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Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly
#28184949 - 02/13/23 03:23 AM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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At that moment I was mostly just enjoying the warmth and not sure if making a move was going to be seen as overstepping bounds + kind of tired but now that I think about it... did I have a momentous brainfart?
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CreonAntigone
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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28185081 - 02/13/23 07:41 AM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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Intoxication blurs consent. Obviously people can have great experiences when they're both on molly and I know they do all the time. And yet it muddies the waters. If you're not sure, it's best not to make that move. Because you can ask yourself, 'is she fully aware enough to evaluate this decision and weigh all the pros and cons? Would she make this same decision sober? If she wouldn't, then is it right to make the move when she's specifically in a state where she's less able to say no?'
To be honest, the moment you describe might be more magical than if you did have sex - because it is something simple and plain and comforting. Sometimes people just want to sleep, and they can sleep in the same place without assumptions.
You haven't missed any opportunities, because there's still the future. You just need to ask her out again.
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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28185690 - 02/13/23 03:25 PM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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When in doubt, just rub one out.
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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: CreonAntigone] 1
#28185699 - 02/13/23 03:33 PM (11 months, 8 days ago) |
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CreonAntigone said: You haven't missed any opportunities, because there's still the future. You just need to ask her out again.
Great point.
I did acid and stayed up all night, got drunk and slept in the same room, and did a number of other similar things with my now-wife for months before we finally hooked up for the first time. By the time we did, it was an effortless no-brainer for both of us, and way better than if we had just tacked it onto some other stand-alone experience.
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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: B Traven]
#28187428 - 02/14/23 05:29 PM (11 months, 7 days ago) |
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I feel like if you wanted to... you would of. Nice to read that people were respectful and waited for consent.
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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: loladoreen]
#28187452 - 02/14/23 05:42 PM (11 months, 7 days ago) |
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loladoreen


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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: B Traven]
#28187665 - 02/14/23 08:17 PM (11 months, 6 days ago) |
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B Traven said:
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CreonAntigone said: You haven't missed any opportunities, because there's still the future. You just need to ask her out again.
Great point.
I did acid and stayed up all night, got drunk and slept in the same room, and did a number of other similar things with my now-wife for months before we finally hooked up for the first time. By the time we did, it was an effortless no-brainer for both of us, and way better than if we had just tacked it onto some other stand-alone experience.
Love this
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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: loladoreen] 1
#28197672 - 02/21/23 03:56 PM (11 months, 2 hours ago) |
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loladoreen said: I feel like if you wanted to... you would of. Nice to read that people were respectful and waited for consent.
Thanks for the assurances, everyone. I'm that very unfortunate mix of bi, shy and autistic so I have wayyy more experience with one sex than the other.
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Re: Person took me sleep in their bed while we were both coming down from molly [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28197677 - 02/21/23 03:59 PM (11 months, 2 hours ago) |
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Anonymous #1 said:
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loladoreen said: I feel like if you wanted to... you would of. Nice to read that people were respectful and waited for consent.
Thanks for the assurances, everyone. I'm that very unfortunate mix of bi, shy and autistic so I have wayyy more experience with one sex than the other.
Experience everything and anything you want. As long as it is consensual, of age and you are doing no harm DO IT
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