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Sexually satisfying your sexual partner
    #28216349 - 03/05/23 06:24 PM (10 months, 18 days ago)

I just watched a video on fingering a woman on Tik Tok. I thought this is great! What an accessible easy way for lovers to learn to sexually satisfy their partners.
Then I realized...
The education has been there via videos, books, etc for the past 20-30 years
How did you learn to satisfy your partner? Partners?


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28216445 - 03/05/23 07:20 PM (10 months, 18 days ago)

Communication and practice. Finger play is amazing.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: pslyke] * 2
    #28216965 - 03/06/23 08:05 AM (10 months, 17 days ago)

Trial and error. I figure louder moaning is good and do whatever made that happen.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Kryptos] * 1
    #28217053 - 03/06/23 09:12 AM (10 months, 17 days ago)

Porn sites have had “how to” videos as long as they’ve been around but other than that as far as the internet goes we just read and communicate with other people!

Pslyke is right though
Trial and error

Fuck more get better at fucking


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28217183 - 03/06/23 10:46 AM (10 months, 17 days ago)

Apparently I need to choose a partner that cares about what I like.
I didn't know porn sites did.
I need to look that up


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 4
    #28217202 - 03/06/23 10:56 AM (10 months, 17 days ago)

Yea, I remember typing "how to eat pussy" into google when I was younger. There's plenty of tips and tricks out there...
But #1 for real is communication. Not everyone likes the same stuff. Break the awkwardness and just ask what they like, what feels good.
"hey I'm out of practice so you have to tell me what to do" is way hotter than just fumbling around in silence trying to find clues.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #28217441 - 03/06/23 01:48 PM (10 months, 17 days ago)

For me, it was trial and error. I also used to watch a bunch of lesbian videos so that always helped with my fingering technique :wink:


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28217442 - 03/06/23 01:49 PM (10 months, 17 days ago)

:seriousthankyou:


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28218114 - 03/06/23 09:23 PM (10 months, 16 days ago)

Lesbian porn is the best


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28218356 - 03/07/23 01:31 AM (10 months, 16 days ago)

It really is. Ladies know how to pleasure each other quite well :yesnod:


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28218617 - 03/07/23 09:31 AM (10 months, 16 days ago)

I have always found mf porn .. yuck.
Its not the type of sex I would want in real life.f f porn...is hot


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28218757 - 03/07/23 11:08 AM (10 months, 16 days ago)

Forget about learning how to please a woman from porn. I became a cunnilingus master by reading a book written by a lesbian then practice practice practice.
My lady can squirt like crazy now


Edited by Anonymous (03/08/23 08:51 AM)


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #28218762 - 03/07/23 11:13 AM (10 months, 16 days ago)

That sounds like quite the read! :eek:


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #28218797 - 03/07/23 11:41 AM (10 months, 16 days ago)

Indeed it was. Let’s just say it was well worth the cost of the book


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #28218799 - 03/07/23 11:43 AM (10 months, 16 days ago)

Just checked. It’s available on Amazon for $10
I bought it about 20 years ago


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28218827 - 03/07/23 12:00 PM (10 months, 16 days ago)

I have a guy friend that read a book and told me he has never regretted it. He said that when he splits with women they ask if they can still have sex with him.
I was.. like wow..
he said it was a game changer espeacilly when he learned how a womans body works


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28218892 - 03/07/23 12:35 PM (10 months, 16 days ago)

That’s funny. My lady once asked if I’d still have sex with her if we split up. I told her no because I don’t that kind of thing


Edited by Anonymous (03/08/23 08:50 AM)


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28218943 - 03/07/23 01:02 PM (10 months, 16 days ago)

Great point.
My friend had said when he was done he was done.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28219813 - 03/07/23 10:24 PM (10 months, 15 days ago)

Talk play feel ask read articles watch video. Pay attention to how they are moving. And don't make it a weird mission.

I really wish I could be with someone who wants to please me.

My ex always acted like oral was below her so it was always half assed and if I didn't cum Soo enough she would just quit.

This other chick orgasms incredibly easy and squirts everywhere. So after I spent some time giving oral and some loving she would be exhausted panting and confused and soaked.

