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PreparationH
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Blessing in disguise OP just doesn't know it yet. This mf is leaving Lousiana to go to vegas to grow mushrooms and he is upset. Bro, perspective. I am about to hit you up and come with your ass, they hiring? I just failed a drug test and am in the job market right now lmao
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Everything will be looking up till the chils support starts getting deducted
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Re: I lost everything [Re: budmanman] 1
#28179821 - 02/09/23 05:00 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Some people are so poor, all they have is money. Money isn't everything dude, getting away from a cheating cunt wife is worth more than coin sometimes.
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You can get away from her and not give her your business lol
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Re: I lost everything [Re: budmanman]
#28180617 - 02/10/23 08:32 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Those kids are my world man. Im sending back 30% off the top of everything I make regardless. Besides, it wont be much trouble getting custody back of my kiddos. She is a mess man. If they tried to piss test her she would burn a hole in the cup. I like to eat a fat sack of mushrooms maybe 2-3 times a year, and lately ive been drinking every night to drown the sorrows. Other than that Im a working family man. Any judge can ask any of my kids who they would rather live with, and they would pick me. I dont think she would make me fight in court tho. Im gonna get those kids, and eventually im gonna get my farm back. might take me a few years. Hopefully im not to old to run this shit like king ding-a-ling by then.
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Re: I lost everything [Re: budmanman] 1
#28180621 - 02/10/23 08:35 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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The trouble is that the business is on her families land, and only half of it is modular. Even if I do go to court and win the rights to move, lets say, my fruiting room, incubation, and half of the equipment. I don't have anywhere to fuckin put it. I will tho. Ive got plans that i dont want to post on the internet yet, but I will say that I figured out how to stop her from selling all the assets before I have a place to move my half.
Just gonna take time.
Still hurts like hell. I drink and cry like a baby every night. Im totally broken rn.
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You're honestly going about this wrong. You should get authorities involved and go get your shit legally. Why are you bending over and letting yourself get robbed of your equipment?
Drinking won't help, it will make this worse. It's normal to feel like this but pick yourself up, dust yourself off, fight onward.
She sounds like a cancer you are just too wrapped up in because teenage love that turned into a family.
I've had dark times in my life and love the Blow quote "Sometimes you're flush and sometimes you're bust, and when you're up, it's never as good as it seems, and when you're down, you never think you'll be up again, but life goes on."
You will be up again, and you will look back and understand. It's so hard to think clearly under your circumstances because the gravity of it all, just don't make any rash decisions for this short term problem.
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Dancing with Bears said: The trouble is that the business is on her families land, and only half of it is modular. Even if I do go to court and win the rights to move, lets say, my fruiting room, incubation, and half of the equipment. I don't have anywhere to fuckin put it. I will tho. Ive got plans that i dont want to post on the internet yet, but I will say that I figured out how to stop her from selling all the assets before I have a place to move my half.
Just gonna take time.
Still hurts like hell. I drink and cry like a baby every night. Im totally broken rn.
There is nothing wrong with crying but please do not become an alcoholic. Just hang in there man, sounds like you have a solid plan so all you gotta do now is keep that mind sharp which alcohol will not help with at all. Godspeed.
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Dancing with Bears said: Those kids are my world man. Im sending back 30% off the top of everything I make regardless. Besides, it wont be much trouble getting custody back of my kiddos. She is a mess man. If they tried to piss test her she would burn a hole in the cup. I like to eat a fat sack of mushrooms maybe 2-3 times a year, and lately ive been drinking every night to drown the sorrows. Other than that Im a working family man. Any judge can ask any of my kids who they would rather live with, and they would pick me. I dont think she would make me fight in court tho. Im gonna get those kids, and eventually im gonna get my farm back. might take me a few years. Hopefully im not to old to run this shit like king ding-a-ling by then.
I would definitely at a minimum file a police report on him for assaulting you, in your own home. In this situation there's no shame at all in going to the police, it's something that could genuinely end up being the difference between you getting custody of your kids or having num nutz being in the house with them. The judge will not look kindly on your wife for bringing an abuser into the home with the kids.
It also looks like your account here is fairly easy to connect with your in-person identity. I would delete anything on here that can expose you immediately, because there's a genuine chance it could come up in court as a mark against you. Maybe even change your username on here if she knows it
Good luck man, you seem like a really good person and you'll get back on your feet
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Re: I lost everything [Re: feevers] 4
#28180866 - 02/10/23 12:20 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but it's a little ways to get there.
About 9 years ago I think, I was in a relationship with a lady for 7 years. We had been married for 3 months and just did the whole thing, venue, catering, all that shit. And then 3 months later I come into the room at around 2am and find her chatting with some dude on the phone. She wouldn't answer any questions about it so it obviously something worth hiding. Eventually it broke down into a huge fight on Christmas eve, and I even dramatically dragged the christmas tree, fully decorated into the street. Never saw her again. My life devolved into a meth fueled run-out-the-clock situation where I was certain I was going to die alone and just hoping that would come quick.
I wallowed for a long time, but eventually the pain gets manageable, and then you'll start to feel a little better. You'll start to put yourself out there again and you'll find another partner that matches you even better than your ex. The thing about breakups is they really teach you hard lessons about relationships, so the silver lining is every breakup will make the next relationship that much stronger. And the next relationship always makes you forget the last one, I promise you that.
I've got two stepsons now, I found my perfect. Co-parenting has its difficulties coming from my perspective, but it can be done. And my wife likes to say "there can never be enough people who love my kids".
This is the shitty part. The shittiest part. But just like myc you'll make progress every day little by little, you'll repair the damage in your own way and you'll grow. This is the shitty part, but I promise it's just a part. Strap in for some emotions, and I really wish you luck in finding distractions that can get you through this hard part.
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By the way I'm not advocating for a bender. Getting lit will only stall the need to process the emotions. Don't try to avoid dealing with them with too many highs.
When I say distractions I mean things like a new hobby, a new tv series, a new project. Anything healthy that can help you get some space to breathe will be like a mental oasis.
You can do this.
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Im not bending over. Im going to get half of my mushroom farm, or half of the estimated cash value. I just cant say publicly what I am doing to make sure I get my half, because there are ways for her to counter my plan, and she does know my username on the .org. She never gets on, so its probably secure but Im still playing it safe.
Ive really started enjoying my trips to the library because of the free internet and what not. Once Ive initiated plan "get my shit back" ill post updates letting yall know how I handled it, and explaining why I didnt want to outright say what I did and why I had to keep it secret.
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Re: I lost everything [Re: feevers] 1
#28185376 - 02/13/23 11:43 AM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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I get what you're saying, but I really just prefer to handle my business without involving the police. They rarely ever help. Now civil court is a whole different animal. Im gonna have a nasty hospital bill because I dont have insurance, and I have no prob sticking aqua man with my medical bills. All in due time.
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What a fucked up situation but it sounds like u have a decent plan to move past it and start anew. Good on you man. Stay strong
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Hang in there, friend! Glad you have a gameplan and have the right mindset. You will prevail and cheaters always get karma in the long run. All the best to you.
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