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spirit_shadow
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Yeah stories like this really send me. If I had a way I'd go help you op
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CHeifM4sterDiezL
Chief Globerts

Registered: 07/28/10
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Yeah pretty much anyone you tell this too is gonna side with you and help you sort this out because as I said this is totally not right. The police the state the courts friends family or even just ordinary folks. I was thinking last night just how fucked up this is and I'm sorry you have to go thru it. Like other people touched on don't let the stress of it make you fall apart as hard as it is. She made the choice to destroy your family not you
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TheDirtFarmer
Identifies as Morgan Freeman


Registered: 04/07/22
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Man. Some of you guys are level headed. My first order of business in this guys situation would have been getting a new job at a crematorium.
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spirit_shadow
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TheDirtFarmer said:
Man. Some of you guys are level headed. My first order of business in this guys situation would have been getting a new job at a crematorium.
Yeah. I'd snap for sure.
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Edited by spirit_shadow (02/04/23 09:18 AM)
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Purple sunset



Registered: 02/14/21
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Loc: No Path
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Dancing with Bears said: Ive lived with my wife and three kids in a little trailer in the bottom end of Louisiana. Ive spent the last 6 years building a gourmet mushroom farm. Ive loved every minute of it. I get to see my kids, I get to make a living from that which was my favorite past time. Ive had it made.
Then dickhead came along. Im 32 and my wife is 30, and weve been together since we were teenagers. 13-14 years or something. Well she met some guy, and he's this 6'4" Aquaman lookin dude. Chiseled abs, long flowing hair... Dude is a lady killer. Well she started fuckin around with him behind my back at first, but I knew. Everyone know. She would be gone all night and come home wreaking of liquor and shame. I knew it was only a matter of time. She tells me she wants to start seeing other people (little late now), which I really had no interest in at all, but I cant stop her. Dude started showing up to the house... I dunno man... I had nowhere else to go. No friends, no job outside of the farm, nothing.
I cant keep telling the story, so im just gonna skip to the end. One day dickhead is over, and i say something snarky to the guy... I might have called him a bitch, or looser, or some shit like that. He pummeled me. I didnt stand a chance. Beat the ever loving shit out of me... I just got up and left... That was a week ago. Ive been homeless for a week. I dont have my farm any more, or any other useful skills. I havnt seen my beautiful kids, or my wife. She hardly responds to texts. I dont know what to do. I lost my farm yall. I probably spent $50,000 building it. At our best we were pushing 250lbs of blues, lions mane, trumpets, and pearls. I lost my home. I lost my wife. All I have is a minicooper to call home, and its got about 50 miles left in the tank. I dont know what to do. I wanna die. I cant take the pain. somebody help me.
Im at the library right now. I dont even know the next time im going to have access to the internet. Ill try to come back. Somebody tell me im going to be okay. Somebody tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel. Something. Anyone. Help me.
Sorry well wishes
I think that in time everything will feel ok again
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spirit_shadow
Beta Crypt 3



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Purple sunset said:
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Dancing with Bears said: Ive lived with my wife and three kids in a little trailer in the bottom end of Louisiana. Ive spent the last 6 years building a gourmet mushroom farm. Ive loved every minute of it. I get to see my kids, I get to make a living from that which was my favorite past time. Ive had it made.
Then dickhead came along. Im 32 and my wife is 30, and weve been together since we were teenagers. 13-14 years or something. Well she met some guy, and he's this 6'4" Aquaman lookin dude. Chiseled abs, long flowing hair... Dude is a lady killer. Well she started fuckin around with him behind my back at first, but I knew. Everyone know. She would be gone all night and come home wreaking of liquor and shame. I knew it was only a matter of time. She tells me she wants to start seeing other people (little late now), which I really had no interest in at all, but I cant stop her. Dude started showing up to the house... I dunno man... I had nowhere else to go. No friends, no job outside of the farm, nothing.
I cant keep telling the story, so im just gonna skip to the end. One day dickhead is over, and i say something snarky to the guy... I might have called him a bitch, or looser, or some shit like that. He pummeled me. I didnt stand a chance. Beat the ever loving shit out of me... I just got up and left... That was a week ago. Ive been homeless for a week. I dont have my farm any more, or any other useful skills. I havnt seen my beautiful kids, or my wife. She hardly responds to texts. I dont know what to do. I lost my farm yall. I probably spent $50,000 building it. At our best we were pushing 250lbs of blues, lions mane, trumpets, and pearls. I lost my home. I lost my wife. All I have is a minicooper to call home, and its got about 50 miles left in the tank. I dont know what to do. I wanna die. I cant take the pain. somebody help me.
Im at the library right now. I dont even know the next time im going to have access to the internet. Ill try to come back. Somebody tell me im going to be okay. Somebody tell me there is light at the end of the tunnel. Something. Anyone. Help me.
Sorry well wishes
I think that in time everything will feel ok again
Yeah time heals all wounds....some states just take longer to process firearm applications.
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Shroomslip
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TheDirtFarmer said:
Man. Some of you guys are level headed. My first order of business in this guys situation would have been getting a new job at a crematorium.
I'm not. But even still, in this situation, doing anything to either of them would be the biggest mistake of your life.
From a legal stand point you're likely to throw your life away. Sure right now it could seem like it's already gone but it's really not. Just going to assume he's not already on probation or anything. If he did something criminal, he'd probably wind up on probation. Still going to have to build your life back up, but now there's extra bullshit to deal with. I've been there. Getting back on my feet would have been so much easier without that noose around my neck. I wanted to get my CDL and drive trucks. I was in a program that was gonna pay for it. But my PO wouldn't let me leave the county even for work. So I had to completely replan everything and basically start all over (originally she told me they could work with it, for employment).
Then also consider this.. you get the cops involved because you did something fucked up, they get to be together, without looking over their shoulder. You're giving them exactly what they want.
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pslyke
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Gives me the chills to read this. Really sorry this has happened to you and hope you mend quickly and with resolve to not let this whole situation to define you as a person.
For now I think you have to be as smart and strategic as possible. The power was taken from you by force and manipulation but you can regain at least some of that power. Use law enforcement where you can. Take pictures of your injuries as quickly as possible and upload them to an email or cloud service (don't hold them only on your phone). Also, make sure to voice record interactions that my result in confession/acknowledgement of the assault and infidelity.
Take care of yourself dude.
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Yeatster
OTD Chef