So she was pretty much done for the night.

All my one night stands were also pretty one sided.

I probably need to tell them what I like 👍


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28219835 - 03/07/23 10:36 PM (10 months, 15 days ago)

Another thing is Im really into to kissing, like deep kissing. I feel that really helps with oral sex since they are so similar when giving it to a woman.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
    #28220342 - 03/08/23 08:32 AM (10 months, 15 days ago)

Mmm yes kissing fun. And for sure they are similar. My toung and lips always feel so weird after a good  session


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
    #28220398 - 03/08/23 09:15 AM (10 months, 15 days ago)

Quote:

Abombs said:
Talk play feel ask read articles watch video. Pay attention to how they are moving. And don't make it a weird mission.

I really wish I could be with someone who wants to please me.

My ex always acted like oral was below her so it was always half assed and if I didn't cum Soo enough she would just quit.

This other chick orgasms incredibly easy and squirts everywhere. So after I spent some time giving oral and some loving she would be exhausted panting and confused and soaked.

So she was pretty much done for the night.

All my one night stands were also pretty one sided.

I probably need to tell them what I like 👍




I really dont want one night stands. I have never felt satisfied fully from a one night stand.
I want a lover... I dont even know if I want love. BUT definately a lover- YES


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28221534 - 03/08/23 09:57 PM (10 months, 14 days ago)

Different things for different times in life. I've certainly always enjoyed one night stands. But I also wasn't looking for love.

When all I wanted was to feel loved by my wife I had many offers of sex and flirting. But I wasn't  looking for sex. I should have just done it. She was always accusing me of it anyway.

Blahhhhhhrrggg. 🥵


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28222389 - 03/09/23 02:50 PM (10 months, 14 days ago)

I have had good sex on one night stands. Majority I have not.
I used to go to sex clubs and I had great sex there. Not all the time. And its very... surreal.. I dont know how to describe it.
It fulfilled a need. And I am glad I went. No regrets at all...
Not what I really desire now.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28222392 - 03/09/23 02:51 PM (10 months, 14 days ago)

A lot of my sexual experiences at the sex club were almost like.. for show.. not me.. but when your with them or watching..
its kinda weird. But amazing.. but very disconnected.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28222446 - 03/09/23 03:11 PM (10 months, 14 days ago)

That sounds fun!


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28222450 - 03/09/23 03:12 PM (10 months, 14 days ago)

Some people really like that exhibitism.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28222666 - 03/09/23 05:26 PM (10 months, 14 days ago)

It was fun.
I went alone most of the time. I think twice I brought my best friend. Once her boyfriend came with us and that was actually the most UNfun time.
I have NO regrets at all.
I am actually always a little surprised why people say no to going.
I was dating a guy and asked him and he was a hard NO.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28223924 - 03/10/23 02:34 PM (10 months, 13 days ago)

I would love to attend one. But I don't think single guys get in.

The things I would do if I were a women. Fuck sakes.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28225160 - 03/11/23 01:40 PM (10 months, 12 days ago)

I am a woman...
what would you do?
Where I went single men could go if they applied ahead of time. I preferred single men over partnered men.
EVERY time the other partner would be upset.
Couples say they are cool.. they are not.
I was not with partnered men or women after two failed attempts. I never met anyone outside the club also.
I had some rules.
I also never let a man go inside me, fuck me, except once with a condom. .. kinda weirded me out . And I just decided no more.
I had a set of rules for myself.
It was a blast.
I dont have time to go again. But I will someday


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
    #28225212 - 03/11/23 02:21 PM (10 months, 12 days ago)

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I would love to attend one. But I don't think single guys get in.

The things I would do if I were a women. Fuck sakes.




You know me ... what would you do if you were me?


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28225274 - 03/11/23 03:15 PM (10 months, 12 days ago)

Lol. I'm not anonymous in this convo🥴


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
    #28225302 - 03/11/23 03:35 PM (10 months, 12 days ago)

I think she meant you know her style/line of thinking not know who she is.

Like in the Avatar movies when they said "I See You".


