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Abombs
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I know a couple people who think they are morally superior for no fap
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LogicaL Chaos
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It also helps with preventing porn-desensitication as well.
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jack_straw2208
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Just like not smoking crack makes smoking crack better.
Let's be real though, even if you do it all the time it's still gonna be a blast.
Using your imagination instead of porn is like drinking coffee instead of smoking crack.
Nowhere near as fun, but way easier to build a life that is naturally more conducive to fun. Scarlett Johansson's husband jerks off way less than OP's stepdad.
Not jerking off at all is fucked up and wrong, anybody that engages in such activity would be wise to keep it to themselves.
Bragging about not jerking off is the moral equivalent of bragging about how much porn you can watch when you're high on crack.
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thelanzii

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i have indulged in many areas of porn, especially while high on adderall and I know its not good for the brain.
That said I lay in bed every night and fapping while looking at porn on my tablet happens.
Some porn makes me uncomfortable and I take a step back and am like wtf am I doing and wtf is this and then come back the next day and those thoughts are shoved aside for a quick nut.
I have read the benefits of nofap. I also don't like feeling like a pent up horny 15 year old. Maybe ill read into it more.
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jack_straw2208
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It's bad programming that makes you feel guilty for pursuing a hardwired biological urge.
Compulsive anything is not good, but I really think pornography is way less damaging to the brain than cigarettes or smartphones.
We really need to shed the puritanical control mechanisms that are so deeply entrenched in modern society, before the industrial revolution, pent up sexual energy was the driving force in directing people's labor. We have outgrown it.
How much damage do you really think you're doing to your brain by jerking off to weird porn on Adderall?
The damage lies in lost sleep, not in watching videos of people pursuing or pretending to pursue orgasms.
All of the preachers and politicians, all the hot chicks with glasses with fancy degrees telling you porn is bad, they all watch way more porn than you. They get off on telling people what to do, which in my book is way more detrimental to society than you watching a redhead 18yo fisting a fat hairy granny till both their cervixes leap out of their crotches.
Unless of course self-shame and embarrassment are your kinks, in which case, I hope you find the right partner in real life to make you happy.
No fap is for people way more fucked up than you
Didn't mean to get emotional about it, I just take my work very seriously. Thank you.
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thelanzii

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Lately it's just been blonde or Latinas with fatasses doing anal and spreading their pink buttholes
Really hits the spot
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jack_straw2208
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I wouldn't worry too much about that. Never a bad idea to take a break from porn, but I think it's a good idea to jerk off at least once a day, I think of it like taking vitamins.
As long as you treat real life women with respect, I don't think it should matter how much porn anyone watches.
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It is my opinion that as long it's between consenting adults and no one is getting hurt against their will, it doesn't matter how weird the porn you watch is. There are one or two things that aren't appealing to me, other than those prescious few exceptions, the weirder the better!
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Edited by jack_straw2208 (04/07/23 12:01 AM)
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Zonen
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How are you doing there OP? Did you no fap for two weeks so far? I sprained both my wrists so im no fapping in order to heal quicker lol
Edited by Zonen (04/21/23 09:44 AM)
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sudly
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Re: No Fap [Re: Zonen]
#28289223 - 04/21/23 11:01 PM (9 months, 2 days ago) |
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I think no faps more about desensiting yourself to the pink because ain't none of them going to grip as tight as a hand.
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Re: No Fap [Re: sudly]
#28289375 - 04/22/23 04:20 AM (9 months, 2 days ago) |
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This is more what I'm referring to.
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The term "death grip," as it pertains to masturbation, was originally coined by the pioneering sex columnist Dan Savage. "It refers to men that masturbate with an overly tight grip on their penises—or in any fashion that applies a LOT of pressure, like humping a mattress—who later go on to have difficulty orgasming during partner sex,” explains Sarah Martin, MA, a certified sex coach. It can also lead to an inability to orgasm and issues maintaining erections.
This means you might be gripping your penis with your hand so tightly, that having sex with a partner (intercourse, oral, etc.) can feel unexciting or under-stimulating for you. Let’s be real, a vagina or mouth is never going to be as tight as a hand. This is just science.
Whether you’re single, in a long-term relationship, dating around, open, or polyamorous, masturbation is a wonderful way to release tension and get in touch with your body.
But, like anything in life, sometimes too much of a “good” thing can can have unpleasant consequences. While masturbation is awesome, it can just so happen that your masturbation techniques may have the potential to disrupt other areas of your sex life.
“Humans are creatures of habit, and the same goes for our genitals," Martin says. "If someone gets accustomed to experiencing orgasm from a lot of pressure, changing to a context with less pressure and more subtle sensations can make it difficult to experience orgasm."
