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Dancing with Bears
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I lost everything
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Ive lived with my wife and three kids in a little trailer in the bottom end of Louisiana. Ive spent the last 6 years building a gourmet mushroom farm. Ive loved every minute of it. I get to see my kids, I get to make a living from that which was my favorite past time. Ive had it made.
Then dickhead came along. Im 32 and my wife is 30, and weve been together since we were teenagers. 13-14 years or something. Well she met some guy, and he's this 6'4" Aquaman lookin dude. Chiseled abs, long flowing hair... Dude is a lady killer. Well she started fuckin around with him behind my back at first, but I knew. Everyone know. She would be gone all night and come home wreaking of liquor and shame. I knew it was only a matter of time. She tells me she wants to start seeing other people (little late now), which I really had no interest in at all, but I cant stop her. Dude started showing up to the house... I dunno man... I had nowhere else to go. No friends, no job outside of the farm, nothing.
I cant keep telling the story, so im just gonna skip to the end. One day dickhead is over, and i say something snarky to the guy... I might have called him a bitch, or looser, or some shit like that. He pummeled me. I didnt stand a chance. Beat the ever loving shit out of me... I just got up and left... That was a week ago. Ive been homeless for a week. I dont have my farm any more, or any other useful skills. I havnt seen my beautiful kids, or my wife. She hardly responds to texts. I dont know what to do. I lost my farm yall. I probably spent $50,000 building it. At our best we were pushing 250lbs of blues, lions mane, trumpets, and pearls. I lost my home. I lost my wife. All I have is a minicooper to call home, and its got about 50 miles left in the tank. I dont know what to do. I wanna die. I cant take the pain. somebody help me.
Im at the library right now. I dont even know the next time im going to have access to the internet. Ill try to come back. Somebody tell me im going to be okay. Somebody tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel. Something. Anyone. Help me.
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The Mycologist
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Damn man. I think you may need to get the law involved. You had shit effectively stolen from you.
I hope it works out sooner rather than later.
Good Luck
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CHeifM4sterDiezL
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Did you call the police and report the domestic battery? You should file a restraining order againt the man who assulted you and for the domestic abuse and trespass him from your property. You absolutely still have residency and possession of your property and are free go back home and report any damage or whatever but you need to get the polive involved this is not right.
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Sugabearcrisp
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Dude that fucking sucks but you will get through it. 
You didn't lose your farm, kids or house, those things are 50% yours legally and morally.
Go to the police and report the assualt. Tell them you want to go back to your house but are scared of him. Consider getting a restraining order against him.
Return to your home. File for divorce. Go through it and take care of your children.
Document the adultery. In lousiania you can file for divorce because of adultery and the court will consider this in awarding custody and alomony.
Take your life back, you can do it
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Keep your head up. Do whatever you can from your heart and soul. Definitely get help in your town or city. Go to a courthouse and tell them you need help to see your children safely. Be safe, be honest and know that you can be O.K.
I hope you rise above 🤘☮️🤘
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Thomas Envisio
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Okay. Let's try something new. Take twenty deep, slow breaths.
Return to the farm. Ask for a discussion with your wife first. If necessary, be willing to foresee this not being an option, and having to talk to her fling/partner/alternate and her. Talk it out, and figure out which options you have. That means sitting down with one another. It means getting a pen and paper out. Also get any paperwork you can regarding your personal property/gear/products. If you need a place to stay and money, the farm seems like a good option.
Some of what you've described seems more of an emotional and mental difficulty than a financial or physical difficulty. It seems like maybe you've got a few rough days/weeks/etc ahead, and that is common rather than rare. When you feel devastated, music can help. Personally, I'd try to stay super sober for the next week. If you can't calm down no matter what you try, go to a doctor who can prescribe 5mg of Diazepam.
Have a look at Dr. Andrew Weil's instructions on Youtube for breathing. This technique can literally get you high and calm, similar to a puff of nitrous.
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How did you lose the farm? Is everything in your name? Fuck that shit. The right answer is probably get the law involved.....the answer that will make you feel the best is wait until the motherfucker is drunk then jump his ass with a baseball bat.
