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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
    #28299125 - 04/28/23 04:47 PM (8 months, 27 days ago)

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thelanzii said:
i currently do freelance work to make income
I do play online fps but have no interest in meeting an egirl

I dont leave the house enough, at my last job I talked to people all day

not particularly interested in "barflies"  as I find a lot of younger women basic and boring.  Part of the reason why I was attracted to this girl is because she had experienced real pain and had some character depth.

I may start going to some of the Buddhist groups in town.  being apart of some more casual activities is of interest as well.  Just not really sure what to do as my default state is operating alone in my room. 

its an interesting post and I remember when I was younger in college, and hs I had never read anything about game and did just fine with women

game kind of feels like a trick or an act

not knocking it because i do need to work on seduction, leading the conversation and just in general being deliberate with my word choice to enhance attraction.




Also my problem. I dont go anywhere to meet anyone. And the places I go are not appropriate for me to meet potential romantic interests.
I feel you


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: loladoreen] * 2
    #28300695 - 04/30/23 06:06 AM (8 months, 25 days ago)

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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
    #28300707 - 04/30/23 06:19 AM (8 months, 25 days ago)

Well what do you want? Casual, serious, one night etc. And what kind of girl or girl with shared interests are you looking for?

I think it's important to try and figure out what you do and don't want, and that usually means communicating it, but also just meeting up with people and seeing if there's any chemistry.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: sudly]
    #28300980 - 04/30/23 10:47 AM (8 months, 25 days ago)

k


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
    #28301095 - 04/30/23 12:36 PM (8 months, 25 days ago)

Try to not have those conversations all the time. Make her feel like she can talk to you about your pain. But try and fill your time with positive things.

The shallow guy is fun and makes her feel happy

I'm late to the party and didn't read anyone else's post. I'm sure someone said this already.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
    #28301725 - 05/01/23 12:33 AM (8 months, 24 days ago)

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Looking for casual for a bit then I am sure I will get bored and want something in the dating realm.




Not sure what you mean here because casual is something in the dating realm.

I also think similarities in religious or secular views are pretty fundamental to anything more than a one night stand too, because in the end I think it represents a lot of what people value, and if people value different things in a foundational way like that, it probably isn't going to work out, or at least in my view that's often the case.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: sudly]
    #28302110 - 05/01/23 11:14 AM (8 months, 24 days ago)

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thelanzii said:

I am white and spend most of the day in my head.  Dancing is a fear of mine.  I see how it's a form of expression, although have been in sitautions where the feeling was it was forced.  I have been to music festivals where I enjoyed myself far more in the bleachers observing it all as opposed to being in the crowd.




Witnessed and called, clipped and shipped. 🤷♀️
You're going to fix this. 👨⚕️ Doctor's orders. This type of thing is not necessary for everyone. Hell it's not necessary for everyone to do with people they want to interest. But for people like you it's basically T H E hurdle to get around. You're fifteen hundred feet too far up in your own brain and it makes you seem uninspiring, weird and, worst of all, radiating a mild undercurrent of judgement everywhere you go. I don't know that cause I know you but I know that cause I know the type of person I used to be and the type of person I run into over and over and over in these, as marketers call it, "spaces".



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She lacks the depth I look for in a woman.


 
Women like that are either 15 years older or already married to their highschool sweetheart or currently working at cat shelters or attending gunshows & MLP cons. Basically you'd need to go weirder or back in time in terms of environment if you want depth since depth in context like this tends to involve (im)aturity and non-standard interests and experiences.

PS:
Poi.
Devil/Flower sticks.
Gloving.
Tutting.
Learn how to do any of these/all of them if you want something more formalized than dancing. Tutting & gloving especially was basically invented for people too on the spectrum and anxious for proper dancing.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: towndaze] * 4
    #28303479 - 05/02/23 01:06 PM (8 months, 23 days ago)

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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii] * 1
    #28303543 - 05/02/23 01:42 PM (8 months, 23 days ago)

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I am glad this experience with this girl happened because it has pushed me towards becoming more self-aware, acting on self-improvement, and really pondering what I find interesting in a girl.  At the end of the day, I didn't really find this girl much more interesting than a sexual partner with some fun character attributes sprinkled in here and there.




:thumbup:

Personally I've found good connections with women 30+. I'm 27.