Registered: 08/07/21
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Re: I lost everything [Re: pslyke]
#28172289 - 02/04/23 04:38 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Maybe I'm an insensitive asshole but I find it ironic the OP calls aquaman a bitch then proceeds to be a bitch.
There isn't much one can do about losing the love of their wife and I feel for anyone who is put through that.
But when you leave your home, your business and...wtf...your kids. The only man that turns their back on their kids is a bitch.
I'm sorry for your situation. But the real victim here is the kids. What a role model to lay down when shit gets tough
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budmanman
OTD Masterbater



Registered: 02/07/07
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Loc: PNW
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
#28172305 - 02/04/23 04:53 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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He is definitely a liberal leftist.
He hasn't called the cops because ACAB.
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Psicomb
shroom or die


Registered: 01/13/18
Posts: 4,767
Loc: the womb
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
#28172369 - 02/04/23 05:49 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Yeatster said: Maybe I'm an insensitive asshole but I find it ironic the OP calls aquaman a bitch then proceeds to be a bitch.
There isn't much one can do about losing the love of their wife and I feel for anyone who is put through that.
But when you leave your home, your business and...wtf...your kids. The only man that turns their back on their kids is a bitch.
I'm sorry for your situation. But the real victim here is the kids. What a role model to lay down when shit gets tough
You are such a tool. Turned his back on his kids? It’s hardly been any time after being put through hell. OP is sorting it out. It’s easy and fun to talk shit on the internet huh yeatster
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Yeatster
OTD Chef



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Re: I lost everything [Re: Psicomb]
#28172375 - 02/04/23 05:53 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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It's been a week. He has left his kids for a week. Nowhere in his story did he mention going back. I guess you'd do the same
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Thomas Envisio
Artist

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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
#28172377 - 02/04/23 05:54 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Maybe he didn't know what to do?
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spirit_shadow
Beta Crypt 3



Registered: 08/15/11
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Not everyone is the same. I will not judge if op decides to do absolutely nothing. I still wish I was there though cos it sounds like he could use a friend that's down....
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Psicomb
shroom or die


Registered: 01/13/18
Posts: 4,767
Loc: the womb
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
#28172389 - 02/04/23 06:03 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Yeatster said: It's been a week. He has left his kids for a week. Nowhere in his story did he mention going back. I guess you'd do the same

A week after being punched out of his own home. He’s sorting it out. He needs support right now and he never said a thing about ditching his kids. He doesn’t need keyboard warriors like you talking shit to him on the internet when he’s trying to process this
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Yeatster
OTD Chef



Registered: 08/07/21
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Psicomb]
#28172423 - 02/04/23 06:25 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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Psicomvb said:
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Yeatster said: It's been a week. He has left his kids for a week. Nowhere in his story did he mention going back. I guess you'd do the same

A week after being punched out of his own home. He’s sorting it out. He needs support right now and he never said a thing about ditching his kids. He doesn’t need keyboard warriors like you talking shit to him on the internet when he’s trying to process this
(A)he got beat up. He didn't get "punched out of his home"
(B) What he "needs" is to get his shit together and go back home to his family and tell Aquaman he is no longer welcome there. There are many legal options here.
(C) No, he didn't say he was ditching his kids. He didn't need to. He's been gone a week and calls himself homeless.
(D) Where did he say he is "sorting it out"? I'll help you, nowhere.
And lastly, I am a keyboard warrior? Do you even understand what that term is?
I'll see myself out now. Sorry to barge into your pity party
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ONE OZ SLUG
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Registered: 05/22/13
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OP reminds me of the "it's 5am and my girlfriend isn't home" thread
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Shroomslip
Architekt



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ONE OZ SLUG said: OP reminds me of the "it's 5am and my girlfriend isn't home" thread
Except he didn't actually know (I mean we all know, but it was never confirmed) what was going on. This guy does.
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Yeatster
OTD Chef



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ONE OZ SLUG said: OP reminds me of the "it's 5am and my girlfriend isn't home" thread
Link?
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ONE OZ SLUG
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Re: I lost everything [Re: Yeatster]
#28172504 - 02/04/23 06:59 PM (1 year, 4 months ago) |
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