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Take this....you will need it on your journey.
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Get your wife caught drinking and driveing.
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Thomas Envisio
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spirit_shadow said: How did you lose the farm? Is everything in your name? Fuck that shit. The right answer is probably get the law involved.....the answer that will make you feel the best is wait until the motherfucker is drunk then jump his ass with a baseball bat.
Hi! Just a bit of feedback here to spirit_shadow...Nothing intense. Violence won't settle this particular issue. He's likely to end up in jail or prison or dead. Violence is not typically the right answer for most of life's issues. Having written this, I do recognize self defense is absolutely essential, and sometimes offense is also essential.
Also, to the original poster, I should have added something. Timing is going to be important here. Take every step today carefully and calmly. You may not want to rush back to the farm for a couple of days or longer. You'll have to decide the ideal time (just after lunch?), and what would not be a good time. Also, if you've been assaulted and you were not the aggressor in terms of violence, you might be able to return to the farm and destroy the blueberries and anything else that's important to clean up. All three of you are in a precarious situation, and all three of you should realize this, from my perspective.
I'd take the most helpful steps, rather than bending into hate and excess.
Edited by Thomas Envisio (02/03/23 01:44 PM)
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CHeifM4sterDiezL
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I would go back to your house and tell your wife it's over and to go drag her ass because they guy isnt welcome in your house after he assaulted you record it and put it on blast laying out all the reasons and that you now have to break it to the kids that your getting a divorce because mom cheated because she doesnt love the family and the man violently assulted you. if they try to do anything call the cops and tell them everything. It's your house and your property.
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Thomas Envisio said:
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spirit_shadow said: How did you lose the farm? Is everything in your name? Fuck that shit. The right answer is probably get the law involved.....the answer that will make you feel the best is wait until the motherfucker is drunk then jump his ass with a baseball bat.
Hi! Just a bit of feedback here to spirit_shadow...Nothing intense. Violence won't settle this particular issue. He's likely to end up in jail or prison or dead. Violence is not typically the right answer for most of life's issues. Having written this, I do recognize self defense is absolutely essential, and sometimes offense is also essential.
Also, to the original poster, I should have added something. Timing is going to be important here. Take every step today carefully and calmly. You may not want to rush back to the farm for a couple of days or longer. You'll have to decide the ideal time (just after lunch?), and what would not be a good time. Also, if you've been assaulted and you were not the aggressor in terms of violence, you might be able to return to the farm and destroy the blueberries and anything else that's important to clean up. All three of you are in a precarious situation, and all three of you should realize this, from my perspective.
I'd take the most helpful steps, rather than bending into hate and excess.
Oh I agreed with everyone that said take the legal route is probably your best option lol.....but do you want your shit back or do you want to feel better?.....personally I'd pick both. I'd take the legal route first then catch the guy maybe a couple years later once everyone forgot about everything for no other reason than to feel better 
Edit: I've had multiple people tell me punching someone won't make you feel better....I found out that is not true at least for me. I'd do it again. If someone deserves it you won't feel bad.
Edited by spirit_shadow (02/03/23 02:12 PM)
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THT
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Louisiana's pretty close to Texas and he's in your home uninvited: are you sure you can't legally just shoot him in your home? 
Seriously though, listen to what people here are saying and take the legal route. If you did some funny shit you would be the only suspect and you don't wanna leave your kids with your former bitch and that guy while you rot in a cage.
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spirit_shadow said:
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spirit_shadow said: How did you lose the farm? Is everything in your name? Fuck that shit. The right answer is probably get the law involved.....the answer that will make you feel the best is wait until the motherfucker is drunk then jump his ass with a baseball bat.
Hi! Just a bit of feedback here to spirit_shadow...Nothing intense. Violence won't settle this particular issue. He's likely to end up in jail or prison or dead. Violence is not typically the right answer for most of life's issues. Having written this, I do recognize self defense is absolutely essential, and sometimes offense is also essential.
