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Abombs
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#28249117 - 03/27/23 10:59 AM (9 months, 28 days ago) |
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Lol. It's surprising how many men and women are unwilling to lay there partner back and pleasure them
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28250607 - 03/28/23 08:23 AM (9 months, 27 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: I just watched a video on fingering a woman on Tik Tok. I thought this is great! What an accessible easy way for lovers to learn to sexually satisfy their partners. Then I realized... The education has been there via videos, books, etc for the past 20-30 years How did you learn to satisfy your partner? Partners?
Trial and error. You have to map them out. Everybody's different. The best advice I can give is to leave no Stones Unturned. Be completely honest with your partner and let them know what you like and find out what they like. Be very direct.
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Abombs
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #4]
#28250790 - 03/28/23 10:07 AM (9 months, 27 days ago) |
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Yes communication is key. But also accepting the communication is equally important.
I tried to ask for certain things and she always took it as an insult to her vast sexual experience.
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
#28255249 - 03/30/23 07:34 PM (9 months, 24 days ago) |
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Abombs said: Yes communication is key. But also accepting the communication is equally important.
I tried to ask for certain things and she always took it as an insult to her vast sexual experience.
Agreed. For example, I like my asshole licked. It's really hard to communicate with him and tell him that. So I just shove his head down there..
You poor thing. She should be more open and treat you like a cute student of her vast sexual knowledge...
It might be a little emasculating, but I think it's hot!
Best of wishes, MS. B00F3R
Edited by Ms. B00f3r (03/30/23 07:43 PM)
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28255302 - 03/30/23 07:51 PM (9 months, 24 days ago) |
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We've been kindof beating around the bush (ha) in this thread, but let me just say it: ask them what they like and what feels good. Straight up ask them. Maybe even have them show you. Maybe ask if they do or don't like a thing you're doing, or if you should do it differently, etc. That goes a long way.
Also, maybe watch videos on it where women talk about it, either what they like, or if they're lesbians what they do, techniques, stuff like that. Maybe watch some lesbian cam girl videos and see what kind of stuff like do and try to understand it.
For me personally, I just watched a lot of porn, and fucked a lot of women and that's how I learned. But I also talked with those women about what they liked and didn't like, and that was the key 100% of the time.
One key thing is: don't be boring, and make it last a lot longer than 5 minutes. Sounds simple and like common knowledge, but all the women I know who have talked about guys in the past who sucked at sex, it was always one of those two things: they were either boring, or it was over in under 5 minutes. One complained that their ex did the same boring routine every time.
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Abombs
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: nooneman]
#28256260 - 03/31/23 01:47 PM (9 months, 24 days ago) |
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A healthy relationship helps to I quit trying to have sex with her years before we divorced cuz not once did she ever have sex with me when I tried to. Only when she was in the mood.
But again bad relationship
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28256515 - 03/31/23 04:30 PM (9 months, 24 days ago) |
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It's been so long for me I think I would be so awkward if I had sex with someone.
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Abombs
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28256645 - 03/31/23 06:05 PM (9 months, 24 days ago) |
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I finally got layed 2 years post divorce. I thought I would be awkward, but it's like riding a sexy bike.
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28256810 - 03/31/23 08:18 PM (9 months, 23 days ago) |
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As long as u had previous experience, you're golden. If not, it can feel a bit daunting because you will feel like u dont know what to do. Knowledge is power.
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 2
#28257045 - 04/01/23 03:03 AM (9 months, 23 days ago) |
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First timers. Make sure you lick the kitty.. 😻
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28257323 - 04/01/23 08:58 AM (9 months, 23 days ago) |
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When I got divorced the first person I had sex with.. it as awful. It improved. I finally ended up with a guy that was amazing in bed. I had known him my entire life and felt comfortable with him. And I think that was it.. I felt comfortable. It was so great... That was almost 4 years ago... I miss being sexually free, I miss being desirable to a person, I miss orgasms with another person.. I dont want a one night stand because that connection makes it mind blowing one night stand feels empty
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Abombs
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28258149 - 04/01/23 07:07 PM (9 months, 23 days ago) |
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Ya I long for a long term partner to have a connection with. But would settle for casual sex. Fuck I wish I had the confidence to talk my way into women's pants.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28258350 - 04/01/23 09:51 PM (9 months, 22 days ago) |
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I am certain you would succeed.
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Abombs
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28258385 - 04/01/23 10:04 PM (9 months, 22 days ago) |
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Ya thanks but no.
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
#28258883 - 04/02/23 09:30 AM (9 months, 22 days ago) |
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When is the last time you dated or hit on a girl?
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28258942 - 04/02/23 10:27 AM (9 months, 22 days ago) |
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Just paying attention to reactions, really. And doing what felt right. Practice makes perfect.
The simplest, most reductionist thing I can say is that the more I've thought of of the clit as being like the head of my dick, and the vulva as being like the shaft, the better things have gone. There's internal stuff going on, too, of course, but I think men often tend to over-emphasize it. If a woman wants you to fuck her with your fingers or tongue, she'll probably let you know. Thinking of it as a hand/blowjob is probably a more fruitful conception of the process.
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: B Traven] 1
#28259557 - 04/02/23 05:55 PM (9 months, 22 days ago) |
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I don't hit on or flirt at all ever. And I don't notice when I'm being hit on. The ex always told me when I was being flirted with.
I only get laid when it falls in my lap. Socializing or the thought of really makes me anxious
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs] 1
#28261579 - 04/04/23 06:34 AM (9 months, 20 days ago) |
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Flirtation & seduction are skills many never learn. Many of us have led a life of a myriad of missed intimate connections. Due to fear (AKA a "lack of confidence") and just basic knowledge of how to flirt and seduce, and how to recognize when others are interested and attracted to us. A woman recently told me 20% of the men in the world are having 80% of the sex. There's a reason for that.
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 4
#28593773 - 12/22/23 07:47 AM (1 month, 6 days ago) |
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i used to just masturbate with my partner and see how they touched themself. then if i used my hands for them i knew how they liked it. why mystify it with youtube and books. go direct to your source
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28605686 - 01/01/24 11:02 AM (27 days, 7 hours ago) |
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Sometimes I wonder if there is truth in these posts or I just have shitty luck and get very sexually selfish men.
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