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Anonymous #1

End of my rope
    #28094454 - 12/12/22 11:31 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

I don’t know what my point of this is besides I need to get it out and have nobody I can say it to

I have allowed selfish uncaring people to fool me into thinking thy cared and was blinded by their psychological fuckery for a long time. I have some friends but at this point so many of them has been infiltrated by these people, that I don’t trust talking to the ones that I don’t know for sure have betrayed me to those that cause me problems and I have learned the hard way that talking to anyone that I wish I could will only lead me to being more mentally and emotionally abused

I need out. These people will not change but I foolishly allowed them to have more and more power over me thinking at some point they would see the value in me that I know is there. I can’t talk to anyone about things that bother me. I literally have no one and I’d like to die most everyday. I have kids that depend on me and even if they were grown I wouldn’t feel right about leaving them but at this point they are the only thing keeping me alive. Sadly I feel like they’d be better off in the long run if I was dead so I’m afraid that won’t last as a motivating factor to stay alive much longer

Please, I need a soft place to land and some tenderness before I do something horrible


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Anonymous #2

Re: End of my rope [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28094543 - 12/12/22 01:08 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Perhaps you should join a church group?

And/or

You may try a very old method used by some of the worlds most successful people.  I will outline the technique in detail:


1. Take a blank piece of paper and draw a line down the middle of it, fold it, or just flip the paper over when needs be.

2. On one side right down exactly what you want.

3. On the other side write down what you are willing to do to get what you wrote down on the first side.


Be careful with this one, it really gets results fast.


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Anonymous #3

Re: End of my rope [Re: Anonymous #2] * 2
    #28094547 - 12/12/22 01:12 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Go talk to a therapist.  You don't have to be crazy or medicated to do so.  It's someone to talk to.  They will mostly listen and maybe ask you what actions could help your happiness.  At a minimum its someone to unload your stories on that you are holding in.


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Anonymous #4

Re: End of my rope [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #28094938 - 12/12/22 06:10 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Who are these people you’re talking about?  How have they betrayed you and how are they doing it with new people in your social circle?

I think I had a similar situation a few years ago and it messed me up pretty bad.  I’m recovering but it’s taking years. 

There’s a lot of people in the world and they’re not all going to fall in line with the people messing with you.  I think it’s difficult to open up to others when you’ve been hurt by those close to you.  I can’t say I’m open yet but I like to think someday I’ll trust others enough to be vulnerable like that. 

I hope life brings good people to you and they help you heal.


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Anonymous #5

Re: End of my rope [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #28095870 - 12/13/22 12:18 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

I believe what forest gump was telling us, was just start with chocolate as your only friend, and love yourself, and then the right friends will come.


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Anonymous #6

Re: End of my rope [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #28096208 - 12/13/22 04:30 PM (1 year, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #3 said:
Go talk to a therapist.  You don't have to be crazy or medicated to do so.  It's someone to talk to.  They will mostly listen and maybe ask you what actions could help your happiness.  At a minimum its someone to unload your stories on that you are holding in.



And, if you don't find your therapist helpful, find another and another until you find one that meshes with you.  Don't worry about hurting/insulting them; they don't take it personally. 

Best of luck, bud.


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Anonymous #7

Re: End of my rope [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #28096949 - 12/14/22 07:50 AM (1 year, 1 month ago)

I'm going to tell you what no one else will have the courage to. You are fine. Life isn't supposed to be fun. Sometimes you have to suck it up and be a big boy and people who tell you your feelings are valid are just people feeding in to your negativity. You are tough, you're not at the end of a rope because you bothered to say it and you don't need therapy because you know how to say it. You are fine. Move on with your life. It starts by not obsessing. All therapy will do is help you obsess further when you clearly already have the tools to introspect. You just need someone to tell you to put your big boy pants on and move on. Stop giving a shit. Your emotions do not matter. Why does "a man" know this? Because men are logical, we subconsciously see emotions as an artifact of animalistic behaviour. Suck it up, because none of that shit really matters. Liberate yourself. There are more reliable studies out there that show that therapy is shit than there is to support the whole field of psychology. You're an adult. Act like one. Everyone gets sad sometimes and no one has their shit together. Embrace the fact that life feels the same for everyone regardless of how much you learn to envy them. You are not suicidal so stop tell yourself you are. There's a good place to start.


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