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Everybody deserves a second chance, IMO, if drugs are involved, like mushrooms or meth, then sometimes things just happen. They are almost uncontrollable. My BF baby mama was into stem sex and right after she would bang a shot of some clear, she would instantly change into a sex fiend. I'm just using that as an example of things that can happen while under the influence. Maybe if you cannot get over it then talk to her and get closure..
Best of luck, A
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We want closure too. What did ya do about it?
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Second chance? At what? It’s not like he is delivering her some sort of justice He is looking out for his future The question isnt whether or not she did something wrong its whether he will be able to shake the memory and how he will feel Him leaving her is not taking a chance away
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: NotSheekle] 1
#28257303 - 04/01/23 08:44 AM (9 months, 23 days ago) |
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NotSheekle said: Second chance? At what? It’s not like he is delivering her some sort of justice He is looking out for his future The question isnt whether or not she did something wrong its whether he will be able to shake the memory and how he will feel Him leaving her is not taking a chance away
Idk. Perspective. I'm just a very forgiving person. It also opens up other doors. 😉
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I don’t think she did anything that needs forgiving but he will never forget it and how it makes him feel.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: Kakarot]
#28257317 - 04/01/23 08:54 AM (9 months, 23 days ago) |
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And that is ok. That is how we grow as humans. Not forgetting, using the experience to expand and become who it is we want to be. It is as negative as you want it to be. They could break up and move on and everything is ok or it could be devestating. Either way.. Lets be a form of positive support. Either way.. it will be ok it didnt sound like a new relationship..
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Anonymous #3 said: Everybody deserves a second chance, IMO, if drugs are involved, like mushrooms or meth, then sometimes things just happen. They are almost uncontrollable. My BF baby mama was into stem sex and right after she would bang a shot of some clear, she would instantly change into a sex fiend. I'm just using that as an example of things that can happen while under the influence. Maybe if you cannot get over it then talk to her and get closure..
Best of luck, A
You are responsible for yourself under the influence of substances. Just because you find yourself desirous and with proclivities under the influence, that doesn't mean you are exempt from your actions. I don't think she deserves another chance and neither do his friends. This hippy shit is too much. Dump the bitch, dump the friends. Move on with your life.
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Anonymous #3 said: Everybody deserves a second chance, IMO, if drugs are involved, like mushrooms or meth, then sometimes things just happen. They are almost uncontrollable. My BF baby mama was into stem sex and right after she would bang a shot of some clear, she would instantly change into a sex fiend. I'm just using that as an example of things that can happen while under the influence. Maybe if you cannot get over it then talk to her and get closure..
Best of luck, A
You are responsible for yourself under the influence of substances. Just because you find yourself desirous and with proclivities under the influence, that doesn't mean you are exempt from your actions. I don't think she deserves another chance and neither do his friends. This hippy shit is too much. Dump the bitch, dump the friends. Move on with your life.
Under normal circumstances, I agree. The girl I'm talking about had been molested at a young age and it changed her. She is normal until she gets high and then it turns her into a sex fiend. I'm just saying that I understand..
The next low would be that why is she doing drugs? If she knows that she turns into a sex fiend when she does drugs, then why does she do them? To numb our mind.. sometimes, it's the only way..
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I think Stims turn most ppl into pleasure seeking and risky behavior(if prone) version of themselves. Meth is risky behavior itself imo, which easily leads to other risky behavior. Sadly, those with trauma in their past, are at a higher risk then most, and def should prioritize not doing meth. However, mushrooms and meth are completely different. And the behaviors would be completely different, with much less risk being willing/able to be taken on one vs the other. If the thread was abt meth then yeah maybe she just all of sudden wanted to be "spit roasted" by these two miscreants. But it wasn't meth according to op. Ppl with trauma should be shielded from the environment you describe, and if not the case it's pretty obvious(and sad) that trauma has not been managed or dealt with as required to live a much less self damaging lifestyle.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: Kakarot] 1
#28263409 - 04/05/23 10:42 AM (9 months, 19 days ago) |
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Kakarot said: Sorry if this isn't the right place to post this. But we all ate way to many shrooms the other night and my gf and I were messing around, I left the room to go get us some water i got some and was trying to drink the water but not being able to swallow, got stuck in a time loop with a grandfather clock, was away for idk how long and when I came back in the room they were spitroasting her. Idk if I should be mad or what. Mostly I'm in disbelief but I know what I saw. Unless it was a hallucination she said she isn't sure and doesn't want to think about it idk what to do.
Break up. It's not going to be the same anymore and unless she has your kids or wants to have your kids the net cost is higher than the net gain.
