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 MOTH
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 My friends daughter died 
#2811967 - 06/20/04 08:18 PM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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My friends daughter was killed this weekend in an accident. I just now heard. I feel so desperately bad for the guy...I don't know what to say. He is such a family man and I know that this is devestating for him. She was just a little girl.
It just has really shook me up. I don't know what to think, or what to feel...to be honest, this is the first time death has come this close to me. It's just so terrible and sad.  I mean...he'll never have his little girl back...she's dead, gone forever. I'm trying to wrap my mind around that right now.
I don't know what I'm asking for...just needed to post this.
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chinadoll
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2812085 - 06/20/04 09:01 PM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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I was in the same situation many years ago. A close friends 3 year old daughter was killed in a drunk driving accident. Her husband, the child's father was the drunk driver. Thankfully, they had a great support group, and a great deal of therapy. They were able to get their lives and marriage back
on track. They had 2 more kids and will celebrate their 24th anniversary soon.
I honestly don't know how she did it. I don't know if I would be able to forgive him.
I hope the same can be said for your friend in the years to come. It takes time, but I guess time does heal
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wandrnshaman
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2812281 - 06/20/04 09:53 PM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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My condolences. Its harder when we lose the little ones because it's so unexpected.
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2812405 - 06/20/04 10:24 PM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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My thoughts and love goes out to you and your friend.
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MOTH
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: sykobish]
#2813060 - 06/21/04 02:30 AM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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Thanks everyone...
I just keep thinking about it. I can't believe that a friend of mine is experiencing a loss like this. I can't imagine it. I hope that he'll be okay. He has a wife and another daughter so there is alot of support there.
Chinadoll...wow, what an intense story...I don't know if I would be able to forgive him either. Imagine the guilt he must have had...the world is so rough sometimes.
Thanks everyone
truly,
*me*
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2813138 - 06/21/04 03:48 AM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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wow...i too dont know what to say
i hate it when friends/family go through this kind of pain, cuz all i want to do is feel it for them, so they dont have too...but i havent learned that trick yet. i hope your friend is able to pull through this...
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Le_Canard
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2813946 - 06/21/04 12:27 PM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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It's always so sad when the little ones go... My condolences.
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Phishgrrl
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2815369 - 06/21/04 09:17 PM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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Wow- I am so sorry. How sad. 
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Phencyclidine
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2816969 - 06/22/04 11:47 AM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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When I was 19, a friend of mine was killed in a car accident. He was also 19. At his visitation I told his mother that I didn't know what to say and she told me that there was nothing to say. That was five years ago.
I've run into his parents many times since then. I only ever talked about my friend with his father, who is quite open to talking about his death. After about a year, it seemed that the subject of his death would not be a meaningful form of interaction between any of us for much longer. Whenever I talk to them now, I talk to them about common interests. For them, it was true that "life goes on."
I don't know if that is helpful in any way.
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UncleMike
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Re: My friends daughter died [Re: MOTH]
#2827841 - 06/25/04 11:38 AM (19 years, 9 months ago) |
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This is a hard one and you can't tell him you know how he feels cause you don't. the only thing to do is be there for the family for when the service is over and they truely know she is gone then they will need you.
I am so sorry for the family
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