Additionally, Martin says that young men are often so afraid of getting caught masturbating, that they develop death grip to get it “over with” as quickly as possible.
https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27044367/death-grip-masturbation/
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Re: No Fap [Re: sudly]
#28289634 - 04/22/23 09:48 AM (9 months, 2 days ago) |
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sudly said: I think no faps more about desensiting yourself to the pink because ain't none of them going to grip as tight as a hand.
Ive found the few butt holes ive had the pleasure of entering have had more grip than when i use my hand, or rather its like its being strangled from all surface area 💀, but with hands you can customize the area of sensation more. In that sense of grip I agree
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Re: No Fap [Re: Zonen]
#28289833 - 04/22/23 01:01 PM (9 months, 2 days ago) |
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All this talk of jerking off is making me need to go jerk off, brb
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jack_straw2208
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Who needs excuses?
For me it's more of a smell thing.
If there is no vagina, my hand will never be as exciting as a vagina.
I kinda think this whole "deathgrip" thing is more an excuse for good-looking female sexperts to openly discuss and project the way they feel about their own excessive masturbation onto greasy bespectacled virgins.
The experts tend to be more sick than the nerds.
You ever see the movie Trading Places? Literally any social axis can be viewed thru that frame.
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sudly
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Nice plectranthus?
In a relationship my sex life was pretty stable. Have only been single a few months now and it's going well enough now, but if someone doesn't find what they want and they get a poor post just clarity, then all I'm saying is that a change in technique may see mental improvements for some people over entirely quitting cold turkey.
Some people like a dick in the but, some think it can be painful.
I'm only vanilla with sprinkles after 8 years of relationships, haven't fisted anyone yet and I got to learn to tie knows better. But recently I've been broadening my horizons and really getting myself out there with all jealousy aside. Is nice to have independence.
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Edited by sudly (04/22/23 04:08 PM)
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Big_Dub said: I'm going to commit to NoFap.
Do it.
Do it for a period of months. 3 - 6 is all you need. Maybe less. Build and store the sexual energy. You may feel that there is no benefit at first. After 3 - 6 months, EDGE.
Edge until it feels like you can't hold it anymore. Then take a break.
Then repeat. Keep doing this for a period of days.
You will feel it building and building each time.
You will feel things that you didn't know it was possible to feel.
It will get to a point where it is effortless to hold it, and you can just keep building the energy.
Then you will realise your true potential, and how powerful you really are. Sexual energy is the source of all creation.
The truth is, that this energy is infinite. But most people are still living in the finite, so if that is your reality, you may have to start by treating it as if it were finite.
Once you feel infinity and believe it, it won't matter, fap / nofap. Everything will just be what you believe it to be.
I've been edging for 8 hours straight since I woke up.
I had to stop because my dick turned purple and swollen. And I'm hungry now.
I've never really used pr0n. My imagination is fucking WILD.
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sudly
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Kegal exercises with a Pilates circle for pelvic floor muscle growth can be good.
I don't think cold turkey quitting is all too feasible sometimes, but every bit of progress from a few days to longer is good imo.
I don't know that edging for 8 hours is beneficial, especially if you're watching porn or something because the engrams associated are still being deepened dampening visual sensitivity.
And edging for 8 hours without porn? Heck, that imagination must be imaginative! And you must be thirsty 
But still, I think the best version of ourselves can be the disciplined version of ourselves.
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Re: No Fap [Re: sudly]
#28319768 - 05/14/23 05:36 PM (8 months, 11 days ago) |
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sudly said: And edging for 8 hours without porn? Heck, that imagination must be imaginative! And you must be thirsty 
But still, I think the best version of ourselves can be the disciplined version of ourselves.
Exactly.
The imagination girls tell me that they love how disciplined I am.
I've had sex with literally hundereds of (real-life) women in the past, but I didn't know what the fuck I was doing back then.
Now I do.
Now I have upped my skills with the single player mode.
Bring it on.
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jack_straw2208
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Man y'all are nuckin futz, I have no way of knowing for certain but I get the strongest sense that Einstein, Davinci, Pasteur, Madame Curie, and Jimmy Carter all masturbated a minimum of twice daily.
Get it all out of your system so you can focus on things outside yourself.
I mean if you wanna experiment with pleasure fasting, all the more power to ya, but what I really think the whole no-fap thing boils down to is someone in a brilliant flash of post nut clarity came up with what would be one of the internet's greatest troll campaigns ever.
Y'all's bunch of high ass dupes, now if you'll excuse me, a flock of Canadian geese just landed in my back yard and I need to give them something to write home about.
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6 months without screen time. Best thing I ever did. I since bought a house working on it every day, quit Alchohol quick cigarettes and meat. I feel absolutely amazing.
You have to start somewhere
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sudly
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Re: No Fap [Re: trekko]
#28340117 - 05/29/23 11:48 PM (7 months, 26 days ago) |
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What grounded you through that?
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