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Bringing another in the bedroom.
#28087871 - 12/07/22 07:11 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Any downfalls? Don’t want to lose her or she lose me. STD is a no go too.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28088003 - 12/07/22 09:11 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Maybe you should share these fears with your partner. Without knowing anything about your dynamic, potential third, or any of the surrounding circumstances, I'm not sure what kind of advice anyone can give you.
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Is that something you both want to try?
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#28088097 - 12/07/22 11:56 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I would assess both of your jealousy levels. Cause threesums can sometimes break couples apart.
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Anonymous #1
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I think she has a friend or two in mind. Kinky. I only say that because she wanted me to breed with one of them.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#28088331 - 12/08/22 08:44 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Thirds tend to break relationships. Tread carefully.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#28096224 - 12/13/22 04:36 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Im so glad i dont have any STDS
Just ovarian cancer and pre kidney failure
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Jewstress] 2
#28096305 - 12/13/22 05:19 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I had a girlfriend who offered to do be ok with another girl. I thought it would wreck the relationship, so I declined. In retrospect, the relationship was doomed anyway, so I should have gone for it.
Sucks to be me.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: BikerB]
#28096448 - 12/13/22 06:51 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Been there, done that
Yes, it sucks
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: BikerB]
#28097334 - 12/14/22 02:47 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
BikerB said: I had a girlfriend who offered to do be ok with another girl. I thought it would wreck the relationship, so I declined. In retrospect, the relationship was doomed anyway, so I should have gone for it.
Sucks to be me.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#28098810 - 12/15/22 01:49 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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You don't open relationships you aren't willing to lose. You also don't fuck another girl if you aren't willing to accept one day she might feel some way about it and want you there while some dude makes her make sounds you never could.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #4]
#28099021 - 12/15/22 03:48 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Also you shouldn’t get into relationships in the first place if you aren’t willing to lose them. To feel otherwise is unhealthy and sabotages the relationship
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28099412 - 12/15/22 07:09 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Absolutely ridiculous false equivalency that can only be attributed to stupidity.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #4]
#28099523 - 12/15/22 08:00 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #4]
#28099606 - 12/15/22 08:51 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #4 said: Absolutely ridiculous false equivalency that can only be attributed to stupidity.
Explain
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28104750 - 12/19/22 11:44 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I went through a phase where I hit up sex clubs, that were really more of a swingers club. But I was a single woman, not a swinger. I don't regret anything I ever did. It was fun. I would do it again. I did not bring anyone into a relationship so I think that changes things emotionally. BUT I witnessed a lot of jealousy. Men and women. A LOT I dont think I ever experienced a situation where one person was not jealous. Really consider the feelings of both of you. On the STD issue. I made rules for myself. I never allowed anyone to be inside me/enter me. I was cautious. There are usually condoms everywhere
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: loladoreen]
#28105511 - 12/20/22 01:01 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Damn, you’re a slut. Where are you from?
In all seriousness, you made a solid post. Thanks
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#28105664 - 12/20/22 07:50 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Not cool anon 1
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#28105737 - 12/20/22 09:30 AM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I don't think I am promiscuous at all. I am 49 years old. Was married from age 19-45. Things are very different for women in their 40's then for men. I got divorced and decided to live freely was pretty important to me. As I was in a sexless marriage. I have always needed an emotional connection to have sexual desire for someone else. And I really had to challenge that when I wanted to try different things. And I have a job that I am heavily watched/judged so I live a pretty squeaky clean life. By choice. I am ok with it most of the time. But at 45 years old I wanted to have a fulfilling and enjoyable sex life. I tried. I succeeded. Now I am failing LOL
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: loladoreen]
#28105978 - 12/20/22 12:11 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Well said! Not that you need to explain yourself to anyone. Thank you for sharing.
Sex and love are not the same, friends.
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#28105986 - 12/20/22 12:15 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Sex and love are definately not the same.
And to each their own.
I hate slut shaming. So much. I always wanted to be more sexually free and religion stopped me. I was always admiring the women that experimented and discussed their sex lives. I was envious. I never ever slut shamed them. They were living authentically. That is beautiful.
Thank you
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: loladoreen] 2
#28106387 - 12/20/22 05:46 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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The more, the merrier!
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I mean...?? Have you ever regretted it? Like legit wished you didn't? I have not.
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#28106396 - 12/20/22 05:54 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Theres a couple ladies i regret having sex with, but nothing traumatic enough to where i have PTSD or anything like that.
I really have more regret with the women i didnt have sex with tbh.
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I regret having sex with some people. Mainly when I was younger. Espeacilly one I reproduced with LOL I was specifically talking about have you ever regretted a threesome, foursome, whateversome?
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: loladoreen]
#28106447 - 12/20/22 06:43 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Never had a threesome. Someday i will thou
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I hope you get to.
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Re: Bringing another in the bedroom. [Re: loladoreen]
#28106481 - 12/20/22 07:07 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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Thanks Lola. Me too.
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#28106487 - 12/20/22 07:09 PM (1 year, 1 month ago) |
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I got lucky and had a good experience. Then I had to question things that I thought I believed, etc. I know it is a sexual experience but it was also an experience that I grew from.
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