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 1
    #28225388 - 03/11/23 04:34 PM (10 months, 12 days ago)

Not what I meant.
Not sure what they meant. I don't want to spill my fantasies in a public forum


Edited by Abombs (03/11/23 04:42 PM)


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
    #28225568 - 03/11/23 07:14 PM (10 months, 12 days ago)

Sorry I got busy
I thought I gave enough information that you- anyone reading the entirety . Would have an idea of what I can do.
I type to fast when im in a hurry
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28225733 - 03/11/23 09:32 PM (10 months, 11 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
I just watched a video on fingering a woman on Tik Tok. I thought this is great! What an accessible easy way for lovers to learn to sexually satisfy their partners.
Then I realized...
The education has been there via videos, books, etc for the past 20-30 years
How did you learn to satisfy your partner? Partners?




Probably from a tik tok video. Those Tick Tock videos these days are extremely educational

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Anonymous #1 said:
I am a woman...
what would you do?
Where I went single men could go if they applied ahead of time. I preferred single men over partnered men.
EVERY time the other partner would be upset.
Couples say they are cool.. they are not.
I was not with partnered men or women after two failed attempts. I never met anyone outside the club also.
I had some rules.
I also never let a man go inside me, fuck me, except once with a condom. .. kinda weirded me out . And I just decided no more.
I had a set of rules for myself.
It was a blast.
I dont have time to go again. But I will someday




Sometimes men contemplate someday. Someday. For pleasure. Inside you :thumbup:


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28227513 - 03/13/23 09:24 AM (10 months, 10 days ago)

For much of my adult life, I've not been very concerned about satisfying my sexual partners.  Sometimes I feel so guilty about that I consider apologizing to them.  My history of sexual abuse by my stepmother may have played a role in my complex ambivalent feelings about sex

I didn't learn about a woman's g-spot until I was 50.  A girlfriend taught me. I think that it would be good to have an older sex mentor as we enter adult hood.  Someone to teach us. Not just about the act of sex, but about sensual touching and massage and kissing. How to use sounds, words, and eye contact to magnify intimacy. I don't give a rat's ass about a pierced tongue. Let's be sensual.   

It's not just men who need mentoring. For example, I think many women are clueless how to give an enjoyable hand job. I once had a girl friend who would cause me pain when she gave me a hand job.  I should have told her.  I should have taught her. I was young and dumb and . . .

Don't lecture me, but I've paid for about 10 hand jobs in my lifetime.  Most of them have been mediocre at best. Some have caused discomfort.  If I knew some Chinese, I would have taught these ladies some things. And they'd get much larger tips. Just because a man has an orgasm doesn't mean it was enjoyable.  A man can come on a battlefield in the middle of a war.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: RJ Tubs 202] * 2
    #28233487 - 03/17/23 09:51 AM (10 months, 6 days ago)

In high school, I read the book Erogenous Zones which was purported to teach you how to arouse your woman by manipulating secret parts of her body. Turns out there is one erogenous zone and it is between her ears.

Foreplay begins before physical contact with what you say and how you treat her.  Whether physical touch or verbal interplay, start slowly and observe her reaction.  Be patient and allow arousal to build.  Listen to changes in her voice, light moans, and other noises as well as body reactions such as turning of the head or slight jumping or a twitch.  With practice, you can feel subtle changes in her skin as you brush it with your fingers.  Learn to read your partner and find what makes them respond but mix it up and don't always take the same approach in your seduction.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #28240629 - 03/21/23 10:55 PM (10 months, 1 day ago)

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Just checked. It’s available on Amazon for $10
I bought it about 20 years ago



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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28241297 - 03/22/23 12:20 PM (10 months, 1 day ago)

Where do I find men like this????


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    #28249117 - 03/27/23 10:59 AM (9 months, 27 days ago)

Lol. It's surprising how many men and women are unwilling to lay there partner back and pleasure them


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28250607 - 03/28/23 08:23 AM (9 months, 26 days ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
I just watched a video on fingering a woman on Tik Tok. I thought this is great! What an accessible easy way for lovers to learn to sexually satisfy their partners.
Then I realized...
The education has been there via videos, books, etc for the past 20-30 years
How did you learn to satisfy your partner? Partners?




