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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28284683 - 04/18/23 11:23 PM (9 months, 5 days ago)

I did it once, it was great! Would fully recommend.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28285228 - 04/19/23 11:51 AM (9 months, 5 days ago)

I decided no


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28285229 - 04/19/23 11:52 AM (9 months, 5 days ago)

You made the right choice. 
Don't settle.
You deserve a good person you're attracted to.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28285231 - 04/19/23 11:53 AM (9 months, 5 days ago)

I think so too.
And... Acting desperate is not attractive. And I feel I was acting kinda desperate.
desperate/horny...
whatever.
I am smarter than that.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28285232 - 04/19/23 11:54 AM (9 months, 5 days ago)

Just masturbate instead lol.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28285245 - 04/19/23 12:05 PM (9 months, 5 days ago)

LOL
I know...
I miss the real deal... a lot


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28285261 - 04/19/23 12:17 PM (9 months, 5 days ago)

I just met this girl two days ago for the first time (met online first).  She's cute, little chubby, but I don't mind that.  More cushion for the pushin'.
We did the deed. 
it's super casual. 
We'll probably meet again soon.
You'll find someone soon if you keep lookin' and take care of yourself


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
    #28285364 - 04/19/23 01:13 PM (9 months, 5 days ago)

In addition to the other concerns OP had, when she mentioned it was a neighbor I couldn't help but think this was a deal breaker unless she was looking to move soon...

I've had bad neighbors in the past, and I've never had to deal with one that I was previously screwing.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: pslyke]
    #28285693 - 04/19/23 04:25 PM (9 months, 5 days ago)

That's a fair point.
Things can get weird if the neighbor ends up being a total creep.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: pslyke]
    #28285838 - 04/19/23 06:03 PM (9 months, 5 days ago)

Quote:

pslyke said:
In addition to the other concerns OP had, when she mentioned it was a neighbor I couldn't help but think this was a deal breaker unless she was looking to move soon...

I've had bad neighbors in the past, and I've never had to deal with one that I was previously screwing.




Yeah... that was a concern also.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28285844 - 04/19/23 06:08 PM (9 months, 5 days ago)

I do take care of myself.For my small town I am considered attractive, but that's also dependent on the person looking. Right?
I just dont meet people and I can't "meet" people to date, in my field.
I had an experience yesterday. I met a guy and he kept flirting with me and it was SO awkward. I kept kind of avoiding him. He was attractive, very attractive. But in conversation he mentioned his girlfriend. Deal Breaker
I got kinda sad that my reaction was to be uncomfortable. That bothered me. That it has been so long that I am uncomfortable and how will I meet someone let alone have sex again.....But it is also something I can work on.
It was an eye opener


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #28286330 - 04/20/23 04:17 AM (9 months, 4 days ago)

You got uncomfortable and the guy was taken. Not weird at all.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28286841 - 04/20/23 02:05 PM (9 months, 4 days ago)

I think I felt offended that he was flirting with me and has a girlfriend. I dont think he meant to mention her. It was only once, in reference.
I think it was like feeling offended... I would never be the other woman.. ever.. fuck no.. no no no


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28286858 - 04/20/23 02:24 PM (9 months, 4 days ago)

I was in a 5 year relationship and I never once entertained the idea of flirting with another woman. But that's just me because I was commited and happily so. Until I began becoming more independent and growing apart from her, and when I became more distant and realised it would only hurt her more to continue.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28286907 - 04/20/23 03:06 PM (9 months, 4 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
I think I felt offended that he was flirting with me and has a girlfriend. I dont think he meant to mention her. It was only once, in reference.
I think it was like feeling offended... I would never be the other woman.. ever.. fuck no.. no no no



There's a non-zero chance he was playing an angle. In some demographics trying to do the whole "--well why don't you steal me" play is fairly popular and even effective so he very well might've been single and thrown that in in order to garner more interest.
Which ain't a good basis for a relationship anyway but y'know.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #28286912 - 04/20/23 03:09 PM (9 months, 4 days ago)

We all got a type I suppose.


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #28286935 - 04/20/23 03:25 PM (9 months, 4 days ago)

Definitely, some dudes have an "affair fetish", like on the site Ashley Madison.

Naughty naughty :nonono:


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Re: Friends with Benefits, do I dare? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28287064 - 04/20/23 04:56 PM (9 months, 4 days ago)

I have been on Ashley Madison. LOL I had an open relationship
I am not into being the other woman at all.
He was a super good looking guy and ... I dont want to offend any males by coming stereotype. He was that super attractive guy that wants you to chase him.


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