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LogicaL Chaos
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28001927 - 10/16/22 03:14 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I think its a context thing. Like getting hit on by a stranger when you prefer building relationships slowly.
That fetish website is a good idea. Worth a try. Are you educating yourself about the Dom-Sub lifestyle? Maybe theres books about it?
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CaptainTrips420
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: LogicaL Chaos]
#28002353 - 10/16/22 08:14 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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I don’t know I just wanted to do it to become more experienced with what women want exactly. I don’t think I could be in a relationship with a person that try’s to humiliate me all the time. I always get the feeling that I scare girls like when I was in middle school I left my parents house in the middle of the night to go share my weed with 2 girls I meet. We smoked and went for a walk and came back to my neighborhood and I asked if they wanted to hangout in my parents shed and smoke weed and they freaked out asking if I was planning on rapping them. I legit just wanted to smoke weed I might have been behaving strangely but I was high.
I’m never going to sexually abuse or physically abuse anyone it’s messed up. But I want sex and don’t think the things the girls want are abuse because I want it too.
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Lynnch
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: CaptainTrips420] 1
#28002433 - 10/16/22 09:48 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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If there's any takeaway you might get from the bdsm community, it's that people, women included, want all sorts of different things. You want a fucktoy to make you cum? Buy a fleshlight. There are girls out there that just want a dick, but.. it's pretty easy for them to get. You're just one dick in a thousand flooding their inbox. ...... Most women want to be treated like more than a fucktoy... Gotta get to know them, be a part of their life, help them with shit.
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stzacrack
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: Lynnch]
#28007053 - 10/19/22 08:37 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Go to massage parlors, strip club or a hooker
Not all of them are good but they're not all bad either
Just a thought, might help stop putting so much pressure on yourself and anticipation
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Gray Hound
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: stzacrack]
#28007210 - 10/19/22 10:09 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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idk they could all just be demons and evil. satans risen commandments. and god is trying to keep you safe from them?
or another idea is that you could try role playing with someone a scenario.
the wierder the better.
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Psatellite
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: Gray Hound]
#28008248 - 10/20/22 06:13 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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If you're that worried about it then I suggest hooker. Take your pick.
I can say from experience sex gets old like anything else. Sometimes it's gross. I cringe thinking about it.
Stay away from the butt..
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Friend of the Fae


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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: Psatellite]
#28008498 - 10/20/22 09:53 PM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Stay away from the butt..
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Psatellite
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: Friend of the Fae]
#28008978 - 10/21/22 08:43 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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Let me rephrase that: stay away from the butt-hole
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No God
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: CaptainTrips420]
#28008984 - 10/21/22 08:54 AM (1 year, 3 months ago) |
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CaptainTrips420 said: I don’t understand feminists they get mad about something called cat calling where guys hit on them or tell them they look good. Girls don’t do that to men I don’t know why if I was a woman I probably would have had sex hundreds of times. I wish I could find a girl that wanted to be with me and I didn’t have to impress her or convince her to like me.
I actually made an account on a female domination site because I honestly would prefer my girlfriend to do what she wants and not try to please me. I figured I would just say yes to anything they wanted though a lot of them want to peg men or humiliate them. It probably would hurt and I seriously doubt they would let me have anal sex with them. I wish I could find a girlfriend that treats me the way they would treat themselves and I would do the same. It makes no sense I literally just wanted to be used like a sex toy and no girls will do it and I would obey every command they ask. I want to be a girls slave or property.
You are the most clueless user on this site. It’s something of an accomplishment
Edited by No God (10/21/22 08:55 AM)
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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: No God]
#28093290 - 12/11/22 12:00 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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People are in their heads too much. Who cares if you aren't good right away? Ever been good at something the first time you tried it? Probably not except maybe jerking the gherkin
I started getting laid a few days after I turned 15 by a girl I met the same day I fucked her and found several new girls to screw every year. I even fucked 3 in a 24 hour period one time but I seriously believe girls are easier now than they were way back then and ya'll still don't know how to get laid. I've been with the same woman for a long time now but the opportunities continued to low-key present themselves throughout life - never cheated, never wanted to, and never tried
I think I'm pretty decent looking but I believe most of it was attitude. I know what I want, I've got skills (girls only want guys that have good skills, GOSH!) A DGAF attitude also helps a man get laid because women like a man that doesn't care what others think (it means he can't be swayed easily by others and is more likely to be faithful). Now...that back-fires by the time you're in LTR because ALL women feel they have to change you in order to feel like they won in some fucked up way, and that thing they liked you for before becomes the reason they eventually hate you but I digress. This is about getting the willy wet, not about keeping a woman happy in the long term which I sincerely believe is a complete impossibility
You have to get out and get it, you can't sit in your mom's basement watching porn all your life and expect pussy to come find you. Take a swing, fall on your face, get up, try again, repeat for as long as is needed! It's normal to feel the nerves when you are considering letting a woman know you're interested. It will likely be obvious in your voice. This isn't necessarily a bad thing. A woman knows when a man sounds nervous talking to her that it means he finds her attractive so in that way you don't actually HAVE to tell her you want her, she knows it because you're nervous talking to her. The kind of woman you want will be flattered by it and a rude bitch won't so either way you win. Conversely, it isn't a bad thing if you don't sound nervous either. It literally doesn't matter what you do as long as you commit and do it fully, a woman will at some point notice and want to suck and fuck you for it.
Seriously, most women out there are thinking they aren't getting enough either so stop thinking you need to be such a nice guy and that you might insult her by wanting to make each others naughty bits tingle.
I'd like to see some of you post things you did or tried or interactions with women whether they go good or bad because every failure is one step closer to success. Let's see if we can help increase the amount of sex being had by shroomery men. I'll gladly answer questions and try to help
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Now, go get that pussy boys!
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loladoreen


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Re: the chances of me becoming a 40 year old virgin are way too high [Re: 336]
#28105757 - 12/20/22 09:50 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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@336 I hope you do what feels right to you. Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. If your a nice guy, continue to be one. Creating a connection with a person, in particular women, will lead you to sex. Majority of women need trust, friendship, and intimacy to be sexual with a person. Don't rule out older women ... When I hit my 40's... holy ... my sex drive has been the highest it has ever been and it has not slowed down.
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