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None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with want to date me
#28263405 - 04/05/23 10:41 AM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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I really don't get what I'm doing wrong. I've had average or maybe slightly above average dating success in my life but somehow I always end up with borderline squares who barely want to smoke weed much less take MDMA/Speed/hallucinogens. On the other hand my drug group are either taken or not interested or not compatible, though thankfully that's mutual barring one exception (cause holy shit). Anyone can relate or advise?
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28263414 - 04/05/23 10:46 AM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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Go to Psytrance festivals this summer
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with want to date me [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28263601 - 04/05/23 12:33 PM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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You ATTRACT those who don't use hard drugs.. is that really a negative? Maybe your problem is that you don't even know who you are. Maybe your problem is you are taking quality people for granted. Drugs don't make life better.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with want to date me [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28263642 - 04/05/23 01:06 PM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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Anonymous #2 said: You ATTRACT those who don't use hard drugs.. is that really a negative? Maybe your problem is that you don't even know who you are. Maybe your problem is you are taking quality people for granted. Drugs don't make life better.
QFT; hard drugs are a distraction from what's right in front of you. I wish the shroomery could give every member a therapist; we are among the most sensitive individuals.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with want to date me [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28263727 - 04/05/23 02:15 PM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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Anonymous #2 said: You ATTRACT those who don't use hard drugs.. is that really a negative? Maybe your problem is that you don't even know who you are.
It's a 'problem' insofar as that a certain level of acting out on substances now and then is a dearly-held part of my lifestyle. Maybe I'm in error but sharing your life seems rather normal a desire to me.
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Maybe your problem is you are taking quality people for granted
Oh absolutely.
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. Drugs don't make life better.
That is a very confucian way of looking at it. Does painting miniatures 'make life better'? Sometimes the moment is enough I feel.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28263824 - 04/05/23 03:44 PM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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Ya those are two things are hard enough to come by on there own let alone together. Good luck don't settle.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: Abombs]
#28263853 - 04/05/23 04:06 PM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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Not sure if mocking or not. But hey. Shulgin managed. That old goat low-key found the love of his life for drug experiences and hilariously vanilla monogamy at the same time.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28264071 - 04/05/23 07:23 PM (9 months, 18 days ago) |
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I'm not mocking. Those are two traits that may be hard to find together.
I would love to find someone I can be myself with.
Edited by Abombs (04/05/23 07:24 PM)
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28265921 - 04/06/23 06:47 PM (9 months, 18 days ago) |
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Could be a blessing in disguise so you don't get strung out. Or watch someone you love not be able to stop.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: loladoreen]
#28266048 - 04/06/23 08:11 PM (9 months, 17 days ago) |
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Yeah some people draw the line for"hard drugs "at different places. Some may consider anything harder than pot" hard" others draw the line at injection.
I know tons of people who like mushrooms but feel lsd may as well be crack.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: Abombs]
#28271965 - 04/10/23 09:31 PM (9 months, 13 days ago) |
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I know tons of people who like mushrooms but feel lsd may as well be crack.
Feel this.. as someone who peddles LSD and thought it would be a lot more lucrative than the barely past zero thing it is. The hardest dudes I work with say they are scared. But let me know when you have them mushrooms they say..
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: kuman30]
#28271984 - 04/10/23 09:39 PM (9 months, 13 days ago) |
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That's ironic considering how much easier, more euphoric, and more pleasant LSD is compared to mushrooms. Mushrooms are fucking hardcore. LSD is like a beautiful delicate butterfly. Mushrooms will bend you over and fuck you. LSD is like making love to a beautiful woman.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: nooneman]
#28272080 - 04/10/23 11:14 PM (9 months, 13 days ago) |
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Lol, I don't know about all that. LSD is easy when you have already gotten comfortable with it. I do remember it overly intense and I might not have handled it as well as a young person, but now.. I'm just in for the ride. Mushrooms can have me going on a deep crying spiral about all the kittens and the puppies in pain and how people are so cruel. Generally, I find mushrooms a little more valuable afterwards, LSD each time is like.. well that was, something... then the 2-3 week timer starts all over again. Mushrooms are king if you are baller enough to have them all the time. I've been able to do them on a Friday and then still have a decent time with them on a Sunday.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: kuman30]
#28272096 - 04/10/23 11:42 PM (9 months, 13 days ago) |
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I am not quite sure if I should broach the topic that I am a mushroom growing, drogas peddler either to girls I am talking to or hide it at all costs. 900$ a week at my day job just wasn't making those big debt numbers go down fast enough.. what ever was I to do?
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: kuman30]
#28273849 - 04/12/23 03:38 AM (9 months, 12 days ago) |
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kuman30 said: I am not quite sure if I should broach the topic that I am a mushroom growing, drogas peddler either to girls I am talking to or hide it at all costs. 9
Depends on the type of girl you're into and how you're into them. To many drug dealing is more appealing than drug taking.
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Abombs said:
I'm not mocking. Those are two traits that may be hard to find together.
I would love to find someone I can be myself with.
Thank you for that.
Edited by Anonymous (04/12/23 03:38 AM)
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28278659 - 04/15/23 09:25 AM (9 months, 9 days ago) |
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Personally i think it's easier to sell occasional drug use to someone who's not into the lifestyle, than to sell a better lifestyle to the ones using drugs more frequently. But that depends on your lifestyle and how drugs fit into them. For me, they're occasional (weed/alcohol a couple times a month, mushies a couple times a year, coke/mdma every few years) and general lifestyle is the priority so i want someone who will match that. I can sell them on infrequent usage and if they partake with me, great! If not, let me have my vices and we'll navigate around it.
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Re: None of the people I date want to do "hard" drugs with me. None of the people I do "hard" drugs with ... [Re: MLPismyOPSEC]
#28278968 - 04/15/23 01:06 PM (9 months, 9 days ago) |
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MLPismyOPSEC said: Personally i think it's easier to sell occasional drug use to someone who's not into the lifestyle, than to sell a better lifestyle to the ones using drugs more frequently. But that depends on your lifestyle and how drugs fit into them. For me, they're occasional (weed/alcohol a couple times a month, mushies a couple times a year, coke/mdma every few years) and general lifestyle is the priority so i want someone who will match that. I can sell them on infrequent usage and if they partake with me, great! If not, let me have my vices and we'll navigate around it.
good point
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