I appreciate good emotional intelligence and some confidence which I've found moreso with such women.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii] * 1
    #28304062 - 05/02/23 08:24 PM (8 months, 22 days ago)

Where do you guys live?
I need to be around men that like older women
:smile:


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: loladoreen] * 1
    #28304180 - 05/02/23 09:34 PM (8 months, 22 days ago)

In a land down under where we all go under.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: loladoreen]
    #28304195 - 05/02/23 09:46 PM (8 months, 22 days ago)

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loladoreen said:
Where do you guys live?
I need to be around men that like older women
:smile:




You might like this article/survey: https://www.shaneco.com/theloupe/jewelry-education/love-relationships/average-dating-age-range-in-every-state/


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28304781 - 05/03/23 11:07 AM (8 months, 22 days ago)

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LogicaL Chaos said:
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loladoreen said:
Where do you guys live?
I need to be around men that like older women
:smile:




You might like this article/survey: https://www.shaneco.com/theloupe/jewelry-education/love-relationships/average-dating-age-range-in-every-state/




My state dates 1-6 years younger.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: loladoreen] * 1
    #28304920 - 05/03/23 01:01 PM (8 months, 22 days ago)

Ooof!

Perhaps thats 1 of the reasons why youre having trouble finding a lover :strokebeard:


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
    #28304939 - 05/03/23 01:14 PM (8 months, 22 days ago)

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thelanzii said:

I have been reading about dating, game and that area lately and have noticed many of my flawed actions as well as it bringing some clarity to my situation.




:thumbup:

I'm amazed how many WRONG ideas I've had about women, being attractive, and the art of seduction.  It's one thing to be clueless and ignorant, but I had embraced some very wrong and distorted ideas that have fueled a myriad of missed connections during my lifetime.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28305005 - 05/03/23 02:04 PM (8 months, 22 days ago)

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Ooof!

Perhaps thats 1 of the reasons why youre having trouble finding a lover :strokebeard:




PERHAPS :smile:


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: RJ Tubs 202] * 1
    #28305007 - 05/03/23 02:06 PM (8 months, 22 days ago)

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thelanzii said:

I have been reading about dating, game and that area lately and have noticed many of my flawed actions as well as it bringing some clarity to my situation.




:thumbup:

I'm amazed how many WRONG ideas I've had about women, being attractive, and the art of seduction.  It's one thing to be clueless and ignorant, but I had embraced some very wrong and distorted ideas that have fueled a myriad of missed connections during my lifetime.




Haven't all of us? I love that you are able to admit that. I think there is a lot of maturity and personal growth behind someone that is able to say that.
I also have and I missed out on good people and opportunities.


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: loladoreen] * 1
    #28306454 - 05/04/23 01:03 PM (8 months, 21 days ago)

had an interview today

it went very well, had her laughing and playing with her necklace

she said she loved my calm voice

was definitely interesting dynamic and experience for an interview

she also said she would recommend me for the position above the position I was applying for

big city, good job and a confidence boost might be having my dating life drastically improve in the near future

I'm excited


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
    #28306458 - 05/04/23 01:06 PM (8 months, 21 days ago)

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RJ Tubs 202 said:
Quote:

thelanzii said:

I have been reading about dating, game and that area lately and have noticed many of my flawed actions as well as it bringing some clarity to my situation.




:thumbup:

I'm amazed how many WRONG ideas I've had about women, being attractive, and the art of seduction.  It's one thing to be clueless and ignorant, but I had embraced some very wrong and distorted ideas that have fueled a myriad of missed connections during my lifetime.



one thing I don't get is the asshole attraction thing. I understand teasing its fun.  I don't understand why being an asshole has women responding well to it.


Not sure what the concept of nice guy means - I hear it thrown around all the time and there's always multiple definitions


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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii] * 1
    #28306684 - 05/04/23 04:31 PM (8 months, 21 days ago)

Assholes look confident before you realize they're assholes. This is also why I treat seduction as "advanced inceldom"...seduction is very, uh, seductive to incels. However, instead of putting in the work required to actually develop attractive qualities, they just fake them. Which, more often than not, basically means they begin acting like ginormous douches. You'll actually see this a lot in the community--most pickup artists and coaches will openly tell you that they are assholes. Actually, in my experience, if a man readily admits to being an asshole, there's a solid chance they've recently tried to learn seduction.

Oftentimes, when you see people being assholes in real life, that is because they can get away with it due to power/status/wealth/whatever. So, by acting like an asshole, you pretend to be the kind of guy that has power/status/whatever, and the entire goal is to dazzle inexperienced women long enough to sleep with them. That's what seduction people mean by "frame control"--you must keep the interaction happening on your terms, that way she doesn't get to peek behind the curtain and realize there's nothing there.

The concept of nice guy refers to men that believe that they can buy sex through doing a certain specific combination of gifts, favors, and conversations. Bit like how you can use a cheat code in a videogame for god mode, they believe there is a similar cheat code that unlocks panties. The most pernicious aspect of this is that this is not a discussed situation, but more of a secret expectation. So, from the girl's perspective, some random guy that does her favors occasionally suddenly flips out and demands sex, and when she's like "um...what?" the guy points to all the "nice" things that he's done. Then he goes on the internet and complains how he's such a nice guy but still can't get laid.


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