Also, to the original poster, I should have added something. Timing is going to be important here. Take every step today carefully and calmly. You may not want to rush back to the farm for a couple of days or longer. You'll have to decide the ideal time (just after lunch?), and what would not be a good time. Also, if you've been assaulted and you were not the aggressor in terms of violence, you might be able to return to the farm and destroy the blueberries and anything else that's important to clean up. All three of you are in a precarious situation, and all three of you should realize this, from my perspective.
I'd take the most helpful steps, rather than bending into hate and excess.
Oh I agreed with everyone that said take the legal route is probably your best option lol.....but do you want your shit back or do you want to feel better?.....personally I'd pick both. I'd take the legal route first then catch the guy maybe a couple years later once everyone forgot about everything for no other reason than to feel better 
Edit: I've had multiple people tell me punching someone won't make you feel better....I found out that is not true at least for me. I'd do it again. If someone deserves it you won't feel bad.
people have been exacting revenge for basically the entirety of our existence (I'd imagine) and people really wanna pretend retribution isn't something that feels good? I think there's a reason why revenge is a thing, it absolutely feels good when it goes your way.
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Edited by theRealrollforever (02/03/23 02:59 PM)
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Yeah that dude did something that warrants lethal retaliation, at the time of the beating of course, now its too late.
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Dancing with Bears said: Ive lived with my wife and three kids in a little trailer in the bottom end of Louisiana. Ive spent the last 6 years building a gourmet mushroom farm. Ive loved every minute of it. I get to see my kids, I get to make a living from that which was my favorite past time. Ive had it made.
Then dickhead came along. Im 32 and my wife is 30, and weve been together since we were teenagers. 13-14 years or something. Well she met some guy, and he's this 6'4" Aquaman lookin dude. Chiseled abs, long flowing hair... Dude is a lady killer. Well she started fuckin around with him behind my back at first, but I knew. Everyone know. She would be gone all night and come home wreaking of liquor and shame. I knew it was only a matter of time. She tells me she wants to start seeing other people (little late now), which I really had no interest in at all, but I cant stop her. Dude started showing up to the house... I dunno man... I had nowhere else to go. No friends, no job outside of the farm, nothing.
I cant keep telling the story, so im just gonna skip to the end. One day dickhead is over, and i say something snarky to the guy... I might have called him a bitch, or looser, or some shit like that. He pummeled me. I didnt stand a chance. Beat the ever loving shit out of me... I just got up and left... That was a week ago. Ive been homeless for a week. I dont have my farm any more, or any other useful skills. I havnt seen my beautiful kids, or my wife. She hardly responds to texts. I dont know what to do. I lost my farm yall. I probably spent $50,000 building it. At our best we were pushing 250lbs of blues, lions mane, trumpets, and pearls. I lost my home. I lost my wife. All I have is a minicooper to call home, and its got about 50 miles left in the tank. I dont know what to do. I wanna die. I cant take the pain. somebody help me.
Im at the library right now. I dont even know the next time im going to have access to the internet. Ill try to come back. Somebody tell me im going to be okay. Somebody tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel. Something. Anyone. Help me.
Wtf???
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I can go a lot more in depth for you later if you want. But I ended up homeless, no help from anyone, no friends or family, on probation straight out of jail.
I started in a homeless shelter with no idea how I was going to get a job, or pay my probation fees or any of it.
I've been on my own for years now. I have the best car I've ever had in my life by a milestone,I have a stable job and a stable life for the most part.
It took a long time and you have to be patient and never stop working towards what you want, but you can rebuild.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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spirit_shadow said: How did you lose the farm? Is everything in your name? Fuck that shit. The right answer is probably get the law involved.....the answer that will make you feel the best is wait until the motherfucker is drunk then jump his ass with a baseball bat.
Hi! Just a bit of feedback here to spirit_shadow...Nothing intense. Violence won't settle this particular issue. He's likely to end up in jail or prison or dead. Violence is not typically the right answer for most of life's issues. Having written this, I do recognize self defense is absolutely essential, and sometimes offense is also essential.
Also, to the original poster, I should have added something. Timing is going to be important here. Take every step today carefully and calmly. You may not want to rush back to the farm for a couple of days or longer. You'll have to decide the ideal time (just after lunch?), and what would not be a good time. Also, if you've been assaulted and you were not the aggressor in terms of violence, you might be able to return to the farm and destroy the blueberries and anything else that's important to clean up. All three of you are in a precarious situation, and all three of you should realize this, from my perspective.
