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Idk if my crush likes me ? 1
#28183924 - 02/12/23 11:57 AM (11 months, 9 days ago) |
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So to start with , this guy i kind off like started being mean to me , at first it was just some funny jokes that were a little bit mean but now that i actually started texting him - he doesnt seem to have a personality but trying to be funny by being mean and i also think he noticed the things he says bother me . My friends say he has a crush on me but i know he liked this girl who had long blonde hair, tall, thin-ish and dress normal- im the complete opposite, im short , havr short dark hair and i dress in a more gothic way ( im also thinner then her ) . So i was just wondering whether he is bored or likes me because i liked him a little at first now im just confused.
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Anonymous #2
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Why don't you try asking him? Because no one can give you a good answer. I could say he's stupid, I could say he's mean. I could say he's being like that because for some reason he thinks these kinds of games are what to do. I could also say that he likes you and we men have a tendency to act like man children at times when we like a girl. There's nothing a man likes more than to pester his #1 girl. "Mean" is pretty vague. For all I know it's more like you're being soft and sensitive. Either be more specific or just ask him yourself.
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Anonymous #1 said: So to start with , this guy i kind off like started being mean to me , at first it was just some funny jokes that were a little bit mean but now that i actually started texting him - he doesnt seem to have a personality but trying to be funny by being mean and i also think he noticed the things he says bother me . My friends say he has a crush on me but i know he liked this girl who had long blonde hair, tall, thin-ish and dress normal- im the complete opposite, im short , havr short dark hair and i dress in a more gothic way ( im also thinner then her ) . So i was just wondering whether he is bored or likes me because i liked him a little at first now im just confused.
Why would you be interested at all in someone that is mean to you?
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Re: Idk if my crush likes me ? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28184634 - 02/12/23 08:42 PM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: So to start with , this guy i kind off like started being mean to me , at first it was just some funny jokes that were a little bit mean but now that i actually started texting him - he doesnt seem to have a personality but trying to be funny by being mean and i also think he noticed the things he says bother me . My friends say he has a crush on me but i know he liked this girl who had long blonde hair, tall, thin-ish and dress normal- im the complete opposite, im short , havr short dark hair and i dress in a more gothic way ( im also thinner then her ) . So i was just wondering whether he is bored or likes me because i liked him a little at first now im just confused.
Why would you be interested at all in someone that is mean to you?
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Re: Idk if my crush likes me ? [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28184738 - 02/12/23 10:26 PM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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Sounds like hes into you. Usually young people will do this sort of behaviour when they like someone. I noticed this from girls when I was younger. I always thought it was really annoying (I had a bad temper as a kid) but later in life, I realize they had a crush and were "flirting" with me. Go figure right?
Also, guys can have many "types". I for one have many types, including difference races/ethnicities. It just really depends on the guy.
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LogicaL Chaos said: Sounds like hes into you. Usually young people will do this sort of behaviour when they like someone. I noticed this from girls when I was younger. I always thought it was really annoying (I had a bad temper as a kid) but later in life, I realize they had a crush and were "flirting" with me. Go figure right?
Also, guys can have many "types". I for one have many types, including difference races/ethnicities. It just really depends on the guy.
Younger guys that act like that are in grade school. This is a red flag ... why would she be interested in someone who is mean to her? Grade school boys do this. MEN do not.
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Re: Idk if my crush likes me ? [Re: loladoreen]
#28185226 - 02/13/23 10:02 AM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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Well, she sounds young too so....
Some girls like "the bad boy" the preferences of what women want can often be very confusing...
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Re: Idk if my crush likes me ? [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28185230 - 02/13/23 10:05 AM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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Yea.. 'mean' can be a lot of things. Playful ribbing can be an inroad to flirting. Just plain insulting someone is not.. but it really depends.
This guy is spending time texting you, so he's at least sort of interested?
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...people dress in goth clothes again? I thought goths died out in 2006 and scene girls 2010 latest.
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Re: Idk if my crush likes me ? [Re: Lynnch]
#28187006 - 02/14/23 11:17 AM (11 months, 7 days ago) |
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Lynnch said: Yea.. 'mean' can be a lot of things. Playful ribbing can be an inroad to flirting. Just plain insulting someone is not.. but it really depends.
This guy is spending time texting you, so he's at least sort of interested?
True... her definition of mean may not be what I consider mean. Good point
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Anonymous #3 said: ...people dress in goth clothes again? I thought goths died out in 2006 and scene girls 2010 latest.
LOVE the goth/alternative look... LOVE LOVE LOVE
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Re: Idk if my crush likes me ? [Re: loladoreen]
#28187047 - 02/14/23 11:50 AM (11 months, 7 days ago) |
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Anonymous #3 said: ...people dress in goth clothes again? I thought goths died out in 2006 and scene girls 2010 latest.
LOVE the goth/alternative look... LOVE LOVE LOVE
Very much seconded.
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Anonymous #3 said: ...people dress in goth clothes again? I thought goths died out in 2006 and scene girls 2010 latest.
Oh its very much alive. I see em all over Instagram and TikTok. In real life, I see a lot of "colorful" Goths, ya know, colored dyed hair and such. Its not just a fad, its a lifestyle
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"It's not a fad, it's a lifestyle" Love that!!!! I have never dressed that way. I would do so more for a concert. I think it is SO incredibly sexy. No idea why.. but I do. I think for me, and I am 49, it appears that they are living freely and I admire that.
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yeah there's a whole thing called pastel goth too
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Well I think this guy has some sort of personality but he can't display it when it comes to you because he hasn't got all the same likes and dislikes and probably wants a topic of conversation. He could be waiting for a random inside joke to make instead of bullying the fuck out of you, but it's all he knows how to respond as: a bully. He could be waiting on speaking to you more.
However, if he's hurting you with these 'joke' insults and still continues whether he's realised that you're getting hurt by it or not... I suggest try your best to look elsewhere. If he's got no substance to him, and depending on the length of time you've been speaking is still not able to pick a topic to talk about with you besides what he bullies' you for, then what are you thinking the guy would do in a relationship with you long term?
I know it's easier said than done but if you don't think there's a chance that he prefers you over the girl in question, I guess it would be better to get over that guy and try to find someone else. In the end, you should always put yourself and how you're feeling first. Even if he isn't fucking about, I think it's best to take your chances and look elsewhere before you could potentially get yourself hurt again. Not an expert but, those are my thoughts. <3
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cherriespoet said: yeah there's a whole thing called pastel goth too
I recently discovered these beautiful ladies last year. I love the mixture of goth and soft colors. Its awesome
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It could be that he is interested in you but if you feel he is being mean to you, it will only get worse. A bit of teasing at the crush stage is normal but if it coming across as mean, you are not likely to have the same temperament for kindness and what is considered teasing as time passes.
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