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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii] 2
#28292546 - 04/24/23 07:43 AM (9 months, 11 hours ago) |
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The art of seduction is basically advanced inceldom.
First, the fundamental premise of seduction is that you will get girls...not the girl. You will not be able to use it to successfully get any particular girl, it just increases your chances of "scoring" with any new girl you meet, and teaches you to always be meeting new girls. Probably won't help with anything long term, unless random barflies meet your standards.
Second, it still places the agency entirely on women in your life. Spending your time figuring out the best way to look aloof and detached is still spending your time entirely focused on pleasing women.
Finally, it really only works on the under 25 crowd. There's a reason that the seduction people are always hanging out at college bars (yes, that dude in his 40s at the college bar is waiting to run game at 1am). And, I guess technically 18+ is legal, but...yeah, I'm in my 30s, and that shit is already icky.
Edit: do I have a better suggestion? Not really, apart from becoming the kind of guy women are attracted to. That just requires doing stuff. You don't even need to be particularly good at it, just as long as you're leaving the house and interacting and learning and shit. That's the most useful lesson you'll learn from seduction gurus: you don't get laid by sitting in your bedroom kicking ass at CS:GO.
Edit2: one more thing I overlooked, if you are currently trying to meet women by sitting in your bedroom and kicking ass at CS:GO, then seduction might help? It really gamifies interactions with women. That's the whole point of their lingo, like "sets" and "frame control" and whatever else. It literally applies videogames call-out language from discord to human interactions, to make gamers more comfortable.
Edited by Kryptos (04/24/23 07:56 AM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: Kryptos]
#28292580 - 04/24/23 08:16 AM (9 months, 11 hours ago) |
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Kryptos said: The art of seduction is basically advanced inceldom.
First, the fundamental premise of seduction is that you will get girls...not the girl. You will not be able to use it to successfully get any particular girl, it just increases your chances of "scoring" with any new girl you meet, and teaches you to always be meeting new girls. Probably won't help with anything long term, unless random barflies meet your standards.
Second, it still places the agency entirely on women in your life. Spending your time figuring out the best way to look aloof and detached is still spending your time entirely focused on pleasing women.
Finally, it really only works on the under 25 crowd. There's a reason that the seduction people are always hanging out at college bars (yes, that dude in his 40s at the college bar is waiting to run game at 1am). And, I guess technically 18+ is legal, but...yeah, I'm in my 30s, and that shit is already icky.
Edit: do I have a better suggestion? Not really, apart from becoming the kind of guy women are attracted to. That just requires doing stuff. You don't even need to be particularly good at it, just as long as you're leaving the house and interacting and learning and shit. That's the most useful lesson you'll learn from seduction gurus: you don't get laid by sitting in your bedroom kicking ass at CS:GO.
Edit2: one more thing I overlooked, if you are currently trying to meet women by sitting in your bedroom and kicking ass at CS:GO, then seduction might help? It really gamifies interactions with women. That's the whole point of their lingo, like "sets" and "frame control" and whatever else. It literally applies videogames call-out language from discord to human interactions, to make gamers more comfortable.
This was a pretty cool analysis. I enjoyed reading it. Really interesting connection of gaming, I personally haven't heard it before.
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: Kryptos]
#28292589 - 04/24/23 08:24 AM (9 months, 10 hours ago) |
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Alright Mr Tate, treat em mean keep em keen, play hot and cold, break em down to build them up, make them feel like they can't do any better than you..
Playing these kinds of games can gain the trust of overly trusting or naive individuals, but the player sure has to be ruthless to do it imo.
And don't forget to sprinkle in a little feeling of 'spiritual connection' to really hook in the astrologically or witchcraft inclined ones..
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: Kryptos] 1
#28293554 - 04/24/23 06:46 PM (9 months, 31 minutes ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:18 PM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28293591 - 04/24/23 07:14 PM (9 months, 3 minutes ago) |
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I like the ones with coloured hair who talk nerdy shit.
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: sudly]
#28294209 - 04/25/23 05:11 AM (8 months, 30 days ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:18 PM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28295583 - 04/26/23 12:42 AM (8 months, 29 days ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:18 PM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28295861 - 04/26/23 07:48 AM (8 months, 29 days ago) |
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Sounds like you were infatuated then. It happens to the best of us. At least it's pretty easy to move on from that.
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28295990 - 04/26/23 09:26 AM (8 months, 29 days ago) |
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thelanzii said:
An odd concept for me as one would think someone they have feelings for would enhance life not cause a lack of peace
Some would say this is a symptom of anxious attachment that many experience.
It's often associated with a strong fear of rejection or abandonment, and clinginess and neediness.
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: RJ Tubs 202]
#28296916 - 04/26/23 09:45 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:18 PM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28296931 - 04/26/23 09:53 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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I think they were talking about her.. not you
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28296947 - 04/26/23 10:10 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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"I wanted to talk to you about something that's been on my mind lately. We've had some deep and meaningful conversations, and I've really enjoyed connecting with you on that level. However, I've noticed that our relationship has taken emotional turns, and I'm not sure if we're on the same page.
I value our friendship and connection, but I've been feeling a bit used and unappreciated lately. For example, when I reached out to you after a long day, I didn't hear back from you for days, and it left me feeling disrespected.
I don't want to put any pressure on you or our relationship, but I think it's important for us to communicate openly and honestly about our feelings and expectations. Are you looking for something more romantic with me, or do you see our relationship as strictly platonic? I just want to make sure we're not wasting each other's time and that we both understand where we stand."
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: PatrickKn] 1
#28296950 - 04/26/23 10:12 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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Calling that a relationship is creepy imo.
She just a friend, none of yo business what she do otherwise
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: sudly]
#28296959 - 04/26/23 10:19 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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In hindsight relationship might be too strong of a word, sure.
I think he just needs to be direct and ask where things are going or stop wasting his emotional energy on something that isn't. Easy way to find out, and if the answer is that he's not the dude he'll save himself a lot of heartache.
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: sudly]
#28296960 - 04/26/23 10:19 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:18 PM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28296963 - 04/26/23 10:21 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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WHOA BIG clue to everything that now makes everything make more sense.. she's on drugs It has nothing to do with you.. she is not ok Ofcourse it was a relationship, you have a relationship with someone and it's not an intimate relationship. I have a relationship with the post office lady
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: PatrickKn]
#28296964 - 04/26/23 10:21 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:18 PM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28296965 - 04/26/23 10:23 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:19 PM)
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: thelanzii]
#28296972 - 04/26/23 10:31 PM (8 months, 28 days ago) |
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She has a lot going on. It is apparent it has nothing to do with you. She has some things going on deep inside her. I think most people are wonderful to their core. We have issues, everyone does to different degrees. Obviously she needs a friend. Just a friend.
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Re: Women talk to me about their pain then fuck other guys [Re: Anonymous #2] 3
#28298337 - 04/28/23 02:32 AM (8 months, 27 days ago) |
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Edited by thelanzii (05/30/23 02:19 PM)
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