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Anonymous #1
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Unattractive
#28302186 - 05/01/23 12:45 PM (8 months, 24 days ago) |
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I am turning 50 in a few weeks and I am feeling weird. And I just realized that it may be returning 50. But I think it is more than that.
I think it is a few different things, this is my hypothesis on why I am feeling this way.
1. Being in a sexless relationship, zero touching at all for any reason 2. I lost a lot of muscle. My body has changed. 3. I am starting to look older 4. My relationship is a friendship not a relationship, feels empty
I just don't feel attractive like I used to.... What are things I can do to feel more attractive? I am female.
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AspectOfTheCreator
Mastering the Art of Success


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Start with going to the gym regularly and eating right.
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Anonymous #1
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I make attempts to do both. I have lost a lot of my free time so I was not going to the gym like I used to- how I lost muscle. I was going up to 3 times a day. I was very fit. I could improve my eating and working out. I think everyone could.
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AspectOfTheCreator
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It can be a hard commitment to make but well worth it. Last year I fell out of regular exercise and in hindsight I'm amazed at how quickly I fell apart. My mood, confidence, waistline, etc all went to hell. Feels good to be back now. I'm not female and I can only speak for what has worked for me.
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Anonymous #2
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Three times a day in the gym is not necessary. Even three times a week with a good conscientious training can give results. We all are getting old. Are you married? People give up on sex for many reasons. Is it possible to communicate your needs to your partner? Or are you adventurous enough to find what you need? Don't judge me for saying this but it is terrible to give up one part of your life because your partner may be holding hostage that part of your life.
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Anonymous #1
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I was going three times a day when I could. I loved it. And it helped me get through some stuff. I am aware I dont need to go that often. I had the time then and I enjoyed it. I still go, just not like I used to.
I am not married. We are divorced because of that issues. I have talked about it Until I cant talk anymore. I also informed him I will get my needs fulfilled elsewhere. He knows. End of our marriage it was an open marriage. We have been here before but this is different, we are not married and I am not waiting around for him. THOUGH it has been three years and I still have not found it elsewhere  I am not adventurous enough.. I wish I was. I dont feel like my appearance has changed as much. BUT My mentality has.. I just dont feel attractive
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Anonymous #2
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If you would be content with just a NSA/FWB kind of situation at least you could get back some feelings and being touched. Would you go for it even if just temporarily?
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Anonymous #1
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YES I look all the time. I am in school online. I am always home.. always. I dont ever meet anyone. And I am resistant to go online. We live together, etc. My neighbor asked me for fwb but... I think no would be the best answer.
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Anonymous #1
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1000000X's YES
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Anonymous #2
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It would be hard for someone to find you that way. You probably need to use an app like bumble or go online in sites like okcupid or doublelist. Don't you think?
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Anonymous #1
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I dont know if I should. I live in a tiny town
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consider keeping the ¨friendship" but being open about seeing others.
consider that no matter what you look like... someone who looks like what you want is looking for someone who looks like you.
consider taking a class, just to meet people, even if you arent trying to fuck them.
consider going to a meetup.com group somewhere nearby
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Edited by rxb (05/01/23 04:12 PM)
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Anonymous #2
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I dont know if I should. I live in a tiny town
Any bigger town nearby? How close?
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Anonymous #1
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2 hours away is the biggest
I would normally say I am not unattractive. But, I dont know anymore. I dont feel attractive.
I have less then 950 in my isolated rural town.
I used to go out of town a lot. I have had some life changes that inhibit this happening now.
I told him he needs to find someone to sleep with and he said no. I am a little reluctant to bring it up again. but I need to.
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Anonymous #2
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said:
I told him he needs to find someone to sleep with and he said no. I am a little reluctant to bring it up again. but I need to.
Have you told him that you need to sleep with someone? Whether him or someone else?
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Anonymous #1
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Yes. I have been saying it for three years. I dont think I have said it the last 3-5 months.
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Lynnch
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So you're living with someone who doesn't find you attractive anymore? I'm not surprised you feel this way. Nothing is gonna change until you actually get out of there and move on. A town of 950? That's smaller than my highschool was.
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LogicaL Chaos
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Sounds like youre stuck!
Id recommend travelling to that bigger nearby city and dressing up sexy/beautiful then going to the grocery store and hopefully some attractive guys will check you out giving u a much needed confidence boost.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Unattractive [Re: Lynnch]
#28302698 - 05/01/23 08:28 PM (8 months, 23 days ago) |
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Its much deeper then that. But yes Were good friends
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Anonymous #3
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Going to a gym three times a day is ridiculous bordering on mental illness.
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