I'd take the most helpful steps, rather than bending into hate and excess.
Oh I agreed with everyone that said take the legal route is probably your best option lol.....but do you want your shit back or do you want to feel better?.....personally I'd pick both. I'd take the legal route first then catch the guy maybe a couple years later once everyone forgot about everything for no other reason than to feel better 
Edit: I've had multiple people tell me punching someone won't make you feel better....I found out that is not true at least for me. I'd do it again. If someone deserves it you won't feel bad.
people have been exacting revenge for basically the entirety of our existence (I'd imagine) and people really wanna pretend retribution isn't something that feels good? I think there's a reason why revenge is a thing, it absolutely feels good when it goes your way.
Things go your way if you take your time and plan properly.
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What?
He is living in your house right now?
Who owns that property?
Man, Aquaman looking fuckers are the worst
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Edited by Tripsurfer (02/04/23 08:21 AM)
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CHeifM4sterDiezL
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People say I look like aquaman all the time since that guy came on the scene but sadly I'm not 6'4 or an asshole
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Yeah stories like this really send me. If I had a way I'd go help you op
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CHeifM4sterDiezL
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Yeah pretty much anyone you tell this too is gonna side with you and help you sort this out because as I said this is totally not right. The police the state the courts friends family or even just ordinary folks. I was thinking last night just how fucked up this is and I'm sorry you have to go thru it. Like other people touched on don't let the stress of it make you fall apart as hard as it is. She made the choice to destroy your family not you
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Man. Some of you guys are level headed. My first order of business in this guys situation would have been getting a new job at a crematorium.
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Man. Some of you guys are level headed. My first order of business in this guys situation would have been getting a new job at a crematorium.
Yeah. I'd snap for sure.
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Dancing with Bears said: Ive lived with my wife and three kids in a little trailer in the bottom end of Louisiana. Ive spent the last 6 years building a gourmet mushroom farm. Ive loved every minute of it. I get to see my kids, I get to make a living from that which was my favorite past time. Ive had it made.
Then dickhead came along. Im 32 and my wife is 30, and weve been together since we were teenagers. 13-14 years or something. Well she met some guy, and he's this 6'4" Aquaman lookin dude. Chiseled abs, long flowing hair... Dude is a lady killer. Well she started fuckin around with him behind my back at first, but I knew. Everyone know. She would be gone all night and come home wreaking of liquor and shame. I knew it was only a matter of time. She tells me she wants to start seeing other people (little late now), which I really had no interest in at all, but I cant stop her. Dude started showing up to the house... I dunno man... I had nowhere else to go. No friends, no job outside of the farm, nothing.
I cant keep telling the story, so im just gonna skip to the end. One day dickhead is over, and i say something snarky to the guy... I might have called him a bitch, or looser, or some shit like that. He pummeled me. I didnt stand a chance. Beat the ever loving shit out of me... I just got up and left... That was a week ago. Ive been homeless for a week. I dont have my farm any more, or any other useful skills. I havnt seen my beautiful kids, or my wife. She hardly responds to texts. I dont know what to do. I lost my farm yall. I probably spent $50,000 building it. At our best we were pushing 250lbs of blues, lions mane, trumpets, and pearls. I lost my home. I lost my wife. All I have is a minicooper to call home, and its got about 50 miles left in the tank. I dont know what to do. I wanna die. I cant take the pain. somebody help me.
Im at the library right now. I dont even know the next time im going to have access to the internet. Ill try to come back. Somebody tell me im going to be okay. Somebody tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel. Something. Anyone. Help me.
Sorry well wishes
I think that in time everything will feel ok again
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Dancing with Bears said: Ive lived with my wife and three kids in a little trailer in the bottom end of Louisiana. Ive spent the last 6 years building a gourmet mushroom farm. Ive loved every minute of it. I get to see my kids, I get to make a living from that which was my favorite past time. Ive had it made.