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ashfiken said: I think Stims turn most ppl into pleasure seeking and risky behavior(if prone) version of themselves. Meth is risky behavior itself imo, which easily leads to other risky behavior. Sadly, those with trauma in their past, are at a higher risk then most, and def should prioritize not doing meth. However, mushrooms and meth are completely different. And the behaviors would be completely different, with much less risk being willing/able to be taken on one vs the other. If the thread was abt meth then yeah maybe she just all of sudden wanted to be "spit roasted" by these two miscreants. But it wasn't meth according to op.
And yeah very much this. If it was meth or cathinones, sure. W/e. it can make you act out and in fact I'm of the unpopular opinion that at least cathinones are strong enough to transcend sexual orientation rather than reveal a hidden one, but this is shrooms. I'm sorry but it's time to cut your losses.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: Kakarot] 2
#28282944 - 04/17/23 11:52 PM (9 months, 6 days ago) |
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Yeah nah she's not your gf anymore and you know it. Rip this bandaid off and turn around now because it will hurt sooooooooooooooooooooooo much more if you drag it out and try to staple your shattered trust back together.
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: sudly] 1
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Ain't. Bitches ain't shit but hoes n trix
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i feel like sex is just sex... and when drugs are involved shit happens.
id have joined in myself. i dont think theres anything to worry about, unless her heart is in the wrong place.
again sex is just sex. as a society we are only posessive about sex because we wana know if its our child or not... from the years before genetic testing.
at this point, who cares... dont fuck up a good thing over some shit that happened on a heroic dose... for all you know it was you fucking her and the shrooms gave you a different vantage point.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: rxb]
#28283806 - 04/18/23 01:40 PM (9 months, 6 days ago) |
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If the relationship was open or poly and this went down it'd be okay, but it doesn't sound like thst was the case here.
So because of that I wouldn't consider it a good thing. It sounds like her heart was in the wrong place because she didn't give a shit about the monogamous relationship she claimed to be in. At least if this was a monogamous relationship.
Honestly from personal experience I don't think anyone deserves a second chance from cheating. Just be fwb, casual Polly etc if that's the desire. Some maturity and good communication required.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: sudly]
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sudly said: If the relationship was open or poly and this went down it'd be okay, but it doesn't sound like thst was the case here.
So because of that I wouldn't consider it a good thing. It sounds like her heart was in the wrong place because she didn't give a shit about the monogamous relationship she claimed to be in. At least if this was a monogamous relationship.
Honestly from personal experience I don't think anyone deserves a second chance from cheating. Just be fwb, casual Polly etc if that's the desire. Some maturity and good communication required.
idk how many heroic doses you have done, but forgetting who you are while realizing you are actually everyone and that you love everyone and want the best for everyone and want to connect with everyone is a huge part of it
again, im not sure he didnt just have an out of body experience and see himself fucking his gf and thought it was someone else.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: rxb]
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Hahaha that's a good one, but a shitty excuse if the gf said it. There's still personal responsibility that can be taken even when experiencing heroic doses, and I've had my fair share.
'Sorry babe, I thought I was fucking you!'
I think he made it clear what he saw.
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: sudly]
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sudly said: Hahaha that's a good one, but a shitty excuse if the gf said it. There's still personal responsibility that can be taken even when experiencing heroic doses, and I've had my fair share.
'Sorry babe, I thought I was fucking you!'
I think he made it clear what he saw.
shrug i just love a good fingercuffing
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: rxb]
#28284686 - 04/18/23 11:33 PM (9 months, 5 days ago) |
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Why not ask the other people if it happened? Are they people you know? If they were banging your chick they probably aren’t friends, but would likely tell you the truth, or you could glean it from a conversation.
Weird ass situation, and I’ve never been that high on mushrooms to not remember if a full blown “traumatic” scene like that really happened or not. In some ways you have to accept some level of responsibility for putting yourselves into that situation with people you don’t really know or can’t trust. In the future I think is where you should focus and that’s deciding who you get high around, as well as trusting the substance you’re taking (it almost doesn’t sound like mushrooms, IMO..).
Because you don’t know what was what, and maybe can’t even verify if it happened or not, I’d say what’s your cause for breakup? A bad trip?
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Re: Gf fucked by friends [Re: ManianFH]
#28289452 - 04/22/23 06:46 AM (9 months, 2 days ago) |
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Maybe OP just wants us to tell him it’s ok that he thinks it was pretty hot seeing his GF get banged
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Anonymous #7 said: Maybe OP just wants us to tell him it’s ok that he thinks it was pretty hot seeing his GF get banged
like a secret forum cuck story... might almost be as good as being cucked for him?
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