job. He got sober and lost all his sex drive
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#28442952 - 08/22/23 03:42 PM (5 months, 4 days ago) |
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Sober from alcohol or certain drugs?
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: durian_2008]
#28443896 - 08/23/23 01:46 PM (5 months, 3 days ago) |
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Alcohol. Only time he does it now is if he uses shrooms, which so far has been once every 18 months. sucks...
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28443934 - 08/23/23 02:14 PM (5 months, 3 days ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: Alcohol. Only time he does it now is if he uses shrooms, which so far has been once every 18 months. sucks...
Slip him some viagra or find yourself a younger stud
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Re: If you're over the age of 40, how often do you have sex? [Re: Anonymous #5]
#28444290 - 08/23/23 07:03 PM (5 months, 3 days ago) |
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Depending on how your body processes alcohol, it is sexually inflaming, imo.
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