Then dickhead came along. Im 32 and my wife is 30, and weve been together since we were teenagers. 13-14 years or something. Well she met some guy, and he's this 6'4" Aquaman lookin dude. Chiseled abs, long flowing hair... Dude is a lady killer. Well she started fuckin around with him behind my back at first, but I knew. Everyone know. She would be gone all night and come home wreaking of liquor and shame. I knew it was only a matter of time. She tells me she wants to start seeing other people (little late now), which I really had no interest in at all, but I cant stop her. Dude started showing up to the house... I dunno man... I had nowhere else to go. No friends, no job outside of the farm, nothing.
I cant keep telling the story, so im just gonna skip to the end. One day dickhead is over, and i say something snarky to the guy... I might have called him a bitch, or looser, or some shit like that. He pummeled me. I didnt stand a chance. Beat the ever loving shit out of me... I just got up and left... That was a week ago. Ive been homeless for a week. I dont have my farm any more, or any other useful skills. I havnt seen my beautiful kids, or my wife. She hardly responds to texts. I dont know what to do. I lost my farm yall. I probably spent $50,000 building it. At our best we were pushing 250lbs of blues, lions mane, trumpets, and pearls. I lost my home. I lost my wife. All I have is a minicooper to call home, and its got about 50 miles left in the tank. I dont know what to do. I wanna die. I cant take the pain. somebody help me.
Im at the library right now. I dont even know the next time im going to have access to the internet. Ill try to come back. Somebody tell me im going to be okay. Somebody tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel. Something. Anyone. Help me.
Sorry well wishes
I think that in time everything will feel ok again
Yeah time heals all wounds....some states just take longer to process firearm applications.
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Shroomslip
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Man. Some of you guys are level headed. My first order of business in this guys situation would have been getting a new job at a crematorium.
I'm not. But even still, in this situation, doing anything to either of them would be the biggest mistake of your life.
From a legal stand point you're likely to throw your life away. Sure right now it could seem like it's already gone but it's really not. Just going to assume he's not already on probation or anything. If he did something criminal, he'd probably wind up on probation. Still going to have to build your life back up, but now there's extra bullshit to deal with. I've been there. Getting back on my feet would have been so much easier without that noose around my neck. I wanted to get my CDL and drive trucks. I was in a program that was gonna pay for it. But my PO wouldn't let me leave the county even for work. So I had to completely replan everything and basically start all over (originally she told me they could work with it, for employment).
Then also consider this.. you get the cops involved because you did something fucked up, they get to be together, without looking over their shoulder. You're giving them exactly what they want.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Gives me the chills to read this. Really sorry this has happened to you and hope you mend quickly and with resolve to not let this whole situation to define you as a person.
For now I think you have to be as smart and strategic as possible. The power was taken from you by force and manipulation but you can regain at least some of that power. Use law enforcement where you can. Take pictures of your injuries as quickly as possible and upload them to an email or cloud service (don't hold them only on your phone). Also, make sure to voice record interactions that my result in confession/acknowledgement of the assault and infidelity.
Take care of yourself dude.
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Maybe I'm an insensitive asshole but I find it ironic the OP calls aquaman a bitch then proceeds to be a bitch.
There isn't much one can do about losing the love of their wife and I feel for anyone who is put through that.
But when you leave your home, your business and...wtf...your kids. The only man that turns their back on their kids is a bitch.
I'm sorry for your situation. But the real victim here is the kids. What a role model to lay down when shit gets tough
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
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He is definitely a liberal leftist.
He hasn't called the cops because ACAB.
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
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There isn't much one can do about losing the love of their wife and I feel for anyone who is put through that.
But when you leave your home, your business and...wtf...your kids. The only man that turns their back on their kids is a bitch.
I'm sorry for your situation. But the real victim here is the kids. What a role model to lay down when shit gets tough
You are such a tool. Turned his back on his kids? It’s hardly been any time after being put through hell. OP is sorting it out. It’s easy and fun to talk shit on the internet huh yeatster
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Psicomb]
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It's been a week. He has left his kids for a week. Nowhere in his story did he mention going back. I guess you'd do the same
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
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Maybe he didn't know what to do?