Trial and error. You have to map them out. Everybody's different. The best advice I can give is to leave no Stones Unturned. Be completely honest with your partner and let them know what you like and find out what they like. Be very direct.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #28250790 - 03/28/23 10:07 AM (9 months, 26 days ago)

Yes communication is key. But also accepting the communication is equally important.

I tried to ask for certain things and she always took it as an insult to her vast sexual experience.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
    #28255249 - 03/30/23 07:34 PM (9 months, 24 days ago)

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Yes communication is key. But also accepting the communication is equally important.

I tried to ask for certain things and she always took it as an insult to her vast sexual experience.




Agreed. For example, I like my asshole licked. It's really hard to communicate with him and tell him that. So I just shove his head down there..

You poor thing. She should be more open and treat you like a cute student of her vast sexual knowledge...

It might be a little emasculating, but I think it's hot!

Best of wishes,
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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28255302 - 03/30/23 07:51 PM (9 months, 24 days ago)

We've been kindof beating around the bush (ha) in this thread, but let me just say it: ask them what they like and what feels good. Straight up ask them. Maybe even have them show you. Maybe ask if they do or don't like a thing you're doing, or if you should do it differently, etc. That goes a long way.

Also, maybe watch videos on it where women talk about it, either what they like, or if they're lesbians what they do, techniques, stuff like that. Maybe watch some lesbian cam girl videos and see what kind of stuff like do and try to understand it.

For me personally, I just watched a lot of porn, and fucked a lot of women and that's how I learned. But I also talked with those women about what they liked and didn't like, and that was the key 100% of the time.

One key thing is: don't be boring, and make it last a lot longer than 5 minutes. Sounds simple and like common knowledge, but all the women I know who have talked about guys in the past who sucked at sex, it was always one of those two things: they were either boring, or it was over in under 5 minutes. One complained that their ex did the same boring routine every time.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: nooneman]
    #28256260 - 03/31/23 01:47 PM (9 months, 23 days ago)

A healthy relationship helps to
I quit trying to have sex with her years before we divorced cuz not once did she ever have sex with me when I tried to. Only when she was in the mood.

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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28256515 - 03/31/23 04:30 PM (9 months, 23 days ago)

It's been so long for me I think I would be so awkward if I had sex with someone.
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    #28256645 - 03/31/23 06:05 PM (9 months, 23 days ago)

I finally got layed 2 years post divorce. I thought I would be awkward, but it's like riding a sexy bike.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28256810 - 03/31/23 08:18 PM (9 months, 23 days ago)

As long as u had previous experience, you're golden. If not, it can feel a bit daunting because you will feel like u dont know what to do. Knowledge is power.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: LogicaL Chaos] * 2
    #28257045 - 04/01/23 03:03 AM (9 months, 22 days ago)

First timers. Make sure you lick the kitty.. 😻


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28257323 - 04/01/23 08:58 AM (9 months, 22 days ago)

When I got divorced the first person I had sex with.. it as awful.
It improved. I finally ended up with a guy that was amazing in bed. I had known him my entire life and felt comfortable with him.
And I think that was it.. I felt comfortable.
It was so great...
That was almost 4 years ago...
I miss being sexually free, I miss being desirable to a person, I miss orgasms with another person..
I dont want a one night stand because that connection makes it mind blowing
one night stand feels empty


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28258149 - 04/01/23 07:07 PM (9 months, 22 days ago)

Ya I long for a long term partner to have a connection with. But would settle for casual sex. Fuck I wish I had the confidence to talk my way into women's pants.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28258350 - 04/01/23 09:51 PM (9 months, 21 days ago)

I am certain you would succeed.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28258385 - 04/01/23 10:04 PM (9 months, 21 days ago)

Ya thanks but no.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs]
    #28258883 - 04/02/23 09:30 AM (9 months, 21 days ago)

When is the last time you dated or hit on a girl?


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28258942 - 04/02/23 10:27 AM (9 months, 21 days ago)

Just paying attention to reactions, really. And doing what felt right. Practice makes perfect.

