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Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. 1
#28116392 - 12/29/22 02:23 PM (1 year, 30 days ago) |
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Let me preface this with saying that I'm not proud at having 'proven wrong' these beliefs. If it works for you, more power to you. At the same time, there seems to be a pattern of very staid conservative guys sleeping with me cause I can provide something their wives can't and explaining it away to themselves, and I'm starting to get confused why.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28116394 - 12/29/22 02:27 PM (1 year, 30 days ago) |
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The "why" is that you're easy. It's all he sees that you have to offer because giving it away so easily takes the value from it. You disrespect yourself by acting the way you do and you get treated accordingly. It's not a mystery. It doesn't make you special. You're available.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28116399 - 12/29/22 02:32 PM (1 year, 30 days ago) |
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So is a fry. Isn't it up to the person not to eat a fry off the floor? Isn't the whole ideology about self control and being better?
Edited by Anonymous (12/29/22 02:33 PM)
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28116459 - 12/29/22 03:37 PM (1 year, 30 days ago) |
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I have several questions. Do you know they are married before you slept with them? Are you Conservative too? What do you provide that their wives cant?
As for why, are you asking why Conservative married men keep finding you? Thats a great question.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28117112 - 12/30/22 05:26 AM (1 year, 29 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: So is a fry. Isn't it up to the person not to eat a fry off the floor? Isn't the whole ideology about self control and being better?
I don't think comparing yourself to a fry lying on the floor is the excellent argument that you think it is.
Someone will eat a fry on the floor. A person, a pigeon, a mouse, some ants...it'll get eaten.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28117177 - 12/30/22 07:16 AM (1 year, 29 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: So is a fry. Isn't it up to the person not to eat a fry off the floor? Isn't the whole ideology about self control and being better?
So you're saying everyone has to be perfect just because you expect them to try to live up to an ideal? You're not being as smart about this as you think you are. Humans.. exist. Open your legs and a cock will come just like rotten meat attracts a fly.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28117178 - 12/30/22 07:18 AM (1 year, 29 days ago) |
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Is a body builder allowed a cheat meal. If he eats too many cheat meals is he no longer a body builder
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #2] 1
#28117307 - 12/30/22 10:08 AM (1 year, 29 days ago) |
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Not all married men cheat; those who do tend to go to you. That means more about you then it does about men. In fact, it means nothing about men. It means that cheating men in your immediate life tend to cheat with you. Classic self selection bias with barely any external validity.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: LogicaL Chaos] 1
#28135483 - 01/11/23 03:04 PM (1 year, 17 days ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: I have several questions. Do you know they are married before you slept with them? Are you Conservative too? What do you provide that their wives cant?
No. I'd never enable cheating. No, I'm your average drug-taking center libertarian. Good head, lol.
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As for why, are you asking why Conservative married men keep finding you?
No, though it's an interesting question too. No what I'm asking is why there's so much hypocrisy and such. IDK I was way outta it when I posted it.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#28136215 - 01/12/23 04:54 AM (1 year, 16 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: No what I'm asking is why there's so much hypocrisy and such.
Because humans. Seriously, the only thing to understand here is that human beings are not rational actors. We're inconsistent in our beliefs and needs, internal conflict exists in everyone and as a consequence, we do 'stupid' shit all the time.
There's no real answer to the question 'why' this is the case. It just is.
And it's not just conservatives. People of all walks of life and ideologies 'suffer' from the same phenomenon. You, me, everyone.
As to what you have to offer - fresh meat, availability, variation and perhaps a pretty face or nice body. But in the end, just meat that isn't the meat they're used to wake up next to for years and that they've seen their kinds crawl out of etc.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: koraks]
#28136427 - 01/12/23 09:40 AM (1 year, 16 days ago) |
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Well said koraks. Except the meat part, we arent cannibals but i get the metaphor
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#28136542 - 01/12/23 11:33 AM (1 year, 16 days ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: we arent cannibals
Here, give this a try: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raw_(film)
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: koraks] 1
#28155025 - 01/24/23 07:10 AM (1 year, 4 days ago) |
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Martin Luther King Jr. had dozens of extramarital affairs (including Alice Walker, a friend of his wife).
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: RJ Tubs 202] 1
#28155347 - 01/24/23 11:14 AM (1 year, 4 days ago) |
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Ouch for a forum dedicated to plant medicine that is supposed to offer understanding to the world there is some really closed minded things said. Just because our current social stigma surrounding Sex is so negative.
Bleh. I didn't read everyone else's post. But slut shaming in 2023.
If I were a women I'd be adventurous
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28181439 - 02/10/23 08:20 PM (11 months, 10 days ago) |
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Are you a chick or a dude? I feel like that would answer a lot of questions. As for the political stuff, anything more conservative than the tenets of the Democratic Party gets you labeled as a conservative in our culture today. Libertarian = conservative under the American definition of conservative anyway. With how liberal most women are these days, if you're a self identified libertarian woman, that immediately makes you far more conservative than your average woman, which might explain why you tend to attract conservative men. If you're a dude, then, well, maybe those conservative men aren't as conservative as one would think.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28187577 - 02/14/23 07:26 PM (11 months, 6 days ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said: Let me preface this with saying that I'm not proud at having 'proven wrong' these beliefs. If it works for you, more power to you. At the same time, there seems to be a pattern of very staid conservative guys sleeping with me cause I can provide something their wives can't and explaining it away to themselves, and I'm starting to get confused why.
What you chose to do is your own choice. I was married a long time to a cheater and... wow .. its painful and traumatic. It fucked me up. There are SO many people out there. Men come and go. Women come and go. Why hurt someone intentionally? I just do not understand it.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28187656 - 02/14/23 08:12 PM (11 months, 6 days ago) |
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Anonymous #2 said: The "why" is that you're easy. It's all he sees that you have to offer because giving it away so easily takes the value from it. You disrespect yourself by acting the way you do and you get treated accordingly. It's not a mystery. It doesn't make you special. You're available.
This is what my exhusband told me. He said it is easy, you are work. When we discussed it further. The "you are work" wasn't what I considered work but effort, respect, etc.
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: loladoreen]
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Re: Several supposedly conservative men have used me to cheat on their wives. Only some have told me. [Re: Abombs]
#28187767 - 02/14/23 09:03 PM (11 months, 6 days ago) |
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Abombs said: Ouch for a forum dedicated to plant medicine that is supposed to offer understanding to the world there is some really closed minded things said. Just because our current social stigma surrounding Sex is so negative.
Bleh. I didn't read everyone else's post. But slut shaming in 2023.
If I were a women I'd be adventurous 
I feel this. I HATE slut shaming. HATE it. Sidenote: I am trying to be adventurous.
Do you.. do whatever the fuck you want, fuck whomever you want. BUT if your actions are intentionally harming other people I am not ok with it. And you can still continue to do it. I will never be doing that. And I have to be honest, I will struggle to not have negative thoughts about someone who does that. If what you are doing is producing negative effects, look into and see if there are things for you to change if you don't like it. I am 49 and I have NEVER been with a man or woman that is in a committed monogamous relationship. I have no idea how you don't know. That surprises me.
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