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Not everyone is the same. I will not judge if op decides to do absolutely nothing. I still wish I was there though cos it sounds like he could use a friend that's down....
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
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Yeatster said: It's been a week. He has left his kids for a week. Nowhere in his story did he mention going back. I guess you'd do the same

A week after being punched out of his own home. He’s sorting it out. He needs support right now and he never said a thing about ditching his kids. He doesn’t need keyboard warriors like you talking shit to him on the internet when he’s trying to process this
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Psicomb]
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Yeatster said: It's been a week. He has left his kids for a week. Nowhere in his story did he mention going back. I guess you'd do the same

A week after being punched out of his own home. He’s sorting it out. He needs support right now and he never said a thing about ditching his kids. He doesn’t need keyboard warriors like you talking shit to him on the internet when he’s trying to process this
(A)he got beat up. He didn't get "punched out of his home"
(B) What he "needs" is to get his shit together and go back home to his family and tell Aquaman he is no longer welcome there. There are many legal options here.
(C) No, he didn't say he was ditching his kids. He didn't need to. He's been gone a week and calls himself homeless.
(D) Where did he say he is "sorting it out"? I'll help you, nowhere.
And lastly, I am a keyboard warrior? Do you even understand what that term is?
I'll see myself out now. Sorry to barge into your pity party
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Except he didn't actually know (I mean we all know, but it was never confirmed) what was going on. This guy does.
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ONE OZ SLUG said: OP reminds me of the "it's 5am and my girlfriend isn't home" thread
Except he didn't actually know (I mean we all know, but it was never confirmed) what was going on. This guy does.
This thread just made me think of the 5am thread is all. IDK, this thread might be a troll. If not, I apologize to the OP because that is an extraordinarily shitty situation.
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The threads too long, did #1 ever post a 2nd time or did he just post the thread and never come back.
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The threads too long, did #1 ever post a 2nd time or did he just post the thread and never come back.
That is my question also. I can't do 100 page cliff hanger
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I don't think it is a troll. Reading his post gave me flashbacks of sitting in the downtown Houston library posting my thread here as soon as I got out of jail with nothing to my name but a bag of random shit I walked out of jail with.
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Jezus that thread

I did like 15 pages. I cannot do anymore
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I did like 15 pages. I cannot do anymore
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All these responses are heartwarming. I really wish I had spent more time in the .org over the years. I definitely learned a lot reading.
I got a job offer in Vegas on a larger mushroom farm. Me and the wife are in agreement that we are going to split the tax refund down the middle. Her willingness is probably only there because I'm the one who has kept all of our financials. She wouldn't be able to file without me or the books for the business that I have in my backpack.
I played robin hood today, and made an appointment with the food bank for the entire family. I put down my name, her name, the 3 kids, and even her boyfriend and they fucking LOADED my car up with food. I took out the Chips, Bread, canned soup, etc. Just the stuff that I can take on the road with me without needing a stove, or fridge. I snuck by the farm early this morning just before the sun came up and I dropped off almost all of the food I had acquired. She is a mess, and he is a dickhead but my kids still need to eat. I didn't say anything, I just pulled up, unloaded the minicooper, and drove off. She probably woke up confused as hell about who left a months worth of groceries on the porch without so much as saying hello. It would be satisfying to sneak this dude with a fist wrapped around a roll of quarters, but it would only satisfy my anger and jealousy. Mushrooms once taught me to greet things of an evil nature with a smile and a kiss. And not a snide grin, or a sarcastic smile. Genuine love. Hate is just love waiting to be loved. right?
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A restraining order lasts for years...... broken bones last a lifetime, and any jail time you do can be reduced in many ways. 
Edit: I'm not saying you should be violent.....I'm saying you should hire me to be violent because I have next to nothing to lose
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Re: I lost everything [Re: budmanman]
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harsh
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Psicomb]
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Well, I guess OP is done "sorting it out" At least the kids have a chance now to have a dad, instead of 2 Moms
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Reality is harsh. Time to smell the roses. I would tell him what he needs to do in his shitty situation if he isn't going to go to the police. Which he doesn't seem to be doing and now its probably too late anyway unless he can get the wife and kids to corroborate his story.