The simplest, most reductionist thing I can say is that the more I've thought of of the clit as being like the head of my dick, and the vulva as being like the shaft, the better things have gone. There's internal stuff going on, too, of course, but I think men often tend to over-emphasize it. If a woman wants you to fuck her with your fingers or tongue, she'll probably let you know. Thinking of it as a hand/blowjob is probably a more fruitful conception of the process.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: B Traven] * 1
    #28259557 - 04/02/23 05:55 PM (9 months, 21 days ago)

I don't hit on or flirt at all ever. And I don't notice when I'm being hit on. The ex always told me when I was being flirted with.

I only get laid when it falls in my lap. Socializing or the thought of really makes me anxious


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Abombs] * 1
    #28261579 - 04/04/23 06:34 AM (9 months, 19 days ago)

Flirtation & seduction are skills many never learn.  Many of us have led a life of a myriad of missed intimate connections.  Due to fear (AKA a "lack of confidence") and just basic knowledge of how to flirt and seduce, and how to recognize when others are interested and attracted to us.  A woman recently told me 20% of the men in the world are having 80% of the sex.  There's a reason for that.


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    #28593773 - 12/22/23 07:47 AM (1 month, 5 days ago)

i used to just masturbate with my partner and see how they touched themself. then if i used my hands for them i knew how they liked it. why mystify it with youtube and books. go direct to your source


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28605686 - 01/01/24 11:02 AM (26 days, 8 hours ago)

Sometimes I wonder if there is truth in these posts or I just have shitty luck and get very sexually selfish men.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28605860 - 01/01/24 01:25 PM (26 days, 6 hours ago)

Most guys are sexually-selfish, i would argue.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28606010 - 01/01/24 03:29 PM (26 days, 4 hours ago)

Agreed


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28606011 - 01/01/24 03:30 PM (26 days, 4 hours ago)

So how do you get through that without hurting their feelings so much they get a complex?


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28606145 - 01/01/24 05:15 PM (26 days, 2 hours ago)

I think you just dump them and find someone who isn't an awful man-child.

Not great advice, I know, but as a guy I don't really want anything to do with those dudes, either.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28606173 - 01/01/24 05:36 PM (26 days, 2 hours ago)

Just sleep with each one until i find a good one?
Idk about that.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28606300 - 01/01/24 06:45 PM (26 days, 1 hour ago)

Or maybe ditch the current one and avoid guys who have the same vibe?

I dunno.

This is probably one of the reasons my wife has put up with me for so long lol

Seriously, though, I've never had sex with men, but I still bet I could do pretty well at picking out the ones who are gonna be jerks in bed.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28606324 - 01/01/24 07:01 PM (26 days, 51 minutes ago)

Quote:

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Just sleep with each one until i find a good one?
Idk about that.




Or just be more selective before boning them. Look for the warning signs that they are selfish lovers :shrug:


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28606333 - 01/01/24 07:08 PM (26 days, 45 minutes ago)

What are the signs?


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: loladoreen]
    #28606346 - 01/01/24 07:17 PM (26 days, 36 minutes ago)

Try this video:

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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28606738 - 01/02/24 07:55 AM (25 days, 11 hours ago)

My current partner is not selfish outside the bedroom.
But only has sex when he wants not If I initiate.
And sexually I think very selfish


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    #28606744 - 01/02/24 08:06 AM (25 days, 11 hours ago)

Quote:

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My current partner is not selfish outside the bedroom.
But only has sex when he wants not If I initiate.
And sexually I think very selfish




That sounds like a conversation you need to have with him.

And if he can't even handle the conversation, then that IS being selfish outside the bedroom.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: loladoreen]
    #28607066 - 01/02/24 01:00 PM (25 days, 6 hours ago)

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But only has sex when he wants not If I initiate.






Lies! Women don't initiate sex :wink:


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28607082 - 01/02/24 01:12 PM (25 days, 6 hours ago)

I do
I think when satisfied you desire more.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: loladoreen] * 2
    #28607222 - 01/02/24 02:33 PM (25 days, 5 hours ago)

Lola, I think it would be safe to say that you are a unicorn.


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Re: Sexually satisfying your sexual partner [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #28607266 - 01/02/24 03:04 PM (25 days, 4 hours ago)

I have been a unicorn before :wink:
It was FUN


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