So he has 2 options and it seems he is taking the cuck option.
The other option would be too (redacted) because I don't want a pub ban or my post deleted or what ever would happen if I said the truth.
Edit also the 2nd reason he might not be going to the police is he isn't being completely truthful about his role in the situation and has something to hide from the police about the whole happenings and shit. It is either that or he is a liberal leftist who "ain't no snitch" and also ACAB.
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Re: I lost everything [Re: budmanman]
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A picture of the wife would help me understand why op has chosen the flight route
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I agree, aquaman douche signed a warrant starting with the letter "D"
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Re: I lost everything [Re: budmanman]
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Well there is a 3rd option actually. Start hitting on her Aqua man man, get him to go Tran and dominate him like this guy did.

Society time
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She is beautiful, and we've spent half of our lives together. Ive always been a flyer, but for this particular instance it wouldn't make a difference between her and I. I could fight the guy and win, I could fight the guy and loose, I could try to send her memorable photos, and play our song outside her window. At the end of the day she feels as if she gave away all of her youth (which she did, she gave birth to our first when I was 17 and she was 16.) Now she is desperate to be wild and free. This has been a long time in the making. The last few years she has been leaving the farm to go to the bar, or to go party in new orleans, or go out to stay the night at her besties(bullshit?) house.
We go back. Way back. We will never love anyone the way we love eachother. Fuck man when she gave birth to our 3rd child she did so Doggystyle and I CAUGHT HER SHIT IN A BUCKET narrowly saving my sons first life experience being getting shit on by his mother. These types of experiences, grotesque as they may be, create a type of bond that cannot be explained. Only known.
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Jumping aquaman wouldn't be about winning or losing, it would be about feeling better
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I'm not in your shoes or anything, so I don't truly grasp the sort of connection you have with that woman. That being said, she threw away those past experiences to get together with Jason Momoa who subsequently beat you out of your home, business, and family life. That woman isn't worth a fuck. Neither is the guy. Take the kids and move on.
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Blessing in disguise OP just doesn't know it yet. This mf is leaving Lousiana to go to vegas to grow mushrooms and he is upset. Bro, perspective. I am about to hit you up and come with your ass, they hiring? I just failed a drug test and am in the job market right now lmao
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Everything will be looking up till the chils support starts getting deducted
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Some people are so poor, all they have is money. Money isn't everything dude, getting away from a cheating cunt wife is worth more than coin sometimes.
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You can get away from her and not give her your business lol
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Those kids are my world man. Im sending back 30% off the top of everything I make regardless. Besides, it wont be much trouble getting custody back of my kiddos. She is a mess man. If they tried to piss test her she would burn a hole in the cup. I like to eat a fat sack of mushrooms maybe 2-3 times a year, and lately ive been drinking every night to drown the sorrows. Other than that Im a working family man. Any judge can ask any of my kids who they would rather live with, and they would pick me. I dont think she would make me fight in court tho. Im gonna get those kids, and eventually im gonna get my farm back. might take me a few years. Hopefully im not to old to run this shit like king ding-a-ling by then.
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The trouble is that the business is on her families land, and only half of it is modular. Even if I do go to court and win the rights to move, lets say, my fruiting room, incubation, and half of the equipment. I don't have anywhere to fuckin put it. I will tho. Ive got plans that i dont want to post on the internet yet, but I will say that I figured out how to stop her from selling all the assets before I have a place to move my half.
Just gonna take time.
Still hurts like hell. I drink and cry like a baby every night. Im totally broken rn.
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You're honestly going about this wrong. You should get authorities involved and go get your shit legally. Why are you bending over and letting yourself get robbed of your equipment?
Drinking won't help, it will make this worse. It's normal to feel like this but pick yourself up, dust yourself off, fight onward.
She sounds like a cancer you are just too wrapped up in because teenage love that turned into a family.
I've had dark times in my life and love the Blow quote "Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again, but life goes on."
You will be up again, and you will look back and understand. It's so hard to think clearly under your circumstances because the gravity of it all, just don't make any rash decisions for this short term problem.
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Just gonna take time.
Still hurts like hell. I drink and cry like a baby every night. Im totally broken rn.
There is nothing wrong with crying but please do not become an alcoholic. Just hang in there man, sounds like you have a solid plan so all you gotta do now is keep that mind sharp which alcohol will not help with at all. Godspeed.
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Dancing with Bears said: Those kids are my world man. Im sending back 30% off the top of everything I make regardless. Besides, it wont be much trouble getting custody back of my kiddos. She is a mess man. If they tried to piss test her she would burn a hole in the cup. I like to eat a fat sack of mushrooms maybe 2-3 times a year, and lately ive been drinking every night to drown the sorrows. Other than that Im a working family man. Any judge can ask any of my kids who they would rather live with, and they would pick me. I dont think she would make me fight in court tho. Im gonna get those kids, and eventually im gonna get my farm back. might take me a few years. Hopefully im not to old to run this shit like king ding-a-ling by then.
I would definitely at a minimum file a police report on him for assaulting you, in your own home. In this situation there's no shame at all in going to the police, it's something that could genuinely end up being the difference between you getting custody of your kids or having num nutz being in the house with them. The judge will not look kindly on your wife for bringing an abuser into the home with the kids.
It also looks like your account here is fairly easy to connect with your in-person identity. I would delete anything on here that can expose you immediately, because there's a genuine chance it could come up in court as a mark against you. Maybe even change your username on here if she knows it
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There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but it's a little ways to get there.
About 9 years ago I think, I was in a relationship with a lady for 7 years. We had been married for 3 months and just did the whole thing, venue, catering, all that shit. And then 3 months later I come into the room at around 2am and find her chatting with some dude on the phone. She wouldn't answer any questions about it so it obviously something worth hiding. Eventually it broke down into a huge fight on Christmas eve, and I even dramatically dragged the christmas tree, fully decorated into the street. Never saw her again. My life devolved into a meth fueled run-out-the-clock situation where I was certain I was going to die alone and just hoping that would come quick.
I wallowed for a long time, but eventually the pain gets manageable, and then you'll start to feel a little better. You'll start to put yourself out there again and you'll find another partner that matches you even better than your ex. The thing about breakups is they really teach you hard lessons about relationships, so the silver lining is every breakup will make the next relationship that much stronger. And the next relationship always makes you forget the last one, I promise you that.
I've got two stepsons now, I found my perfect. Co-parenting has its difficulties coming from my perspective, but it can be done. And my wife likes to say "there can never be enough people who love my kids".
This is the shitty part. The shittiest part. But just like myc you'll make progress every day little by little, you'll repair the damage in your own way and you'll grow. This is the shitty part, but I promise it's just a part. Strap in for some emotions, and I really wish you luck in finding distractions that can get you through this hard part.
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By the way I'm not advocating for a bender. Getting lit will only stall the need to process the emotions. Don't try to avoid dealing with them with too many highs.
When I say distractions I mean things like a new hobby, a new tv series, a new project. Anything healthy that can help you get some space to breathe will be like a mental oasis.
You can do this.
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Im not bending over. Im going to get half of my mushroom farm, or half of the estimated cash value. I just cant say publicly what I am doing to make sure I get my half, because there are ways for her to counter my plan, and she does know my username on the .org. She never gets on, so its probably secure but Im still playing it safe.
Ive really started enjoying my trips to the library because of the free internet and what not. Once Ive initiated plan "get my shit back" ill post updates letting yall know how I handled it, and explaining why I didnt want to outright say what I did and why I had to keep it secret.
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Re: I lost everything [Re: feevers] 1
#28185376 - 02/13/23 11:43 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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I get what you're saying, but I really just prefer to handle my business without involving the police. They rarely ever help. Now civil court is a whole different animal. Im gonna have a nasty hospital bill because I dont have insurance, and I have no prob sticking aqua man with my medical bills. All in due time.
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What a fucked up situation but it sounds like u have a decent plan to move past it and start anew. Good on you man. Stay strong
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Hang in there, friend! Glad you have a gameplan and have the right mindset. You will prevail and cheaters always get karma in the long run. All the best to you.
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